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Ep. 33 | Should We Stick to Our "Type"? feat. Ace Metaphor Oct 14, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by special guest Ace Metaphor, creator of Tonight’s Conversation, for an insightful and provocative discussion on the complexities of modern dating, self-worth, and the evolving expectations of love in the digital age. The conversation opens with a reflection on relationship standards and the various types of partnerships people seek in 2025 [00:00], setting the stage for a deep dive into how social media and influencer culture shape public views on dating [00:54].

As the discussion unfolds, Ace Metaphor and Mandii explore the role of content creators in driving relationship conversations online [02:21], acknowledging both the empowerment and confusion that come from an oversaturated advice culture. They break down how viral relationship clips and podcasts have redefined gender roles, emotional intelligence, and expectations in dating [06:42], highlighting the tension between authenticity and performance in today’s social climate.

Transitioning into practical insights, the duo share honest dating advice for women navigating the modern landscape [12:18], emphasizing the importance of recognizing genuine interest, protecting emotional boundaries, and maintaining self-respect in situationships and long-term relationships alike. Their candid conversation serves as a reality check against performative dating trends, encouraging listeners to prioritize compatibility over validation[19:44].

The dialogue then turns to pop culture as they analyze Summer Walker’s recent dating decisions and how celebrity relationships mirror broader societal issues [25:47]. They question whether fame distorts the idea of love and explore the pressures that come with being in a public relationship, where every action is scrutinized through social media’s lens [30:28].

The episode deepens when Mandii and Ace dissect Aisha Curry’s comments about feeling overlooked in her marriage to Steph Curry, unpacking the weight of societal expectations placed on women to be fulfilled, desired, and self-assured all at once [34:15]. They candidly discuss how even successful women can experience insecurity and longing for validation [35:27], framing it as part of the broader human experience of vulnerability and growth[39:47].

From there, the conversation expands into the emotional process of healing after relationships [43:10], emphasizing that each breakup represents a chapter of self-discovery and evolution rather than a failure. Mandii and Ace reflect on how personal growth often requires confronting one’s own patterns and redefining identity outside of romantic attachments [50:00].

As the episode nears its conclusion, they discuss the role of public perception in shaping personal identity, especially for public figures whose love lives become fodder for entertainment [57:04]. They challenge listeners to embrace new beginnings without comparison, reminding them that every season of love—whether painful or joyful—contributes to building emotional resilience and clarity.

Blending humor, vulnerability, and social critique, this conversation between Mandii B and Ace Metaphor offers a refreshingly grounded perspective on love, self-worth, and growth in the era of digital relationships, making it an essential listen for anyone seeking to navigate modern dating with emotional intelligence and authenticity.

“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Diddy Sentencing, Captured Inmates & Body Count Lists | Bonus Episode Oct 10, 2025

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B invites her patrons for a lively and unfiltered Assembly of Classmates — an open discussion that blends current events, humor, and raw honesty. The conversation kicks off with introductions and setting the tone for the group’s engaging dialogue [00:00], before diving headfirst into the New Orleans jailbreak and the chaos that followed [02:50]. The group examines how crime, justice, and media narratives often collide, sparking debate over public perception versus personal accountability.

From there, the conversation pivots to the highly publicized Diddy sentencing, with Mandii and her patrons questioning whether the punishment fits the crime [06:10]. Through sharp commentary and witty exchanges, they unpack what justice looks like in a celebrity-driven culture, and how public opinion often influences legal outcomes.

Things take a provocative turn as the group addresses Cam Newton’s controversial request for a list of his partner’s past sexual partners [14:31]. This sparks an intense, funny, and revealing conversation about trust, transparency, and insecurity in modern relationships. The discussion deepens as they debate relationship standards and emotional baggage [34:58], moving into how people navigate secrets, pasts, and expectations with new partners [40:18].

As the dialogue unfolds, Mandii and the patrons examine the complexity of sexual history and double standards in dating [44:55], questioning whether full disclosure builds intimacy or fuels insecurity. The debate evolves into a broader reflection on judgment, dating preferences, and the pressure to uphold certain moral standards in modern society[50:05–55:47].

The episode then shifts into a heartfelt yet hilarious exploration of family dynamics and financial responsibility[01:00:08], where the group calls out the hypocrisy in parenting, relationships, and “doing it all” culture. Finally, they close with a thoughtful look at intentionality in relationships and parenthood [01:04:29], emphasizing that personal growth and honest communication are at the heart of healthy connections.

With a mix of real talk, laughter, and perspective, this Selective Ignorance bonus episode captures the essence of Mandii B’s community — candid conversations that challenge norms, encourage vulnerability, and remind listeners that learning through dialogue is the ultimate act of growth.

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Ep. 32 | Mental Health vs The Monster in Your Pocket Oct 07, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez unpack the powerful intersections between social media, mental health, and self-perception, exploring how digital culture shapes modern identity and relationships. The conversation opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before delving into the “monster in our pockets” — the pervasive influence of social media on mental health and self-worth [00:51].

They reflect on their experiences at the Sheen Magazine Awards, discussing the pressure to remain professional while navigating the blurred lines between celebrity culture and authenticity [04:59]. The team examines the evolving role of journalists and content creators in an age driven by viral narratives and online engagement [09:44], while also addressing how generational perspectives on work and mental health have shifted over time [20:03].

From there, the conversation turns to knowing your worth in the job market and how financial security can impact self-esteem and boundaries [29:31], leading into a broader discussion about relationships, self-value, and social media’s effect on connection and trust [30:30–31:29]. The hosts emphasize the importance of therapy and emotional growth, particularly for those battling internalized expectations and societal pressures [37:11].

As the dialogue deepens, they challenge traditional notions of masculinity and the stigmas surrounding men’s mental health [48:48], before highlighting the value of long-term vision over quick success in both personal and professional life [58:18].

The latter part of the episode takes a reflective turn as Mandii and her team discuss the hypocrisy surrounding money, morality, and integrity in entertainment [59:46], sparking debate about accepting funding from controversial sources— specifically in light of the Saudi Arabia Comedy Festival controversy [01:05:01]. They explore the broader cultural implications of comedy, free speech, and ethics in global entertainment [01:11:35–01:19:31], ultimately concluding that true growth comes from aligning one’s actions with their values, regardless of public perception.

This thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance offers an unfiltered look at how social media, money, and morality continue to shape modern consciousness — reminding listeners that integrity and balance remain the ultimate measures of success.

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If You Don't Have Nothing Nice To Say.... feat. Carla Wilmaris | Bonus Episode Oct 03, 2025

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by friend of the show Carla Wilmaris for a raw and thought-provoking conversation about abortion, parenting, relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape these decisions. The episode opens with [00:00] an introduction and book promotion, before shifting to [01:51] current events and personal opinions that set the stage for a deeper dive.

The hosts candidly address [04:57] abortion views and personal experiences, unpacking the stigma, complexities, and emotional realities of reproductive choices. From there, the discussion moves into [11:31] conversations around unprotected sex, highlighting the societal double standards and consequences that follow.

Celebrity culture enters the spotlight at [18:35] as Mandii and Carla react to Cardi B’s pregnancy controversy, examining how fame magnifies judgment and public opinion. This naturally leads to [26:23] judgment and parenting decisions, exploring how money, career, and outside scrutiny impact motherhood. The conversation then pivots to [29:05] the balancing act of motherhood and career, reflecting on how women navigate personal growth and societal expectations.

By [31:29], the dialogue shifts to relationships and their role in shaping personal growth, followed by [33:27] navigating time and life decisions that often come with compromise and sacrifice. The tension between [36:47] judgment vs. support in friendships takes center stage, where both hosts explore how empathy, communication, and honesty can either build or break trust.

