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After Action Report #54 Nov 06, 2026

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Meet Mark, a married man in his 60s who, with his husband, took part in a horse market. They encountered mares, stallions, handlers, and stable masters.
If you’re wondering if you accidentally pressed play on “The Equestrian Podcast,” you super-didn’t.

Do you have a *tail* of sexual adventure? What the hay?
Write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love

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Savage Love Episode 1043 Nov 03, 2026

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Oh my god you guys it’s the quickies show!You called. Asked fast. Dan kept answers shorter than usual.

Enjoy.

Phew! Now you can long-winded again.

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After Action Report #53 Oct 30, 2026

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Meet Nick, who went to Berlin for a bachelor party, and had his very first Folsom experience.

What happens at Folsom Berlin? What happens at Lab.Oratory?
Have a listen, and you’ll get an inkling.

“It’s a little overwhelming” says Dan Savage.

Did you travel for an erotic adventure? YOU HAVE TO TELL US ABOUT IT.
Send an email to Q@Savage.Love and spill it.

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Savage Lovecast Episode 1042 Oct 27, 2026

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A bisexual woman has started dating a lady for the first time. She doesn't feel much sexual spark. Is it because of the baggy, unflattering clothes her girlfriend wears?

Is it ever appropriate to ask your doctor out? Your nurse? A woman wrings her hands over the ethics of leaving a thank-you note with her phone number on it for Max, the hot radiologist.

On the Magnum, it's everybody's favorite gay former Mormon humor writer, Eli McCann! His new novel "Stitched" is on the NYT bestsellers list. And because there's Mormonism in the air, we got two calls from listeners about the Latter Day Saints. One is from a woman in her late 20s, newly divorced and free from the church. She wants to know how to embrace her sexuality. And another is from a mother whose daughter has Mormon friends, and they are trying to woo her into the hive. The mother is horrified. Should she be?

A non-binary AFAB person has no desire to try to pass as a man. But they like pretending they have a small dick, and then have their boyfriend degrade and insult them.They both like it when he uses transphobic slurs as part of their dirty talk and role play. Cool?

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After Action Report #52 Oct 23, 2026

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Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY.

At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye gazing along with impact play workshops, there’s a lot to do and see. But everybody’s still gotta eat, right?

Enter Pearse, who cooked breakfast for over 500 participants.

He says it looks similar to Midsommar but without the murder. Hear what he did there, and most importantly, what he learned about… himself.

What did YOU do at summer camp?Write about every little thing, and send it to Q@Savage.Love

Read Pearse’s Playboy article ⁠here⁠.

Savage Love Episode 1041 Oct 20, 2026

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A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and get some lovin' already?

A married woman for 18 years with kids is sick to death of her life. She wants to chuck the family, move to another town and have a ton of new sex. But she loves her family! How can she scratch this dangerous itch?

On the Magnum, meet the Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute! Dan and Dr. Justin Garcia have a wide-ranging conversation about what the Kinsey Institute is, evolutionary biology, the cause of the sex recession and more. When asked what's the most expensive service one can buy at a legal brothel in Las Vegas, Dr. Garcia's answer may ...shock you.

A cuckquean wants to figure out a way to get evidence of the hook-ups her boyfriend is enjoying while traveling. Can she ask for video without intruding too much?

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From cuckqueans to compersion, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

After Action Report #51 Oct 16, 2026

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What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife?

Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out.

Tell us about your…transgressions.
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Savage Love Episode 1040 Oct 13, 2026

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A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity?

A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female bouncer who throws out misbehaving guests. The caller wants to ask her to be her dom. Should she? How?

On the Magnum, Dan and sex researcher Niki Davis-Fainbloom do a deep dive on fetishes. What's the difference between kinks and fetishes? What causes people to get into them- is it cultural or biological? Is the destigmatization of kink making it less hot? Listen in.

And, a straight man matched with the woman who works at his local dry cleaners. He thinks she might be trouble- texting him from the bar at 1:30, maybe driving drunk. Should he avoid her or get a little hanky-panky from a hot, messy lady?

Call us, text us, don't be afraid.

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After Action Report #50 Oct 09, 2026

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Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before…

Hear all about her dusty experience.

What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?
Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love.

Savage Love Episode 1039 Oct 06, 2026

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A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.

A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.

On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about the bisexual's plight in dating, and how to overcome the stigma.

And a gay man and his boyfriend are moving in together. The boyfriend owns his apartment and asks the caller to pitch in toward a vacation fund in lieu of paying rent. Is this equitable?

Your question:

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