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We discuss anything related to relationships and dating. We go into great detail covering attachment styles, which is also known as attachment theory. We cover the attachment styles known as the secure attachment style, the preoccupied attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style which is also known as the disorganized attachment style.

Latest Episodes:

Love letter from an Avoidant Attachment Style Apr 26, 2023

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We are talking about a love letter I received from an ex who happened to be a dismissive avoidant attachment style.

Red flag city and opposites attract in attachment theory Apr 07, 2023

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Red flags from an avoidant attachment style ex-boyfriend. And a woman is attracted to soldiers with PTSD.

The No Contact Rule Apr 05, 2023

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The no contact rule is a rule on what to do or not do when someone breaks up with you. This rule doesn't change whether you are a secure attachment style, a preoccupied anxious attachment style, a dismissive avoidant attachment style, or a fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as a disorganized attachment style.

The no contact rule will help you either give you a better chance of getting your ex back or moving on faster. Relationships are hard and breakups are hard too. Going into no contact will help you focus on making yourself better. Sometimes the best way to communicate is to stop commnunicating. This rule is for marriages and/or those who are just dating.

No contact will help you get back some of that power you lost when they ended the relationship.

Communication as an anxious attachment style and is secure attachment the only way to success? Apr 03, 2023

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Attachment styles and communication is the first subreddit topic. The second subreddit is about whether we all need to have a secure attachment style to have successful relationships. Communication styles are a major factor in attachment theory. The secure attachment style, the preoccupied anxious attachment style, the dismissive avoidant attachment style, and the fearful avoidant attachment style, also known as the disorganized attachment style all have variations in how they communicate.

Communication is key for relationships whether you are just dating or in a marriage or long term partnership. Communication is something a secure attachment style is usually good at. The preoccupied anxious attachment style and the avoidant attachment style with this more.

The second topic discusses whether we need to have a secure attachment style to make a relationship work. While this would be nice but that's a hard feat to achieve. You can have success in a relationship if you are working towards a goal of a secure attachment style. You can have an anxious attachment style and have a successful relationship but your level of anxiety is key. The same goes with the fearful avoidant style and the dismissive avoidant attachment style. Their level of their insecure attachment style has a great effect on their chance of success.

Knowledge of attachment theory is an important piece for dating and relationships.

Anxious Avoidant Trap Mar 29, 2023

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The anxious avoidant trap is where an anxoius attachment or a secure attachment style is in a relationship with an avoidant attachment style. These attachments attract each other but create a dysfunctional relationship. If you don't know your attachment style I have a link below to help you out.

Attachment Quiz:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Blind'a Dating App:

https://www.getblinda.com/

Anxious attachment style boundaries and where are the secure people at? Mar 27, 2023

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We are talking about boundaries for the anxious attachment style. And not to wait around looking for the magical secure attachment style. If you don't know your strongest attachment style you can find out with the link below. And the dating app I'm a part of it below also.

Attachment Quiz:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Blind'a Dating App:

https://www.getblinda.com/

Situationship Heartache Mar 22, 2023

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Today I'm getting raw and real with something that happened to me this morning. My ex texted for closure. And it definitely brought the anxiety levels up. I will throw in a little attachment style knowledge in of course like I normally do.

Avoidant Attachment Style Cheat Sheet: TikTok Live Edition Mar 21, 2023

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We are going over 11 common avoidant attachment style traits. This list was compiled by the authors of "Attached," Amir Levine, M.D., and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A. If you don't know your attachment style I have a link to help you figure that out.

Attachment Quiz:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Fearful avoidants past relationships and a dismissive avoidant and anxious attachment marriage ultimatum Mar 20, 2023

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A fearful avoidant person has a past relationship cause some emotions. And an anxious attachment style person gives a marriage ultimatum to her dismissive avoidant attachment style boyfriend. We are discussing these two Reddit subreddits today. If you don't know your attachment style I have a link to help you out.

Attachment Style Quiz:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Avoidant Deactivating Strategies: TikTok Live Edition Mar 14, 2023

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Why are they pushing me away? In this episode I go over the avoidant attachment style deactivating strategies. If you don't know your attachment style I have a quiz to help you figure that out.

Attachment Quiz:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Blind'a Dating App:

https://www.getblinda.com/

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