The episode doesn’t shy away from the consequences of choices, unpacking [39:37] the fallout of poor decisions and [42:54] the power of empathy in communication. At [47:11], they expand the conversation to judgment in public life, connecting personal stories to the broader cultural dialogue. Finally, the episode closes at [57:39] with thoughts on growth, understanding, and self-reflection, leaving listeners with the encouragement to reconsider how judgment, support, and experience shape their own views.

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Ep. 31 | Public Outrage: Freedom of Speech, Superbowl & Tylenol feat. Carla Wilmaris Sep 30, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by special guest Carla Wilmaris for a thought-provoking conversation that weaves together freedom of speech, friendship dynamics, faith, and cultural identity. The discussion opens with a celebration of five years of voices and the platform’s growth [00:00], before diving into the challenges surrounding freedom of speech in today’s climate [00:55].

From there, Mandii and Carla reflect on the dynamics of friendship and how differing perspectives can create both friction and growth [02:49], as well as how contrasting upbringings shape personal views [05:58]. This leads into a candid exploration of navigating public opinion while maintaining personal expression [08:46], highlighting the emotional toll of public scrutiny in a social media-driven world [12:10]. The hosts further explore the complexities of free speech and its societal implications [15:04].

The conversation then shifts to religion and faith, examining the role of hope in religion as a source of resilience[17:50]. They unpack how faith can be misinterpreted or misused [30:44], while also acknowledging the importance of hope and belief systems as personal anchors [39:46] [43:21]. The dialogue also addresses the struggles of navigating faith and doubt in modern society [50:21].

The episode takes a sharper turn as Mandii and Carla reflect on public figures and their influence on health perceptions, including the controversy around Trump’s statements on autism [51:20] and the intersection of autism awareness with pharmaceutical interests [59:47].

The discussion closes by examining cultural identity and representation in media, including the anticipation surrounding Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl performance and its broader cultural significance [01:02:33].

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Ep. 30 | We Need Gate Keepers: The State of Music feat. Wayno Sep 23, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and former music executive and media personality Wayno for a deep dive into the state of hip hop, R&B, and the ever-changing music industry. The conversation begins with an introduction and book promotion [00:00] before moving straight into a breakdown of the current state of hip hop and R&B and how the Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar feud has shaped cultural conversations [00:55].

The crew then examines the cultural pulse of media and marketing and how these forces influence public perception of artists [02:20]. Drawing from their own careers, the hosts share personal experiences in media and content creation, highlighting both the opportunities and challenges of today’s digital-first environment [05:52].

The discussion turns to the role of gatekeeping in media—a double-edged sword that can both protect and limit access for artists [19:36]. From there, they reflect on the dynamics of Dreamville and the importance of industry relationships, exploring how collaboration, reputation, and authenticity shape success [32:21]. This naturally transitions into a broader conversation about navigating industry relationships and staying true to one’s voice [39:25].

As the conversation develops, the panel revisits the topic of gatekeeping in the music industry and how it affects rising talent [41:44], before diving into one of the most debated questions in culture: what defines the “Song of the Summer”?[42:09]. They unpack how streaming, TikTok, and changing audience habits have altered how hits are made and sustained.

From there, they explore the evolution of music promotion and artist visibility in a landscape oversaturated with content [59:51], followed by a discussion on the state of R&B festivals and whether the genre’s live presence reflects its cultural impact [01:05:04]. They then critique the oversaturation of media and music, stressing the importance of differentiation and strategy for artists [01:08:23].

The episode also tackles the changing metrics in the music industry [01:12:28] and how the obsession with numbers affects music perception and success [01:16:39]. From there, they highlight the tension between cultural impact and artist recognition [01:21:22], offering perspective on how audiences, critics, and platforms assign value in today’s fragmented landscape.

The conversation closes with reflections on navigating the modern music business [01:26:04] and why leverage is one of the most important tools artists can have in today’s industry [01:30:26].

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Ep. 29 | Public Outrage: Young Thug, Carmelo Anthony & Charlie Kirk feat. Ray Daniels Sep 16, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and returning guest Ray Daniels for a thought-provoking exploration of pop culture, accountability, and the current state of society. The conversation kicks off with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before moving into a sharp dissection of today’s biggest pop culture headlines [00:55].

From there, the hosts dive into the art of public apologies and accountability [02:44], reflecting on how controversial perspectives on relationships continue to shape both personal dynamics and public perception [05:14]. This leads into a larger discussion on the role of social media and how it amplifies — and sometimes distorts — public discourse [08:59].

The episode then shifts into rap culture, beginning with an honest breakdown of hip hop and street culture’s current state [13:48], followed by an in-depth look at Young Thug’s leaked jail calls and what they reveal about celebrity, loyalty, and consequences [18:44]. Relationship dynamics return to the forefront through the lens of Mariah the Scientist’s public narrative [24:32], before the group pauses for reflections and conclusions on how these conversations connect back to accountability and cultural responsibility [29:52].

As the dialogue expands, they explore the ecosystem of confidence and leadership and how it influences both individuals and communities [33:07]. The conversation also examines the evolution of language and shifting social norms [36:09], before celebrating athletic achievements like Carmelo Anthony’s Hall of Fame speech as part of a broader narrative about legacy and inspiration [37:33].

In its final stretch, the episode tackles the complexity of relationships and public perception [40:44], the impact of political narratives and violence — including the controversial killing of Charlie Kirk [45:05] — and ends with a powerful reflection on empathy, accountability, and the real-world consequences of opinions in today’s hyperconnected society [50:35].

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Ep. 28 | Can We All Form Our Own Opinions feat. Ish and Barry Sep 09, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by returning guests Ish from the (Joe Budden Podcast) and Barry for a dynamic conversation unpacking the state of modern discourse and the way culture, technology, and gender shape how we think. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00] before diving into the rise of parasocial relationships and how echo chambers created online influence how people interact and form opinions [00:56].

From there, the hosts explore the ongoing struggles women face in society [03:47], examining how criticism often intersects with gender and the broader challenges of having one’s voice heard [08:07]. This leads into a larger reflection on the importance of healthy discourse [11:49] and the difficulty of maintaining objectivity in an era dominated by social media [14:41].

The conversation then shifts to the role of algorithms in shaping information consumption [18:00] and how audiences balance education and entertainment when engaging with digital platforms [21:50]. They also dissect the outsized influence of celebrity culture on perceptions of success [24:55], while stressing the importance of forming independent opinions amidst the noise [28:35].

As emotions naturally play a role in these exchanges, the group discusses how to navigate emotional responses in conversations [31:59] and the growing impact of AI in shaping both information and content creation [35:36]. This sets the stage for a thoughtful breakdown of how wealth and success are often perceived [39:39], alongside a deeper discussion on music, culture, and representation in media [43:48].

The episode concludes with a reflection on why critical thinking is more essential than ever [47:44], tying together the themes of information overload, digital culture, and societal growth before closing with final thoughts [51:35].

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Ep. 27 | Cash, Culture & Cancelled CEO's feat. Ish & Barry Sep 02, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B along with special guest Ish (Joe Budden Podcast) and Barry dive into a wide range of conversations that span parenting, community empowerment, dating, and cultural accountability. The discussion kicks off with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before exploring how sports reflect parenting dynamics and family values [00:52]. From there, the focus shifts to the power of community gatherings like Invest Fest [03:59] and a critique of how success is measured and celebrated in those spaces [08:40].

