Regulate & Rewire: An Anxiety & Depression Podcast

Latest Episodes:

Guided Practice for Resourcing, Titration, and Pendulation Oct 29, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, we’re shifting from learning to experiencing. Last week, we discussed the techniques of resourcing, titration, and pendulation and their importance in trauma healing. Today, I’ll guide you through a guided practice, allowing you to feel and embody these practices within your own systel..

This gentle, 15-minute practice will help you connect to a sense of safety, ease into challenging sensations, and learn to move between states of comfort and discomfort. By engaging your nervous system in this way, you show your system experientially that it doesn't have to stay stuck in moments of discomfort or activation.

Find a quiet, comfortable space, and hit play.

3 Takeaways:

Resourcing builds safety. Practice identifying and connecting with the things that help your body feel calm and stable.
Titration keeps healing manageable. Approaching discomfort in small doses supports sustainable nervous system regulation.
Pendulation creates nervous system flexibility. Practicing the shift between calm and activation helps prevent getting stuck in either.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
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Healing Trauma Safely with Pendulation, Resourcing, and Titration Oct 22, 2024

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In this episode, we dive into the concept of pendulation, a foundational process in trauma healing, particularly within Somatic Experiencing. We explore how pendulation involves oscillating between states of distress (activation) and calm (regulation), allowing the nervous system to release stored tension without getting stuck.

3 Takeaways:

Titration prevents retraumatization. You don’t have to revisit everything at once. Healing in small doses creates lasting change without overwhelm.
You already have resources. Identify what makes you feel calm and safe. This makes it easier to access them when it matters most.
Pendulation teaches your system flexibility. Learning to oscillate between stress and regulation helps release trauma and build resilience.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

The Pyramid of Healing - Why Healing in Order Matters Oct 15, 2024

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Did you know that there a sequential order to healing? In this episode of Regulate & Rewire, we explore "The Pyramid of Healing," and it's 4-phases that support your healing journey. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or like your healing efforts aren’t working, it might be because things are happening out of order. Discover the four phases of healing—Education & Awareness, Regulation, Rewiring, and Resourcing—and learn how following this sequence can create lasting change.

3 Takeaways:

Follow the sequence: Skipping straight to trauma work without capacity can stall progress. Start with education and regulation.
Regulation first, always: Cultivating a felt sense of safety gives your system room to do the harder healing work later.
You’ll cycle through again: Healing is not a straight line. With every round through the phases, you gain strength and ease.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

Why You Can’t Just “Release” Trauma Oct 08, 2024

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In this episode, we dive into the common phrase “releasing trauma” and what it really means. While many people think trauma can be pushed out of the body, healing is much more about creating safety within the body so it can transform naturally. We explore the layers of trauma healing—physical, emotional, psychological, and relational—and why true healing requires a holistic approach.

3 Takeaways:

Trauma isn’t something to “get rid of.” It softens only when your system feels safe. Actively building internal safety is the real work.
Healing happens in layers—physical, emotional, cognitive, relational, developmental, and more. A one-dimensional approach often falls short.
Focus on building capacity, not eliminating discomfort. Like weightlifting, sometimes slow and steady strengths you the most.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

It's Okay to Do Less: A Gentle Reminder for Your Healing Journey Oct 01, 2024

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In today’s shorter episode, I want to offer you a gentle reminder: it’s okay to do less. When you have less to give, it's important to honor that and adjust your commitments accordingly. This week, instead of pushing myself to create a longer, more researched episode, I’m giving myself permission to record a shorter one – and I’m encouraging you to do the same in your life.

Far too often, we get caught up in the cycle of doing more, but healing happens when we make space for it. If your load feels heavy right now, take a moment to assess what you can let go of – whether it’s tasks, internal expectations, or the pressure to be constantly productive.

If you're struggling to figure out how to make space for rest, healing, or anything else important in your life, my team and I are here to support you. Through our RESTORE 1:1 coaching program, we help clients audit their stress loads and strategically make room for healing.

If you’re curious about how this approach could help you, I’d love to invite you to book a pressure-free discovery call. We’ll explore if this is the right step for you, and if not, I’ll try to help you find your path forward.

3 Takeaways:

Doing less is sometimes the most healing thing you can do. Pause and ask: what would “less” look like today?
You will need to do less of something in order to do more for your healing. It’s not weakness—it’s strategy.
If you feel stuck or overwhelmed, support helps. Book a pressure-free discovery call to explore if Restore is right for you.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

—

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

How to Navigate Situational Anxiety Sep 24, 2024

Show notes

Do you ever find yourself tense or anxious when dealing with new situations? This could be traveling to a new place, interviewing for a job, or simply a changing seasons in your life. This is often referred to as situational anxiety, which is a form of anxiety that happens in response to a new, unfamiliar, or stressful (to you) situation. Today I'm going to offer a nervous system reframe and other tools to help you navigate this better. Hit play to listen!

