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Triggering an Avoidant Attachment Style Jan 20, 2023

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Today we are talking about things that would trigger an avoidant attachment style. And that's something we don't want to do because it'll make the relationship even harder. So this episode could be for the avoidant attachment style. But it could also be for the anxious attachment style and the secure attachment still. A what not to do episode. If you don't know what your attachment style is I have provided a link to an attachment test right here.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Attachment styles and situationships, and a fearful avoidant struggles. Jan 18, 2023

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It's Reddit Relationship Wednesday's where we go over 3 subreddit situations related to attachment styles and discuss. On today's episode we go over attachment styles and situationships, struggles of a fearful avoidant, and an avoidant not wanting to be a part of his partners life-long illness. If you are new to attachment theory and don't know your attachment here is a link where you can find out if you have more secure attachment, preoccupied anxious attachment, dimsissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant in you.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

The Bachelor Cast Part 2 Jan 17, 2023

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It's part two of the Bachelor cast where I go over their bio's and try to figure out their attachment styles. Follow along and we can figure out their attachment style as the show happens. And if you don't know your own attachment style and you want to know your strongest attachment I have a link of an attachment text for you. You can figure out if you lean secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Dating Tips for the Anxious Attachment Style Jan 13, 2023

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I'm going to give you a bunch of dating tips to help you find the right partner and identify the people who don't work well for you quicker. These tips will help you have less anxiety inducing dates in your life. It can also help the anxious attachment style person work on themselves.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

The anxious avoidant trap, a FB ex, and parents with insecure attachment styles Jan 11, 2023

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Using subreddit's we discuss a woman who is an anxious attachment style in an anxious avoidant trap with a dismissive avoidant. We also discuss a preoccupied anxious attachment style woman worried about an old FaceBook relationship status. And avoidants discuss what it was like growing up with a dismissive and/or fearful avoidant parent. And if you don't know your attachment style I have a link to an attachment test to help you out and hopefully help out your relationships.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

The Bachelor Cast Part 1 Attachment Styles Jan 10, 2023

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The Bachelor is back! I'm going to go over their bio's and use my attachment style skills to figure out their attachment. Or at least get a start. I'll have to see how they are as the shows go by. But I can at least get some educated guesses on whether they are a secure attachment style, a preoccupied anxious attachment style, a dismissive avoidant attachment style, or a fearful avoidant attachment style, otherwise known as disorganized attachment style. My goal is to help people get betting in dating and relationships using attachment styles. I've use this format to figure out Bachelors from Katie Thurston's episode on TikTok. And now I'm going to do it on my podcast. And I'll throw a little bit of recap in there too. And if you don't know your attachment style here's a link to get you started on that journey.

Attachment test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Spotting a Secure Attachment Style in the wild Jan 06, 2023

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Where are the secure attachment style people in the world? I'm going to show you how to spot them in the wild. The older we get the less secure people are out in the dating pool. So if you want to find one you need to pay attention closely. This episode will also show you examples of secure people if you are attempting to become more secure.

Attachment test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Dismissive avoidants give advice, psychedelics, and normal people are boring Jan 04, 2023

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In today's episode I discuss three sub Reddit posts related to attachment theory/attachment styles. One person asks for advice from the dismissive avoidants. One person wants to know if anyone has had success with psychedelics for their insecure attachment style. And fearful avoidant seems to be bored with dating people who don't have a troubled past.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Are you afraid of being alone? Jan 02, 2023

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Are you afraid of being alone? Sometimes it's just anxiety like everyone gets. But sometimes it's a more serious thing that requires therapy. In today's episode I will read an article about autophobia or monophobia.

Article.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/love-sex/there-s-a-psychological-reason-you-re-afraid-of-being-alone/ar-AA14KvRs?cvid=d12ee829114f4da78a919fa80e8f8205

Avoidant Attachment Style Cheat Sheet Dec 30, 2022

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In this episode I will discuss 11 common things an avoidant will do. This will help you spot them in the dating world. Or it may help figure out you are the avoidant. If you don't know your attachment style here is a test. And if you want to read about attachment theory then check out the book I've linked.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

"Attached" book

https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Attachment-Find-Keep-Love-Find-ebook/dp/B0049H9AVU/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2DYAU4CGR5GGF&keywords=Attached+book&qid=1671658837&sprefix=attached+book%2Caps%2C158&sr=8-1

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