The dialogue then turns to the complexities of dating in modern society, beginning with expectations and shifting dynamics [11:52], leading into a deeper debate around reparations versus equity for the Black community [19:26]. The hosts also examine the challenges of transactional dating and the shifting roles of gender within these relationships [28:07].

As the conversation expands, they connect these personal and social themes to broader cultural issues, including the intersection of politics and cultural narratives [41:59]. The episode concludes with a powerful reflection on corporate accountability, the role of boycotts, and the impact of the Black dollar in shaping systemic change [52:59].

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Black Cult Classics | Bonus Episode Aug 29, 2025

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by A-King and Jayson Rodriguez for a dynamic deep dive into the world of Black cult classics—films that continue to shape culture, conversation, and identity across generations.

The episode kicks off with an introduction to the concept of Black cult classics [00:00], before unpacking what truly defines a “classic” in this space [02:52].Together, they examine the cultural impact and the power of representation in film [05:53], while also spotlighting the role of actors and directors in pushing stories forward [09:04]. The discussion explores how genres within Black cinema have evolved [11:55], touching on the controversial legacy of Blaxploitation [14:44] and Eddie Murphy’s groundbreaking influence in the 1980s [17:44].

The conversation then shifts to the 1990s, celebrated as a golden era for Black films [21:05], followed by a lively debate on quality versus cult status [23:49]. After reflecting on how these dynamics continue to shape the future of Black cinema [27:04], the trio engages in a spirited comparison of “hood films” and “love films” [40:02], before branching into discussions on other genres like comedy, biopics, and more [42:48].

Romance and dramedy emerge as critical forces in shaping narratives around Black love and identity [46:32], while Tyler Perry’s controversial reign in Black film becomes a focal point [50:13]. This naturally leads into a comparison of Spike Lee and Tyler Perry’s distinct legacies [54:40], and a spotlight on the new generation of filmmakers such as Ryan Coogler and Jordan Peele [01:01:14].

The group also unpacks the complex role of slave movies in Black cinema [01:07:22], questioning their place in shaping narratives of identity and history. Finally, they close the episode on a playful note with a game of “How Many Black Movies Have You Seen?” [01:09:47], blending nostalgia, critique, and cultural appreciation. This episode highlights the enduring impact of Black films and the ongoing journey of representation, storytelling, and ownership in Hollywood.

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Ep. 26 | The Orange Cheeto and State Policies feat. Mama Tammi Aug 26, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with her mother for a heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation that blends politics, personal experiences, and the emotional truths of American history. The discussion opens with Jay Hill’s book promotion and introduction [00:00], before transitioning into a wide-ranging overview of today’s chaotic political landscape [00:55].

From there, Mandii and her mother dive into the role of family dynamics in shaping political conversations [03:20] and reflect on how personal experiences inform political awareness [05:07]. The emotional weight of American history surfaces throughout the dialogue, with moments of reflection on what it means to carry generational trauma and resilience [11:28]. This naturally leads into how racial identity shapes political outlooks [12:52] and the generational differences that often determine levels of engagement and activism [15:41].

The conversation also examines how media consumption influences political awareness [18:07], and they break down state-level politics with humor and critique—from Florida’s “Alligator Alcatraz” [21:34] to Texas’ “Deportation Depot” [30:22]. These regional deep dives segue into an unflinching look at the prison system and political corruption [32:42], as well as the troubling persistence of corporal punishment in schools [39:21].

In the later portion of the episode, Mandii and her mother discuss the implications of recent legislation on gender and sexual orientation [56:39], and close with reflections on current events unfolding in Washington, D.C. [59:49].

Through candid storytelling and honest exchange, this episode underscores the ways politics are deeply personal—shaped by identity, family, and history—while reminding listeners of the urgent need to stay informed, engaged, and ready to hold systems accountable.

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Ep. 25 | Public Outrage: Man Abusers, Rap Lyrics and Contradictions feat. Jay Hill Aug 19, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B welcomes Jay Hill for an in-depth exploration of public outrage, gender roles, and the layered dynamics of domestic violence. The conversation begins with Jay sharing his journey and book promotion [00:00], before diving into the culture of selective outrage and how gender roles shape public perception [00:49]. They reflect on celebrity accountability [04:11], concert experiences, and the divide between artist popularity and audience reaction [07:00].

The dialogue then turns toward the state of R&B and hip-hop [13:04], with Mandii and Jay highlighting how artists like Kendrick Lamar and SZA influence the industry, while also weaving in personal experiences and encounters with celebrities [18:01]. This leads to a candid discussion on interview aspirations and the ethical dilemmas of platforming controversial figures [21:45].

From there, the conversation deepens into justice, consequences, and responsibility [28:44]. Mandii and Jay explore the ripple effects of violence [39:05], the layered complexity of domestic abuse cases [46:26], and the role of restraint in relationships [52:24]. Sha’Carri Richardson’s recent arrest serves as a case study to unpack how gender and violence intersect in the public eye.

The episode closes with cultural reflections—how comedy influences social norms and Ari Lennox’s critique of its ties to colorism [01:05:39], and why society must prioritize unlearning and accountability [01:13:07].

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Ep. 24 | Sexual Liberation vs Conserative Black Women feat. Ashley Cobb Aug 12, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with sex educator and podcast host Ashley Cobb for an unfiltered deep dive into the layers of women’s autonomy, sexual liberation, and the societal pressures that keep trying to police both.

They open the episode [00:00], framing the conversation around sexual autonomy and the power that comes with owning your narrative. By [01:23], they’re unpacking the pendulum swing of women’s rights and how quickly public opinion shifts. At [03:19], the spotlight turns to the role of men in these conversations—whether they’re allies, obstacles, or just awkward bystanders.

Ashley shares her Essence Fest experience at [04:39], revealing the branding challenges that still exist in spaces meant to celebrate Black women. The conversation at [10:15]dives into the tug-of-war among women themselves, followed by a candid breakdown at [12:36] of how societal expectations complicate sexual liberation. By [16:19], it’s time to decide—do you double down on your truth or take it back to appease others?

From [19:57] to [28:11], Mandii and Ashley explore sexual exploration, relationship dynamics, and the sometimes messy intersections of past connections. The complexity deepens at [35:05] with a discussion on accountability within the Me Too movement, leading into [38:28] on power dynamics in relationships and [41:21] on the nuanced lines between consent and victimhood.

At [46:04], they assess the lasting impact of the Me Too movement before shifting to [52:18], where workplace dynamics and gendered expectations get scrutinized. By [55:44], historical context steps in to remind listeners that these struggles didn’t start yesterday, and at [01:01:27], the conversation looks ahead to the future of sexual liberation. They close at [01:07:52] with generational perspectives on sexuality and what younger voices are bringing to the table.

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No Holes Barred: Owning Your Power | Bonus Episode Aug 08, 2025

In this special bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a heartfelt conversation on the many ways people discover, protect, and reclaim their personal power. 00:00 The episode opens with reflections on what power means and how it shapes growth. 02:54 The discussion moves into the journey of finding personal power, before exploring 05:45 the role financial independence plays in building confidence and autonomy. 08:41 Mandii and her guests unpack self-love and body confidence, while 12:04 dives into navigating relationship expectations in a modern dating landscape.

14:53 They discuss the importance of honesty in dating, followed by 17:43 powerful personal stories of overcoming abuse. 20:33 The group reflects on how past relationships can leave lasting marks, leading into 23:57 an examination of emotional and psychological abuse. 26:39 The conversation shifts to empowerment through self-discovery, and 29:40emphasizes the importance of creating your own narrative.

