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    Episode 343 with David Cole Mar 16, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 343 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor David Cole. What has been keeping you so busy? David- Hi, Rob. I’ve been getting ready for match season with some dry fire and reloading. I’m also planning to attend a new instructor course soon. How about you? Rob- Just the usual, but I missed a chance to shoot at the range. We didn’t get a new message this week. I do want to thank Roger for his continued help. We’re still looking for listeners who want to write or edit this podcast. David- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. As alway, the links to our news sources are at the episode webpage. Our first story took place last week in Chicago, Illinois. Rob- First story- Are you armed in public? You’re sixty years old. You are out before dawn to get some money from an ATM in your neighborhood. You turn to a noise behind you. A man throws his bike on the ground and walks toward you. He pulls a gun from his pocket and tells you to give it up. You have your firearms owners ID card and your carry permit in your wallet. You have your firearm on your hip. You shoot at your attacker and he shoots at you. You’re wounded on your back and on your arm. You run to a local gas station and ask for help. They call 911 while you put pressure on your arm. You give a statement to the police. They take your firearm from your pocket. EMS transports you to the hospital. You are listed in stable condition. Your attacker was declared dead. You are not charged with a crime. David- I like that our defender recognized that Chicago is a dangerous place to live. I like that he got his permits and owned a firearm. Thank goodness he went armed this morning. He had his head up. He recognized a threat. He defended himself. He ran to safety and asked for help. He tried to treat his own wounds and then gave a statement to the police. Rob- I had a question about going out before dawn. Was our defender on his way to work, or did he think that fewer people were on the street so he was safer? David- We don’t know, but there are no safe times of day when you can go out unprotected. It has long been the conventional wisdom that crime occurs mostly at night, but that isn’t necessarily so. The bottom line is that none of us have a crystal ball to know in advance when we will need to be armed…so safest choice is to go armed at all times. Rob- Is there anything else you’d like your students to do if they needed cash? David- Try to avoid open-air or stand alone ATMs. Indoor ATMs are usually available in convenience stores and markets. Also consider getting cash when you check out at the grocery store. An easy “life hack” is to just buy a pack of gum or other small item, and then use the self checkout to get your cash. That might be harder, as grocery stores have closed in big cities like Chicago, but it is a safer option if available. At any rate, try to find an indoor ATM if at all possible. If you must use an outdoor ATM, try to have a friend with you to watch your back while you conduct your transaction. Rob- This bad guy expected a shooting and found into a gunfight. How should we get our gun out when the bad guy already has a gun in his hands? David- That’s always going to be a high risk move, but if you feel you have no choice, consider ways to distract your attacker, and be prepared to move. Dropping or throwing an item can serve as a distraction for a moment, giving you an opportunity to draw your defensive firearm. One self defense instructor I trained under years ago taught a strategy he called the “survival rap.” This is really little more than using speech to engage the attacker’s brain, hopefully creating enough lag to create an opportunity to fight back or to escape. (And escape is the best option if available) But once you draw, move so that you’re not where the attacker expects you to be. Now the attacker has to track you with his eyes, and then with his firearm. That is hard to do. Another option would be a surreptitious draw, by positioning your body where the attacker cannot see you draw, though this type draw is usually done more slowly when you have more time. Carrying in a coat or jacket pocket can also provide an opportunity to have your hand on your gun without the attacker seeing it. As always, you should practice these sorts of draws and presentation first under the eyes of an instructor, and then stay sharp by continuing practice with a blue training gun, or an unloaded firearm following the rules of gun safety. Rob- When do your students learn about those defensive moves? David- This is more advanced training which occurs after the initial concealed carry class. Rob- Is there more you want to cover on this story, or should we go on? David- It’s a good start. Our second story happened in Reading, Pennsylvania. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender was very smart to get his FOID card, carry license and to carry a gun with him while walking the streets. It doesn’t matter whether he was in Chicago or Anytown USA. All elderly people are targets because they can’t move as fast and they aren’t as stable on their feet as a younger robber. Anyone who looks and acts like “prey” is going to be “eaten”! This defender was alert. He reacted when he heard a noise and saw he was going to get robbed. He knew he was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation. The defender drew his gun and fired multiple shots and he neutralized the bad guy even though he got shot himself. The defender not only stayed in the gunfight and won, he was determined enough to live that he walked a block to get help even though he was wounded. If he had just stopped where he was and sat down he may have bled out before help arrived. The defender gave a statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Walking the empty streets in the dark of the early morning makes you a target. If you have to go out at that time to get cash or go to work, take your gun as well as a friend with you, take a flashlight, get your cash from a store not an ATM. Getting and using cash is very dangerous. Criminals see someone flashing a roll of cash and they pounce. Use debit cards or credit cards because they are safer and usually you can get your money back if there are fraudulent charges or they are lost. The defender should have also had a cell phone with him. If he had a phone he could have stayed at the scene and called for help to come to him. According to the news report, he left his gun at the scene. This left him defenseless while he was seeking help and some kid could have picked it up too. The defender was very lucky that the robber on the bike didn’t bring another bad guy with him. Did he know how to engage multiple bad guys? Did the defender know how to draw his gun while he moved to avoid being shot? Did he know how to use distractions to give himself a few moments to draw his gun? Did he know how to shoot from a retention position since the robber was probably close enough to him in order to grab his gun? Did the defender carry his gun in a hip holster or in his pocket? Wearing a coat makes drawing your concealed gun harder and definitely slower to draw. Some good guys carry a small revolver in their coat pocket as well as a larger handgun under their coat. They walk with their hand on the gun in their pocket and they fire the small pocket gun while it’s still in the pocket. This gives them time to access their larger gun with greater capacity on their hip. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed at home? You and your roommates are at home. It is six in the evening when you’re surprised to see a stranger enter your apartment. You don’t know him. Your roommates don’t know him. You ask him to leave. He gets offended and attacks you and your roommates. You grab your gun and shoot your attacker. Now he runs from your apartment. You and your roommates call the police. You put your gun away before they arrive. Everyone stays at the scene and gives the police a statement. They find your attacker. They transport him to the hospital to treat his wounded leg. Your attacker is charged with criminal trespass and several counts of assault. You are not charged with a crime. It looks like your attacker was looking for a drug dealer and got the wrong address. David- I like that someone was armed. I like that they tried to use words before they went to guns. They attempted to defend themselves without using deadly force before eventually resorting to using their firearm. The defenders stayed at the scene and called 911 for help. The victims met the police with empty hands. They also gave a statement to the police. Rob- I know there is more you want us to do. David- And you can guess what it is. I want you armed even when you’re at home. I want your doors and windows locked. Ideally, I want all of the adults to be armed. I also want you to have a lawyer to call before you fill out the police report. Pennsylvania has a castle doctrine law, which helps these defenders justify deadly force. You need to know if you have castle doctrine in your state, and what that means when it comes to using deadly force in self defense in your home. Rob- This defense is harder than it sounds. David- This situation is way harder than it sounds. Let me lay it out for you. A guy shows up unannounced and won’t leave. He attacks one of your roommates. A second roommate joins in to try and push the guy outside. You’re armed and you’re afraid the guy might have a weapon, or perhaps he is simply stronger and is overpowering you or your roommate. You have to be careful to position yourself so that you don’t shoot your roommate in the process, so it is a very difficult situation. Another consideration is OC, or pepper spray. This can be an option in confrontations which don’t justify deadly force, but exceed your ability to counter with empty hand skills. Rob- When do you learn not to shoot at the bad guy from 7 yards away like you’re at the shooting range hitting a paper target? David- We start that with marksmanship and the four safety rules. We reinforce it during the concealed carry class. We focus on those issues with a combat handgun class. It is also called beyond concealed carry. Rob- Where are we heading next? David- Our third story happened in Atlanta, Georgia. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender asked the intruder to leave. The defender recognized that he was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation when the intruder attacked him and his roommate. The defender had a gun that was nearby and he was able to shoot the attacking intruder. The defender stayed at the scene and did not chase the intruder. The defender called 911 and put his gun away. The defender and the roommates gave statements to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Were the doors and windows locked? How was the intruder able to surprise the defender and his roommates? The defender asked the intruder to leave but the intruder attacked instead. Pennsylvania is a Castle Doctrine state where the occupants do not have a duty to retreat. There has to be a threat of major bodily harm, death, kidnapping or rape in order to use deadly force. Consult a lawyer or take a class on the use of deadly force. Fortunately, the defender had a gun and it was either on his body or nearby. The defender shot the intruder but only hit him in the leg. If you are justified to shoot, you need to neutralize the bad guy, not wound him. If you don’t neutralize him he might continue his attack. Best practices is to get two hits to the upper, center chest. Could all of the occupants have and carry their own guns? Rob- First this message from Jews for the Preservation of Firearms Ownership JPFO.org http://jpfo.org/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed in public? It is just after midnight. You’ve asked your daughter’s ex-boyfriend to leave. He continues to shout and to threaten your family outside your home. The ex-boyfriend threatens you again and draws a gun from his pocket. He shoots it into the air. You present your own firearm and shoot him until he runs. You and your family retreat inside the home and call the police. Police arrest your attacker and he is now in the local jail. You are not charged with a crime. David- I’m glad that mom was armed. I’m glad she tried to diffuse the situation by asking the daughters ex-boyfriend to leave. She recognized an immediate, lethal, and unavoidable threat when the attacker drew his gun and shot it into the air. She defended her family from that threat. She stopped shooting when the defender ran. She and her family retreated to a safe place and then called the police. They met the police with empty hands and then gave the officers their statements. That is a good start. Rob- You called it a good start. What else do you want your students to do that wasn’t mentioned in the news report? David- We win every fight we avoid. While she did well by retreating to a safe place after the shooting…why not do that before the shooting starts? Let’s file a restraining order the first time the boyfriend issues a threat. Then you can stay inside behind a locked door, and then call police and let them deal with it. I also want any adult who can be legally armed to do so. I also want you to have a lawyer to call so you have help filling out your police report. Rob- Where do gun owners learn that? It isn’t in basic marksmanship. It isn’t in their concealed carry class. David- We talk about avoiding a gunfight in our concealed carry class. We mention restraining orders. We talk about the legal use of lethal force, but we certainly can’t cover all of it in one class. This is where having a lawyer who is educated in self defense law comes in handy. Ideally, your family learned all that, and then how to defend each other in a class on team tactics. Rob- Defending a group of people in the dark or the dim isn’t easy. David- I’m concerned that your family is running away from the attacker and they might run into your line of fire. It is your responsibility to not injure innocent people as you defend your family. Rob- Where are we going for our last story?David- Our fourth story took place in Española, New Mexico. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender was armed when she was engaged in an argument with her daughter’s ex-boyfriend. She tried using verbal commands multiple times. She only fired after the ex-boyfriend pulled a gun and fired into the air. She shot the ex-boyfriend until he retreated. She and the family retreated to inside the home and called 911. She put her gun away and gave a statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Instead of continuing an argument, try de-escalating the situation. Tell the ex-boyfriend to leave and come back later when everyone has cooled down. If you don’t already have a restraining order, get one. It won’t stop an attack but it establishes a legal papertrail. If you can’t de-escalate, avoid. Walk away. Retreat to the house and call 911 from behind locked doors before the situation turns into a gunfight. Stand away from the door and any windows so you can’t be seen from the outside or harmed if he breaks down the door. Go to a defensible position behind cover/concealment. If it’s dark outside, turn on exterior lights and turn off the interior lights. If the argument or…

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    Episode 342 with Candy Petticord Mar 07, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 342 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Candy Petticord. What has been keeping you so busy? Candy Petticord Candy- Hi, Rob. I’ve been teaching in Ohio and taking training at WOFT in Florida. How about you? Rob- Life is good. I’ve been carrying and dry practicing every other day. I was listening to some neighbors talk about firearms. People give a lot of bad advice. We received a new comment on iTunes (is 202,368) Nerdly said he likes the way we break down each self-defense situation, and he likes our guest instructors. He gave us a five star rating. Thank you, Nerdly I also want to thank Roger for his help this week. We’re still looking for listeners who want to write or edit this podcast. Someday soon, all this can be yours. Candy- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Houma, Louisiana. Rob- First story- Do you have a firearm nearby at night? You are at home asleep in your bed. It is 5 in the morning and you’re woken up by the sounds of someone downstairs. You grab your gun. You go to the top of the stairs. Your intruder tries to climb the stairs and you shoot him. He runs back outside and you stop shooting. You call 911 and ask for help. You put your gun away when the police arrive. You give the police a brief statement. Police search the area. They collect descriptions and security video from your neighbors. The police identify a suspect and go to his house. An armed woman comes out of the house and is arrested by police. Police find your intruder hiding under a mattress. EMTs take him to the hospital. He is treated for a graze wound to the head. Your intruder is charged with one count of simple burglary and held on an outstanding warrant for violating parole. His girlfriend is charged with simple burglary, obstruction of justice, and possession of a firearm by a convicted felon. You are not charged with a crime. Candy- I like that the homeowner thought about protecting himself and then bought a firearm. He kept his gun where it was quickly accessible when he needed it. He heard something at night and responded to the sound. He grabbed his gun before he went to investigate the noise. Our defender moved to a position of defensive advantage at the top of the stairs. That is brilliant. The defender shot the intruder when the intruder came up the stairs. Our defender then stopped shooting when the attacker ran away. Our defender didn’t chase the bad guy down the street. He stayed at home and called 911 for help. It sounds like our good guy stayed on the call with 911 until the police arrived, and then he met the officers with empty hands. He briefly described what happened. Rob- That sounds like a good job? Candy- It is a very good job, but there are a few small things we can do to make it into an amazing job. The good news is that they don’t cost much. Make sure your doors and windows are locked. Consider putting safety film on the side windows near your doors. Put motion activated lights near your doors. Since you sleep upstairs, add a motion detector with a chime downstairs. Use a bedside rapid access safe to store your gun at night. Have your cell phone on charge next to your small safe. For bonus points, have a light at the bottom of the stairs that you can turn on from the top of the stairs. You want to see your attacker while he can’t see you because you’re hiding in the dim. Stairs are a pain in the rear end when you’re tired, but they are a wonderful place to defend your family. It takes a squad of men to move one defender off the top of the stairs, but only if you practice. Do you hide behind the left, the bottom, or the right side of the top landing? Work with through the problem at your house and find out. You might want to shout that you’re armed and that you’ve called the police. Rob- There are a lot of little skills hiding inside what you said. You want your students to learn to live with a gun in their home. To learn how to use cover To learn to shoot in low light situations To know what to say if there is an intruder in the home. To know the laws in your state and understand the duty to retreat. Candy- Yeah, that is more than what we teach in our firearms safety class or concealed carry classes. Keep coming back, and we’ll teach you everything we know!! The duty to retreat has the caveat that you don’t have to retreat unless you can do so safely. Since you’re probably moving to a position of greater risk if you move from the top of the stairs, you are best to stay where you are. Rob- Where would I get to practice moving to cover and shooting around it? Candy- IDPA matches are a great place to practice moving to cover and shooting around barricades. In fact, that’s one of the main purposes of the International Defensive Pistol Association (IDPA) matches – To teach shooters how to properly handle their firearms in defensive situations and in various environments. Taking one of my advanced training classes is another great option and you will have the benefit of one-on-one or small group attention and instruction. Lastly, you can join us when we host a Guest Instructor at our facility. Every Guest Instructor at Northpointe Training is invited because I have personally trained with them and I consider them one of the best in their field. