Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

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Ethical Non-Monogamy: Is the Impact Worth It? Feb 07, 2024

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In this compelling video, Dr. Joe Beam and CEO Kimberly Beam Holmes of Marriage Helper delve into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), examining its implications and how it intersects with concepts like polygamy and references to polygamy in the Bible. They explore the ethical non-monogamy meaning, questioning if personal consent is enough to justify its practice amidst potential emotional harm and societal disruption.
The dialogue critically assesses the impact of ENM on emotional connections, trust, and the essence of fulfilling relationships, challenging the trend of prioritizing personal desires over deep, committed bonds. This conversation is an invitation to reflect on the true value of exclusivity and intimacy in relationships, advocating for a return to monogamous commitments as the foundation for personal and societal well-being.
Join us for a thought-provoking exploration of ethical non-monogamy, its challenges, and the pursuit of genuine connection in today's complex relationship landscapes.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

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Is Marriage Worth It In 2024? Jan 31, 2024

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📈 Divorce Statistics & Insights: Dive into the latest study from Forbes, exploring divorce trends from 2020 to 2023. Discover eye-opening stats on the average length of marriage before divorce, the impact of occupations on marital stability, and much more.

👥 Who's Most Likely to Divorce?: Uncover which age groups and professions face higher divorce risks. Plus, find out about the surprising stability in second marriages.

🕒 Marriage Duration Insights: The average marriage now lasts about eight years before divorce. We delve into why this might be lower than expected and what factors contribute to this trend.

💔 The Divorce Rate and Third Marriages: A startling 75% divorce rate in third marriages - what's behind these numbers? We explore the patterns and reasons for this high rate.

🧐 Commitment Issues: Lack of commitment is cited as the top reason for divorces. We discuss how societal changes have influenced commitments in marriages and beyond.

🏠 Living Together Before Marriage: Does it increase the likelihood of divorce? We analyze the dynamics and share some thought-provoking perspectives.

👫 Occupations & Divorce: Discover which jobs have the highest divorce rates and why certain industries might be contributing to marital instability.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics & Children's Well-being: Understanding the profound impact of divorce on children and the importance of family structure in their development.

✨ Hope and Help: Despite these challenges, we believe in hope and the possibility of saving marriages. Learn about the pathways and support systems available for couples in crisis.

📚 Your Next Steps: Visit marriagehelper.com/booknow to talk to our intake specialists and discover how we can help you navigate through your marriage crisis.

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Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Is "Toxic Positivity" Affecting Your Marriage? Jan 24, 2024

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In this episode, we take a look into the often-misunderstood world of 'Toxic Positivity' and its impact on marital relationships. Join us as we unravel the complex dynamics between maintaining a positive outlook and the potential harm it can cause in a marriage, especially when it leads to the suppression of genuine emotions and concerns. We also take a look at the harming effects of labeling.
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➤ Key Highlights:
- What is Toxic Positivity? We define this buzzword and explore how damaging labeling your spouse can be.
- The Psychology Behind Suppressed Emotions: Our expert analysis breaks down how hiding true feelings can lead to significant problems in a marriage.
- Real-Life Scenarios: We discuss practical examples and signs of "toxic positivity" in everyday marital interactions.
- Expert Opinions: Gain insights from experts on the balance between positivity and emotional honesty.
- Navigating Emotional Validation: Learn strategies for recognizing and validating both positive and negative emotions in your spouse.
➤ Why Listen to This Episode?
If you're struggling to understand why constant positivity might be harming your relationship or are seeking ways to encourage honest emotional expression between you and your spouse, this episode is a must-listen. It's particularly beneficial for couples who have been married for over a decade, addressing common challenges faced in long-term relationships.
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Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

The TRUTH About Marriage Counseling Jan 17, 2024

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Join Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, as they delve into the complexities of marriage counseling in this enlightening episode. Dr. Beam clarifies that he isn't against marriage counseling but emphasizes the importance of choosing the right counselor. Kimberly shares her journey from training in marriage and family therapy to her transition to psychology, driven by the transformative power of Marriage Helper workshops.
They discuss the challenges and biases within the field of marriage counseling, highlighting the importance of seeing the marriage as the client rather than an individual spouse. The episode touches on ethical considerations and the potential biases counselors may bring based on their personal experiences, emphasizing the need for a balanced approach that benefits the marriage as a whole.
Learn about the unique dynamics of counseling and workshops, the role of biases, and how to set boundaries and expectations with a marriage counselor. Discover why Kimberly and Dr. Beam advocate for workshops that focus on positive aspects and principles, aiming for the preservation and improvement of marriages.
For couples seeking guidance, learn how to engage with marriage counselors effectively and explore the potential of Marriage Helper workshops. Visit marriagehelper.com/apply3 for more information on workshops and to book a consultation with their specialists.
This episode is a must-watch for anyone navigating marriage counseling or looking for alternative ways to strengthen their relationship. Tune in for practical advice, professional insights, and a fresh perspective on making marriages work.
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Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Why Does My Spouse Hate Me? Jan 10, 2024

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Join Dr. Joe Beam and CEO Kimberly Beam Holmes as they delve into the challenging dynamics of love turning into hate in marriages. This episode is inspired by Dr. Robert Sternberg's insightful research, exploring how feelings of hate can emerge from the very elements that once strengthened a bond: intimacy, passion, and commitment. We'll examine how these foundations of a relationship can become sources of deep resentment, especially when trust is broken.