From there, 32:22 they address the nonlinear nature of healing, 35:33 the role of community and support in that process, and 38:26 how embracing change can be a catalyst for growth. 41:23 The group highlights the power of self-reflection, before 44:41 redefining success and happiness on one’s own terms. Finally, 47:17 the episode closes with future aspirations and reminders that the journey to empowerment is deeply personal, yet universally resonant.

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Ep. 23 | Pay Us What You Owe Us feat. Giovonnie Samuels & Sy Ari Aug 05, 2025

On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by actress Giovonnie Samuels and rapper Sy Ari to unpack the layered relationship between self-worth and market value across entertainment, sports, and media.

The conversation kicks off with a distinction between personal value and perceived value in professional spaces (02:37), touching on the importance of negotiating with clarity and intention—whether you’re in a boardroom or on a basketball court.

From there, the trio dives deep into the realities of contracts (16:55), the cultural and economic factors behind the WNBA's ongoing pay disparities (36:01), and the larger systems that define how labor is valued in male-dominated industries like sports and music (52:20).

They also explore how cultural impact often doesn't align with compensation (54:37), especially as new dynamics like NIL deals reshape college sports (56:55). The discussion expands to Joe Budden’s controversial business approach (59:42), the evolving economics of podcasting and creator-led media (01:03:23), and what fair pay looks like for creatives (01:09:21).

In the latter half, Mandii and guests shed light on residuals for TV actors (01:17:40), the historic exploitation of child actors (01:23:51), and why knowing your worth—and demanding it—is an act of survival in an industry that rarely plays fair (01:29:50).

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No Holes Barred: From Side Chick to Self-Love | Bonus Episode Aug 01, 2025

On this week's bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes you on a deeply personal journey through sexual liberation, self-reflection, and the evolving dynamics of love. She begins by discussing what personal progression looks like beyond appearances [00:00], before unpacking the emotional layers of shame, regret, and how they fuel growth [02:57].

The conversation dives into the interplay of money, sex, and self-worth, exploring how transactional relationships shaped her self-perception [05:49], and the emotional complexity behind romantic entanglements and blurred boundaries [08:44]. Mandii reflects on past choices that once carried guilt but now serve as milestones of learning[11:59].

She candidly shares her experience as a side chick [14:51] and how it informed her understanding of love, betrayal, and resilience [17:47]. Vulnerability becomes a source of strength as she explores how openness can lead to empowerment[20:43], especially when revisiting the imprint of past relationships [23:41].

Through stories of heartbreak [26:34] and hard-earned lessons about the role money plays in intimacy [29:10], Mandii moves toward a place of self-acceptance and grace [32:13]. She emphasizes the power of setting boundaries in romantic and personal growth [35:08], and navigates the nuanced realities of non-monogamous dynamics [37:42].

The episode closes with a reflective chapter on loss, letting go, and the love that remains after the end [40:53]—reminding listeners that healing, though messy, is also transformational.

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Ep.22 | A.I. Takeover Jul 29, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B alongside Jayson Rodriguez and A-King explore the sweeping impact of artificial intelligence on our daily lives. The conversation begins with an overview of AI's rapid evolution and influence across industries[00:00], followed by reflections on recent current events and the collective processing of death [02:50]. The hosts then navigate the nuances of workplace relationships and the importance of setting boundaries [06:10].

They shift into a debate around the controversial “T App” and its implications on dating and digital consent [09:02], before unpacking how AI is reshaping everything from communication to creative work [11:52]. The discussion widens to examine the future of autonomous vehicles and what it means for transportation as we know it [41:25], including a closer look at how automation is changing customer service experiences [46:49].

The collective also dives into AI’s role in consumer pricing, surveillance capitalism, and corporate accountability[53:16], and questions how political lobbying is influencing AI regulation and public policy [57:36]. In the final stretch, they explore AI’s presence in the music industry and whether it can ever replicate true human connection[01:02:44], closing out with a reflection on capitalism, automation, and the existential anxiety that often comes with technological advancement [01:20:05].

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No Holes Barred: The Consequences of Sex | Bonus Episode Jul 25, 2025

In this emotionally layered bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a courageous conversation around the realities of sexual exploration, trauma, and the path to healing. With vulnerability at the forefront, the discussion leans into the complicated truths of consent, abortion, and sexual assault, centering personal stories as both testimony and release.

[00:00] The episode opens with a raw unpacking of the emotional and physical consequences that can come with early sexual exploration, including how societal pressures and lack of proper education shape formative experiences.

[19:52] The conversation shifts toward the topic of abortion, with the hosts reflecting on how personal choice is often weighed down by shame, judgment, and unspoken grief.

[32:28] Childhood memories and family dynamics are revisited, illuminating how early emotional environments influence later relationships, self-worth, and personal boundaries.

[35:48] The topic of abortion returns through the lens of cultural and societal expectations, calling out the stigmas that persist and the silence they impose.

[37:52] The discussion deepens with an unflinching look at the impact of sexual assault and the long shadow it can cast, exploring how trauma affects intimacy, trust, and identity.

[48:45] As the episode closes, the conversation comes full circle—examining how childhood wounds, both seen and unseen, often reemerge in adult relationships, and how acknowledging those wounds is the first step toward healing.

At its core, this episode is a powerful reminder that healing is nonlinear, often messy, but always possible. Through open dialogue, self-reflection, and empathy, Selective Ignorance offers a safe space for reclaiming power, rewriting narratives, and finding strength in the process.

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Ep. 21 | New Media vs. Journalism feat. Jason "Jah" Lee Jul 22, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by returning guest Jason "Jah" Lee to examine the shifting media landscape in an age where entertainment and information constantly blur. Together, they unpack the complexities of new media’s rise and its disruptive effect on traditional journalism, while spotlighting the evolving roles of media personalities.

[00:00] The conversation opens with a look at how new media has reshaped the delivery and consumption of news, especially in communities of color. [02:23] As the hosts navigate the current chaos of information, they question how audiences filter through noise and discern truth.

[08:45] Jah reflects on his own journey in media, offering perspective on how careers in the field have evolved—from newsroom standards to platform-driven influence. [14:43] They explore the tensions between accountability and audience demand, particularly in the overlap between media and celebrity culture.

[21:34] The duo dives into the power of headlines, clickbait, and how virality often outweighs accuracy in shaping public opinion. [36:45] They touch on the battle for attention across social media, and how algorithmic trends impact not only what we see, but how we feel.

[38:42] The Diddy trial becomes a case study, sparking conversation about media coverage, editorial choices, and public perception. [42:14] From there, the dialogue expands to the changing standards of journalism, asking whether objectivity still matters—or ever did.

[45:46] Mandii and Jah reflect on how people consume content today, and how much responsibility lies with the audience versus the creators. [49:45] The concept of attention as a new form of currency is explored, with virality being the measure of influence rather than credibility.

[54:15] They also consider how identity plays into the creation and reception of media, especially when physical appearance or charisma skews the audience's trust. [01:00:39] As they round out the discussion, they assess how creators navigate the ever-changing media terrain, balancing truth, impact, and engagement.

**[01:04:36] The episode closes with a critical question: In a time of memes, reels, and TikToks—**what actually defines media today? And are we consuming to be informed or simply entertained?

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No Holes Barred: Ignorance in Pleasure | Bonus Episode Jul 18, 2025

In this special bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B turns the spotlight on the pleasure chapter of her book, No Holes Bared, opening up a candid and empowering conversation about the importance of pleasure education—especially for women navigating a world full of mixed messages around sex and self-worth.

