Riding The Wave

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Overcoming Complacency | Episode 11 Jun 21, 2024

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Riding the Wave tackles complacency. Hosts AYD and MJ share personal stories of how complacency impacted them. They define complacency as satisfaction with the status quo, hindering motivation to improve. The episode explores how losing sight of goals can lead to complacency, with MJ mentioning people who struggle after retirement. Overcoming complacency is a key theme. AYD emphasizes setting goals and pushing oneself. The discussion acknowledges the difficulty of recognizing complacency but stresses the importance of self-awareness. The episode concludes with a call to action, urging listeners to identify complacency in their own lives and take steps to live a more fulfilling life.

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

Pursuit to Happiness | Episode 10 Jun 14, 2024

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This episode of Riding the Wave dives into the concept of Happiness. The episode opens with a lighthearted check-in, asking AYD and MJ about their current. What's been going on in the past week? The highs and lows. The conversation quickly pivots to the central theme – what exactly is happiness? And how do we pursue it?

Surprisingly, creating this podcast has been a key factor in AYD's own journey towards happiness and self-discovery. AYD discusses the turning point where they realized the importance of not letting negative people influence their happiness. AYD talks about the mask he wears on the podcast and how it helps him be himself, regardless of anyone else's opinion, and how doing the podcast is helping him grow as a person.

The episode tackles a common misconception – that money equals happiness. AYD emphasizes that material possessions have limitations when it comes to true fulfillment. The conversation shifts to MJ's personal story of overcoming weight struggles and how feeling healthy helped him regain control over his life. This relatable anecdote showcases the challenges and triumphs on the path to happiness.

Lastly we get to some practical applications. MJ and AYD both share their daily routine for starting the day on a positive note, highlighting the importance of setting intentions.

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

Persevering through Life's Most Challenging Moments | Episode 9 Jun 07, 2024

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This week on Riding the Wave, hosts AYD and MJ dive into perseverance, and share their incredible life stories of heartbreak and trauma. They discuss some of the most difficult and challenging moments of their lives, and how they overcame them.

AYD vulnerably shares his experience of losing his first love in a tragic car accident.He doesn't shy away from the raw emotions and the significant impact this event had on his life. AYD explores how he navigated the emotional storm and began to move forward with his life.

Co-host MJ joins the conversation by sharing his own struggles. He opens up about his partner leaving him and his son without notice. MJ describes a seemingly random encounter with AYD that served as a turning point during his time of difficulty. This heartwarming moment showcases the power of connection and support.

MJ delves deeper into his struggle, revealing how a fire changed his entire life. He emphasizes the additional emotional weight of this experience, particularly the impact on his son.

Despite the challenges, both AYD and MJ emphasize the importance of perseverance. They share a powerful message of hope and encouragement, urging listeners to "never give up" in the face of adversity.

The episode wraps up with a final message of inspiration. AYD and MJ leave listeners with a sense of empowerment, reminding them of the strength they possess to overcome obstacles.

Diving Deep into Father-Daughter Dynamics | Episode 8 May 31, 2024

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Welcome back to Riding the Wave with your hosts AYD and MJ. This week Riding the Wave explores the complexities of father-daughter relationships with our special guests: Mo, Laurel, and her 15 year old daughter Kayla. We dive deep with Kayla and her Mom on the struggles of growing up with a father who isn’t around as much as he should be.

The episode tackles tough topics: boundaries with irresponsible biological fathers and navigating first meetings with new father figures. Laurel explores the complexities of having a second child with an absent father and shares an emotional message for her daughter. The episode concludes with a message of empowerment for young people to find their voice.

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

Shredding the Stereotypes of Fatherhood | Episode 7 May 24, 2024

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In this episode, AYD and MJ delve into the beautiful and messy world of fatherhood.

We kick things off with a discussion on the importance of being present for your children. AYD then shares his heartwarming story of unexpected fatherhood, followed by a sensitive look at considering abortion from the father’s and mother’s perspective.

A pivotal moment arrives as AYD recounts meeting his son for the first time, prompting a powerful reflection on how men often chase women but struggle to be there for their children. We then transition to the joys of fatherhood, with AYD sharing what he loves most about being a dad. MJ chimes in with their own experiences raising a son.

No journey through fatherhood is complete without considering the practicalities. We explore the complexities of the court system and scheduling before diving into the biggest challenges AYD and MJ have faced as dads. The episode concludes with a powerful message on the importance of fathers sticking around, no matter the circumstances.

Tune in for an honest and insightful conversation about the unique joys and challenges of fatherhood!