In our journey, we share a compelling story from an AA meeting that highlights the fragile nature of trust and its impact on a marriage. We discuss the intricate process of rebuilding closeness between spouses, emphasizing the importance of patience, empathy, and daily gestures of acknowledgment. Our conversation is a beacon of hope, offering practical steps and strategies to heal and rekindle the flame of intimacy. Whether you're looking to save your marriage or gain a deeper understanding of the complex interplay between love and hate, this episode provides valuable insights. Tune in to discover how resilience and shared experiences can strengthen the bonds of a relationship.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

How Micro-Cheating Can Lead To Major Marriage Problems Jan 03, 2024

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In this episode of Relationship Radio, we delve into the intricate and often overlooked concept of micro-cheating. Through a personal story of transparency in marriage, we highlight the importance of candid conversations as a cornerstone of trust between spouses. We unravel the layers of subtle behaviors that, while seemingly harmless, can plant seeds of doubt and lead to emotional infidelity. By dissecting the nuances of micro-cheating, from understanding underlying intentions to recognizing early signs, we demonstrate how addressing these issues directly can help realign a marriage that may have strayed off course.

As we navigate the challenging terrain of trust and temptation, our discussion shifts towards effective strategies for discussing sensitive topics within a marriage. These include handling flirtatious behavior and addressing the use of explicit online material. We guide you through the process of initiating open and empathetic dialogues with your spouse, emphasizing the importance of focusing on feelings over fault, and establishing boundaries to protect the sanctity of your marriage.

Remember, the journey through marriage isn't just about enduring difficulties; it's about actively constructing a robust, shared foundation. In this episode, we provide you with the tools and insights needed to fortify your relationship. Join us as we offer guidance and support in strengthening the bonds of your partnership.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

10 Things You Need To Hear Before The New Year Dec 27, 2023

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On today's episode of Relationship Radio, we're taking a look back at 10 of the best moments of 2023 and packaging them into one episode for you to have heading into the new year ❤️
EPISODES
How To Build Better Communication With Your Spouse
When Your Spouse Feels Like A Roommate
When Is It Time To Let Go?
What To Do When Your Spouse Checks Out Emotionally
Do THIS First To Save Your Marriage
Why You SHOULDN'T Divorce Your Cheating Spouse
How Do People Fall In and Out Of Love?
If You're Struggling With Your Marriage... Watch This
Is Your Marriage Even Worth Saving?
My Spouse Says They Don't Love Me Anymore
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Is An Emotional Affair Still An Affair? Dec 20, 2023

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Ever found yourself questioning the boundaries of fidelity within marriage? Today we unravel the intricacies of both physical and emotional infidelity. We dissect the subtle yet significant behaviors that might indicate a breach of trust, from micro-cheating to the types of kisses exchanged. By providing insights into the dynamics of different forms of affairs, we aim to shed light on the true gravity of these actions and help listeners understand where the lines are drawn in their own relationships.
The journey of love can take us through the fiery throes of passion, but what happens when that passion crosses into the realm of an affair? We delve into the intense emotional state known as limerence and the transformation love undergoes over time, referring to the work of Dr. Helen Fisher to unpack how married individuals caught up in an affair experience this phenomenon. Furthermore, we provide a beacon of hope to those whose marriages have been rocked by infidelity by introducing our Save My Marriage program, offering practical tools and heartfelt guidance for healing and rebuilding the sacred bond of marriage. Join us on this powerful exploration of love, trust, and the resilience of relationships.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Separation Doesn't Have To Be The End Of Your Marriage Dec 13, 2023

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Are you facing challenges in your marriage and considering separation? This discussion is here to help you understand the complexities of separation and why it's important to consider it only as a last option, except in cases of physical or emotional harm. We will introduce a seven-step process designed to revive and strengthen your relationship, focusing on self-improvement rather than your spouse's actions.

We'll also examine the vital role of communication and clear understanding during separation. Discover how changing your approach from being confrontational to supportive can positively change your relationship. Learn about the importance of self-worth and empathy in repairing and deepening your connection with your spouse. This episode is a guide for those at a critical point in their marriage, offering direction towards a renewed and stronger marital bond.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

Why No Contact Doesn't Work Dec 06, 2023

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Ever thought the old 'no contact' rule was a surefire way to win back a separated spouse? Be prepared for a reality check as we shine a light on the flaws of this manipulative tactic. We dissect the key role that secure attachment and healthy communication play in a marriage rather than resorting to emotional manipulation.
We'll also be introducing you to the concept of SMART Contact™, an antidote to the marital challenges you've been battling. Step into an enlightening discussion on how altering your communication styles and behaviors can help avoid pushing your spouse further away, and how essential it is to maintain open communication in testing times. To equip you with the right tools, we reveal our 'SMART Contact™ Toolkit, a guide to communication and conflict de-escalation. Whether your marriage is on the rocks or you're simply looking to enhance communication, we promise you'll find wisdom and practical advice in our conversation.
Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!

For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free

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