[00:00] The episode kicks off with a deep dive into what pleasure education really means, why it's often overlooked, and how reclaiming that knowledge can be transformative. Mandii reflects on her own journey, offering personal stories about her upbringing and how early relationships shaped her views on intimacy and self-acceptance.

[13:01] As she unpacks the challenges of early adulthood, Mandii speaks openly about learning to prioritize her own needs, emotionally and physically, in relationships. [27:11] The conversation turns to self-pleasure and sexual exploration, emphasizing the role these experiences play in developing confidence, body autonomy, and emotional clarity.

[27:41] A moment of unexpected connection leads into a broader discussion on safety and trust, especially when trying new things. [28:10] Mandii shares how learning to set boundaries helped her feel empowered, not only in intimate moments but in life at large. [29:57] The episode explores how past relationships can influence future choices, highlighting the ways personal growth often stems from heartbreak and healing.

[31:34] Mandii breaks down what it really means to “shoot your shot”, revealing how confidence, fear of rejection, and vulnerability all play a part in pursuing what (or who) you want. [35:40] The conversation expands into sexual liberation, exploring the delicate balance between exploration and setting personal boundaries. [41:19] Mandii contextualizes these experiences within cultural norms, especially the stigmas that often shape women’s understanding of pleasure and sexuality.

[47:20] The episode closes with reflections on how relationships—romantic, platonic, and with oneself—continue to evolve, and how embracing pleasure, in all its forms, is a key part of that growth.

This episode is a personal and powerful reminder that pleasure is not just about sex—it’s about agency, curiosity, healing, and joy.

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Ep. 20 | Purple Party: Can You Be a Pro-Black Republican? Jul 15, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B dives into the often polarizing and deeply personal topic of politics within the Black community. [00:00] The episode begins by framing the conversation around the growing alignment with Republican ideologies, setting the stage for an honest exploration of what’s behind these shifting political identities.

[02:51] The hosts unpack the tension many Black voters feel—caught between traditional party loyalties and dissatisfaction with how their needs have been addressed. [06:11] Guests Carla Will Maris and Ray Daniels join the conversation, bringing their own experiences and perspectives on what it means to claim a political identity in today’s climate.

[08:48] A spirited debate unfolds around personal responsibility and the impact of supporting certain policies, with each speaker challenging assumptions and raising hard questions about where values and interests intersect. [11:47] The discussion moves into the terrain of trans rights and gender identity, exploring how these issues have become lightning rods in political discourse and what real allyship requires.

[14:56] The hosts consider the role of media in shaping public perception, examining how narratives are constructed—and manipulated—to sway opinions and reinforce division. [17:45] Abortion and women’s rights take center stage next, with an honest look at the stakes for marginalized communities when reproductive freedom is politicized.

[20:56] The conversation broadens to the intersection of race, gender, and politics, unpacking how layered identities shape not only individual beliefs but also the collective priorities of the Black community. Finally, [23:47] reflections on the importance of civic engagement and understanding diverse perspectives, even—and especially—when they challenge our own.

This episode is a reminder that political alignment is never just about party lines. It’s about history, identity, and the courage to wrestle with uncomfortable truths in search of progress.

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Selective Ignorance R&B Debates | Bonus Episode Jul 11, 2025

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by music journalist Jayson Rodriguez and cultural curator A-King for a deep, soulful dive into the world of R&B. [00:00] The conversation kicks off with a look at R&B’s cultural impact, tracing how the genre has served as both a mirror and a balm for generations of listeners.

[03:08] The trio explores the evolution of R&B within the music industry, from its gospel and soul roots to its intersections with pop and hip-hop. They reflect on [06:01] what truly defines R&B, arguing that the emotional depth, lived experience, and vulnerability in the music are what make it timeless.

[08:48] The discussion shifts to the role of media in shaping R&B’s visibility, and how the genre’s presence has changed on major platforms. From there, they break down [12:07] today’s R&B landscape, spotlighting emerging artists, and asking whether the genre is truly experiencing a renaissance—or if it’s still fighting for space.

[15:00] Hip-hop’s influence on R&B comes into focus, both as a source of collaboration and creative tension. [17:48] Nostalgia enters the chat as the group reminisces about classic sounds, beloved groups, and the feeling that something essential has been lost in the transition to modern trends.

[20:40] They dig into the evolution of vocal standards, noting how raw vocal ability has often taken a back seat to aesthetics and production polish. That leads into [23:53] a conversation about the challenges and opportunities shaping R&B’s future—from streaming culture to label support and artist independence.

The episode doesn’t shy away from nuance. [38:47] They unpack the shift from "thug love" to hyper-masculinity in male R&B, questioning what this means for intimacy and expression. [42:29] The aesthetic evolution of artists—from fashion to persona—gets its own spotlight, while [44:24] nostalgia and critiques of the genre’s supposed "decline" add further layers to the dialogue.

[50:20] The conversation turns to women in R&B, debating whether they're thriving or still being boxed in by industry expectations. As the energy rises, the group shares their dream lineups for [54:36] future R&B tours and collaborations, imagining what a curated revival could look like.

To wrap things up, they discuss [01:00:29] the legacy of R&B through the lens of underrated and overrated albums, and [01:09:26] share their predictions and hopes for the future of the genre—highlighting artists to watch, sonic shifts on the horizon, and the timeless power of R&B when done right.

This episode is a love letter, a critique, and a call to action for anyone who’s ever had their heart healed by a hook or a harmony.

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Ep. 19 | Welcome To Black Effect Jul 08, 2025

Selective Ignorance, Welcome To Black Effect! Mandii B invites listeners into her world with a personal look at the journey behind her new book. [00:00] The episode opens with a candid introduction and book promotion, where Mandy shares the inspiration behind the project and the mission she hopes it will accomplish. [02:22] She revisits the purpose of the podcast itself, and the podcast officially joining the Black Effect Podcast Network emphasizing her commitment to challenging conventional thinking and sparking honest dialogue.

[04:48] Mandy talks about the challenges she faced launching the book, including moments of underestimation and the lessons learned about standing firm in her truth despite outside noise. The conversation then shifts in tone as she recounts [08:10] her experiences traveling through the South of France, blending reflections on self-discovery with stories about cultural encounters and personal growth.

The episode introduces [19:35] a brand new segment, “Double Down or Take It Back,” where Mandy revisits her own past opinions and decides whether she still stands by them or has changed her perspective. This honest exercise in self-accountability sets the tone for the deeper topics that follow.

[29:21] The discussion moves into a powerful exploration of sexual assault and consent, where Mandy and her team unpack how societal norms often fail survivors and protect those in power. They examine the importance of clear boundaries, the role of culture in shaping perceptions of consent, and why accountability must be more than a buzzword.

[39:19] The conversation continues with a look at accountability in relationships, focusing on how both partners must own their part in unhealthy patterns while working toward healing. Mandy shares insights on how personal experiences have shaped her views and how growth often requires facing uncomfortable truths.

Toward the close, [52:47] the episode broadens into political commentary, with Mandy weighing in on current events and cultural shifts happening in real time. Finally, [01:10:58] she offers predictions about the unfolding Diddy trial, reflecting on the complicated intersections of celebrity culture, power, and public perception.

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Introducing: Selective Ignorance with Mandii B Jul 07, 2025

Selective Ignorance with Mandii B is now on The Black Effect Podcast Network. New episodes dropping every Tuesday.

