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Balancing Work and Life as a Mother Dec 16, 2024

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In this week's episode, hosts Caitlin, Charlotte, Kallie, and Megan tackle the challenge of balancing work, social life, and motherhood. They share honest insights into how they juggle busy schedules, maintain friendships, and still make time for themselves amid the chaos of parenting. From practical tips to heartfelt anecdotes, this conversation is packed with relatable moments and helpful advice for any parent trying to find that elusive balance. Whether you're a working mom, stay-at-home parent, or just curious about how they manage it all, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on modern motherhood.

Navigating the Holidays Dec 02, 2024

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In this week's podcast episode, hosts Caitlin, Charlotte, Kallie, and Megan unwrap the joys and challenges of the Christmas season. From gift shopping and decorating to planning family gatherings and finding time for themselves, they dive into everything that makes the holiday both magical and stressful. Tune in as they share their personal stories, tips, and strategies for navigating the chaos while keeping the spirit of the season alive. Whether you’re feeling the holiday crunch or just looking for relatable holiday chatter, this episode is a must-listen!

Thanksgiving Traditions Nov 18, 2024

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In this week's episode of the podcast, hosts Caitlin, Charlotte, Kallie, and Megan come together to share their personal Thanksgiving traditions and experiences. Join the conversation as they dive into how they each celebrate the holiday, from cherished family recipes to unique customs that make their gatherings special. The hosts also open up about the pressures that come with being mothers during the holiday season and how they manage the stress of planning, cooking, and creating memorable moments for their families. Whether you're a seasoned Thanksgiving pro or just looking for relatable insights, this episode is full of warmth, honesty, and helpful tips for navigating the holiday hustle.

Notes To a Younger Self Nov 04, 2024

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Get ready for some hilarious (and cringe-worthy) life advice we’d tell our younger selves if we had a time machine and a whole lot of nerve. Caitlin, Charlotte, Kallie, and Megan take you on a journey through the good, the bad, and the “what were we even thinking?” moments of life. From questionable college decisions to the messy magic of motherhood, these regular (and slightly rogue) moms are laying it all out with zero shame.

This week’s chit-chat includes a post-Halloween debrief with stories of epic family costumes, candy overloads, and the unholy number of trick-or-treaters in Kallie’s neighborhood. The crew also tackles listener questions, reminisces about dating flops, and hands out unfiltered advice to anyone still figuring out how to “adult.” Spoiler: it involves embracing your inner chaos.

And in “Pits and Peaks,” each host reveals their recent highs and lows of the week, from soccer number heartbreak to finally sneaking in some glorious alone time.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 YALE AD

00:14 WELCOME BACK

00:48 INTRO

01:05 CATCH UP

06:37 AUDIENCE QUESTIONS

10:34 AD BREAK 1

11:20 MAIN TOPIC: NOTES TO YOUR YOUNGER SELF

35:38 AD BREAK 2

36:09 PITS AND PEAKS

42:16 YALE AD

42:29 OUTRO

Finding Your Village Oct 21, 2024

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In this episode, join us as these regular moms start off with exchanging anecdotes about house guests. Whether you have the room or you don’t, having friends and family over is something these moms appreciate, if not for just the company but what they bring to the table. Since they became moms, they talk about the transition of gratitude they have towards their parents or in-laws; for all the help they offer with their children when they’re in town. Caitlin and the others joke about how they like to start off the visit with a very clean house, but it doesn’t stay that way for long.

As you grow your family, you also need to grow your village. Kallie points out that decades ago, it was common for the whole town to have a part in raising your children. Now, it is a lot harder to find that nurturing environment your child needs.

This discussion takes the ladies back in time introspectively of their first experiences feeling out of their depth while babysitting and how times have changed. Charlotte mentions how much of a privilege it is to be financially comfortable enough to hire an extra set of hands, but others aren’t as fortunate.

What does your village look like to you? It’s different for everyone. Megan appreciates the emotional side of support from her friends and family, wanting a positive, loving environment for her children. The moms agree that having reliability is also a key element in creating their village as well as trust.

00:00 YALE AD

00:14 WELCOME BACK

00:40 INTRO

00:57 CATCH UP

07:57 AUDIENCE QUESTIONS

16:06 AD BREAK 1

17:34 MAIN TOPIC: HIRING HELP

43:18 AD BREAK 2

43:48 PITS AND PEAKS

48:28 YALE AD

48:41 OUTRO

Where to Draw the Line: Kids and the Internet Oct 07, 2024

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In this episode, join the ladies as they jump into all things fall. They reminisce about past halloween costumes over the years and touch base on family traditions, new and old. Apple picking and pumpkin picking around CT is a staple in each of their households.

More lightly, they discuss the struggles of grocery shopping with children while having to return the cart in the grocery store - do you always return yours? Has a stranger seen you struggling with your kids and offered to return the cart for you? Pay it forward like Caitlin says!

A popular debate is where do we draw the line between the internet and our children? Kallie talks about some great advice she has received, that you can share motherhood online without sharing your children. These moms discuss how they wrestle with over sharing or under sharing and finding that happy medium but do make note that once it’s out there, is it possible to really erase it? They all try to remain open and ask their children what they feel comfortable with.

To conclude, as always they end with some pits and peaks of the week: Unique homemade treats to bring to the movies, extra contractor work and new experiences.