3 Takeaways:

Reframe the Sensation: Shift from saying “I have anxiety” to “I’m noticing activation.” It encourages curiosity and reduces shame.
Normalize the Experience: Your system’s response to change or stress isn’t wrong. Self-compassion can soften the edges.
Lean on Support and Tools: Use nervous system regulation practices in the moment, and seek professional support to unpack deeper patterns over time.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

What Are Your Symptoms Trying to Tell You? - A "Symptoms" Reframe Sep 17, 2024

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One of the most overlooked but important steps in healing anxiety, depression, or trauma is learning to not be afraid of your symptoms. Hit play for a conversation about symptoms and how the way we understand or perceive them can intensify or de-intensify them.

3 Takeaways:

Reframe your symptoms as messages. Whether they’re mental or physical, your symptoms are trying to tell you something. Get curious about what they’re signaling instead of trying to silence them.
Connect the dots between your thoughts, feelings, and sensations. Use tools like journaling or somatic tracking to notice how your psychological and physiological symptoms influence one another.
Meet symptoms with neutrality before trying to fix them. The moment you feel a symptom, pause. Instead of judging or rushing to change it, ask: “What’s this trying to tell me? What need might be unmet?”

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

—

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

My *Almost* Anxiety Attack at the Airport Sep 10, 2024

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Today let’s talk about the anixiety attack I *almost* had at the airport earlier this summer. Warning I’m going to take you on this journey with me detail by detail, so if you’re already feeling a little worked up today, maybe come back to this episode later when my airport stress won’t increase your stress but can instead be simply a chaotic story you get to listen to for your education & entertainment purposes. Hit play for the full convo!

3 Takeaways:

Your state shapes your story: The way you interpret stressful events changes depending on whether your body is regulated or dysregulated. Check in with your body before spiraling with your thoughts.
You can increase your capacity: Amanda didn’t avoid the stress—she managed it. And that’s what years of nervous system work can do. You won’t eliminate activation, but you can learn to hold it.
Same situation, different systems: Your response isn’t wrong just because someone else reacts differently. Whether it’s a friend, partner, or stranger—our stress responses are shaped by more than just the moment.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

How Does Botox Impact the Nervous System & Emotional Regulation? Sep 03, 2024

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Today, we're talking about something that might surprise you—we’re going to talk about Botox. If you're asking, “Why are we discussing Botox on a podcast focused on mental health?” Another centerpiece to this podcast is talking about ways to support, heal and regulation your nervous systems, in that it's important to consider how everything we do—including something as common as a Botox—could play a role. Today we'll talk about both the cosmetic & medical uses of Botox as we talk through it's benefits and it’s potential impact on your nervous system, brain, and emotional regulation (potentially of you and your kids). Hit play to learn more!

3 Takeaways:

Consider the trade-offs: Botox can be beneficial, especially for chronic pain, but may affect emotional intensity and facial expressiveness.
Your nervous system matters: Cosmetic procedures like Botox may influence regulation, connection, and even how others perceive your emotions.
Be research-literate: Seek sources you trust, question funding influences, and make health decisions through an informed, aligned lens.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise

Another Good Enough Episode (#3) Aug 27, 2024

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If you’re new here, my "good enough" episodes typically happen as a result of me getting behind on recording podcasts. They happen when I realize on a Monday night that I don’t have anything recorded for tomorrow’s podcast episode and I don’t have the time, energy, or capacity to do the full outlining, researching, or scripting that other podcast get. Instead I just talk more candidly from the heart - today that conversation is about the "A-lot-ness" in my life right now and how I'm navigating in very differently than I would have years ago.
I share 3 things that are really helping me as I fall into my default patterns of urgency and "just get it done" and end chatting through how easy it is to label natural physiological responses as "disorders" when you don't understand the nervous system.

3 Takeaways:

Intentionally slow down: Practice reading, walking, eating, and speaking at a slower pace to show your body it’s safe to soften urgency.
Use deep breaths strategically: Diaphragmatic breathing activates your vagus nerve, helping shift your body into a more regulated state.
Try “Even If” thinking: Counter catastrophizing with the phrase “even if…” to build psychological flexibility and interrupt spirals.

CLICK HERE for the full show notes, resources, and 3 tangible takeaways!

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Looking for more personalized support?

1:1 Coaching (RESTORE): Learn more or book a free discovery call (HSA/FSA eligible & includes comprehensive bloodwork)
Regulated Living Membership: A mental health membership and nervous system healing space (sliding scale pricing available). Join here.
Order my book: Healing Through the Vagus Nerve

*Want me to talk about something specific on the podcast? Let me know HERE.

—

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Website: https://www.regulatedliving.com/podcast
Email: amanda@regulatedliving.com
Instagram: @amandaontherise
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amandaontherise