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Ep. 18 | Geographical Ignorance feat. Sy Ari da Kid Jun 10, 2025

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by personality, podcaster, and Atlanta transplant Sy Ari Da Kid for a spirited, sometimes ignorant—but always intentional—debate on the cultural divide between the North and the South, specifically New York and Atlanta. The conversation unpacks everything from fashion, food, and regional etiquette to politics, gun laws, and religion, all through a lens of lived experience. The hosts challenge one another on cultural bias, safety, and identity, while drawing bold comparisons between figures like Jay-Z, Martin Luther King Jr., and Pop Smoke. With A-King and Jason Rodriguez weighing in, the crew ultimately attempts to settle the score on which region has had the greatest impact on the culture. It’s hilarious, heated, and honest.
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Ep. 17 | Can Women Be Held Accountable For Picking Sh***y Partners feat. Carla Wilmaris Jun 03, 2025

In this introspective and candid episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B turns the spotlight on the often uncomfortable—but necessary—conversation around accountability in relationships. Specifically, she explores the ways women sometimes overlook glaring red flags in pursuit of love, security, or validation, and how societal expectations can blur the lines between empathy and accountability.
The episode begins with [00:00] an overview of accountability and relationship choices, inviting listeners to reflect on how early influences and personal history shape who we love—and why. [02:51] Mandii breaks down what red flags actually look like, why they're often ignored, and how our desire for connection can cloud our judgment. [06:02] The conversation shifts to how men and women pursue love differently, highlighting the pressures women face to “make it work,” even when the odds are against them.
Then, at [09:06] Mandii unpacks manipulation in dating, particularly the subtle financial and emotional tactics that can create long-term harm. Using [12:00] current events involving Skai Jackson and Halle Bailey, Mandii examines how the public reacts to young women in the spotlight choosing partners who may not be ideal—and how those reactions often lack the nuance and compassion real healing requires.
[15:02] The complexity of young love is laid bare, alongside [17:57] the challenge of balancing empathy for someone’s circumstances with accountability for their choices. Mandii explores [20:48] how age and experience change our perspective, making it easier to spot patterns and avoid repeating mistakes. In a refreshing turn, [23:53] the show takes a moment to celebrate healthy and unexpected love stories, like those of Cardi B and Stefon Diggs, before returning to [27:09] the individual journey of healing, therapy, and growth that precedes real connection.
By [34:51] the episode dives into emotional triggers, self-awareness, and the role of past traumas in how we show up in relationships. Mandii reflects deeply on [37:53] the societal narratives placed on women, especially around responsibility for making relationships work, and the burden of emotional labor. [40:38] Financial manipulation and power dynamics are explored next, emphasizing how money can be used as both bait and weapon in modern dating. That leads into [43:54] an honest discussion about the consequences of ignoring warning signs, even when they’re flashing bright red.
[50:53] Mandii shares personal experiences and stories of growth, laying out the uncomfortable but necessary truth: healing often requires accountability—not just for others, but for ourselves. Finally, [01:04:52] the episode closes on a hopeful note, reflecting on the human desire to be loved and how true fulfillment starts with self-completion, not partnership.
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Ep. 16 | Diddy aka Did He or Did She feat. Jason "Jah" Lee May 27, 2025

In this powerful and necessary conversation on Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by special guest Jason "Jah" Lee (Bossip, CNN) alongside A-King and Jayson Rodriguez take a close look at the ongoing Diddy trial and the broader conversations it has sparked around consent, abuse, and accountability—especially when wealth and celebrity are involved.
The episode opens with a personal [00:00] introduction and book announcement, a quick recap of the Joey Bada$$ vs. The West Coast rap battle before diving into [02:48] the public perception surrounding the allegations against Diddy. Mandii explores how narratives are shaped by media coverage, and the often unfair scrutiny survivors face compared to their abusers. From there, the conversation moves into [05:53] the role of consent in relationships, with a clear and honest discussion on how power dynamics complicate the idea of choice. [08:55] Cassie’s testimony becomes a central focus, prompting a larger reflection on the emotional toll of sharing traumatic experiences in the public eye.
The episode continues with a critical look at [12:08] how wealth and status can insulate abusers from accountability, and [15:04] the difficult conversations around victimhood, responsibility, and survival. Mandii also delves into [17:58] the gray areas of kink, coercion, and consent misunderstandings, pushing back on society’s tendency to oversimplify complex situations.
The discussion takes a cultural turn with [20:45] a look at the broader repercussions of abuse in our communities, including [24:01] how gender plays a major role in how victims are viewed and treated. Mandii reflects on [27:13] how society must do more to protect survivors, not silence them. As the conversation deepens, the episode explores [29:58] the need for self-reflection, compassion, and cultural change. It then transitions to [39:19] how apologies and accountability are often performative, especially in the spotlight, and [42:07] how misogyny continues to shape the perception of women in these narratives.
Mandii and the team unpack [45:08] the toxic impact of celebrity culture, [52:51] how jealousy plays into relationships, and [59:15] the public’s ongoing obsession with fame, asking how it distorts our values and responses to harm. The episode closes with [01:03:25] a forward-looking discussion on what real justice and accountability could look like, both in the court of law and in our everyday lives.
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Ep. 15 | Black Conspiracies & Public Secrets (Allegedly) May 20, 2025

In this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with her producers A-King and Jayson Rodriguez for a thought-provoking and often humorous conversation that ventures into the world of conspiracy theories, cultural mistrust, and the broader impact of cancel culture. Kicking things off with reflections from the audience and personal anecdotes (00:00, 08:06), the discussion quickly takes a deeper turn as they explore how conspiracy theories have historically — and often deliberately — targeted Black communities (09:04). From the trauma of the Tuskegee experiment to the controversial response to Hurricane Katrina and the narratives around 9/11 (17:10), Mandii and the crew unpack why many remain skeptical of mainstream narratives. They take a closer look at the role of the alleged secret societies in shaping political power and influence (28:26), and examine how alleged rituals, sacrifices, and elite memberships have fueled pop culture paranoia (29:04). Drawing connections between sci-fi themes and real-world suspicion, the group explores whether what we’ve accepted as fact — from space travel to artificial intelligence — may have layers yet to be uncovered (32:21, 35:18, 38:13). The episode also delves into modern theories around COVID-19, population control, and how the internet has amplified conspiratorial thinking (42:13, 45:36). With pop culture increasingly blurring the lines between speculation and reality, Mandii questions how much of what we consume is designed to inform—and how much is meant to manipulate (48:21). As the conversation closes, they examine the intersection of wealth, power, and scandal (52:07), asking whether today's public figures are truly victims of cancel culture or architects of their own downfall. With curiosity, humor, and a healthy dose of skepticism, this episode invites listeners to explore not just what they believe—but why they believe it.
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Ep. 14 | Are We Racing Against Our Own Biological Clock feat. Lex P, KikiSaidSo & KillahBee May 13, 2025