00:00 YALE AD

00:14 WELCOME BACK

00:35 INTRO

00:52 WELCOME/AUDIENCE QUESTIONS

14:29 AD BREAK 1

16:04 MAIN TOPIC: KIDS USING INTERNET

36:09 AD BREAK 2

36:40 PITS AND PEAKS

43:09 OUTRO

Protecting Your Kids, What to Believe? Sep 17, 2024

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In this episode, talk about the change of season with Megan, Kallie, Charlotte and Caitlin. They start their discussion with what they do to get ready for the holidays and how they prepare for this busy, busy season.

As moms, what’s your ideal thing to do if you (finally) have some free time? It can be different for anyone. These four moms all enjoy an array of different things from vacations, self care, going out with friends or even just being productive and catching up on chores around the house.

With this new age of social media, and the answer to any of our questions at the touch of our fingers, fear mongering has become a huge issue troubling parents. Whether it’s exaggerated headlines, warning labels, ads, or even wildlife, the media seems to play a vital key for parents increasing anxiety about these many possible impending dangers, even if they are not totally logical. Knowledge has never been so accessible but it is getting harder and harder to distinguish what is true and what is false. Charlotte stresses the importance of being aware of social media algorithms and how they can be helpful but also harmful to us.

To conclude, the ladies talk about something light - mocktails. A fun tip is that you can actually add ingredients to your mocktails that offer health benefits!

00:00 YALE AD

00:14 WELCOME BACK

00:58 AUDIENCE QUESTIONS

11:21 AD BREAK 1

12:56 MAIN TOPIC: FEARMONGERING

33:11 AD BREAK 2

33:41 YALE SEGMENT: MOCKTAILS

38:02 PITS AND PEAKS

Back to School Talks: Tackling New Styles and Body Dysmorphia Sep 02, 2024

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In this episode, we dive into the different emotions and experiences with the start of the new school year, as mothers, past teachers and youth. Listen as they discuss the start of the start of the school year and all that comes along with it.

Caitlin starts off comparing the first day of school to the feeling of New Year’s Day. The ladies compare and contrast how their feelings towards the first day of school have changed as they take on new roles in life. On one hand, they look forward to more structure that comes with school and on the other hand as their children grow older, back to school shopping can become more complicated, especially if you have five children like Charlotte!

As Caitlin kids grow older, Caitlin self reflects on her first memories of feeling body dysmorphia when back to school shopping in 8th grade. This is when she first became self aware of the way she looked and what she wore. She also discusses the different disorders associated with it. Kallie, Megan, Caitlin and Charlotte continue the episode discussing how media like magazines and movies played a huge role in what they wore and how they viewed themselves growing up and now. They end the discussion with their experiences with child birth (plans) and back to school stories.

00:14 WELCOME BACK

00:50 WELCOME BACK (CONT.)

04:48 AUDIENCE QUESTIONS

10:53 1ST AD BREAK

12:29 KIDS BACK TO SCHOOL CLOTHES

34:22 2ND AD BREAK

34:37 YNHH BIRTH PLAN SEGMENT

39:00 PITS AND PEAKS

The Emotional Struggle of Decluttering Kids' Stuff Aug 19, 2024

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In this episode, we tackle the emotional and practical aspects of decluttering kids' belongings, a topic requested by our audience. We delve into the emotional struggles of parting with items that hold sentimental value, from baby clothes to children's artwork, and the guilt associated with throwing away their creations.

We explore the emotional challenges parents face, such as feeling sentimental about baby items, dealing with children's reactions to toy donations, and managing the overwhelming volume of artwork. The conversation highlights different perspectives: from Caitlin's sentimentality and struggles with letting go, to Kallie's practical approach influenced by the book The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning, Charlotte's mixed feelings about keeping versus discarding, and Megan's difficulty parting with items tied to cherished memories.

In the second part, we share practical tips for managing and letting go of kids' belongings. Strategies include creating memory boxes and important boxes for keepsakes, being selective about what to store, and donating items instead of hoarding them.

00:14 WELCOME BACK

05:02 AUDIENCE QUESTIONS

17:48 GETTING RID OF KID’S STUFF

42:22 SUMMER SAFETY

46:24 GOLDFISH SWIM SCHOOL

56:53 PITS AND PEAKS

Are there Benefits of Social Media in Parenting? Aug 05, 2024

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In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked positive aspects of social media in parenting. Despite the well-known negatives, we focus on the pros and personal gains we've experienced.

We discuss how social media can be a quick and interactive resource for tricky parenting issues, offering practical advice and reassurance. It provides a sense of community, helping parents feel less alone in their challenges. The discussion highlights the importance of curating a selective feed to avoid the comparison game while still benefiting from the wealth of knowledge available online.

Additionally, we touch on how social media can help parents connect with others facing similar challenges, provide educational content, and offer product recommendations. It also serves as a source of inspiration for parental self-care, ultimately enhancing overall well-being and parenting effectiveness.

At the end we share tips for a smooth back-to-school transition, including starting routines early to adjust to summer schedules and managing the added stress of significant life changes during this time. Tune in for a balanced view on how social media can positively impact parenting and practical back-to-school advice!

● 00:14 WELCOME BACK ● 06:56 SOCIAL MEDIA ● 24:34 AUDIENCE QUESTIONS ● 31:42 BACK 2 SCHOOL ● 37:45 PITS AND PEAKS

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