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender was aware and he responded to a noise on the first floor of his home. The defender had a gun and took it with him when he investigated the noise. The defender fired on the intruder when he encountered the intruder on the stairs. The defender stopped shooting when the intruder retreated and he did not chase the intruder. The defender called 911, put his gun away when police arrived and gave a statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) This incident took place in Louisiana where Castle Doctrine is the law. The defender did not have to retreat like he would if he lived in one of the twelve states that still have “Duty to Retreat” laws. It’s critical that gun owners know the “Use of Deadly Force” laws in the state where they live because they vary widely. Ignorance of the laws can get you a jail sentence. Even in a Castle Doctrine state, best practices states that gathering your family to a defensive room, locking and barricading the door, turning out the interior lights and preparing to defend the door from cover or concealment is much safer than trying to “clear” your house alone. Standing at the top of a stairway is using good tactics. Stairways, hallways and doorways are “fatal funnels” which are much easier to defend than standing in an open room. How did the intruder get into the house? Did he break in or were the doors and windows left unlocked? Intruders look for homes that give them easy access and where they can hide while they are breaking in. Use motion lights, trim your trees and bushes near the house and add hurricane film to any glass that can be reached on the first floor. Also apply the film to all of the glass on your doors and any windows within reach of door locks. Add security striker plates on the door locks and use screws long enough to engage the wood studs for both the striker plates and hinges. Make your house too much trouble so the intruders will move on. Rob- Is there more you want to say about this story, or should we go on? Candy- Let’s proceed!! Our second story happened in Memphis, Tennessee. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed at home? Your husband is having an affair. You put his possessions on the front porch for him to pick up. It is dark outside when he husband arrives. He tears down the security camera on the front porch and then uses the camera to smash a window at the back of the house. You’re armed. Your husband enters the home and attacks you. You run out the front door. Your attacker follows you. You shoot him and now he stops chasing you. Your neighbors come out and ask what is happening. You shout for them to call the police. You put your gun away and give a statement to the police when they arrive. You show the police your husband’s clothes, the broken camera, and the broken window. EMTs take your husband to the hospital for treatment of a gunshot wound to the knee. News reports are not clear if our defender was treated by the EMTs. She is not charged. Candy- Domestic issues are difficult because there is often a lot of history between the attacker and defender. I like that she locked the doors and windows. That left evidence of the forced entry. I like that she retreated so it was clear that the attacker brought the fight to her. I like that she defended herself and then stopped when the fight was over. Does a person have the right to break into his own home? You can argue that all the husband’s possessions were already outside the home so this was a personal attack and gaining entry to the home was not about recovering personal property. To prove that point, the husband did attack the wife once he gained entry to the home. The defender fled, so the husband clearly instigated the attack. The defender had a tool that worked at a distance. She is at a disadvantage if her attacker is close enough that he can grab her. She stopped the threat and then stopped shooting. I love that she shouted for her neighbors to call 911. Rob- What else do you want your students to do? Candy- While a restraining order will not stop an attack, it will demonstrate to the court that the husband was in the wrong when he came to the home. That can potentially save you tons of money in attorney’s fees. If you feel threatened or have been threatened, I highly recommend you make the time to file a restraining order to help establish a paper trail. Shout that you’re armed and have called the police. Shout “Stop, or I’ll defend myself.” You want not just “eye” witnesses, but also “ear” witnesses. You also want to call 911 when you hear glass breaking at the back of your house. If you have a domestic abuser, then you should have a panic button on your phone so you don’t need to waste unlocking it and then dialing 911, especially when you are fearing for your safety or your life. Domestic attackers often want to get close to the victim during their attack. That means you have to learn how to shoot without extending your firearm out in front of you where someone else can grab it. That is called “shooting from retention” and it is another skill you can learn through my advanced training classes. Since the situation is already documented via the restraining order, I would highly recommend having a deputy present when your husband moves out. Rob- This defender had to shoot as she was moving away from the home and being chased by her attacker. When would your students learn to shoot on the move? Candy- This is an advanced skillset that would only be pursued after the student had exhibited a strong foundation of safely handling their firearm. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender’s windows and doors were locked. She also had a camera. Unfortunately, the camera was mounted so low that her husband could reach it and use it to break a window. Did the defender change the locks on the doors? The defender tried to keep the husband at a distance by using commands and also a gasoline container.?? Unfortunately, these efforts failed. The defender tried to leave the house but she was pursued by the husband. The defender fired on the husband until he stopped attacking. The defender shouted for the neighbors to call 911. The defender put her gun away when the police arrived and she not only gave them a statement, she showed them critical evidence of the attack. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender should have gotten a restraining order on her husband if she had time. The defender was armed and either had the gun on her body or nearby when her husband arrived to get his clothes. The defender should have asked a few friends or neighbors to stand with her if she knew that her husband was coming over for his clothes. There’s safety in numbers whether the friends are armed or not. Did the defender know how to shoot from a retention position? Did the defender have any non-lethal options available? Could the defender have dropped the husband’s clothes off somewhere else, like at one of his relative’s homes so she would not have encountered him? Emotions run high in these situations and the less contact the better. Could the husband and wife have met at a police station to give him the clothes? Did the husband know that his wife had a gun? Did she warn him that she did? If the husband was the one having the affair, why did he attack his wife? Rob- Where are we going for our third story? Candy- We’re headed to Denison, Texas. Rob- First this message from the Second Amendment Foundation. Second Amendment Foundation SAF https://www.saf.org/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed in the afternoon at home? It is about 4:30 on a Monday afternoon when you hear someone knocking at your door. The news story isn’t clear if the door was unlocked and the intruder walked inside or if you opened the door to talk to them. The stranger pushes you out of the way and walks into your home. You shout for him to stop. You try and push him back outside. The stranger hits you with a hammer. You shoot your attacker. Now he stops hitting you. You step back and call 911 for help. Police and EMTs arrive. You put your gun away. EMTs transport your attacker to the hospital. You give a statement to the police. It isn’t clear if your injuries required treatment. You are not charged with a crime. Candy- Wow. Who would have thought that you’d get attacked at home in the middle of a work day afternoon. It sounds like our defender was armed. I like that. The defender tried to use words and hands before he went to firearms. I like that too. Our defender used his gun when he had to, and stopped using his firearm once the threat had ceased. Good job. He called the police and asked for help. He stayed at the scene and gave a statement to the police. Rob- The fight only lasted a few seconds. I don’t want it to even last that long if I’m getting hit with a hammer. Candy, when do you talk to your basic firearms class about carrying a firearm on their body at home? Candy- They ask about it during class. We talk about the follow-up classes they can take once they know firearms safety and have solid basic marksmanship skills. I want to point out that this is another example of close quarters armed defense. I’m surprised that the defender wasn’t injured. If you are hurt, then make sure the EMTs treat you and then go to your own doctor for a follow up evaluation as soon as possible but no later than the next day. Those documents are evidence that you were defending yourself from an attack. Rob- There is a school of instruction that says don’t talk to the police. How will the police know that the hammer is evidence of an attack and not something you were using for home repair if you stay silent? Candy- You want to briefly describe what happened and point out evidence. Leave the details for the report your lawyer submits to the police. Rob- I need a lawyer even though I was attacked in my own home? Candy- Yes you do. You need a self defense attorney on retainer, or you need self-defense insurance which will usually provide you with a self-de…

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    Episode 341 with Amanda Suffecool Feb 28, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 341 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Amanda Suffecool. I know you’ve been traveling a lot. Amanda Suffecool Amanda- Hi, Rob. I’ve been in Florida at the Ambassadors’ Academy. And then Kevin & Sarah Sona’s 2A Freedom Fest How about you? Rob- I was overseas for a week. When I got back, I dry practiced and went to the range. I noticed my inconsistent shooting from lack of practice. We received a new rating and review on iTunes (367,201) Buzz loves the way we tell the stories and then explain what we might do in their place. Nathan gave us a thank you and said the stories were eye-opening. He wants us to keep up the good work. Dwayne sent in one of the stories we used. Thank you Dwayne, Buzz, and Nathan. I also want to thank Roger for his help again this week. We’re still looking for listeners who volunteer to write or edit this podcast. Someday soon, all this can be yours. Amanda- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm several thousand times a day. We’ll look at a few recent examples. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Fresno, California. Rob- First story-Are you armed at home? It is just after 10 on a weekday morning. You are at home with your two small children. Your wife calls your cell phone. She says a neighbor saw three strangers run onto your property. The neighbor called her thinking she was at home. You check your ring doorbell and see three men who ran into your garage. News stories aren’t clear if you called the police or if your wife did. You grab your shotgun. You open your garage door and shout get out, get out, get out. One of the intruders dives for the ground. The other freezes. The third one runs away. Police arrive a minute later. You lower your shotgun when the police arrive. The robber who is standing up runs out the garage door. The robber on the floor is arrested by police. You give the police a statement. They tell you that the three robbers were driving a stolen Mercedes and being chased by police after an armed robbery. The police were searching for them after they abandoned the Mercedes nearby. The police found the robber who was standing in your garage. They arrest him. The robber who ran when you entered your garage was found next door. He wouldn’t come out so they sent a dog in to get him. You are not charged with a crime. You are glad your small children aren’t hurt. Your neighbor calls to see how you’re doing. Tag- No Shots Fired Amanda- This family and their neighbors worked together to protect their children. They met their neighbors and had a good relationship with them. They installed a few security cameras. When a neighbor saw something unusual, they called the mom and the mom got the needed information to her husband who was at home. The news report isn’t explicit, but I assume the robbers were in the garage because the garage door to the house was locked. I also like that the homeowner had a firearm and was comfortable using it. All in all – the family had a well rounded and solid plan for defending their home and more importantly, their loved ones. I like that the homeowner used verbal commands. He told the robbers what he wanted them to do. Shouting get out, get out, is pretty clear. Unfortunately, it didn’t work. Our good guy didn’t chase or shoot at the robbers who ran away. The defender called 911 and asked for help. He also put his firearm away when the police arrived. Rob- What else do you see in this story? Amanda- It is possible that there was a reason to go into the garage, but usually I want my students to stay away from an attacker. Distance is your friend. There is no urgency to go looking for an intruder. Stay put and let the police look for them. I like that the homeowner said go away, but having a shotgun pointed at you sent a stronger message than his words. One of the robbers did what he thought was best, in an effort to not get shot. Another took his chances that running was better than staying put. It did not work out for any one of them. Let’s say you have small children at home. You see strangers in your garage. Your doors are locked. The first rule of defense is don’t get shot. That means you go and grab your gun. You get into a defensible position and then you get the police on the way. Remember that the goal is to keep your kids safe rather than protecting the lawn mower and the case of beer that is in the garage. Rob- When do you tell your students about that? Amanda- We’re always answering questions. The class called self-defense in the home is where they form a home defense plan. One of the benefits of a class is we can learn from other people’s choices. You can see what other people did and decide if that fits your family in your home. Just the act of thinking about it ahead of time adds to your defensive layers. Rob- A long gun is effective, but what if the homeowner was at one end of the home away from his gun and the robbers broke into the middle of this home? Amanda- That is exactly why most of us choose to have a concealed handgun with us. Pants on, gun on. Then you don’t have to wonder if you can get to it in time. A handgun may not be the best defensive firearm, but it is a good compromise for most of us. Rob- Is there more you want to cover about this story, or should we go on? Amanda- Before we move on, I want you to know that holding someone at gunpoint is hard. We teach people how to do it, and there are ways to do it wrong that put you at risk. I compare it to having caught a tiger. You can’t trust it, even for a second. Many times it’s better for the homeowner if the bad guy runs away. Now let’s go to Las Cruces, New Mexico. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender had a camera and a gun. He realized that he and his children were in a potentially immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation. The defender checked his Ring camera and grabbed his gun. Either the defender or his wife called 911. The defender tried verbal commands. The defender did not pursue nor shoot the bad guys that ran away. The defender lowered his gun when the police arrived. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Self-defense is about problem-solving. These situations happen very quickly and they can have deadly results. Having a plan, using situational awareness, tactics, distance, cover, concealment and various weapons are all tools that we use to solve a problem. THE PROBLEM: The defender was at home with (2) small children when he was notified that he had (3) trespassers in his garage. Were they armed? Were they dangerous? What was their intent? THE DEFENDER’S SOLUTION: He confirmed that the bad guys were there using the Ring camera, 911 was called and he grabbed his shotgun. So far so good. But when he opened the garage door to engage the bad guys, he had no idea where they were, whether they were armed or not and how desperate they were. There was nothing in the garage that justified his walking into a gunfight. This defender not only put himself in danger but he also put his (2) small children in jeopardy. If he was shot, who would protect the kids? BEST PRACTICES SOLUTION: The #1 rule of self-defense is DON’T GET SHOT! Don’t put yourself or others into a position where people get shot or injured unless you are saving a life. After 911 was called, he should have gathered the children into a defensible room, locked and barricaded the door then prepared to defend from cover or concealment. Use the door as a “fatal funnel”. ADDITIONAL TRAINING: Holding a bad guy at gunpoint is very dangerous. Knowing how to do it is a critical skill that requires knowledge and training. If you don’t have the training, don’t do it. Also, do you have the training and the equipment to treat a gunshot wound? Rob- Second Story- Are you armed in public? You’re standing next to your car in a business parking lot. It is about 5 in the afternoon when You see a policeman approach a homeless man who is standing in front of a business. The homeless man stabs the police officer. The officer yells and falls. You reach into your car and grab your gun. You shout for the attacker to stop. The attacker advances toward you and you shoot him. He falls. News reports aren’t clear what you did with your gun. You run up to the officer and use his radio to call for help. Police and EMTs arrive quickly. You step back but remain at the scene. EMTs transport the officer. You give the police a statement about what you saw and what you did. The attacker is declared dead at the scene. Later, you find out that the officer died in the hospital. His attacker had a criminal history including domestic violence, kidnapping, failure to appear in court, and repeated drug use. Police get security video from the businesses nearby. You are not charged with a crime. Amanda- Yikes. You see a policeman being attacked and what should you do. If you haven’t thought about it ahead of time then you’re going to stand there with your mouth hanging open as the policeman is stabbed again and again. Our defender decided that he needed to have a firearm with him as he drove. That helps too. Again, the defender tried verbal commands. In this case they worked, sort of. The defender used his firearm when he faced an immediate, lethal, and unavoidable attack. He used the policeman’s radio to get help and he stayed at the scene. Rob- What else do you want your students to do? Amanda- I want you to have your firearm with you all the time. This citizen was lucky that he was near his car and not near the crazy man with a knife. Depending on luck is a bad plan. I can’t tell if using verbal commands in this case was a good idea or a bad idea. I don’t think we know enough to decide. Rob- What are the arguments on each side? Amanda- There is a family member you love being attacked. You already have the legal justification to shoot and you don’t have to wait and issue verbal commands while your loved one is stabbed three more times. Rob- And what is the other argument? Amanda- Maybe shouting for the bad guy to stop was all it took for the murderer to look at you and move away from the officer. Your words prevented the officer from being stabbed again. Maybe the murderer was kneeling next to the officer and you thought that was a hard shot. With the bad guy standing and moving away from the officer you have a clearer shot with less risk of accidentally injuring an innocent party. Rob- What else do you see? Amanda- I want you to have basic trauma care training and materials. If your spouse is stabbed I want you to know how to keep them alive until EMTs arrive. Now that I’ve given out homework for the week, our third story happened in Fullerton, California. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender had a gun near him and he responded when he saw a police officer getting attacked. The defender tried using verbal commands but they failed. The defender shot the attacker while he was being rushed. Perhaps he knew about the Tueller Drill since the bad guy was stopped before he was able to complete his attack on the defender. The defender stayed on the scene, radioed for help and gave a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) According to www.handgunlaw.us, New Mexico law allows loaded handguns concealed in your car without a permit. This defender had his gun in his car instead of on his person. “Pants On, Gun On” is always best if you can. What would have happened if the defender was 25 feet from his car when he saw the attack? Would he have had time to get to his gun? Learn about the Tueller Drill and how to use that information in a real fight. Remember, if someone is running at you, you can either step aside or start running away from the attacker in order to get more time to react. DON’T JUST STAND THERE- MOVE! Did the defender know how to stop the police officer from bleeding out? Did he have a tourniquet or chest seal? Take a class and keep a trauma kit in your home and your car. Rob- First this message from Doctors for Responsible Gun Ownership DRGO https://drgo.us/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed at work? You work as a security guard. Today, you’re standing in a strip mall jewelry store. It is about about noon on a weekday when you see three men get out of a car that pulled up outside the store. The car doesn’t park. The three men who got out are all wearing masks and they are carrying pistols in their hands. They start to walk toward the jewelry store. You present your firearm and shoot at the robbers. They run back to their car, shooting at you as they run. The news stories aren’t clear if you called 911 or if someone in the store called them. Neither you, nor store employees, the store customers, or any bystanders outside the store are injured. You give a statement to the police when they arrive. There is extensive news coverage of the event, but that doesn’t include the store security video. The owner says that jewelry stores are robbed because the jewelry is so easy to sell for cash. You were supposed to meet with the store owner today and talk about extending your employment and asking for more money. They seemed to like you before the attack. They certainly like you now. You are not charged with a crime. Amanda- We have to stop and explain. A security guard is not a police officer. He does not have arrest powers. He doesn’t have a squad of guys who come running when he calls on the radio. He is a civilian with some training and a cheap blue uniform. The guard saw a robbery unfolding. Good for him that he was doing his job rather than playing with his phone. He reacted which tells me he had a plan. We don’t know if he was inside or if he was already standing outside the store. We know he was outside the store when he started shooting at the bad guys. He didn’t chase them after arriving at the shooting location. He stayed at the scene and gave a statement to the police. Rob- What else can we learn here? Amanda- Ideally, the security guard is wearing clothes that you’d see on a customer or on an employee in the store. We want the staff and the guard to train together. The staff knows to drop to the floor when the guard yells “threat” or whatever their training word is. We want a panic alarm that calls 911 with one touch. We want to hit our intended target with our first shots. Let me repeat. We want to hit our target the very first time. That takes training and practice. We also want to look at the store so the security guard has some cover when he defends the customers and staff. I want every business owner to have a plan. You move the customers to safety. You check on them and then tell 911 what you need. I want your store employees to be armed as well. There are lots or reasons why a single armed guard is a weak plan. Some stores who want high security use a revolving door so they can’t be rushed by a gang all at once. Rob- Are there security consultants that can help convenience stores, jewelry stores, and marijuana dispensaries? Amanda- There are consultants, and there are business groups who share what they’ve learned in the area. Depending on your business and your budget, there is help out there for you and your business Rob- Where are we going for our last story?Amanda- Our fourth story took place in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The security guard was armed and alert. He noticed the (3) attackers with masks and guns. The defender recognised an immediate,…

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    Episode 340 with Tony Simon Feb 09, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 340 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Tony Simon. What has been keeping you so busy? Tony- Hi, Rob. I’ve been at shot show and then conducting Diversity Shoots here in New Jersey. I have five more planned already this year. How about you? Rob- We did not receive a comment on iTunes this week. Oh Facebook, Ray asked if we’d make an hour long podcast that came out once a month. I’m not sure if he wanted a best of show, or a deep dive into one or two stories. What do you think? Dwayne sent in a news story where a 70 year old man used a muzzle loading rifle to fight off three intruders. Unfortunately, his son might have deliberately given the robbers access to the home. The link is in our show notes. I also want to thank Roger for his help again this week. Tony- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. Rob- First story- Are you armed at home in the morning? It is early morning and you’re already at work on your laptop. You hear someone banging on the front door of your apartment. You hear them shout for you to open the door. You are not expecting visitors. You grab your gun and shout for the stranger to go away. You grab your phone and call 911. The stranger keeps hitting your door. They break the door hinges out of the door and doorframe. They tear the security chain off the wall. The door flies across the room. Your intruder enters your home and you shoot him one time. He stops. News reports aren’t clear if your attacker fell inside your home or if he ran outside. You ask the police dispatcher for help. You put your gun away when officers arrive. EMTs transport your attacker to the hospital. You give the police a statement. You don’t know the intruder. You are not charged with a crime. Later you find out that your 23-year-old intruder had been scammed and thought he was meeting someone for sex. Tony- You are the fastest responder to your emergency. The defender was prepared to defend herself with deadly force if necessary. I’m relieved that she owned a gun. I like that her doors were locked during the day. I love it that she didn’t open the door for a stranger. It sounds like she was armed at home or at least had her firearm nearby. She got her gun and called the police as the problem developed. She stayed on the call with the dispatcher, but she put the phone down and stopped talking when it was time to defend herself. She stopped shooting when the attack stopped. She made herself available for the police when they arrived. All that sounds like a plan to me. Good job. Rob- When did this become a gun problem? Tony- When a stranger displays enough force and violence to break down your front door, then you face a lethal threat or serious bodily harm. That threat is immediate and it is unavoidable. That justifies both the lethal use of force and the moral use of force to stop the threat. Rob- There is a time to talk and there is a time to shoot. When do you help your students build that line in their decision making? Tony- Your immediate need is to make yourself safe. De-escalation is good but recognize when it isn’t working or when it’s employment is useless. I use this podcast as teachable moments for students and when I discuss armed civilian self defense. The attacker kicking her door in wasn’t stopped by her telling him that she was armed or that she called police. Once the door was kicked open it was time for the immediate application of force. This is a good example of that decision making since home invasions are common. Rob- What else do you see in this story that wasn’t mentioned by the police or the reporters? Tony- I’m glad she wasn’t next to the door when it was shoved into the house. Also, we can use a doorway to make defense easier. The bad guy is going to come through the door. That means we can aim our gun at the floor immediately inside the door ahead of time. We can pay attention to the door. We want to be far away from the door, preferably in another room looking at the door from behind something to conceal our location. I’m imagining being behind a couch or a doorframe. That makes it easier to aim because we don’t have to track the attacker with our eyes and our gun. Rob- Our attacker shot one time. What do you recommend? Tony- Shoot multiple times then assess if the threat stops. Firing and hitting an attacker with one round, especially with a handgun, may not stop the threat immediately. They may not have suffered a “fight stopping” hit that immobilizes them. They may not know they are even hit. They could still attack you even though you have shot them. Don’t make a habit of shooting a particular number of times when you train. Practice firing a string of accurate shots. If you have an instructor training with you, they should tell you that the threat is down, and then you access the target and if the target is down or stops attacking you stop shooting. Some ranges have turning targets. Rob- Is there more you want to say about this story, or should we go on? Tony- Our second story happened in Jackson, Mississippi. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender had a plan: Her doors were locked. She had a gun. She did not open the door. She shouted through the closed door for the intruder to leave. She called 911 immediately. Once the door broke, she was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation. She fired only after the door was breached and she stopped shooting when the intruder stopped. She stayed on the line with 911 and gave a statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Good thing she wasn’t in front of the door when the intruder broke it down. Never stand in front of a door because you will be hit by the falling door if the hinges and the lock give out. Also you don’t want to be in the line of fire if the attacker starts shooting through a closed door. Stand to the side at a distance. Doors are “fatal funnels”. You can cover a door from a defensive position behind cover or concealment away from the door. The intruder can’t move out of the way once the door breaks. Your gun is a distance tool. Use that to your advantage. “Distance and cover are your best friends.” The defender only fired one shot. In this particular case that was enough to stop the intrusion. How many shots should you fire? Zero, a full magazine or anything in-between. Fire as many shots as it takes to stop the threat. The threat isn’t over until the bad guy retreats (without shooting back at you), he surrenders or he’s down and not moving. As long as the bad guy is still moving, he can continue his attack. And always remember “Don’t turn your back on anything but a corpse.” Also make sure to scan the area and make sure the bad guy didn’t bring friends with him. The 10 Self-Defense Commands (by Roger Temple): Scan the hands. Shoot upper chest. Move to cover. Find the rest. Carry a gun, phone, ammo and light. Know the law so you do it right. When the threat’s over the shooting stops. Call 011. Don’t talk to cops. Most important of all- Have a Plan! Rob- Second Story- Are you armed at work? You are a contractor doing a job for the city water department. You and your co-workers are on site when a car drives up. A man gets out of the car and starts yelling. He draws a gun and starts shooting at you. You and your co-worker shoot back. Your attacker drives away. You stay at the scene and call 911 for help. You put your guns away when the police arrive. You and your partner give statements to the police. Your attacker crashes his car nearby. EMS takes him to the hospital for treatment of three gunshot wounds. He will be charged with aggravated assault when he is released. One of the news reports said the attacker knew one of the contractors. You are not charged with a crime. Tony- I have spent time in Jackson MS. Depending where in Jackson, it can be a dangerous place. I’m glad these men were gun owners and that they were armed at work. We can’t tell if they were marking pavement on the street or if they were in someone’s yard and chest deep in a construction hole. They recognized an immediate, lethal, and unavoidable threat when someone drove up and shot at them. They defended themselves. They stopped shooting when the attacker drove away. They called for help and gave a statement to the police. Rob- Some states allow government contractors to carry. Some states encourage EMTs and firemen to carry. How do we find out what is legal and expected? Tony- Start with your lawyer. Second best is to ask your boss and your local firearms instructor. If this is a union job, then they are involved too. You have to know the law if your routinely travel onto government property. You also need to understand that regardless of the law you are responsible for your safety and security. Rob- What else would you like your students to think about at work. Tony- We don’t all work in an office wearing office clothes. We might have on a work shirt and boots. We might carry a tool bag with us. That brings its own issues with concealed carry, and those issues change more with the seasons than if you’re working in an airconditioned office. I want you to carry on your body because you might be dead by the time you run back to your truck to grab your gun that is hidden under the seat in a rapid access gun safe. Rob- What else do you see here? Tony- The story doesn’t mention it, but I want you to shout if you can. We want ear witnesses who heard you shout ‘stop’ before you shot back. Shouting stop doesn’t mean you have to stop moving. You can shout as you present your gun and move toward cover. Afterward, I want you to be sure and shout for others to call 911. That means all the ear witnesses are listed at the 911 response center. Shouting, moving, and presenting under some stress are all parts of advanced training. As ordinary as it sounds, this defense was hard work. Rob- Where are we going next? Tony- Our third story happened in Chicago, Illinois. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Anyone! Anywhere! Anytime!: These contractors were armed as they did their normal jobs. The attacker always has the advantage of knowing when, where and how the attack will take place. These defenders were prepared. Firearm Availability: It sounds like they had their guns on them when they were attacked. If your gun is out of reach, it’s useless. You could be dead by the time you go to your truck to get your gun. Reaction time is critical. Accuracy Under Stress: The two contractors hit the attacker three times while under attack. That takes training and practice. Fortunately, the defenders moved and the attacker was not a good shot. The defenders stayed on the scene, called 911. Met the police with empty hands and gave brief statements. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Carrying At Work. Is it legal to carry a gun at work? That depends on your state and whether you work for a private company or the government. Every state has a list of places where you can/can not carry a concealed gun. A good place to start is www.handgunlaw.us. In some states, a “no guns allowed” sign carries the weight of law and you can be prosecuted if your gun is discovered. In other states, a “no guns allowed” sign merely means that you have to leave the property if your gun is discovered and you are asked to leave. If you refuse to leave you can be charged with criminal trespassing. If you work for a private company and they have a “no guns” policy, you can be terminated for carrying on the job or sometimes in the company’s parking lot. If you work for the government (especially federal), you may be prosecuted. It also makes a difference if you are the owner of a business or just a worker (Castle Doctrine usually covers your home, your car and your business.) Check with a lawyer, take some classes or some pre-paid self-defense insurance plans let you call and ask them. KNOW THE LAWS FOR EVERYWHERE YOU WANT TO CARRY. You also have to know the magazine capacity restrictions and the type of ammo allowed. Even whether you can carry a back-up gun or not. Every state is different. Rob- First this message from Faster Colorado. https://fastercolorado.org/ Rob- Third story- Do you have a firearm nearby at night? You’re at home and asleep in your bed. You’re startled awake by a crashing sound. You hear someone in your apartment. You grab your gun and go investigate what is happening. You see someone in your apartment and they rush at you. You shoot them before they reach you. You step back and turn on the lights. You grab your phone and call 911 for help. You stay at the scene. You stay on the call with the police dispatcher. You put your gun away when the police are nearby. Police arrest your intruder. EMTs take him to the hospital with a gunshot wound to the leg. You give the police a statement. You show them your identification and your concealed carry permit. Since you knew the intruder, this is being called a domestic incident. You are not charged with a crime. Tony- Some crimes are random, but a lot of them involve someone who knows us. It might have been a friend of a friend of a roommate, but they somehow think that you have something they want. I’m glad our defender went through the trouble of legally getting a gun and a carry permit in Chicago. You don’t need a carry permit to be armed at home, but it helps. Suppose you are armed at home, but you want to go to the laundry room, or the trash chute, or the mailbox, and that way you can leave the gun on you rather than having to take it off all the time as you do chores. Again, our defender recognized that an intruder in the middle of the night is a threat. This is different than our first story since the defender didn’t recognize a problem until the intruder was already inside his home. They defended themselves and then asked for help. Rob- How do we store a firearm so we can get it in a hurry, but it is also secure when it isn’t in a holster on our body? Tony- Concealment furniture is a great option that allows you quick access to your firearm while it’s hidden in plain sight. NJ Concealment Furniture was making handmade furniture and the owner started producing furniture with hidden secured compartments to hold your firearms. To open the compartments you would have to know where the secret release was located or use various access control methods that they in install in his shop. He’s no longer making furniture but that’s how I learned about keeping firearms close but out of sight. There are other companies that produce this type of furniture . Rob- Lots of people think they are safe in an upstairs apartment. The building is solid concrete. There is a security gate outside. Do they need a motion detector in their home? Tony- I think they do. They need it for the same reason they have a carbon monoxide detector in their home, for the same reason they have a smoke detector in their home. They might have a problem in their home and not know it until it’s too late. Rob- How much do those cost? Tony- From 20 to 100 dollars. Do you want the detector to text your phone when you’re not at home? Rob- Do you see anything else? Tony- Consider putting your flashlight in your bedside gun safe. You have to identify your attacker. Identity is a big consideration in a home invasion. On the street, the flas…

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    Episode 339 with Robyn Sandoval Feb 02, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 339 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Robyn Sandoval. What have you been doing since we talked? Robyn at the Range Robyn- Hi, Rob. I just returned from SHOT Show. I had 2 range days, 2 podcasts, and 30 meetings in just five days, but it was great to get some facetime with A Girl & A Gun sponsors and friends. Now I’m back in the office planning events for 2024. How about you? Rob- I’m good and I’ve been doing some dry practice at home and with students in their homes. We received a comment on the podcast webpage. Dave said he has been listening for years. He points out that Minnesota citizens need a permit simply to purchase a handgun. He also notes that a carry permit isn’t required to defend yourself at home or at work. He still recommends getting one because the carry class helps gun owners learn their state laws. In addition to Dave, I also want to thank Roger for his help this week. Robyn- You can go to the iTunes store and subscribe to our podcast and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Edgewater, Illinois. Rob- First story- Are you armed in public? You are walking down the street before dawn on a weekday. Two cars stop in the street in front of you. Men get out of the cars and one man walks toward you. He is armed. He demands your possessions. You move to cover and present your firearm. Your attacker shoots at you and you shoot at him. He runs to the car and your attackers drive away. You stay at the scene and call 911 for help. You stay on the line with the dispatcher. You put your gun away as the police arrive. You give them a brief statement and then show them your ID. You also show them your Illinois concealed carry card. Police find blood on the street. Later, you find out that robbers using similar vehicles robbed two other victims on the street that morning. You are not charged with a crime. Robyn- Good for our defender for paying attention, and being prepared by already having a concealed carry card and a firearm. This means that he wasn’t just equipped with the tools, he had taken some training classes and really put some consideration into his personal safety. Plus, he was carrying on the street that morning when he was attacked. I love that our good guy had his head out of his earphones and was paying attention to what was happening around him. He saw his attack unfold. He presented his gun and moved. He defended himself and stopped shooting when the bad guys took off. He called for help. He met the police with empty hands. He gave a statement to the officers. Rob- Besides not being in Chicago, or not being there alone in the dark, what else would you like your students to do to be safer in a similar situation? Robyn- Maybe our defender could have done more to avoid being selected that morning. How was his walking gate or pace and his posture? Could he have had a flashlight in his support hand? Having one tool could have been a tell to the attackers that he also had other tools on board. He could also use the light to temporarily blind or distract the attacker, and to gain more information so that he can articulate his defensive actions and mindset. Also, I would like him to consider his preparedness and efficiency. Was he wearing gloves? Did he dry practice with the gloves on? Be sure that you practice how you live… make sure your finger fits into the trigger guard, or maybe choose to wear thin gloves when you carry. Rob- What classes usually come after you get your carry permit? Robyn- Take a class where we use movement and cover as we shoot. Take a class where you get to shoot from new positions, like crouching, kneeling, sitting, or lying down. I also want you to take a class where you shoot in low light conditions. There were probably street lights, but it can be hard to see your sights, especially when you’re target focused Rob- Are there pre paid insurance plans that you like? Robyn- Yes, given that this is Chicago, have a lawyer to call. There are a number of great options in the market these days. The Armed Citizens’ Legal Defense Network, US Law Shield, USCCA, Right to Bear. Do your research and select one (or more) that meet your needs. Rob- Before we move on, I noticed that there are a couple of stories each week where licensed concealed carriers defend themselves in Chicago. Where is our next story? Robyn- Our second story happened in Houston, Texas What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) This defender had a plan. He wasn’t lucky, he was prepared for a possible attack. He had a gun, a permit and some training. When he recognized that he was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation his training kicked in. He moved (hopefully to cover) as he pulled his gun and defended himself against multiple attackers. He stayed at the scene, called the police and met them with empty hands. He survived this attack because he was trained and equipped. Good job. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Carrying and using a flashlight properly can be just as important as carrying and using a gun. Sometimes it can be a deterrent and it can always help to identity your target. Rob- Second Story- Do you have a firearm nearby at night? It is just after midnight on a weekday. You’re expecting one of your family members to arrive home. You hear them arrive, and then you hear shouts outside. You look outside and see three men robbing your family member. You grab your gun and go outside. You shoot at your attackers. They shoot back as they run. Two of them drive away while the third one falls down. You check on your family and then call 911 for help. You put your gun away when the police arrive. They use a police dog to find your wounded attacker. You and your family give the police brief statements. EMTs take your attacker to the hospital. Your attacker is charged with aggravated robbery. You are not charged with a crime. Robyn- This is similar to the first story, but it happened late at night, at home, and there were more armed attackers. I love that a family member was looking out for someone arriving home. They saw a problem and then reacted to it. They had a firearm nearby so that they could help effectively. They also had a firearm that gave them enough rounds to be able to address multiple armed assailants. The good guys stopped shooting when the bad guys drove away. Rob- What else would you want us to do? Robyn- They story says that the victim was attacked as he was getting out of his car. The pictures of the home show a strong fence as if the home had livestock in the yard. That often means there is a gate, so make sure you close the gate immediately so that strangers cannot approach our house. This makes me wonder if he was followed or if he could have made some different decisions. If he was going followed, could he have kept driving and not gone home? If a car was parked in front of the house with attackers planning an ambush, could he have kept driving and called the police? Maybe he called home or a neighbor and asked for more information. Another good option would be to add motion lights that light up the driveway and the side of the house when we arrive home. Let’s light up the porch as we get out of our car. And be mindful of HOW we get out of the car. Know areas of hard cover using your vehicle, how to bail out and get to cover, or when to stay in the vehicle, drive, or shoot from inside. We cover all of these techniques in our A Girl & A Gun DRIFT Academy course. And suppose you or your family member was wounded. Do you have first aid or trauma supplies and do you know how to use them? All of that is way too much to figure out at midnight, so you and your family need a safety plan. Although these two stories were similar, think about how different their safety plans would be. And, if nothing else, all responsible adults should have their permits, and be armed and trained. Did I say that? Rob- You did now. Where are we going for our third news story? Robyn- We’re headed to Salem, Indiana. Rob- First this message from the Crime Prevention Research Center. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender was situationally aware and responded when the family was in danger. The defender had a gun and it was nearby. A gun in a safe is useless when you need it for self-defense. The defender stopped shooting when the attackers left. The defender checked on her family, called 911 and gave the police a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Lights and cameras! Turn on lights. Add motion-activated lights and video cameras. Transitional spaces- going from your car to a building puts you in a vulnerable position- be aware. Use cover and concealment to your advantage. Get the training and equipment to stop the bleeding from a gunshot wound to yourself and/or others. Cprc https://crimeresearch.org/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed at home? You let a friend sleep on your couch because he had problems with his girlfriend. Now your friend starts an argument in your home. He attacks your two female roommates. He attacks you and shatters a glass cabinet. You get your gun. The next time he attacks you, you shoot him. Now he stops so you stop shooting. You call 911 and ask for help. Your roommates apply first aid. Police and EMTs arrive. You put your gun away. You and your roommates meet the officers with empty hands. All of you give statements to the police about what happened. EMTs declare your attacker dead at the scene. Police also interview your neighbors to find out what they heard. You’re taken to the police station as detectives go over the reports. Your attacker was convicted of domestic violence. Your attacker had to leave his home after again attacking a domestic partner. You are released and not charged with a crime. The news reports don’t mention if you and your roommates needed medical attention. Robyn- With friends like this, who needs enemies? So I like that our defender had a gun to defend himself and his roommates. He stopped the repeated assaults in his home. He called for help and the roommates applied first aid. There were lots of witnesses and they each gave a statement to the officers. Rob- What else do you see in this story? Robyn- Don’t bring a person with a history of violence into your home. It isn’t safe for you or the other people you live with. Reading the story, we can’t tell if the attacker had a history of psychological problems or addiction, but what might have happened if the defender was not home when the attacker assaulted the roommates. If you know people like this in your life, make sure that your a safety plan addresses who we invite home. Think about how intoxicated or emotional someone can be before they are not allowed inside. Do you call the police? Do you put them up at a hotel? Do you lock the doors and don’t respond? Think through your options, what is realistic for your life, and how you can manage those relationships in a way that doesn’t put you or your roommates in danger. I said it before that I’d like all responsible adults to be armed so they can defend themselves and innocent people. This means that if you have irresponsible people or strangers in your home, then you need to have a secure place to store your firearm when it isn’t in a holster on your body. Rob- Was this a gun problem? Robyn- This is a lethal force problem that is primarily a disparity of force issue. A young adult man was beating up the women who lived in the home. As an adult male, you might stop him by going hand to hand, but maybe not if he is much larger or more skilled than you, and probably not if you are female. You have to be able to determine if you are faced with a lethal, immediate, and unavoidable threat, and you have to be able to articulate that what you did was the safest option. Rob- Should we treat an injured attacker? Robyn- Your heart may say yes, your lawyer might say maybe, and your firearms instructor says absolutely not. Your safety is your priority. The police won’t let the EMTs near the attacker until he is disarmed and handcuffed. Rob- Where are we going for our last story? Robyn- Our fourth story took place in Dothan, Alabama. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender was trying to help his so-called friend but that person turned out to be an attacker. The defender recognized that he and his roomates were in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation. The defender grabbed his gun and shot the attacker until the attack stopped. The defender called 911 and put his gun away when the police arrived. The defender and the roomates all gave the police statements. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The roommates trying to stop the attacker’s bleeding wound put all of them in danger. Don’t approach an attacker until they are restrained and someone is covering them. Did the defender know that his “friend” was convicted of domestic abuse? Be careful who you invite into your home. Hopefully, the defender had his gun on his body or in a quick-access safe. If you own a gun, it must be under your control at all times. Did the defender have another gun available? Most likely, his gun would be confiscated by the police as evidence for quite some time. The defender may need another gun in case of retaliation from the attacker’s friends or family. “Two is one and one is none.” Rob- Fourth story- Are you armed in public? It is Saturday and you’re walking down the street. A man walks up beside you and asks you for help with his phone. Then he draws a gun and demands your purse. He grabs your purse and pulls on it. You present your firearm and shoot at your attacker. He drops your purse and runs. You call 911 and ask for the police. You put your gun away when the police arrive. You give the officers a brief statement and point out witnesses. Other people called 911 when they heard shots. Police find your attacker nearby. They also find his gun. He was using a bb-gun to rob people. Your attacker is charged with first degree robbery and held on a 60-thousand dollar cash bail. You are not charged with a crime. Robyn- These situations happen in just an instant. She was looking down the barrel of a gun and kept her mind focused. The robber grabbed her purse, so that makes me think the armed defender had her firearm on her body so she could still reach it. She identified an immediate, lethal, and unavoidable threat so she was justified to use lethal force in her defense. The defender stopped shooting when the attacker was not a threat any longer. Rob- Is there anything else you’d like your students to do? Robyn- Practice your MUC and de-escalation skills. MUC is M-U-C, which is an acronym that stands for Managing Unknown Contacts. Craig Douglas from ShivWorks coined these techniques and Chuck Haggard from Agil Tactical also teaches this at our A Girl & A Gun National Conference. Have situational awareness and use your words as someone approaches you. This can help with the victim de-selection process and at best, the bad guy will just move on to the next person. At worst, it articulates your mindset and actions, and it creates good witnesses. Speak clearly, “No. I can’t help you.” and if he doesn’t leave, increase your intensity and volume. “Get away now!” Anyone who comes closer after you say that isn’t asking for he…

