Relationships and Relationshits

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Gaslighting Dec 26, 2022

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The word of the year is gaslighting according to Merriam-Webster. In this episode we read the article and I add some more information on gaslighting, narcissism, and even some attachment theory.

Gaslighting article:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2022/09/13/what-is-gaslighting-how-to-spot-it/10333556002/

Attachment test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Relationships and Joint Bank Accounts Dec 23, 2022

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In today's episode I'm reading an article about finances and relationships and then discussing my opinion on it. If you are here for attachment styles or attachment theory I'll share the attachment test and my favorite attachment book right here.

Article:https://money.yahoo.com/professor-couples-who-have-joint-accounts-stay-together-longer-170633748.html

Attached Book: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-audiobook/dp/B07ZJW6DWR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2RTAZTO373IQR&keywords=attached+book&qid=1671568709&sprefix=attached%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1

Attachment test: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Anxious Attachment Style Cheat Sheet Dec 19, 2022

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In today's episode I discuss the 11 common things an anxiuos attachment style person would do in a relationship. This can help in your relationship with identifying their attachment style. Or it may help you identify the things you do. The key is figure out things that don't help the relationship so you can minimize or eliminate them over time.

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

"Attached" book:

https://www.amazon.com/Attached-audiobook/dp/B07ZJW6DWR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CGMVVCE21B28&keywords=attached+book&qid=1671480090&sprefix=attached%2Caps%2C196&sr=8-1

Killing the sex drive Dec 15, 2022

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In today's episode I'm reading and discussing a probem that seems to exist right now. And that's the man child killing the sex drives of women. Women are fed up having a man who can't do simple things around the house. And I can't blame them.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/88q3qk/man-child-scientific-term-new-research

Attachment Styles: I'm back. Breaking up is hard to do. Dec 04, 2022

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I'm finally back. Sorry for the two year break. In this episode I'll discuss what took me so long to come back. And I also talk about a recent break and discuss attachment styles with a break up. And if you want to learn on YouTube check out my new channel Relationship Attachments.

Can Your Attachment Style Change? Dec 16, 2020

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In today's episode I go over if attachment styles also known as attachment theory can change. The quick answer is yes. It doesn't matter if you are an avoidant, anxious, or secure attachment style it can change for better or worse. And the relationships you are in help with that. So who you date can decide your fate.

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Attachments Styles and Dating Dec 07, 2020

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Dating is hard enough. Knowing attachment styles or attachment theory can help minimize that pain. In this episode we will go through some tips and questions to help identify the secure attachment style, the anxious attachment style, the avoidant attachment style and the fearful avoidant attachment style.

Attachment test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Resources:

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

Attachment Styles and Sex Nov 30, 2020

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I am talking about sex and attachment styles, also known as attachment theory. I discuss secure, avoidant, and anxious attachment styles and how they view and act in the bedroom with sex. Attachment theory is very beneficial to finding a great partner, keeping a partner, working through issues with a partner, and raising your children for success when they become adults.

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style Nov 18, 2020

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In this episode we break down the dismissive avoidant attachment style. In previous episodes we have talked about the avoidant attachment style, but not specifically the dismissive avoidant. Attachment theory has three insecure attachments which are the dismissive avoidant, the fearful avoidant, and the disorganized attachment.

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

Attachment Theory Strange Situation Test Nov 04, 2020

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The Strange Situation Test was the first way Attachment Style or Attachment Theory categorized people. The first test identified three distinct groups, the dismissive avoidant, the preoccupied anxious, and the secure attachment style. This was done by observing common reactions to many events. At a later time the fearful avoidant, also known as disorganized attachment was categorized. Attachment Styles help in current and future relationships.

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

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