Religion on the Mind

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GGCH: Richard Hays’ Gay Affirmation, Huberman, and More (#252) Apr 11, 2024

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On this month's Generation Gap Culture Hour, Dan, Josh, and Tony play a round of “Bar, Bank, Church, or Dispensary,” consider ways they are becoming like their dads, discuss the impact of the forthcoming gay-affirming book by New Testament scholar Richard B. Hays, the New York Magazine attempted takedown of Andrew Huberman, and more.

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https://youtu.be/g5vmzxlRTLI

RESOURCES MENTIONS:

Richard Hays’ Book “The Widening of God’s Mercy”:

https://yalebooks.yale.edu/book/9780300273427/the-widening-of-gods-mercy/

Andrew Huberman Article:

https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/andrew-huberman-podcast-stanford-joe-rogan.html

CT’s “Why Character Doesn’t Matter Anymore”:

https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2024/march-web-only/ned-flanders-douglas-wilson-russell-moore-character.html

Tony's Website:

https://reverendhunter.com/

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How Do Violent & Unhealthy Men Change? (#251) Apr 08, 2024

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Dan's guest today is Simon Nixon, a former pastor and licensed counselor in Australia who works predominantly with domestic violence offenders in group therapy settings, helping them understand how to change their behavior and become safe partners and fathers. They discuss the challenges of such work, including the emotional difficulty and the need for a non-judgmental approach to facilitate change.

Simon and Dan explore the concept of toxic and non-toxic masculinities and the importance of helping men identify and process their emotions. Simon outlines the process of working with these men, which includes identifying the kind of man they want to be, challenging unhelpful beliefs, and providing tools and strategies for managing anger and other emotions. They also touch on the evolutionary aspects of masculine traits and how some of these traits, such as protection and provision, may have been adaptive in the past but can be problematic in modern society. Dan offers a framework for re-evaluating some classically masculine traits in a more adaptive way.

Simon's Counsellor Page:

https://www.theaca.net.au/counsellor/Simon-Nixon

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https://youtu.be/Dou415Dnhow

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Trump 2024 Anxiety, Part 2 (#250) Apr 04, 2024

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Speaking as much to himself as to listeners, Dan continues this series by recapping Part 1, then discussing two more common thinking errors, known in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as “cognitive distortions,” that he sees in news coverage around the possibility of a Donald Trump victory in 2024. Recognizing these distortions in the media as well as our own thoughts about the election and its results can 1) reduce our anxiety and 2) align our thoughts more fully with the reality that the future is uncertain but unlikely to be as catastrophic as we often assume. More episodes should come and will focus on additional cognitive distortions, as well as acceptance work.

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A Pastor Walks Out of The Church and Into The Woods (#249) Apr 01, 2024

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Our very own Tony Jones (Generation Gap Culture Hour episodes, author, theologian, recovering youth ministry wunderkind) joins Dan for a very special conversation about the release of his brand new book, The God of Wild Places. Their conversation follows a three-act structure: Tony's early ministry days, then his escape into hunting while his marriage and life were crumbling, and finally the re-approaching and rethinking of his theology and faith in light of those experiences. Along the way, they also touch on mid-century mainline Protestantism, the spirituality and ritual of indigenous hunting practices, and the costs and benefits of organized religion versus a more "disorganized" spirituality. This is not one you'll want to miss, especially if you enjoy Tony on the GGCH episodes.

Tony's Website:

https://reverendhunter.com/

RESOURCES MENTIONS:

James Dobson’s “Preparing for Adolescence”:

https://www.drjamesdobson.org/broadcasts/preparing-for-adolescence-part-1

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https://youtu.be/wbAuF3YKj3A

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Rapid-Fire Mailbag: Pluralism, Eucharist, Oppenheimer vs. Dune, Books & Podcasts (#248) Mar 28, 2024

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**Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FhPSrPr0g9U

In the first of hopefully many "rapid fire" mailbag episodes, Dan answers listener questions on the following topics:

Books to read as you start faith deconstruction
Podcasts he wishes someone else would start
Oppenheimer vs. Dune Part 2
Whether Jesus’ teachings in the Gospels are compatible with other religions being viable paths to God
Albums that changed how he listens to music
What the Eucharist/Lord’s Supper means to him today

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Bible Made Impossible

A Flexible Faith

Pure

Bonnie Kristian YHP episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000428619214

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000437967133

Linda Kay Klein YHP episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000450839620

Pretty Good Vibrations (Dan's music podcast): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pretty-good-vibrations/id1652779250

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Responding to: Finding Meaning in Difficult Bible Passages (#247) Mar 25, 2024

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This week, Dan answers a listener question about how he approaches difficult biblical passages that portray God as full of wrath, punishing humans in this world for their sins and rebellion. Later, Kristen Tideman joins to discuss Dan’s answer and ask some follow-up questions.

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https://youtu.be/STHpDBYJuQc

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Finding Meaning in Difficult Bible Passages (#246) Mar 25, 2024

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https://youtu.be/ZHtYQQmRp9Y

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“There Are Many Ways to Be Nonviolent” (#245) Mar 21, 2024

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In this wide-ranging conversation with Dr. Malinda Berry (Anabaptist Mennonite Biblical Seminary), Dan and Malinda cover nonviolence in the Anabaptist tradition, where Anabaptism comes from, the questionable emphasis in these traditions on martyrdom stories, our psychological instincts toward “purity,” and even exposure therapy and the idea that “time heals all wounds.”

Malinda’s Faculty page:

https://www.ambs.edu/employees/malinda-elizabeth-berry/

Richard Foster's Book “The Streams of Living Water: Celebrating the Great Traditions of Christian Faith”:

https://www.amazon.com/s?k=streams+of+living+water+richard+foster&hvadid=587486551675&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9019667&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=1310001887124060575&hvtargid=kwd-377313966157&hydadcr=22599_13379366&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_6v26802mcy_e

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Still Christian & Spiritual: Brian Hall (#244) Mar 18, 2024

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Dan is joined by friend and musician Brian Hall (TENTS) to talk his journey through different corners of Christianity, his relationship with his highly-spiritual father, staying out of dogma, and all that as it relates to a beautiful song called “Hutah!” The song is part of Brian’s attempt to reclaim some of his bodily, charismatic birthright in a post-deconstruction landscape. As you might imagine, it’s a pretty great conversation!

Brian’s band Tents Spotify Page:

https://open.spotify.com/artist/6UEOudUMOVOVUgAuVos294?si=a3W4UhooQfGWKHr0lGEvnQ

“Hutah!” Song Long Link:

https://open.spotify.com/track/1gL9wxxn8tuTCTfNP31ZXw?si=098da25678b247bc

IG @tentsband

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GGCH: Kid Birthdays & Autonomy vs. Commitment (#243) Mar 14, 2024

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This months Generation Gap Culture Hour features topics of Kids Birthday Parties, moss removal men who evangelize, and Josh's Crisis of "too much autonomy".

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https://youtu.be/y7bCOS4l7Qc

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