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If You're Struggling With Your Marriage, You Need To Hear This Nov 29, 2023

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We've all encountered difficult moments in our relationships that shake us to our core and make us question our own worth. Our guest, Nathan, an intake specialist here at Marriage Helper, joins us to discuss the daunting challenges individuals face in troubled marriages. Together, we dissect how fear, panic, and a desperate need for control can often cloud our judgement. We're passionate about understanding each unique narrative, and we aim to create a safe space for all stories to be heard, seen, and understood. Remember, it's okay to seek help and there's no shame in reaching out.
Weaving personal experiences into our discussion, we shed light on the complex tapestry of decision-making. What truly influences our choices? How does our self-worth shape our decisions? Why does an external factor like time or logistics often become a roadblock? Are we giving too much weight to the opinions of others? We recount a touching conversation with someone struggling with decision-making due to a lack of clarity. Our goal? To help you navigate your own decision-making labyrinth with more confidence and self-belief.
Do you find yourself stuck in a loop of fear, unable to take the leap towards your goals? We've been there. We share our journeys of battling with fear and how focusing on our worth and clarity turned the tide. As we wrap up, we offer reassurance to those grappling with marital issues, spotlighting the life-changing power of self-reflection, responsibility, and grace. You deserve a happy and fulfilling future, and it's well within your reach. Turn despair into hope, fear into courage, and confusion into clarity with us at Marriage Helper. Embrace the belief that nothing is beyond recovery. Your journey towards a better future starts right here.
To book a call with an intake specialist like Nathan, visit marriagehelper.com/apply2
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

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How To Navigate Separation During The Holidays Nov 22, 2023

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Navigating the festive season while dealing with the emotional turmoil of marital separation can seem like a mountainous feat. But here's a promise: by the end of this episode, you'll have a roadmap on how to not only survive this challenging season but also keep your sanity intact. Join us as we unpack the emotional roller-coaster that this season can thrust upon you and guide you on how to process these emotions healthily. Let's talk about that elephant in the room— the surge in divorce rates come January, and how you can dodge falling into that statistic.
Ever wondered how lullabies can help you sail through a holiday season full of emotional upheaval? Discover how a simple bedtime routine can work wonders and why setting boundaries with your spouse during family gatherings is not just about self-preservation but also about prioritizing your children's well-being. Hear our take on the importance of open communication and compromise during these times. Yes, the holiday season can be tough, but with the right tools, you can make it through. And remember, it's okay not to be okay.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Stonewalling: How to Break the Silence and Save Your Marriage Nov 15, 2023

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Ever wonder why certain behaviors can predict divorce with over 80% accuracy? Today, we unpack the mystery of one such behavior known as 'stonewalling', alongside the other three horsemen of the relationship apocalypse: defensiveness, criticism, and contempt. Our deep-dive into Dr. John Gottman's groundbreaking research at the Love Lab, reveals how these destructive behaviors can send a relationship spiraling downward.
But it's not all doom and gloom! We also explore the antidote to stonewalling, offering real-life examples and practical steps to overcome it. Learn the importance of courageously pausing the conversation, taking the time to cool down, and process. Strengthen your relationships by understanding these patterns and making conscious efforts to change them. Let's journey together towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Why I'm Thankful I Stood For My Marriage Nov 08, 2023

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Ever felt like your marriage is on the brink and you're helpless? Today, we bring you a powerful conversation with Melody Oseguera, Director of Coaching at Marriage Helper, who stood for her marriage when the odds were stacked against her. Listen as she shares her journey of resilience, patience, and personal growth, which eventually led to the reconciliation with her husband, David. Hear about the emotional and practical challenges that she faced, from work-life balance and parenting disconnects to dealing with separation and limerence.
In our chat with Melody, we delve into her experiences co-parenting during separation, and how she navigated the tumultuous terrain of her husband's limerence. She talks about the strain it put on their family, and how she maintained her beliefs and values during these trying times. Listen as we explore how Melody found hope in this chaotic period and how the Save My Marriage Program from Marriage Helper offered tools and support that helped restore equilibrium in her life. Let Melody's story inspire you, offer you hope, or prepare you for your own growth journey – don't miss this episode!
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

I Was Searching For Divorce, I Found Marriage Helper Instead Nov 01, 2023

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Have you ever asked yourself if a broken marriage is beyond repair? Have you ever felt trapped in a negative mindset with no way out? Our guest today, Jared Pratt, Marriage Helper certified coach, takes us through his personal journey from a brink of a divorce to healing his marriage. His story is both raw and powerful, as he navigates through years of frustration, secrecy, and a turning point on a fateful Valentine's Day. Jared's experience is not just a testament of resilience; it's a clear example of how seeking support can make all the difference, even in the most challenging circumstances.
Jared isn't just a story-teller; he's a Marriage Helper coach who lives by example. We dive deep into the world of cognitive behavior restructuring, exploring how understanding and owning your part of the conflict can lead to personal growth and healthier relationships. Jared talks passionately about the resources available at Marriage Helper, from membership to coaching. He emphasizes the importance of investing in our personal growth and working through difficulties rather than seeking an easy escape route. So, if you're looking for a way to face your marriage challenges head-on, this episode is a must-listen.
To sign up for 25% off the Save My Marriage Program, visit marriagehelper.com/podcast
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Is Your Marriage Even Worth Saving? Oct 25, 2023