On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a candid, insightful conversation that tackles the persistent myths and societal pressures women face as they approach and cross the age of 30 (00:00). Joined by joined by special guests Lex P (Pour Minds), KikiSaidSo, and KillahBee, who speak from both personal experience and cultural observation, the episode explores how outdated timelines around career success, marriage, and motherhood continue to shape expectations—often creating unnecessary stress and self-doubt (07:36). The discussion challenges the idea that turning 30 signals a decline in beauty, value, or opportunity, and instead reframes it as a time of growth, clarity, and empowerment (14:31, 18:53). From navigating family expectations and breaking free of traditional gender roles (14:31), to redefining romantic partnerships in an era where women are increasingly financially independent (29:03, 39:55), the conversation highlights how modern women are rewriting the rules. Mandii and her guests unpack how financial freedom shifts relationship dynamics (44:34), why prenups are becoming essential tools of empowerment (44:34), and why real connection should matter more than status or security (34:42). They also open up about fears around aging and fertility (18:53, 47:17), offering affirming perspectives on how to embrace each phase of life with grace and power. Wrapping up with heartfelt advice to their younger selves, the conversation emphasizes the importance of confidence, self-worth, and financial literacy (56:36)—reminding listeners that the journey is theirs to define, no matter what the world says.
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EP. 13 | Reimagining The American Dream feat. Dometi Pongo May 06, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by journalist and cultural commentator Dometi Pongo for a thoughtful and timely conversation about the shifting meaning of the American Dream (00:00). Together, they examine how societal promises of success have evolved—especially for younger generations—and how factors like student debt, economic disparity, and generational trauma have made the traditional path to "making it" feel more like a myth than a milestone (10:00). They discuss how poverty is experienced and perceived in America compared to other parts of the world (29:55), and how hustle culture and the pursuit of titles can often mask deeper feelings of discontent (20:06, 40:03). Throughout the episode, Mandii and Dometi dissect the weight of societal expectations (41:57), question the true value of college degrees, and explore how individuals—especially those from marginalized communities—can reclaim the narrative by defining success on their own terms (57:05). They emphasize the power of community, shared responsibility (45:18), and cultural awareness in reshaping how we view ambition, purpose, and personal fulfillment (49:22). With honesty, wit, and insight, this episode offers a refreshing take on what it means to thrive in today’s world—without losing yourself chasing someone else’s dream.
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Ep.12 | A Way Too Ignorant Quarter One 2025 Review Apr 29, 2025

In this episode, Mandii B and the Selective Ignorance crew recap the first quarter of 2025 with reflections on her upcoming book tour for 'No Holes Barred' (00:00), listener feedback, and key cultural and political moments from January through March. She discusses the fallout from Trump’s inauguration and the widespread impact of the LA fires (20:00), urging compassion in a time marked by growing indifference (30:07). The conversation shifts to unusual drone sightings (36:45), Kendrick Lamar’s Grammy wins and Super Bowl performance (38:09), and his ongoing rivalry with Drake (39:45). Mandii also unpacks Kanye West’s controversial place in pop culture (42:55), the influence of celebrity relationships on public opinion (46:35), and standout moments from March (50:50), including a humorous look at the month’s most outlandish headlines (01:03:15). The episode closes with bold predictions and cultural insights for the month ahead (01:05:47), all framed through the lens of society’s ongoing struggle with empathy and selective ignorance.
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Ep.11 | Why Aren't We Financially Literate feat. Ish Apr 22, 2025

Mandii B and special guest Ish (Joe Budden Podcast) dive into generational wealth, Black consumerism, and the ethical side of building and managing money (00:00). The host and guest unpack the pros and cons of home ownership vs. renting (02:50), the importance of financial literacy (06:03), and the potential impact of reparations on wealth distribution (08:54). They examine the role of billionaires in society (12:03), why education is key to managing wealth (15:11), and how home ownership can be a powerful tool for building long-term financial stability (18:09). The conversation highlights the challenges of promoting financial literacy within the Black community (21:08), along with reflections on early money lessons and their lasting impact (34:13). They debate the growing wealth gap between millionaires and billionaires (35:34), address the ethics of extreme wealth (39:43), and explore the cultural attitudes that shape how money is viewed and discussed (42:54). With an emphasis on personal responsibility and collective empowerment, this episode encourages open conversations about money (52:41) and stresses the importance of education and accountability in securing a more financially informed future (01:00:05).
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Ep. 10 | The Elements Of Privilege feat. Syd & Reeezy Apr 15, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B and special guests Syd and Reeezy (MESS Podcast) the hosts sit down for a layered conversation about privilege—what it looks like, who has it, and how it shows up in ways we may not always notice. From the jump, they offer a fresh perspective on privilege (02:51) and unpack the hierarchy of privilege (05:57) that exists in our society. They get into pretty privilege (08:47) and how it intersects with body image (11:58), before expanding the convo to include sexual orientation (15:05) and geographic privilege (17:56)—acknowledging how where you live can impact your access and experience. From there, the dialogue moves to educational privilege and its impact (21:09), and the ways race plays into privilege (24:00), especially in media representation (26:54). The crew highlights the double standards that exist within these privileges (30:10) and reflect on how they show up day-to-day. They continue with a breakdown of male privilege (32:48) and explore how safety is perceived differently depending on race and gender (35:07). The convo also gives space to women’s privileges and societal expectations (36:50), as well as the double-edged sword of pretty privilege (39:20)—how it helps in some ways and hurts in others. The group unpacks intersectionality and how privilege tests overlap (43:49), before diving into “woke” privilege and its role in activism and corporate spaces (46:57). They also touch on the often-overlooked privilege of articulation and effective communication (50:14), and the emotional weight behind male expectations (55:56). The episode closes with a final reflection on the hierarchy of privileges (01:00:31) and the importance of understanding how they all play a part in shaping our lives.
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Ep 9. | Why Do We Still Get Married feat. Align With Alison Apr 08, 2025

