Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

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Healing Can Happen But It Takes Hard Work May 18, 2022

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The experiences and traumas from your past can significantly impact your current life and marriage.
This week, our Director of Marketing, Gemma sits down with Shel to discuss the tumultuous times that caused her marriage to fall apart and how she’s using Marriage Helper to try and rebuild herself and her marriage.
Shel discusses both of their parents’ past use of drugs and how that affected them differently, the stresses of 12 years of failed conception, and how depression played a part in their problems.
She has realized through these struggles that the picture she had for her life might have only been part of the picture. And while she's still mired in the troubles of her marriage, she sees the hope for her future.
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How Do I Get My Spouse To Understand Me? May 11, 2022

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It can be very frustrating when you can’t get your spouse to understand what you feel, saying, or how their actions affect others.
Or maybe you need to talk to them about the fact that what they're doing is causing more harm than good.
Is there something that you think you just must discuss with each other, but your spouse doesn't even want to do that?
How do you get your spouse to understand you?
Join Dr. Beam and Kimberly as they offer some ideas about how to get your spouse to understand your point of view.
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False Reconciliations & How To Deal With Them May 04, 2022

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Reconciling a marriage is a long and challenging process. You may feel at times that you and your spouse are getting along and becoming close again. Yet, other times you might feel them pulling back.
So how do you handle these cycles of emotion or false starts?

Today, we look at four steps to avoid false reconciliations when trying to repair your marriage. We look at the reasons these can occur, how you can reset this path with STOPs and CORES, and use PIES to work on yourself and look for long-term, lasting damage for both you and your children

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My Children Won't Talk To My Spouse Apr 27, 2022

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Divorce can be as painful and confusing for your children as it is for you. If you've realized "my children won't talk to my spouse," there's still hope.

Research from all over the world has proven that marital issues, when children are involved, affect them as well. After divorce occurs, 25% of fathers will no longer see their child after the first year. This percentage increases to 50% around the five to the ten-year mark.

So, how can you help to mitigate those chances?

How can you help your children’s relationship with your spouse?

Listen to this episode of Relationship Radio for the four options to help ensure your children still feel loved and lovely.

Forgiveness is a crucial part of letting go of the anger you have toward another person. Reconciliation is optional, but there are many times when it is the best decision to heal the relationship. Especially if there are children involved. Download our free eBook The Ultimate Guide To Reconciliation.

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How To Talk About Difficult Things In Marriage Apr 13, 2022

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Preparing to have a difficult conversation with your spouse can be nerve-racking and stressful. In most cases, you can already assume that they will react negatively to it.
Is there anything you can do to make the situation easier?

In this episode of Relationship Radio, we’ll discuss the "two Es" of being prepared, environment, and emotion.
Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes break down why each is so important and what you can bring to the table in the way of solutions. The goal of every conversation should be to listen.
So, practice your listening skills and take some notes on how to talk about hard things with your spouse.

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How To Get Your Spouse To Talk To You Apr 05, 2022

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Communication is a vital part of any marriage. But what is communication?
Speaking to each other every day about bills and mundane happenings isn't enough.
So, what do you do when your spouse refuses to communicate with you anymore?

Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes discuss how to improve your communication skills in this episode of Relationship Radio. Taking a look at how you might be contributing to the rift should be your first step. Look at your body language, your responses, and if you’re genuinely listening when your spouse is talking.
Tune in to find out all the ways that Marriage Helper can get the communication flowing again in your relationship.

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Finding Strength When Your Spouse Has Left Mar 30, 2022

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What do you do when you're trying to save your marriage only to find out your spouse is in love with someone else?
In today's episode of Relationship Radio, Lawrence shares his story of how he found strength to continue standing for his marriage despite his wife still being in limerence.
Through introspection, self-improvement, and forgiveness Lawrence cultivated unwavering hope for his marriage and his future.
No matter what has happened in your marriage, there is hope. There is a way forward. We will show you how.
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How To Overcome Hate From Your Spouse Mar 21, 2022

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Hate is a strong emotion; it’s intense and passionate. But, we can also define love, especially in its initial stage, using the same words. They are bound together through intimacy, passion, and commitment. But what can you do when your spouse hates you? Is there a way to get your marriage back on the love path?

In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes give their five keys to turning the hate in your marriage back to love. Along the way, you’ll learn what Marriage Helper can do to support you in this effort. The path is long, but patience and consistency will get you there.

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What to Do When My Spouse Hates Me Mar 15, 2022

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Hearing that your spouse, who you love deeply, hates you can be devastating. But how did that love turn to hate? Is it possible to save your marriage after that? We believe so at Marriage Helper, and today’s episode of Relationship Radio is geared to help you do so.

Understanding how intimacy, passion, and commitment lead to both love and hate can guide you down the path to reconciliation. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will inform you how your spouse’s perceived reality can be different from the truth and provide you with several tools to start having a deeper understanding of your road back to happiness.

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Surviving Infidelity Mar 09, 2022

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You’ve decided to end your affair and go back to your spouse. But how do you do it? How honest do you need to be when they ask you details about your affair? Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will give you their five keys to reconciling your marriage from the perspective of the person who cheated.

Affairs can cause hurt for both parties involved. Find out how to deal with the pain by using empathy, speaking truthfully but not hurtful, and other techniques perfected over the 23 years that Marriage Helper has been in business helping families.

Do you want to save your marriage? That's what we'll be talking about today in this all-new season 3 of Relationship Radio.
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We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care.
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