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Ever grappled with the pain of infidelity, manipulation, or the aftermath of separation in your marriage? Are you seeking clarity and perspective to illuminate your path towards self-love and a healthier marriage? We have conversation with Cody Wambolt, a client representative at Marriage Helper, who shares the stories of those confronting these struggles and the transformations they've experienced.
Stories of personal growth and transformation are at the center of our discussion. We unearth the journey of a woman who, despite enduring verbal abuse and demands for divorce, managed to turn her life around. The story unveils how understanding her husband's personality, learning to communicate more effectively, and making significant changes in her behavior, allowed her to not only impact her marriage but also her children and social and professional circles. This compelling account underscores the power of personal growth and how it can create ripples in all aspects of life.
As we wrap up the episode, we share how to get in touch with the dedicated team here at Marriage Helper. Tune into Relationship Radio to fill your hearts with hope and your minds with invaluable advice.
To book a call with Cody or another Client Representative,
visit https://marriagehelper.com/apply1
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

This 1 Thing Might Be Sabotaging Your Marriage Oct 18, 2023

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What if the secret to a healthy and fulfilling marriage lies not in grand gestures or constant compromise, but in the very core of how we perceive ourselves? Join us as our CEO and resident psychology expert, Kimberly Beam Holmes, unravels the connection between self-esteem and marriage. Kimberly helps us understand the difference between self-esteem and self-worth, taking us through the seven areas of self-worth identified by researcher Jennifer Crocker. She emphasizes that only three of these areas - family support, virtue, and God's love - are healthy foundations for self-worth.
Our deep-dive into self-esteem doesn't stop at theory. Kimberly demonstrates how self-esteem dynamics can play out in marriage, highlighting the potential harm when we rely on our spouses to fill our need for love and worth. This dependence may lead us into a cycle of altered behaviors and unfair expectations. Yet, there's hope. Kimberly shares insights from her dissertation research on how self-esteem levels can change through interventions. By pausing on our physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual parts of attraction, we can begin to nurture our self-esteem in a healthier manner. Tune in and discover how to strengthen the foundation of your marriage by redefining your self-esteem.
LINK TO IT STARTS WITH ATTRACTION
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

The Key to Marital Transformation Oct 11, 2023

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Ready for the transformation of a lifetime? Strap in as we unveil the secrets of salvaging a marriage, even when it feels like you're the only one fighting. We'll guide you through a proven seven-step process, crafted from the lessons we've learned supporting thousands of couples through their marital ups and downs. Learn how to navigate the initial stages of this journey solo, arming yourself with clarity and calmness because you are the captain of your fate, the master of your marriage.
As we dive deeper, get ready for a paradigm shift. We talk about the pivotal role of accountability and implementation in your behavior transformation. We'll explore the powerful weapon of forgiveness, and why it's vital for both you and your partner to stand on the battlefield of reconciliation together. To top it all off, we'll introduce you to our 'Save My Marriage' program designed to help you see visible, positive results in your marriage. So, join us in this journey of turning your marriage around, one step at a time. It's not about the destination, it's about the journey. Let's start walking together, today.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

How To Heal After Being Cheated On Oct 04, 2023

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Ever felt the agonizing sting of infidelity in your marriage? Been crushed under the weight of betrayal and wondered if you could ever find solace or if your relationship could be salvaged? We've got you. In this enlightening conversation, we delve into the painful reality of adultery and guide you through pathways of personal healing and marriage restoration. We reveal how infidelity is, unfortunately, a common predicament in marriages, not just among individuals who approach us at Marriage Helper for advice.
Shattering the misconception that an affair is a reflection of your inadequacy, we discuss how it often denotes your spouse's unfulfilled needs. We will explore how your healing lies in recognizing your personal strengths, understanding your contributions to the marital discord, and working on them. We also illuminate the often misunderstood aspects of post-affair reconciliation and trust rebuilding. Tune in as we walk you through the intentional process of forgiveness and healing, that can potentially breathe new life into your marriage. Experience this transforming conversation that holds the power to revolutionize your life and marriage.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Why Is Marriage Disappearing? Sep 27, 2023

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What's happened to the sanctity of marriage? It seems today's world has shifted from commitment-based marriages to an era of 'expressive individualism' - but at what cost? Join us as we scrutinize this startling decline and the seismic societal shifts that have led us here. We're diving deep into the statistics, the causes, and the far-reaching implications of this change. Is it the independence of the 'me generation?' What about women's escalating roles in the workforce? We're questioning it all.
The second half of our conversation turns the spotlight onto the fallout of this marriage recession. We're exposing the harsh realities of men losing touch with their children post-divorce and the alarming erosion of commitment in our increasingly self-centered society. But, there's hope! So, join us in this thought-provoking exploration and learn the tools you need to restore the foundations of family and commitment.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free