Is marriage still the goal—or has the goal changed?
In this thought-provoking episode of Selective Igonorance, Mandii B sits down with seasoned dating and relationship coach Alison (Align With Alison) to unpack how modern views on marriage are shifting, especially for successful women. Kicking things off at [00:00 – The Evolution of Marriage], they explore the roots of the institution and how its purpose has transformed over time. By [03:15 – Challenging Traditional Views on Marriage], the conversation starts pushing back on long-held beliefs, asking if tying the knot still holds the same weight in today’s world. As the discussion deepens, they reflect on [07:41 – The Value of Commitment in Relationships], highlighting what it really means to choose someone—and how that commitment can show up in different ways. At [10:20 – Vetting Partners: The Key to Successful Relationships], the guest breaks down why being intentional about who you allow into your life is crucial. That leads to a candid look at [13:58 – Understanding the Risks of Marriage] and the realities people often overlook when love and legal contracts mix. They don’t stop there. By [20:34 – Preparing for the Reality of Relationships], they’re talking about the emotional, financial, and personal groundwork that needs to happen before anyone says “I do.” That naturally flows into [24:52 – Navigating Business Relationships and Personal Vetting], where they touch on how similar principles apply in both love and entrepreneurship. The conversation returns to romantic partnerships at [28:40 – Understanding Risks in Relationships and Marriage], and then zooms in on actionable steps during [30:36 – Financial Protection for Successful Women], where they break down how to be smart and secure without guilt or shame. At [32:24 – Societal Pressures on Women Regarding Marriage and Motherhood], the discussion turns personal, unpacking the weight women carry to “have it all” and what happens when they choose a different path. By [36:03 – Setting Boundaries and Defining Personal Value], they offer empowering advice on how to stand firm in your worth—no ring required. And finally, at [40:30 – Redefining Lasting Love Beyond Traditional Norms], they close the loop by asking: What does lasting love really look like when you write the rules yourself? Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode invites you to think beyond tradition—and lean into what’s true for you.
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Ep. 8 | Can We Enjoy Sports Without Racism? feat. Kazeem Famuyide and Kevin Clancey Apr 01, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and special guests Kazeem Famuyide (7pm In Brooklyn) and Kevin Clancey (Barstool Sports) take a deep dive into the layers of race, personal branding, and economics shaping the world of sports, with a spotlight on the WNBA and the rivalry between Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese. The conversation kicks off with The Problematic Nature of Race in Sports (00:00) before debating who truly represents the league’s future (01:57). As we compare Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese (05:06), we examine how race and public perception influence their careers and media narratives. Beyond the rivalry, we explore The Economic Landscape of Women's Basketball (10:08) and how personal branding plays a crucial role in an athlete’s success (11:31). The discussion expands to the broader impact of Race and Gender in Sports Narratives (16:19)—who gets to be the hero, and who is cast as the villain (20:19)? Shifting gears, we talk about the art of the game, from The Aesthetic Appeal of Athletic Performance (23:31) to the Ball family’s undeniable influence on modern basketball (28:03). We also break down The Rise of Caitlin Clark (30:13) and the ever-present scrutiny of Controversial Athlete Behavior (31:34). The episode takes an unexpected yet hilarious turn into everyday struggles, including Airport Etiquette and Travel Experiences (36:10)—because let’s be real, navigating TSA is a sport in itself. But we bring it back to the serious stuff, unpacking Accountability in Sports (46:26) and the role race plays in how we judge winners and losers (55:20). From the power of celebrity influence to the moral dilemmas of sports fandom, this episode pulls no punches. Tap in!
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Ep. 7 | Corporate Work Culture feat. Raqi Thunda Mar 25, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B and co joined by special guest Raqi Thunda (NYT Times Best Seller, Armed With Good Intentions), dive into the realities of navigating corporate dynamics (03:09), particularly for women in media. They unpack the challenges of imposter syndrome and insecurities (09:05), the weight of entitlement in corporate settings (11:56), and the ever-evolving impact of social media on careers (05:59). As the conversation unfolds, they discuss the balancing act between family planning and career timing (18:03) and how corporate culture shapes employee expectations (20:50), often placing women under unique pressures. They reflect on their own experiences transitioning from corporate life to entrepreneurship (27:01), sharing the lessons learned along the way. The discussion takes a personal turn as they explore navigating grief while running a business (30:26) and the often-overlooked human element in the entertainment industry (33:18). They also examine the evolving discourse around women in media (39:54), the role of ego in creative partnerships (46:02), and how to maintain integrity in an industry that frequently prioritizes profit over people. Wrapping up, the hosts offer final reflections on corporate culture and personal integrity (57:11), leaving listeners with thought-provoking insights on career growth, resilience, and staying true to oneself. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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Ep. 6 | Should We Dismantle The Patriarchy feat. Passport Cutty, Ish & Mouse Jones Mar 18, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty (The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones (Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish (That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today’s dating scene. Next, we analyze the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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Ep. 5 | Can Fat People Fat Shame feat. Mero, Lizbell Ortiz & Rainey Ovalle Mar 11, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and co. welcome special guests Mero (7PM In Brooklyn with Carmelo Anthony, Victory Light Podcast), Lizbell Ortiz, and Rainey Ovalle (Victory Light Podcast) for an open, honest, and thoughtful conversation about body image, fat shaming, and the pressures of society’s expectations around weight. The discussion kicks off with an exploration of fat shaming and body image (02:49), followed by a debate on whether there’s ever a “right” to fat shame (06:02). The guests break down celebrity weight loss and public perception (09:03), touching on Lizzo’s influence in the body positivity movement (12:01) and how society shapes body image standards (14:53). The conversation takes a deeper dive into the differences in weight and acceptance between men and women (18:08), as well as personal stories of weight loss journeys (20:58). They also address the hypocrisy in body image discussions (23:53) and how individuals navigate body image in the public eye (30:55). Shifting gears, they discuss fashion’s relationship with body types and self-expression (34:52) and the role of comedy in body shaming (39:05), questioning where the line is between humor and harm. The conversation continues with a discussion on accountability in comedy and offense (46:04) and the contradictions found in personal preferences and attraction (50:17). Closing out, they underscore the power of self-love and body acceptance (56:05) while acknowledging the challenges of staying true to oneself amid societal pressures. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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Ep. 4 | Is There Accountability In The Justice System feat. Selena Hill & Kenneth Montgomery, ESQ Mar 03, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes a deep dive into accountability and justice within the Black community and the criminal justice system. Joined by special guests Selena Hill (Black Enterprise) and criminal defense attorney Kenneth J. Montgomery, the conversation unpacks sentencing disparities, performative activism, and the role of education and community in addressing crime.The discussion begins with (00:00) a call for accountability in the Black community before examining (02:45) disparities in the justice system. Selena and KJM explore (06:08) crime and punishment, questioning fairness and consequences, and discuss the balance between community responsibility and individual accountability (09:03). They also examine (11:54) the role of Black Lives Matter, (14:49) how sensational cases shape public perception, and the impact of white-collar crimes (18:03). As the conversation continues, they address (20:57) whether justice is truly fair, (23:51) the tension between empathy and accountability, and (27:13) the bigger picture of crime’s effect on the community. The episode also highlights (32:46) economic struggles and cooperative economics, (34:34) flaws in the criminal justice system, and (37:16) how redemption plays into accountability. Closing out, the guests discuss (41:42) how celebrity culture influences violence, (50:41) the challenges of defending the innocent in a flawed system, and (54:49) the importance of community education and accountability. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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Ep. 3 | Can You Separate The Art From The Artist feat. Rory Farrell Feb 25, 2025

On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B with special guest and fellow podcaster Rory Farrell dive into the ongoing debate of separating art from the artist (00:00), tackling the hypocrisy in music and how controversial figures are celebrated (02:50). Mandii B and Rory Farrell break down the influence of social media on artist perception (09:01), the power of redemption (11:52), and the double-edged sword of fame (18:03). They explore cancel culture and the nuances of accountability (20:59), the responsibility of platforms (35:29), and the evolving standards in hip-hop (50:12). From the legacy of R. Kelly (42:33) to the blurred lines between art and reality (01:02:21), this conversation unpacks the cultural shifts shaping the music industry today. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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TRAILER: Selective Ignorance with Mandii B Feb 18, 2025

Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance Podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public’s beliefs by unpacking trending topics with educational comedy and quick wit hot takes.
Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.

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Ep. 1 | The Nuance About Supporting Black Business Feb 18, 2025

On this debut episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B reflects on her recent move to Atlanta, the end of a partnership in podcasting and her new solo venture, 'Selective Ignorance’ (1:00). Mandii discusses the importance of success, freedom, and the power of discourse (4:24), while also addressing criticism and the realities of the podcasting industry (6:19). The episode highlights the significance of community support, particularly for black businesses. Mandi also shares a wild and funny story about her transition from New York City to Atlanta (33:37), the challenges faced during the furniture delivery process, the cultural dynamics at play with the moving company (40:43) and the expectations of service within the black community (54:49). The discussion evolves into a broader critique of black businesses and the need for accountability and more. Tune in and comment in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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Ep. 2 | Should We Be Conscious Consumers feat. Antoinette Lee Feb 18, 2025

Mandi B, joined by special guest Antoinette from the Around The Way Curls podcast, take a deep dive into capitalism, corporate culture, and the challenges of conscious consumerism. They kick things off by examining the tug-of-war between personal values and consumer choices (2:54) before breaking down the real impact of boycotts and collective action (6:13). The conversation explores the tension between individual responsibility and community welfare (9:02), the influence of wealth and power in shaping society (11:50), and the challenges of aligning personal values with everyday spending habits (15:08).They also share personal experiences navigating consumerism (20:47), discuss the importance of community support (23:56), and reflect on class dynamics and service (26:59). The episode dives into workplace inequities (34:22), how capitalism intersects with identity (35:21), and the harsh realities of “survival of the fittest” in a system built on profit (36:48). As the conversation deepens, they explore the burden of caring—balancing personal responsibility with collective change (39:08), the nuance of organizing and activism (46:22), and the resilience of communities in the face of economic exploitation (52:29). They close with a vision for freedom rooted in community (57:09) and a reflection on class struggles and the need for empathy (1:02:34). Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.
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