0:00 Intro
2:04 This week's topic of being a present parent
7:47 AYD's fatherhood story is GOOD
14:08 Considering Abortion from both perspectives
17:24 Drinking during the relationship
22:05 AYD meeting his son for the first time
28:37 Men are willing to chase women, but won't fight for their children
30:23 What do you love about being a dad?
34:41 MJ's story with their son
37:36 How's the court process and scheduling?
40:02 What has been the biggest challenge of being a Dad?
44:56 Why is it important for Dad's to stick around?

Bridging the Gap: Part 2 | Episode 6 May 17, 2024

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Tune in to the follow up episode to last week's discussion on overcoming anger. Your hosts AYD (Are You Dedicated) and MJ bring back CJ and have a healthy discussion about absent parents and how to overcome your struggles. Find out what CJ would say to his Dad if he had the opportunity, how he overcame drugs, prison, and found God. We learn how CJ's Seafood Boil became a successful business and what his plans are for future growth.

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

00:00 Intro
02:33 What question would you ask your Dad?
06:09 What advice do you have for people who got unlucky in life?
08:27 What life changes do you need to make right now?
11:46 How did your spiritual beliefs manifest?
13:23 How to overcome involvement with drugs
18:08 How do you handle anger?
22:47 CJ's career in music
24:47 How have you grown to be resilient?
28:13 How did you start CJ's Seafood Boil?
37:48 Our hopes for Riding the Wave podcast
42:54 Outro

Bridging the Gap: Learning to Let Go of Anger | Episode 5 May 10, 2024

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This episode of Riding the Wave dives deep with CJ. Your hosts MJ and AYD explore CJ's story, from the challenges he's faced growing up, struggles dealing with an absent father, and how he overcame them. We hear about CJ's journey to fatherhood at a young age and the moment he recognized his anger issues. . The episode tackles the pain of feeling unheard and misunderstood at home, sparking a discussion on healthy parenting practices. We learn how CJ navigated a difficult upbringing, proving that expressing emotions is a sign of strength. This episode is a powerful exploration of overcoming anger and the importance of healthy relationships. Tune in and ride the wave with us!

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

00:00 Intro
00:45 Todays topic: Overcoming Anger
02:58 Getting to know CJ
07:42 What's been weighing heavy on you?
08:57 Shout out moms
16:23 Having your first child at 19
22:14 When did you recognize you had anger issues?
25:42 Have you forgiven your Dad?
26:13 Rather have a relationship than a grudge
27:38 They never asked about my problems, they just assumed I was the problem
28:52 Is corporal punishment ever okay?
31:15 How did you get through growing up in an abusive home?
37:09 Its not unmasculine to express how you feel
42:04 Were you jealous of your brothers?
44:25 If your Dad was here right now what would you tell him?

How to Love Yourself | Episode 4 May 03, 2024

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This week on Riding the Wave we are joined by Mo (Monique) as we discuss learning to love yourself. Your hosts AYD and MJ guide us through an exploration of self-love in this episode. From personal anecdotes to insightful reflections, we navigate the intricate path towards self-discovery and acceptance.

We share stories of our own journeys, from the pivotal moments when we began to prioritize self-care to the challenges we encountered along the way. Through astrology, relationships, and moments of solitude, we uncover the myriad ways in which self-love manifests and evolves.

Central to our conversation is the importance of self-awareness and accountability. We explore the signs of self-neglect and the impact of triggers on our well-being. With candid honesty, we confront our past struggles and share strategies for cultivating resilience and compassion. Ultimately, we emphasize the empowering nature of self-love, encouraging listeners to embark on their own journeys of self-discovery with courage and compassion.

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

01:23 Topic of the day: Self Love
04:06 Whats your sign?
07:17 When did you start loving yourself?
12:25 What are the signs that someone is not loving themselves?
15:33 AYD's history with alcohol
21:07 Taking accountability
26:22 Having a solid support system
35:52 Triggers
37:40 Learning to be alone
38:21 MJ time
43:26 When do you notice you're not loving yourself?
49:35 Final thoughts

Hanging out with Bets Vintage Toys | Episode 3 Apr 26, 2024

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On this episode of Riding the Wave we're hanging out with Bets Mendoza owner of Bets Vintage Toys. MJ interviews his brother in law about how he got into the business of vintage action figures. DM @RidingtheWave2024 on Instagram with the best store name and win an action figure!

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

Childhood Upbringing | Episode 2 Apr 19, 2024

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In the second episode of Riding the Wave podcast your hosts MJ and AYD (Are You Dedicated) discuss their childhood upbringing and share some wild stories about growing up in California.

Riding the Wave puts our audience first. We want to hear your high and low tides. No judgment! DM us on Instagram @ridingthewave2024 and we will respond to your questions in a future show.

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