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    Episode 338 with Andee Reardon Jan 26, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 338 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Andee Reardon. What has been keeping you so busy? Andee Reardon Andee- Hi, Rob. I’ve been busy trying to catch up on work. Over the weekend I taught two women’s classes, basic pistol and the USCCA’s Women’s concealed carry and then Monday night we had Ladies’ night on the range at my local indoor shooting range where we get together. This weekend I’ll be teaching outdoors in the Maine elements so I’m praying for decent weather. I was in Boston last week and sadly had to leave my gun at home. I’m really glad to have it back. How about you? Rob- I was sick for most of December, then I was traveling overseas again. I carried when I got back in the US. It’s funny that I was waiting for the rain to stop so I could go for a run, and you were waiting for the snow to stop so you could go to the gym. I want to thank Roger for his help with the stories this week. I’d like you to help new listeners find us by going to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts. Tell new gun owners why you listen. Andee- Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Katy, Texas. Rob- First story- Are you armed at home? You are at home in the middle of the morning on Sunday. You hear someone banging on your apartment door. One of your male roommates opens the door. A man and a woman force their way inside and attack your male roommate. Your roommate fights back. You grab your gun and shoot your two attackers. You stop shooting when they stop hitting your roommate. The woman falls down. The news reports aren’t clear if you called 911 or if your roommates did. Your neighbors also called 911 to report shots fired. You put your gun away before the police arrive. EMTs declare your female attacker dead at the scene. The male attacker is taken to the hospital for treatment of life threatening gunshot wounds. You and your roommates give statements to the police. There is another male and two children in the home. They are uninjured. You are not charged with a crime. Andee- I like that one of the defenders owned a gun. She had it within reach when she needed it. She recognized that the several people who were beating her roommate posed an immediate, lethal, and unavoidable threat. She shot them until the threat stopped, then she stopped shooting. Someone called 911. The defender met the police with empty hands, and all of the roommates stayed at the scene and gave statements to the police. Rob- The good news is that there were witnesses. The bad news is that witnesses say things that can get us into trouble. What else do you want your students to do in a situation like this? Andee- I want all of you to form a plan. That includes children so they know not to open the door and let strangers into your home and they know where to hide for safety. You have the right to open the door, but it is almost always a bad plan. The bad guys outside are not a lethal threat until you open the door. Having a stationary weapon (doesn’t need to be a firearm) by the door so you have access to something if you’re fighting off someone coming through the door. If they’re trying to push their way through, some pepper spray or a hit from a blunt object might back them up enough to get the door shut and locked. But, I’d rather you not open it in the first place. You should be able to see on the other side of the door, by means of a peep hole, window or camera system. Preferably, a way to see out but keep others from seeing in. Having a safety plan in place with several people in the home means someone can call 911 even while the bad guys are outside beating on the door. Make that someone’s job so they know that they are the person who calls 911 and gets the police on the way. Being armed is part of the plan. An armed defender can yell that they are armed and that the police are on their way. Part of that safety plan is knowing what to say to police. All members of the household should be informed what they should and shouldn’t say while being questioned. Including, “I do not give permission to search my home, vehicle or person”. In this kind of situation, I want everyone to retreat away from the front door to another room (your safe room) while the defender is standing behind cover or concealment, yet where she can see the front doorway. Since there were children in the apartment, the defender’s gun should have either been on her body in a holster, or in a quick-access safe. Rob- That is a lot to get right. When do your students learn about defending their home? Andee- We talk about it a little bit in the beginners class since the majority of students are there for self defense reasons. But you have to crawl before you walk, get the basics down first. As students progress and take more advanced classes, we cover things like building your own personal safety plan, how to use effective cover and concealment, etc. Rob- Is there more you want to cover about this story, or should we go on? Andee- Our second story happened in Peoria, Illinois. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender owned a gun which was within quick reach when she needed it. The defender recognized that her roommate was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation because he was being attacked by two other people. The defender shot both attackers until they stopped hitting her roommate. The defender stopped shooting when the threat was over, stayed at the scene and called 911. The defender put her gun away when police arrived and gave them a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Someone banging on your door is not a lethal threat until you either open the door which gives them access or until the door breaks and allows the attackers to enter. DON’T OPEN THE DOOR. There were a number of people in the apartment when the attackers started banging on the door. Any one of them could have called 911 while the defender who had a gun could have yelled through the door to the attackers that 911 had been called, that she was armed and that they should leave. The defender should have directed that everyone in the apartment retreat away from the door to another room while she took a defensive position behind cover or concealment in sight of the door in case the attackers broke the door down. If the attacker were to break down the door then the defender should have fired on them while they were lined up in the “fatal funnel”. Since there were children in the apartment, the defender’s gun should have either been on her body or in a quick-access safe. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed in public? You’re helping your friend buy a car. He sees a vehicle he likes on Facebook Marketplace. You go with him to look at the car after work. When you get to the location, you see two men waiting for you. They say the car is around the corner. There, you see three more men, and they have guns in their hands. You’re being robbed. You have a concealed carry license and you’re armed. Your attackers start shooting and you shoot back. Everyone runs. You and your friend are not wounded and you stay nearby. You call 911 and ask for help. Police and EMTs arrive and you put your gun away. The officers find one of your attackers nearby. He is wounded. EMTs try to save his life but then pronounce him dead at the scene. You and your friend give statements to the police. You show them your Identification and your carry permit. Your friend shows them the Facebook advertisement. You are not charged with a crime, but the police suggest using the police parking lot to make exchanges. Andee- I like that the buyer brought a friend, there’s safety in numbers. Unfortunately, the bad guys had more numbers and often do. Sellers can be robbed of their property. Buyers can be robbed of their money. They made a plan since they were going to meet strangers in a strange place. The armed friend had his carry permit, owned a gun, and carried concealed. Good for both of them. I do wonder if they thought something felt off when they were told the vehicle was around the corner… that would seem suspicious to me. When in doubt, trust your gut. The defender recognized that they were being robbed, and that they faced a lethal threat even before the bad guys started shooting. He shot back and the good guys ran away. The victims called for help and gave statements to the police. Rob- There is a lot of information that isn’t covered in the news. Andee- Plan to meet where there are lights, cameras and witnesses. Ideally, meeting at a police station parking lot during the day might be the best plan. Don’t go alone. Ask a friend or two to go with you and if one or more of you are armed that would be great. Listen to your gut. Put some distance between you and your partner so you form two separate targets. Keep something like a car between you and the strangers. Do not bring cash. Ask one of your friends to record a picture or video of the people you’re meeting and their car’s license plate. Ideally, I want both of you to be armed. Rob- This is beyond marksmanship. We want to move, present our firearm without pointing it at our partner, and then shoot multiple moving targets. We want to have done that enough times that it is a habit rather than a deliberate, step by step thought. How do I learn to do that? Andee- You can learn that through practice at home with an unloaded firearm and taking more advanced classes that teach shooting on the move. Rob- Where are we headed next? Andee- Our third story happened in Grafton, Virginia. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender went with his friend when he was meeting with a stranger(s) to look at a car. The defender brought his carry license and his gun with him. The defender and friend were in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation when they were surrounded by armed robbers. The defender exchanged fire with the attackers and ran. Fortunately, he managed to shoot one of them without getting himself or his friend shot. Hopefully, the defender knew how to move and engage multiple targets. The defender stayed at the scene and gave police a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Meeting a stranger to buy or sell items can be very dangerous so the proper precautions need to be taken. Arrange to meet where there are lights, cameras and witnesses. Ideally, meeting at a police station parking lot during the day might be your best bet. Don’t go alone. Ask a friend or two to go with you and if one or more of you are armed that would be great. Don’t stand together so you make yourselves more difficult targets. Keep some objects, like a car, between you and the stranger. DON’T BRING CASH! Ask one of your friends to record a video of the people you’re meeting and their car’s license plate. This story took place in Peoria, Illinois. That state does not recognize any other state’s carry permit and they don’t have out-of-state concealed carry licenses. They also have a FOID card requirement which is a “Firearm Owners Identification” card which means it’s illegal for an out-of-stater to even possess a firearm in that state. According to the news report, the defender in this story was from out of state so he was not carrying legally. He may or may not be charged with possession and carrying a concealed weapon which in some states is a felony. KNOW THE LAWS WHERE YOU LIVE AND WHERE YOU TRAVEL. Rob- First this message from the FASTER saves lives. FASTER saves lives https://fastersaveslives.org/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed at work? You’re behind the counter at a gas station/ convenience store. It is about 9 AM and the morning rush is over. Another customer walks in and pushes his way behind the counter. He says this is a robbery. You let him have the money. Now the robber pushes you toward the back bathroom. You’re armed. You present your concealed firearm and shoot your attacker twice. Your first shot hits him in the leg and your second shot hits him in the abdomen. He stops pushing you and you stop shooting. You step away and call 911 for help. You talk to the dispatcher and ask for police and Emergency Medical Services. You stay on the line, but have to put your phone down when you put your gun away. You give a statement to the police when they arrive. EMS takes your attacker to the hospital for treatment. You have to close the store for the rest of the day as the police collect evidence at the scene. When your attacker is released from the hospital, he is held without bond in the county jail. He is charged with robbery, abduction by force, possession of stolen property, and also charged with grand larceny from an earlier incident. You are not charged with a crime. Andee- Our defender recognized that he was all alone in a store that is frequently targeted by robbers. He planned ahead by purchasing and carrying a gun on his body at work. The defender let the robber take the money out of the register. He used “Tactical Patience” and waited his turn before acting. The defender held his fire until the robber tried to force him into the back bathroom. Robbers move us to a new location because they don’t want to be seen. That is our signal that the fight is on. Never allow yourself to be forced to a new location, the chances of survival drop down as soon as you do. The news report said that the police were unable to find a weapon at the scene. Even if the robber did not have a weapon and only pretended to hold a gun in his pocket, the act of forced relocation is kidnapping which usually allows for the use of deadly force. The defender stopped shooting after getting two hits on the bad guy, and the robber stopped pushing him to the back of the store. Our defender stepped away from the robber. Distance and cover are your friends. The defender stayed at the scene, called 911 and stayed on the line, put the gun away and gave a statement to the police. Rob- What else do you see in this story? Andee- This is called close quarters defense where the bad guy is close enough to grab us or grab our gun. It also explains why the bad guy was shot in the leg and the stomach. We have to push the bad guy away so we have room to reach our gun, but that also means our support hand can get between our gun and the bad guy. That takes practice so we don’t shoot ourselves. I give classes in close quarters defense, and that usually comes a few classes after your concealed carry permit. Once the robber was on the floor and no longer a threat, the defender should have moved all the customers away from the windows and locked the doors so the robber’s friends couldn’t get into the store. I want you to know how to stop the bleeding if your or a customer were injured. Your business needs a first aid kit. And in that kit should be a tourniquet. There are generally two types of criminals. The Resource Predators want your stuff like money, cars, jewelry, or credit cards. They want to grab your stuff and run. Process Predators enjoy inflicting pain and humiliation. They want to make you vulnerable and hurt you. The problem is that you can’t tell which is which. Finally, there should have been security video in the store. Employees need to know how to save and transfer those video files to the police and to your lawyer. If you’re going to carry a gun at work then you need a lawyer to call so he fills out your police report for you. Rob- Do you talk about that in your use of force classes? Andee- Yes, it’…

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    Episode 337 with David Cole Jan 10, 2024
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 337 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor David Cole. What has been keeping you so busy? David- Hi, Rob. I’ve been doing a little hunting (not enough), testing out my new chronograph of the range, and a bit of dry fire practice. How about you? Rob- I’ve been dry practicing. I also want to thank Roger for his help this week. We received some messages from people who will write for us, so that was my Christmas present. David- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Denver, Colorado. Rob- First story- Are you armed in public? You and your girlfriend are taking your kids to the museum. It is the middle of the weekday afternoon when you park your car and start to unload your kids. You see two young men run toward you. They are armed and have guns in their hands. One of them hits you in the back of the head. You’re armed as well. You present your firearm and shoot at your attackers. They run. They also shoot at you as they run across the parking lot. You stop shooting and check on your family. No one is wounded. You call 911 and ask for help. You stay at the scene. You and your girlfriend give statements to the police. You describe your attackers, their clothing, and their get-away car. Police arrest your attacker when he is dropped off at the hospital. Unfortunately, the officers don’t stop the car that drops him off. Your attacker is charged with four counts of attempted first-degree murder, two counts of felony menacing, and attempted aggravated robbery. David- I’m glad that our defender recognized that we all face risks when we’re out in public. It sounds like he put together a plan that included carrying a firearm when he was out with his family. He recognized a threat. He defended himself. He stopped shooting when the bad guys stopped shooting. He checked on his family. They stayed at the scene and called for help. They couple met the police officers with empty hands. They both gave statements to the police. Rob- That is a lot to get right. What else do you see that wasn’t mentioned in the news reports? David- A plan begins with your family. What can they contribute? Have you walked through the plan with them and taken their ideas? Have you sought out first aid training? How about firearms safety training? Do all the adults have their carry permits? Have they trained together? Have they taken an armed defense class together, and a legal use of lethal force class together? I bring up those issues because going to the store and buying a gun is the easy part. You can buy a gun in a half hour. Becoming skilled in its use as a tool of armed defense takes some effort. I want the couple to pay attention so they have an opportunity to avoid an attack. I’m glad that the robbers missed, but I want the defender to be better at hitting his target and stopping the threat. This was probably a busy area given the location and time of day, so the risk of hitting innocent bystanders would be high. All shots hit something! Rule 4 applies in gunfights as well as the range. The parking lot is a transition area where you’re changing your activities. Work as a team so that one of you is looking around as the other is getting a child ready for the museum. Once your partner is ready, then they become the lookout as you work on your side of the car. If you see a threat and shout stop, then the kids have to know to get down and your partner has to know to draw their gun and get behind cover. Most criminals will turn and run rather than walk into a gunfight. Rob- I noticed that both bad guys were armed and had their guns out. David- I saw that too. While it is essential to carry at least one spare magazine or speed loader, having an armed partner who knows how to work with you can be a great force multiplier. Rob- I noticed that the bad guys were shooting at the family as the bad guys ran away. That means the defender might shoot the bad guy in the back as he runs. David- That could happen. The important point is that you know the law and can articulate why innocent people were at an immediate risk and that shooting the fleeing robber was the safest thing to do. Both of you need that knowledge so that you are both acting consistently and within the law. More to the point, you want a lawyer available to advise you before you give a formal statement to the police. Rob- Is there more you want to cover in this story, or should we go on? David- It’s a good start. Our second story happened in Reeds Spring, Missouri. