Stay ConnectedDating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you’re swiping, healing, or somewhere in between…this is your show.
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I'm joined by Zoe Scurletis, host of Solace and the City, recent Sober queen, and soon-to-be therapist. Zoe opens up about making the decision to become sober, how it's impacted her mental health, and what it means for her dating life. We talk about situationships, what to do when someone says they're "not looking for something serious: or are working on themselves, closure, what we've learned in therapy, and more.
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Our favorite guys, Sam Panitch and Joey Lane, are back for another round of “Ask the Guys Anything.” This time we’re talking about who should pay (and if he wants you to reach for your wallet), what guys want to see on your dating app profiles, the right moment for a first kiss, and how to tell if he’s ghosting you. We discuss repeat matching with someone but never getting into a conversation, how to feel if your friend starts seeing someone from your past, the one that got away, and more.
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Follow Joey @thejoeylane on IG and @Joeysmoke14 on Twitter and check out Drive The Lane Podcast
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I can't believe I'm saying this...The Jonas Brothers are on today’s episode of Seeing Other People! I sit down with Nick, Joe, and Kevin Jonas to discuss their music, marriages, fatherhood, and brotherhood. They share the inspiration behind the lyrics and sound on The Album, their favorite memories as brothers and as a band, and which songs and venues they are most excited about performing on The Tour. We hear how becoming fathers has impacted them personally and professionally, how they overcame creative disagreements when working on The Album, what chapter of their personal growth journeys has had the biggest impact, and what relationship advice they would give us.
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Gigi Robinson, Chronic Illness Advocate, Creator Economy Speaker, and Author of A Kid’s Book About Chronic Illness, is back on the podcast a year and a half after her previous episode: “Chronically Single.” Gigi opens up about the inner work she did when she was single and for the spills the tea about her new relationship. We hear how she met her now boyfriend, what led her to feel comfortable with him, and what they’ve done to create a healthy foundation. We chat about building confidence, knowing your worth, balancing career and relationships, navigating insecurities, and more.
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I'm joined by Bianca, a 31-year-old single mother, and career-focused psychiatric registered nurse. Bianca opens up about how her previous heartbreaks led her down a path of introspective work and healing. She shares how she’s worked through codependency and her anxious attachment styles, and how she’s shaped her now-positive and healthy mindset around dating. Follow Bianca at @biancakoko on Instagram.
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Natalie Barbu, Youtuber, Founder of Rella, and Host of The Real Reel, joins the show today to talk all about ending a four-year-long relationship. We hear why things ended, her fears surrounding the breakup, and what it’s been like to get back out there. Natalie walks us through her healing process from day 1 through now, eight months later. She shares what helped her move on the most, moments where she had regrets about the breakup, and how she’s now having fun being single and enjoying her twenties without feeling pressure to find someone.
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This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around domestic violence and acts of physical and verbal abuse.
I’m joined by a woman who opens up about the abusive relationship that she was in. We hear how the relationship started, when things took a turn, whether or not she realized she was a victim of domestic violence, why she stayed with him for as long as she did, and what finally helped her leave.
If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, help is available. The National Domestic Hotline is here to listen with confidential support 24/7/365. Call 800-799-7233
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We have a solo episode this week! I’m sharing what has been upsetting me about modern dating and what I would do to change it if I had a magic wand. Later, I answer listener questions about whether or not we are limiting ourselves off by having specific things we’re looking for in a person, how to navigate having feelings for your best friend, and what to do when someone comes back two weeks after ending it.
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I’m joined by Taylor, a 24 year old woman living in Los Angeles who shares her experience dating with chronic health issues. Taylor’s life was turned upside down 2 years ago in a matter of 24 hours when she started experiencing what she now knows is long-COVID. Taylor opens up about dealing with her loss of identity, struggling to do certain physical activities on dates, having to reschedule dates because she’s not feeling well, and when/how to explain her diagnosis to someone new.
Get in touch with Taylor @taylorrumm on Instagram!
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Sam Panitch and Joey Lane are here to provide the male perspective on your burning dating questions and confusing scenarios. Sam and Joey share what they wish they could change about modern dating along with misconceptions women have about men when it comes to finding love. We answer listener questions about liking thirst traps on Instagram, why he likes your stories but doesn’t text you back, how long it takes for a guy to know if he wants something serious with you, if guys and girls can just be friends, and the best and worst questions asked on dates. Sam and Joey share whether or not they want a girl to text them thank you after a date, if it’s okay for a girl to text a guy first, and what it means if they take a long time to text you back. We discuss reconnecting with exes, how to tell if you’re being strung along, what to do if they don’t know what they’re looking for, and more.
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