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After Action Report #52 Oct 23, 2026

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Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY.

At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye gazing along with impact play workshops, there’s a lot to do and see. But everybody’s still gotta eat, right?

Enter Pearse, who cooked breakfast for over 500 participants.

He says it looks similar to Midsommar but without the murder. Hear what he did there, and most importantly, what he learned about… himself.

What did YOU do at summer camp?Write about every little thing, and send it to Q@Savage.Love

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Savage Love Episode 1041 Oct 20, 2026

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A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and get some lovin' already?

A married woman for 18 years with kids is sick to death of her life. She wants to chuck the family, move to another town and have a ton of new sex. But she loves her family! How can she scratch this dangerous itch?

On the Magnum, meet the Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute! Dan and Dr. Justin Garcia have a wide-ranging conversation about what the Kinsey Institute is, evolutionary biology, the cause of the sex recession and more. When asked what's the most expensive service one can buy at a legal brothel in Las Vegas, Dr. Garcia's answer may ...shock you.

A cuckquean wants to figure out a way to get evidence of the hook-ups her boyfriend is enjoying while traveling. Can she ask for video without intruding too much?

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From cuckqueans to compersion, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

After Action Report #51 Oct 16, 2026

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What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife?

Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out.

Tell us about your…transgressions.
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Savage Love Episode 1040 Oct 13, 2026

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A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity?

A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female bouncer who throws out misbehaving guests. The caller wants to ask her to be her dom. Should she? How?

On the Magnum, Dan and sex researcher Niki Davis-Fainbloom do a deep dive on fetishes. What's the difference between kinks and fetishes? What causes people to get into them- is it cultural or biological? Is the destigmatization of kink making it less hot? Listen in.

And, a straight man matched with the woman who works at his local dry cleaners. He thinks she might be trouble- texting him from the bar at 1:30, maybe driving drunk. Should he avoid her or get a little hanky-panky from a hot, messy lady?

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After Action Report #50 Oct 09, 2026

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Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before…

Hear all about her dusty experience.

What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?
Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love.

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Savage Love Episode 1039 Oct 06, 2026

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A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.

A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.

On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about the bisexual's plight in dating, and how to overcome the stigma.

And a gay man and his boyfriend are moving in together. The boyfriend owns his apartment and asks the caller to pitch in toward a vacation fund in lieu of paying rent. Is this equitable?

Your question:

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After Action Report #49 Oct 02, 2026

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What's in the duffel bag?

On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle.

But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?

After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self.

Have a listen.

And then send us your story!

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Savage Love Episode 1038 Sep 29, 2026

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We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?

A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?

Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insane sex myth that you've probably heard about. Do people still believe it? They go into the dark motivations that allowed such a preposterous rumor to live on and on. Gerbil is out now, and you should drop everything to listen to it.

And, should a woman demand her fiancé continue the painful, expensive tattoo removal from a previous marriage?

People. Make good choices.

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After Action Report #48 Sep 25, 2026

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Just how polite are Canadians?

Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam.

Name a lake after this guy!

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Savage Love Episode 1037 Sep 22, 2026

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Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!

A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.

On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiologist with nothing but good news for you horndogs. As long as your heart is beating, you can beat off. He and Dan discuss a couple of heart health issues with the charming and reassuring Dr. Fan.

And, is piss an acquired taste? Because this woman just doesn't like it.

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

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