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender wanted to protect his family so he chose to carry a gun when he took his family to a museum. In some states, carrying a gun in a museum or even in the parking lot of a museum is a crime since that area is considered a “sensitive place.” Know the laws in your area. If you can’t carry your gun with you, should you take your family there? Do a risk assessment. The defender held his fire until he was struck. Perhaps he should have fired sooner like when he first saw the two men running at him with guns in their hands. Watch the hands- they’re what kills. Know the laws about the Use of Deadly Force. You don’t have to wait to be shot or stabbed in order to defend yourself or others. The defender shot at the fleeing bad guys who were shooting at him as they fled. As long as the fleeing bad guys were presenting a threat he is allowed to keep shooting. When the threat stops, the shooting stops. The defender stayed at the scene, checked on his family and gave descriptions and a statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The attackers got close enough to the defender in order to hit him in the head. Could the defender have drawn his gun as he moved to cover? Did the defender know how to shoot from a retention position? Did the defender know to move away from his family while he engaged in a gunfight? The bad guys are going to shoot at the guy with the gun and if the unarmed family members are near the defender they may get shot. How many rounds of ammo did the defender have? The news article stated that the attackers had extended magazines which are illegal in Colorado. They were ready and willing to get into a gunfight. Was the defender sufficiently prepared? Colorado limits the ammo capacity to 15 rounds per magazine but it doesn’t limit carrying additional mags or a back-up gun. Attackers are like wolves- they come in packs. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed at home? You and your family are at home on a Saturday evening. It is about 10:30 when you hear someone outside. Your wife calls 911 and asks for help. You go out on your front porch to see if someone needs help. A stranger crawls through the woods and shouts at you. You tell him that help is on the way and to stay away. The stranger rushes you and grabs you. You present your firearm and shoot your attacker. He lets go of you so you stop shooting. You and your wife give statements to the police when they arrive. The 911 recording includes your shouts for the attacker to stop and move away. A toxicology report shows that the attacker was on methamphetamine at the time of the attack. Several of his prior criminal convictions involve drug use. You are not charged with a crime. David- I like that the couple worked as a team. They paid attention to an unusual situation and got law enforcement on the way immediately. The male homeowner grabbed a gun for self defense. He stayed on his porch rather than go exploring in the woods in the middle of the night. The defender also gave clear verbal commands as he tried to de-escalate the situation. The defender stopped the attacker from taking his gun. He stopped shooting when the attacker moved away. The defenders stayed at the scene. The defender put his gun away and met the officers with empty hands. They also gave preliminary statements to the officers. Rob- Why was it so important that the defender said something before he was attacked? David- Verbal commands can accomplish several things. They can potentially de-escalate a situation or discourage an attacker. They keep us breathing during a stressful event. And they can contribute to our self defense justification by creating witnesses and evidence which aid our case. We have a 911 recording where the defender says he has help on the way and to not come any closer. Your lawyer is going to point out that If the attacker had taken that advice, then the situation would never have escalated to a violent encounter. Rob- What do you see as best practice for us if we hear something outside at night? David- You want a plan so you and your family know what to do and are not making life and death decisions when you’re half asleep. Plan to have the doors and windows locked. I honestly would have preferred that the family had stayed inside the house and called the police. Turn on the outside lights. Plan for both of you to be armed. Make the bad guys break their way into your house. You might be out the cost of a door, but you’re going to save tens of thousands of dollars in legal bills, not to mention possibly avoid having to take a life. You also want a lawyer to call so they get your defense started. Rob- I need a lawyer even though a druggie attacked me? David- Yes you do. We’ve all seen cases of self defense where, even if there’s no criminal charges, the family pursues a civil case against the defender. His ex wife might now see you as a way to pay her bills for the next ten years. Rob- Where are we going for our next story? David- Our third story happened in Pittsburg, Pennsylvania. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender and his wife recognized a potentially dangerous situation. The defender grabbed his gun while his wife called 911. The defender shouted to the stranger that help was on their way while the phone was recording the 911 call. The defender stopped shooting as soon as the threat was over. The defender gave a brief statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) It was 10:30 at night. Did the defender turn on any exterior flood lights or use a flashlight? Many times just the use of bright lights can stop an attack. Why did the defender leave the relative safety of his home? Distance and cover are your best friends. Don’t give strangers the opportunity to attack. Did the defender know how to shoot from a retention position? Always make the attacker come to you. This is both tactically and legally sound. Call 911 as soon as you can and leave the phone line open so they can record what’s going on. The 911 dispatcher is not a cop and you don’t have to do what the dispatcher says. Their job is to gain information and relay it to the responders for THEIR SAFETY, not yours. The 911 dispatchers aren’t on the scene. You are your own first responder until professional help arrives. That means that you have to know how to put out a fire, stop a wound from bleeding and defend yourself from attackers. The more you learn, the better your chances of survival. Being attacked is a traumatic event and in this case the attacker died from his wounds. The defender is not only going to need a good lawyer but probably also a good therapist. The aftermath of a shooting event can last for years. Rob- First this message from JPFO.org JPFO http://jpfo.org/ Rob- Third story- Are You Armed at Home? You are home alone on a Monday night. You hear your ex-boyfriend at the back door of the apartment. Fortunately, your doors and windows are locked. You arm yourself and shout for him to go away. He kicks down your back door and then your front door as he is looking for you. You stay inside the apartment and shoot him when he comes inside. You stop shooting when he runs. You stay inside and wait. After a minute, you call 911 and ask for the police. You put your gun away and give a statement to the officers when they arrive. Police arrest your attacker at the hospital. He is treated for a gunshot wound to the abdomen. He is also arrested for an outstanding warrant. You are not charged with a crime. David- I like that our defender chose to own a firearm for self-defense. She recognized that her ex boyfriend put her at an increased risk of violent attack. I love that she locked her doors and windows. That forced her boyfriend to break into her home. I looked at the area on Google Street View, and it is full of small homes and duplexes, so it probably created a number of ear witnesses who heard him break down your doors. I like that she stayed inside her home. She shot her attacker rather than let him get close to her, and she stayed inside as her attacker ran away. She called for help. She put her gun away when the police arrived, and she gave the police a statement. Rob- Are there other things you want your students to do if they have a domestic abuse situation? David- Let’s add some motion lights on our front and back door. Let’s add some security cameras and an alarm system. Let’s also get a restraining order so it is clear that your ex was supposed to stay away from you. The process will vary from state to state, but in Pennsylvania it appears to be as simple as going to the county courthouse, completing a petition, and possibly speaking to a judge. If you can afford an attorney to advise you, that makes it even easier, and most police officers can also advise you on how the process works. Rob- What should a defender do if an ex breaks down her door? David- In most cases, the best practice would be to seek another location in your home where you can barricade yourself while waiting for police. I’d like a defender to have all the lights in the house on if possible, and to issue verbal commands. Let them know you’re armed and that police are on the way. If you have 911 on the line, everything is recorded and this will be evidence that you did everything possible to avoid confrontation. If that confrontation comes, try to be positioned behind as much cover as possible and shoot to stop the threat. Rob- In the earlier story you said it was an advantage that we shouted for the bad guy to go away. Wouldn’t it be better to stay quiet and try to avoid being found? David- That’s a valid point, and it may be. You can certainly make that case, and I wouldn’t say you are wrong. I tend to lean towards being clear and vocal, but the situation may call for silence and hiding. I think it is very much a judgment call by the defender, considering the layout of their home and the nature of the attack. I’d just consider how likely it is that hiding will enable us to avoid the attack altogether. For example, if the house is small, it may be unrealistic to expect to be able to hide for long. A larger or more complex floor plan might make hiding a better option. But if attack is likely unavoidable, barricading with verbal commands may be better. Rob- Where are we going for our last story?David- Our fourth story took place in Akron, Ohio. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender recognized that her ex-boyfriend was “hunting” her after he broke down her front and back doors. She armed herself and shouted for him to leave. Then she hid. The defender shot the ex-boyfriend before she let him get close to her. The defender stopped shooting when the attacker ran away. The defender called 911 and gave a statement to the polic…

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    Episode 336 with Heather Reeves Dec 29, 2023
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 336 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Heather Reeves. What has been keeping you so busy since we talked? Heather Reeves Heather- Hi, Rob. I’ve been enjoying the last few weeks of crazy holiday madness with family and friends, and learning new software to help edit my podcast, Everyday Carry Chicks. How about you? Rob- I’ve been shooting my new firearm that I got back from ATEi in Michigan. I’ve been listening to your podcast. While you were busy recording your podcast, our show received new ratings and comments on iTunes. Chester said this was an amazing resource, and he likes that it is free. Another listener said he learns how fast these events can happen and we help him develop plans for self-defense. I also want to thank Roger for his help again this week. Dwayne sent in a story. Thank you, Dwayne. We also had some people ask about writing for the podcast, so that was my Christmass present. Heather- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on the episode webpage. Our first story took place last week in Greenfield, Indiana. Rob- First story- Are you armed as you drive? It is very clear that this story was taken from a police report. We know the incident happened in a car, but we know neither whose car it was nor who was driving. We know you were in a car with your ex-boyfriend. You have a restraining order out against him. That means it is a crime for him to deliberately come within several hundred feet of you. It is about 1 in the morning. Your ex-boyfriend hits you. You tell him to stop. You present a firearm and shoot him when he doesn’t. Now he stops and runs away. You drive to a nearby business and ask for help. It isn’t clear if you had to drive in another car or if you were originally driving your own car. You call the police and stay at the business until they arrive. You give the officers a statement. The officers find your attacker and arrest him. They apply emergency first aid until Emergency Medical Technicians arrive. EMTs take your attacker to the hospital for treatment of a gunshot wound to his arm. He is arrested upon release from the hospital and is now in jail without bond. He was recently arrested for a parole violation. You are not charged with a crime. Rob- Heather, what did our defender do correctly? Heather- Abusers try to make their victims think that abuse is normal. Our defender thought that she faced an unusual risk from her ex. She got a restraining order. She bought a firearm and learned how to use it. Last year Indiana became a constitutional carry state, so she neither needed a carry permit nor did she have to wait for one. She recognized that it was an immediate, lethal, and unavoidable threat when an adult man was punching her as she sat in her car. She defended herself until the threat ran away. She drove to a safe location and asked for help. She talked to the police. She took them back to the scene and showed them what happened to her. Rob- This story leaves us with several questions. Who was driving and why or how did the defender let her attacker into her car. Heather- We don’t know if the attacker kidnapped her. You want your firearm on your body so it is there when you need it. If you’re in a car, you don’t wait until you see a car crash about to happen to put your seatbelt on. Your gun should be treated the same way. If you want to be able to use it, you must have it on you. If you ever take out a restraining order and have to meet your abuser, then we want you to do so with lots of witnesses you brought with you. Preferably big armed men who also have pepper spray in their pocket. Rob- Is there more you want to cover on this story, or should we go on? Heather- Let’s go to Chicago, Illinois for our second story. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender realized that her ex-boyfriend was a possible danger to her and she wisely took out a restraining order on him. The defender also had a gun near her in the car when the ex-boyfriend assaulted her. She realized that she was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation and she shot the ex-boyfriend in order to stop the beating. After the ex-boyfriend ran off, the defender drove away to gain some distance / safety, called 911 when she stopped and gave the police a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Did the defender originally let the ex-boyfriend in her car willingly or was she kidnapped? If she let the “ex” in her car willingly, she used very poor judgment and she put herself into a very dangerous position tactically. It’s not unusual for battered women to keep going back to their abusers even after they are repeatedly beaten and emotionally abused. The abusive boyfriends become masters of manipulation and they temporarily convince the women that they are sorry and that they won’t hit them again. The abusers can be very charming until the tensions and anxiety build up and they finally lash out again. It’s a vicious cycle. If the ex-boyfriend had kidnapped her, the police would have charged him with that. The restraining order probably was not violated if the woman allowed the ex-boyfriend to get near her. The defender should have brought a friend or two with her when she and the ex-boyfriend met. Or they should have met in a very public place and driven there separately. The defender should have had a non-lethal option with her as well as a gun. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed in public? It is late on a Saturday afternoon. You are approached by four teenagers as you walk down the street. They are armed and tell you to hand everything over. Your wallet has an Illinois Firearms Owners ID card inside. You have a gun on your hip. You present your firearm and shoot the armed attacker who is closest to you. The three other attackers run. You call 911 and stay at the scene. You put your gun away before the police arrive. EMTs take your attacker to the hospital where he is pronounced dead from a gunshot wound to the chest. You show the police your identification and your carry permit. You are 68 years old. Your attacker was 19. You are not charged with a crime. Heather- The 68 year old defender realized that he was a potential target of violent crime, especially in his neighborhood. He took the time, the money and he made the effort to get his carry license. That’s neither cheap nor easy in Chicago. The defender presented his gun and fired it when he was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation where he was being robbed by four, armed teenagers. The defender stayed at the scene, called 911 and then gave a statement to the police. Rob- Are there other things that weren’t mentioned in the news story? Heather- There are a lot of things that weren’t mentioned in the story. In general, we want to avoid drawing our gun when another person already has their gun pointed at us, so we don’t know what the older man did to avoid getting shot. We can wait for a distraction, create a distraction, or move as we draw. Ideally, we’d move to cover. Rob- It seems this defender only shot once. Heather- You want to shoot the closest attacker and then start on the next closest attacker. You can keep shooting until they are out of range or until you can retreat to cover. Then again, we don’t know what was behind the bad guys, so maybe our defender was saving lives by not shooting. Rob- Does that mean I might have to shoot an unarmed attacker who has his back to me? Heather- It might. The three of them could turn around and kill you, so you need to stay observant of the situation until they are so far away that you could stop them one at a time. Rob- When do you tell your students about those sort of legal details in armed defense? Heather- We start covering legal with our Concealed Handgun class, and never really stop. When it comes down to it, there is a legal component to every class we teach, because with each course, students get a bit more detail and are ready to hit the different high and low points of what the legalities of using force to defend your life are. You also want a pre-paid legal plan so your lawyer covers the important points in your police statement. Your lawyer can decide if he wants to make a statement to the press. You don’t. Rob- Where are we going for our next story? Heather- We are headed to Fort Worth, Texas. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The 68 year old defender realized that he was a potential target, especially where he lived. He took the time, the money and he made the effort to get his carry license. That’s neither cheap nor easy in Chicago. The defender presented his gun and fired it when he was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation where he was being robbed by four, armed teenagers. The defender stayed at the scene, called 911 and gave a statement to the police. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The story isn’t clear how the defender was able to draw and fire his gun before four, armed teenagers did. Did he use “tactical patience” or distractions? Did he fire from a retention position since he was probably very close to his robbers? The defender only shot one of the armed teenagers. He’s very lucky that the other three, armed teenagers decided to flee rather than stay and shoot at him. Did the defender know how to engage multiple attackers? The news report for this incident was extremely biased. It called the armed, teenage attacker a “victim” and the 68 year old defendant “the shooter”. Unfortunately in many parts of this country, the media tries self-defense cases online and in the papers long before they ever see a courtroom. Rob- First this message from the Second Amendment Foundation. Second Amendment Foundation https://www.saf.org/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed at home? And here https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12897077/Texas-woman-shot-dead-teenager-break-fort-worth.html It is just after noon when you hear someone try to open one of the windows in your house. You and your four daughters are at home. You grab your gun. You think there are several people outside your home and you shout for them to leave. You call 911 and ask for the police. The police arrive and you give them a statement. The officers take photographs and then leave. A half hour later, you hear someone force the window open in your four year old daughter’s bedroom. The intruder starts to enter your home and you shoot him. Again you call 911 for help. Police find a man outside. He has a bullet wound to the chest. EMTs pronounce him dead at the scene. Again, you give the police a statement. You are not charged with a crime, but you get an eviction notice from the property management company that manages the apartments. They say to call the corporate office. The corporate office says to contact the local managers. You have to find a new place for you and your family to live. Heather- Our defender’s apartment was broken into a few months earlier when the family wasn’t at home. The defender recognized a threat and bought a firearm to defend her family. During the first attempted break-in that day, the defender successfully used verbal commands to stop multiple home intruders. Great job. During the second attempted break-in that day, the defender shot the teenager who was forcing the window open. The armed mom again called 911 and again gave a statement to the police. Well done. Rob- What else would you like us to do? Heather- Texas is a Constitutional Carry state, so the defender didn’t need a Texas License to Carry. I want her to get one anyway because it shows the police that you have a clean criminal record. It identifies you as one of the good guys who carry a gun. Texas is also a Castle Doctrine state so the defender is not required to retreat inside her home. Some states do not have Castle Doctrine so you have to know the laws in your state. Some states require that an intruder must be completely inside the four walls of the home in order to justify the use of deadly force. Take a class on the Use of Deadly Force in your state. Also, our defender should consult a lawyer concerning keeping a gun in a subsidized rental property. There have been a number of lawsuits concerning this. You don’t give up your rights, particularly in Texas, if you get a rent subsidy. Rob- Where are we going for our last story? Heather- Our fourth story took place in Houston, Texas. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender had multiple home break-ins and she decided to buy a gun. During the first attempted break-in that day, the defender successfully used verbal commands to stop multiple home intruders. During the second attempted break-in that day, the defender shot the teenager forcing the window open. The defender called 911 and gave a statement to the police both times. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Texas is a Castle Doctrine state. The defender is not required to retreat in states that have Castle Doctrine. Some states do not have Castle Doctrine. Some states require that an intruder must be inside the four walls of the home in order to use deadly force. Some states do not require this. KNOW THE LAWS IN YOUR STATE. Take a class on the Use of Deadly Force or consult a lawyer. The defender should consult a lawyer concerning keeping a gun in a subsidized rental property. There have been a number of lawsuits concerning this. The defender gave an interview with local media- not a good idea. Did she consult her lawyer first? Probably not. Giving detailed statements and interviews to the media and even to the police is the job of a self-defense lawyer. Rob- Fourth story- Are you armed at home?You hear someone knocking on your door. It is almost 8 in the morning on a Saturday. You are not expecting visitors. You go to the door armed. You hear a woman calling for you to open the door. You open the door and the strange woman attacks you. You step back and defend yourself. Finally, you present your firearm and shoot your attacker. Now she stops hitting you and you stop shooting. You call 911 and ask for help. You put your gun away when the police arrive. EMTs take your attacker to the hospital. You give a statement to the police. You are not charged with a crime. Heather- I like that the defender owned a firearm and had it nearby when they were at home. Ideally, it was on his body in a holster. I like that the defender’s windows and doors were locked. I like that he had the gun with him when he answered the door. He forced the criminal to climb the ladder of deterrence. Our defender tried to push her back outside. He tried to hit her after she hit him. Finally, he had to use his firearm to stop the attack. The defender stopped shooting when the attacker stopped hitting him. He called 911, stayed at the scene, and gave the police a statement. Rob- What else do you see here? Heather- Most deliberate criminals are intoxicated when they commit a burglary or robbery. We don’t know if this attacker was a criminal or if she was drunk or drugged from the night before. We know we don’t want to open the door. You can talk through a closed door without standing directly in front of the door. Criminals have been known to shoot through closed doors so we want to stand to the side with a phone in our hand and the gun in the holster. I also want you to have an outside secur…

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    Episode 355 with Robyn Sandoval Nov 29, 2023
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 335 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse. We are joined this week by firearms instructor Robyn Sandoval, and she has been busy. Robyn at the Range Robyn- Hi, Rob. I just got back from an instructor development class with Brian Hill of The Complete Combatant, and I’m leaving tomorrow to take a low-light class with Chris Cerino at Range Ready Studios near your neck of the woods. Not only do I love learning, but I appreciate showing my students that even instructors and professionals in the firearms industry have to carve out time for our own training. How about you? Rob- I’ve been dry practicing. I’m still waiting to get my gun back from the shop. They say they have a new barrel on the way. I’m working on the FBI handgun qualification test. We didn’t receive any new ratings or comments on iTunes or Facebook. I do want to thank Roger for his help this week. We’re still looking for listeners who want to write or edit this podcast. I’m retiring soon, so this can be yours. Robyn- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, citizens defend themselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. In this episode, we’ll look at a few recent examples to see what we can learn. Listeners can find links back to the original news articles on the podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Shady Cove, Oregon. Rob- First story- Do you have a firearm nearby at night? You are at home in bed. It is 2 in the morning when you hear someone break into your home. You arm yourself. Your attacker moves toward you and you shoot them. You stop shooting when they stop advancing. You step back and call 911. You put your gun away when police arrive. The police call for a life-flight helicopter. EMTs declare your attacker dead at the scene. You give a statement to the police. You show them how the intruder broke into your home. You identify your attacker and tell the police that you have a protective order against them. You are not charged with a crime. Robyn- Unfortunately this is a common scenario because that protective order is just a piece of paper. So let’s look at what else our defender did to protect herself. First, she recognized a problem and sought legal help. Getting the order of protection or restraining order was a good step because that gave her legal protection that the attacker would be breaking the law by contacting her or if he was even near her, for example, within 500 feet. But most importantly, she had a firearm and learned how to store it, access it, and use it if needed. On the day of the attack, she had locked her doors. She reacted to the sound of a breakin. She armed herself. She defended herself when the attacker moved toward her. She stopped shooting when the attack stopped. She stayed at the scene and called for help. She put her gun away when the police arrived, and she gave them a brief statement. Rob- Are there other things that weren’t mentioned in the news report that you’d like us to do if we have a stalker? Robyn- There may have been other options that could have given her more time to wake up and respond. Maybe a doorbell cam, motion alarm, or barking dog could have given her a warning. Alarms are affordable and you can put a motion detector on your outside doors even if you are a renter. You could also even put a motion detector inside your home, as well as motion activated lights. It’s also good for her to have a community of support. Hopefully she told her neighbors, friends, employer, pastor, and others that she had a stalker and had taken out a restraining order against him. Of course, always keep your gun accessible to you and on-body in a holster whenever possible. Keep your doors and windows locked. When you’re in an interior room with a locking door, go ahead and lock it as well. Have the volume on your phone turned up so that you will hear it or be awakened by it when your security app discovers motion. Most importantly, have a plan. Be able to arm yourself and move to a secure position in the room. Turn on the lights. Call 911. Shout that you are armed, and that you’ve called the police. Stop any attacker that comes through your bedroom door. Because you’re at an increased risk, it is doubly important that you have a self-defense legal insurance plan. In this situation, it’s not just about surviving an attack in that moment; it’s surviving the legal process afterwards and ensuring that your future is safe as well. So, make your legal plan part of your emergency action plan. Know what facts that you want to point out to officers. For example, that you shouted for the attacker to stop (so that your neighbors might be able to corroborate that they heard shouts before they heard shots, or that the alarm system may have recorded your shouts, or they may also be on the 911 call). Point out concise facts: this is the broken door where the attacker forced entry, this is the person against whom I have a restraining order, etc. Rob- Why are those statements so important? Robyn- The police are trying to figure out if there was a crime, and if so, then to collect evidence for a prosecution. You want to identify yourself, and give evidence that you are the defender rather than the attacker. The more obvious it is that you are the defender, then the more evidence the police will find to support your case. That said, once you point out the evidence, then you remain silent until your attorney is with you. Rob- There is a lot that we can learn here even if we don’t have a stalker. When do your students learn about defense in the home and about talking to the police? Robyn- When someone begins contemplating a gun for home defense, whether it’s when they’re purchasing a new firearm or just making an emergency action plan, these are important factors that have to be considered from the beginning. Safe storage, accessibility, cover and concealment inside the home, deterring factors or barriers outside of the home, security features, lights, mirrors to view around corners… all of these things can be considered as part of the plan. As for talking to the police, most of the time it’s important to learn what NOT to say as much as what to say. In that critical incident, a defender is going to be stirred with a lot of adrenaline and emotion. Training to stay mindful and focused throughout the entire process is critical. Rob- We’ve said a lot. Are you ready to move on? Robyn- Our second story was in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender: Locked her doors Got a restraining order. Bought a gun and learned how to use it. Brought her gun when she investigated a noise. Shot her attacker when she recognized an immediate, lethal and unavoidable threat. Stopped shooting when the attack stopped. Did not chase the attacker. Called 911, put her gun away so she met the police with empty hands. She showed the broken door to the police and gave a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) Best practices says that if a person is alone and they think they are in danger, they should retreat to a defensible room, lock and barricade the doors, turn on the lights, call 911 and prepare to defend from cover or concealment. Going out to investigate means you are walking into an unknown situation with an unknown number of attackers. You don’t know where they are and if they are armed (usually they are.) Clearing a house by yourself is very dangerous and tactically unsound. The defender had a restraining order on this person. She should have told all of her friends and neighbors about it as a safeguard. Motion-detection cameras with sound cost less than $100. They are good for interiors as well as exteriors. Some even connect to your smart phone. Don’t forget to reinforce the home’s perimeter, doors and windows. Longer screws, larger striker plates and hurricane film on glass are cheap insurance policies that pay off bigtime. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed at home on Thanksgiving? You are at home in the evening. The news story doesn’t say if you have holiday guests with you, but your neighbors in the apartment complex are coming and going. It is about 7:30 when you hear a crashing sound. You grab your gun and go to investigate. You see an armed stranger standing in your apartment. You’re being robbed. He moves toward you. You shoot him until he stops advancing. You stop shooting. You back up and call 911 for help. You open the apartment complex access door so the police can get inside. You put your gun away and set down the phone to talk to the officers. They police officers disarm your attacker. EMTs declare your attacker dead at the scene from gunshot wounds to the head. You give the police a statement. You show them your shattered front door. The officers check the video security files in the apartment complex. They assume your attacker snuck in behind another resident or behind a guest who was visiting for Thanksgiving. The police take your firearm as evidence. You are not charged with a crime. Robyn- Like our earlier story, our defender knew that she had a greater risk of a home invasion, so she was prepared. Philadelphia crime rates are very high, so she bought a gun and had it with her in her home, even on Thanksgiving. She locked her doors so she knew who was in her home. She responded to a strange sound rather than excusing the sound as a noise from the party next door. She defended herself. She identified an armed, unavoidable threat, and she took action. Then stayed at the scene so the robber’s accomplice couldn’t change the evidence like grabbing the robber’s gun and running away with it. She got help on the way and she talked briefly with the officers when they arrived. Rob- The story says that the defender shot the attacker in the head. Talk about that. Robyn- Best practice is to aim for the largest target so we’re most likely to get the hits we need. On a human threat, that would be placing your sights at the heart/lungs area. However, your gun is going to be in your line of sight, which means you’re going to aim at what you’re looking at. In force-on-force scenarios, students often put rounds into the attacker’s hands because they are focused on the gun or other weapon. If the attacker had his gun in front of his face, then the defender may have shot towards the attacker’s gun and made impact into the head. That might have been where her eyes went in a moment of stress. There are times, however, when aiming at a smaller target like the head might be a better option than the torso. It’s good to take training classes to learn different scenarios and how to manage them. Rob- What would you tell your students to do as they clean up after Thanksgiving? Robyn- Get used to wearing your firearm in a holster on your body, and keep it on you while you’re going about your day… even as you do Thanksgiving dishes or put up your holiday decorations. The holidays bring out a lot of emotion in people, and can be difficult for some, leading to drinking in excess or substance abuse. This can lead to increased crime, so be prepared. Encourage your adult family members to also carry and be trained. Concealed carry should be a nonissue at your home, so that your guests know that you are armed, and that they can feel comfortable coming to your house while they are armed. Make sure you know the laws of your area so that you are in compliance as you move in and out of your home. If you need a carry permit to walk your guests out to their car, get one so that your lifestyle isn’t interrupted and you don’t have to take off your gun to do it. As we’ve said, have an emergency action plan. Know where you can find cover, or retreat to a back room and lock the door. We don’t know the precise details of this attack. Maybe she was shooting from her kitchen and it was safer to use the kitchen doorway as concealment than to retreat to the bedroom. Move out of sight (concealment), and behind something bulletproof (cover), so you are hard to shoot. Criminals can often get through security doors. Rob- How many of your students have a spare gun to use the next day? Robyn- If you use your firearm in an incident, it’s going to be seized into evidence by the police. Have another firearm to use for your concealed carry. Don’t become complacent and think that lightning can’t strike you twice. Always be ready to protect yourself and those you love. Rob- Where are we headed next? Robyn- Our third story happened in Granada Hills, California. Rob- First this message from Doctors for Responsible Gun Ownership DRGO https://drgo.us/ What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T.) The defender: Bought a gun and learned how to use it. Hopefully he had a plan. Brought his gun when he investigated a noise. Shot the intruder when he recognized an immediate, lethal and unavoidable threat. Shot the intruder in the head. Was that intentional or by accident? Best practices says we aim for upper center chest unless the bad guy is wearing body armor. Then we shoot for the head. Stopped shooting when the attack stopped. Did not chase the attacker. Called 911, put his gun away so he met the police with empty hands. He showed the broken door to the police and gave a statement. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T.) “Anyone. Anywhere. Anytime!” Criminals don’t take Thanksgiving off. Best practices says that if a person is alone and they think they are in danger, they should retreat to a defensible room, lock and barricade the doors, turn on the lights, call 911 and prepare to defend from cover or concealment. Going out to investigate means you are walking into an unknown situation with an unknown number of attackers. You don’t know where they are and if they are armed (usually they are.) Clearing a house by yourself is very dangerous and tactically unsound. Motion-detection cameras with sound cost less than $100. They are good for interiors as well as exteriors. Some even connect to your smart phone. Don’t forget to reinforce the home’s perimeter, doors and windows. Longer screws, larger striker plates and hurricane film on glass are cheap insurance policies that pay off bigtime. The police took the defender’s gun as evidence. This is a common practice. If there’s a trial, the defender may not see his gun again for months or even years. You need a back-up gun since the bad guy or his friends may come to visit you long before your gun is returned. And remember, many states require waiting periods or re-application of FOID cards before purchasing another gun. “Two is one and one is none.” Rob- Third story- Are you armed at home? (Youtube video) You’re at home. It is about 8pm and your security alarm says there was movement outside. You check the app on your phone and see three young men walking in your backyard. They are wearing hoodies, masks and gloves. You see them try to open your doors and windows. You try to call 911, but you can’t dial as you watch the intruders. You grab your gun. You see the intruders outside your back door. You move toward the door and shout at them. Then you open the door. Your attackers run when they hear the door open. You go outside and chase the robbers out of your yard. You go back inside and call 911. You are transferred to a non-emergency number. The police pick up the line after 45 minutes. You ask to file a report. Police never come to your address to retrieve the video or take a report. You look online and see a half dozen similar attacks to yours in the last month. The news calls them the Dinner Time Robberies. Tag- No Shots Fired Robyn- It’s good that our defender had the alarms, the app on his p…

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    Episode 334 with Andee Reardon Nov 22, 2023
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    Introduction- Rob- Welcome to episode 334 of Self-Defense Gun Stories. We’re glad you found us if you’re well trained.. and if you’re still learning about armed defense. I’m Rob Morse and we’re joined this week by firearms instructor Andee Reardon. A lot of things have happened in Maine since we’ve talked. Tell us about it. Andee Reardon Andee- Hey Rob! It’s been a while. I’ve been super busy with life and meeting the demand for training here in Maine after the active shooter situation in Lewiston. There’s a lot of people waking up to the fact that they are their own first responder and they want to be prepared to protect themselves. I had the honor to work with one of the women who survived the attack to teach her a handgun lesson and help her find the right firearm for her. She said she never wants to feel helpless again. How about you? Rob- I try and work out every day. I know you do too. Being fit lets us pay attention when we’re tired. How do we fit a gun to a new gun owner? Is it like a shoe salesman? Is it like an optometrist, the gun on your left, or the gun on your right? I’ve been dry practicing and I’m still waiting to get my gun from ATEI in Michigan. We didn’t have any new ratings or comments on iTunes. Again, I want to thank Roger for his help this week. We’re still looking for listeners who want to write or edit this podcast. All this can be yours. Andee- Please go to the iTunes store where you subscribe to podcasts and tell new gun owners why you listen. Here in the US, we defend ourselves with a firearm thousands of times a day. We look at a few recent news stories to see what we can learn. The links back to the original news articles are on our podcast webpage. Our first story took place last week in Chicago, Illinois. Rob- First story- Are you armed at work? You are working in a liquor store. It is late on a weekday night and you’re about to close the store. Two men come inside. One of them draws a gun and demands the money in the cash register. You back away. One of the robbers hits you in the head with a bottle. You present your firearm and shoot at your attackers until they run. You stay inside and call 911 for help. EMTs take you to the hospital in serious condition. Later, you give a statement to the police. It isn’t clear if you have security video. 8 liquor stores were robbed on the northside in the last month. Most stores are closing earlier. You are not charged with a crime. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T. Please do not make changes to these notes.) The defender knew that he had a dangerous job. He probably also knew that other stores in his area had been robbed so he decided to have a gun at work. The defender recognized an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation. The defender stayed in the fight even after he was injured.He presented his gun and shot at the attackers. The defender stopped shooting when the attackers turned and ran out of the store.The defender did not chase the attackers. He called 911 for help. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T. Please do not make changes to these notes.) The defender went through the process of getting a FOID card, buying a gun and learned how to use it. Maybe he had a license to carry as well. Hopefully, the defender had a plan since his job put him in danger on a daily basis. Did he visualize numerous possible scenarios in his mind in order to build his “Library of Responses”? That’s a critical step in inoculating himself to the effects of adrenaline and stopping the brain from freezing in a crisis. Creating a defensive plan in the middle of an attack is next to impossible. Could the defender have used “Tactical Patience” or distractions to keep from getting into a hand-to-hand confrontation? Could he have thrown the money on the floor or knocked a bottle off the counter as a distraction? Did the defender move as he drew his gun? The first rule of self-defense is not to get shot. Did the defender know close quarters techniques including retention shooting? Did the defender carry his gun on him or was the gun staged under the cash register? Why not both? Carry a small, highly concealable micro semi-automatic or revolver and also have a larger, double-stack pistol or short-barrel shotgun under the counter or in the back room. Multiple guns gives you many options. “Two is one, and one is none.” Once the robbers left, the clerk should have: locked all doors, moved any customers to safety and turned off all the interior lights so the returning attackers or their friends wouldn’t have easy targets. The threat is not over until the cops arrive. Make sure your hands are empty and visible when the police arrive. Holding a gun or a cell phone can get you shot. Andee- The defender probably saw the news and knew that other stores in his area had been robbed. Before the attack, he got his firearms owners ID card so he could go buy a gun. The night that he was attacked, he recognized an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation when the robbers presented a firearm and then hit him in the head with a bottle. If you doubt how serious that can be, then fill an empty wine bottle with water and go hit the side of a 2×4 with the side of the bottle. Look at the bruise on the wood and then figure out what that will do to your skull and to your brain. The defender stayed in the fight even after he was hit in the head. I teach my students, when it comes to life or death, quitting means game over. You fight and stay in it until you are safe. He presented his gun and shot at his attackers. He then stopped shooting when the attackers turned and ran out of the store. (This is a very important piece if you want to be seen as the good guy in the eyes of the law. You MUST stop shooting the moment the threat has ceased.) Rather than chase the bad guys, he stayed inside and called 911 for help. (You’re not superman or a police officer, it’s not your job to catch the bad guy.) Rob- Are there other things you want us to do that were not mentioned in the news reports? Andee- It is hard to get your carry permit in Chicago. It’s worth the trouble. I want him to have his carry permit so he can carry all the time, even when he carries trash out to the dumpster late at night. I want you to have a plan. It is like having a cheat sheet of options. Part of having a plan is also establishing limits that say what you’ll do and when you’ll do it. When will I yell stop when two customers come in looking like robbers? When will I present my gun and where will I move? What will I say? You have to walk through that plan often enough that your reactions are a habit rather than a thought. Situational training doesn’t have to always take place at the range. Walking through a scenario in your head creates neural pathways in your brain, allowing you to react quicker if you’re presented with a similar scenario in real life. Rob- Isn’t walking through your place of work the best simulator we could ask for? Andee- I can be, particularly if you have a co-worker who works through the scenario with you. Another thing I think of reading this story is “be careful about letting people into your danger zone” One of the attackers was close enough to hit the defender with a bottle. We should be very careful as to who we let in our bubble. I often show my students in class how fast someone can get to you from 25 feet away, about the same time it takes someone skilled to draw their firearm. Situational awareness should be warning us whenever someone is within that distance. We should be prepared to “move off the line” if the threat makes a charge. Could the defender have dropped the money tray and a bottle on the floor and backed away? That gives him a moment as the armed attackers are distracted. If you have to present your firearm, then I want you to move as you do. Don’t just stand in the open. Find cover. I want you to have close quarters practice so you can shoot without moving your firearm to full extension. That is accurate enough at short distances, and you don’t hand your gun to your attackers. You should practice hand-to-hand self defense techniques that will give you space to safely draw without your attacker taking your gun from you. I also want you to practice shooting from different positions. Learn to shoot while you’re crouched behind your sales counter. Can you make your counter bulletproof by covering the outside face with brick or stone? We also have to talk about the elephant in the room. Was the defender armed, or was the gun under the counter? I want you armed so you are protected. If you want to put a larger firearm under the counter that is fine too. You can also cache some non-lethal options like pepper spray are a great addition to your self defense tool box. Once the robbers left, the clerk still had some work to do. I want you to lock all doors. Move the customers to the back of the store and turn off all the interior lights so the returning attackers or their friends don’t have easy targets. Make sure your hands are completely empty when you unlock the door to let the police inside. And then make sure you and your witnesses know what to say, and what not to say. Rob- That is a lot to remember. Andee- It is, but you don’t learn it all at once. You are learning reactions rather than thoughts, and once the bad guys leave then you have a moment to think about what to do next. Even then, you’re choosing from a menu you’ve already rehearsed. Rob- We’re at home, at work, at school or out in public. It seems that we need a separate plan for each one. Andee- Yes and no. Most of the parts are the same or similar. What might change is our decision points. We’re more alarmed to a stranger walking into our home than we are to a stranger walking into a retail store. Rob- We’ve said a lot. Are you ready to go on? Andee- Our second story happened in Los Angeles, California. Rob- Second Story- Are you armed as you arrive home? You just drove home and closed the gate behind you. It is 7:30 in the evening and you walk up to your front door. Two men run up behind you. One of them pokes you in the back with his gun. You are carrying a soft drink cup in your hand. You throw your soft drink into the robber’s face and you step aside. You draw your firearm and shoot at your attackers. They run. The narrow walkway leading to your front door gives you no place to hide. You don’t chase your attackers down the street. You go inside and ask your wife to call 911. You also check on your daughter. Both of them are unhurt. You put your gun away. You give a statement to the police. You show them your carry permit and the home security video of the attack. They see your attackers jump over your front wall after you parked your car. You are not charged with a crime. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T. Please do not make changes to these notes.) The defender had a license to carry and he had his gun on him when he was attacked. When he realized that he was in an immediate, lethal and unavoidable situation he used throwing his drink at the attackers as a distraction. He also stepped aside. These actions broke the attacker’s OODA loop and gave the defender time to draw his gun. The defender did not chase the attackers. He went inside and had his wife call 911 while he checked on his family. The defender showed the police his home security video. Whenever possible, give the police a copy of your video and not the original. Video evidence gets damaged and misplaced so you need the original as a back-up. What would you tell your students to do (that the defender should have done)? (Bullet points by Roger T. Please do not make changes to these notes.) According to the news report, the defender was using earbuds when he was attacked. This reduced his situational awareness to only what he could see in front of him and gave the attackers the opportunity to put a gun to his back without being detected. When did the defender pull the trigger? Before or after the attackers turned and ran off? Did the attackers shoot back at the defender as they were running away? These are critical questions that need to be answered in order to determine if the defender’s shooting at the attackers was legally justified. Did the defender consult a lawyer before talking to the police? He should have. According to the news report, the defender made multiple statements to the media. This can determine whether you go to trial or not. Best practices says that you only give detailed statements to the police or the media through your lawyer. Whatever you say to the police or the media can be used against you. Andee- It isn’t directly mentioned in the story, but it implies that the defender’s front door was locked. That kept the attackers from simply pushing their way inside. The defender had a license to carry and he had his gun on him when he was attacked. I don’t like that he was distracted by earbuds, criminals are looking for targets who are unaware and earbuds put a big red target on your head. Don’t do that. Also, don’t go to condition white (unaware) as soon as you get home, you’re not home safe until you’re inside and safe. The defender recognized an attack and threw his drink at the attackers as a distraction. He also stepped aside. Those actions broke the attacker’s plans and gave the defender time and space to draw his gun and shoot. The defender did not chase the attackers. He went inside and had his wife call 911. He checked on his family and holstered his gun. The defender showed the police his home security video. Whenever possible, give the police a copy of your video and not the original. Video evidence gets damaged and misplaced so you need the original as a back-up for your lawyer. Rob- What else would you like us to do? Andee- The defender was startled and waited to shoot. We have several drills where we turn, present, and shoot. Like I said before, we need new habits. The defender talked to the news reporters and I want you not to do that. Talk to your lawyer and let your lawyer decide if he wants to talk to reporters. This defender has a long legal road ahead of him, we wish him the best and are happy he survived. Rob- Where are we headed next? Andee- Our third story happened in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Rob- First this message from FASTER Colorado. https://fastercolorado.org/ Rob- Third story- Are you armed at work? https://www.inquirer.com/crime/philadelphia-pizza-shop-shooting-robbery-20231105.html You work for your dad at a small pizza restaurant. It is Saturday night and it is dark outside. The evening rush has slowed down but there is still a lot to do. Two men come in and you get ready to take their order. Most people want their order To-Go. These two are wearing hoodies and masks. They are also wearing rubber surgical gloves. One of them draws a gun from his pants and shoots into the ceiling. The armed man moves behind the counter and pushes you out of the way to get to the cash register. You have no place to run. You draw your legally concealed firearm and shoot your attacker until he drops his gun. Now the attacker falls down. The other attacker runs from the store and you don’t shoot him. The news story doesn’t explain how you get out from behind the counter, but you stay at the scene and call 911. You put your gun away. You give a statement to the police. You identify other witnesses. They agree that the robber shot first. Your attacker died at the scene with several shots to the upper chest and head. Police are looking for security video from other stores in the area. You are not charged, but the police take both your gun and the attacker’s gun as evidence. What did our defender do correctly? (Bullet points by Roger T. Please do not make changes to these notes.) Pizza shops get robbed a lot. Fortunately, the defender was armed when he was robbed. POGO (Pants On… Gun On.…

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