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#374 Adnaan Jassat - Is A Degree Worthless Now? Aug 01, 2025

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Adnaan Jassat is the Gen Z founder of ThrillerME, the Middle East's largest online sneaker marketplace. He joins Zuby to discuss his entrepreneurial roots, growing up between Dubai and South Africa, and how those experiences shaped his worldview. They explore the trade-offs between freedom and safety, the changing value of higher education, and how embracing unconventional goals can lead to success. Adnaan also shares his insights on societal expectations, generational purpose, and why youthful energy is such an undervalued asset.

Timestamps:

(0:00) Introduction

(0:38) Adnaan Jassat: Entrepreneurial Journey

(1:54) Growing Up in Dubai vs. South Africa

(6:38) The Freedom and Safety Debate

(15:18) The Value of Higher Education

(32:44) The Pill to Swallow: Embracing Unconventional Goals

(33:57) Learning from Those Who've Done It

(35:34) The Concept of Agency

(38:40) Investment and Risk-Taking

(40:48) Societal Expectations and Personal Purpose

(55:04) The Relentless Pursuit of Excellence

(56:48) The Fallacy of Retirement

(1:00:07) Thinking Beyond Self: Generational Impact

(1:02:50) The Value of Youthful Energy

(1:03:31) Materialism vs. True Success

(1:04:11) The Process of Building Success

(1:04:51) Advice for the Discontented

(1:07:15) The Importance of Discipline

(1:08:37) Mindset and Success Stories

(1:10:45) Long-Term Thinking and Life Choices

(1:19:52) The Role of Happiness and Joy

(1:27:13) The Journey of Excellence

(1:28:58) Future Goals and Vision

(1:30:01) Outro

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#373 Mikkel Thorup - Redefining Freedom Jul 24, 2025

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Mikkel Thorup is an expat money expert, author, and podcast host. Mikkel shares his unconventional journey from a modest upbringing to becoming a global citizen. He explains how he built a thriving family life while living in various countries, and reflects on the values and philosophies that guide his choices. The conversation explores his perspective on governance and why Panama became his family's home base. Mikkel also offers insight into life in the UAE, the importance of taking bold action, and the rewards of global exploration.

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Timestamps:

01:03 Introduction

01:32 Mikkel Thorup's Early Life and Education

03:30 Journey into International Travel

07:17 Building a Family While Traveling

15:32 Philosophy and Values

20:08 Challenges and Criticisms

32:58 Global Perspectives and Governance

38:51 Family Dynamics and Respect

39:58 Choosing Panama: A Journey Through Central America

49:03 Life in the UAE and Concerns About the Future

47:14 The Importance of Taking Action

57:10 Exploring New Places and Opportunities

01:12:47 Outro

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#372 Wylie McGraw - Patriotism & The Military Industrial Complex Jul 17, 2025

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Wylie is an American combat veteran and high-performance coach who recently chose to re-enlist in the military at age 45. We discuss the reality of service, sacrifice, and patriotism, as well as the evolving role of masculinity and how cultural shifts challenge traditional ideals.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:49) Wylie McGraw's background

(01:32) Wiley's Military Journey

(02:46) Patriotism and Service

(04:59) Confronting Misconceptions

(11:17) The Essence of Patriotism

(20:04) The Role of Masculinity

(26:14) Modern Society's Challenges

(32:02) The Illusion of More Equals Freedom

(33:09) Core Components of Long-Term Happiness

(33:59) The Decline of Faith, Family, and Health

(35:21) The Importance of Community and Connection

(36:18) Confronting Uncomfortable Truths

(40:33) The Impact on Military Morale

(52:12) A Divine Calling to Reenlist

(58:23) Outro

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#371 Mihret Melaku - What Do Orthodox Christians Believe? Jul 10, 2025

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Zuby is joined by Mihret Melaku, a passionate Orthodox Christian, theologian, and Harvard neuroscience graduate. Mihret shares his journey to faith and the pivotal moments that him led to embrace Orthodox Christianity. The conversation explores his viral debate with Stuart and Cliffe Knechtle, the deep history of Ethiopian Christianity, and key theological distinctions between Orthodoxy, Catholicism, and Protestantism.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:23) Mihret's Background and Education

(03:26) Viral Debate with Stuart & Cliffe Knechtle

(06:54) Journey to Christianity

(11:01) The Rich History of Ethiopian Christianity

(21:04) Orthodox vs. Catholicism: Key Differences

(27:43) Orthodox vs. Protestantism: Key Differences

(33:06) The Importance of Unity and Truth in Christianity

(39:08) Understanding Dogma and Canon in Orthodox Christianity

(40:33) The Significance of the Eucharist

(44:17) Real Presence vs. Transubstantiation

(56:16) Orthodox View on Baptism

(1:00:57) Infant Baptism and Covenant Theology

(1:07:15) Future Plans and Projects

(1:09:33) Outro

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#370 Seth Gehle - Overcoming Trauma & Finding Forgiveness Jul 03, 2025

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Seth Gehle is a motivational speaker, author, military veteran, and family man. As a child, he endured many years of neglect and severe sexual abuse. Seth joins Zuby to explore his journey of healing from childhood trauma. He explains why he chose to open up about his experiences, the consequences of overusing the 'trauma' label, and the difficult road toward forgiveness. With insights on empathy, accountability, and manifesting positivity, this conversation is a powerful reflection on resilience and the transformative power of storytelling.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:25) The Catalyst for Sharing Seth Gehle’s Story

(03:40) Therapeutic Moments and Emotional Challenges

(05:20) The Reality of Abuse and Trauma

(13:39) The Problem with Labelling Trauma

(17:43) The Importance of Perspective

(37:10) Forgiveness and Moving Forward

(40:57) Understanding the Roots of Hurt

(42:30) The Power of Forgiveness

(44:05) Manifesting Positivity

(45:17) The Non-Linear Path to Healing

(47:53) Balancing Empathy and Accountability

(57:17) The Impact of Sharing Your Story

(1:05:43) Parenthood and Breaking the Cycle

(1:13:08) Future Plans and Final Thoughts

(1:15:55) Outro

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#369 Stephen Ridley - Radical Reinvention Jun 26, 2025

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Stephen Ridley is a professional pianist who has performed in dozens of countries. He shares the deeply personal journey that led him away from a high-powered banking career towards a life of creativity and authenticity. From the early days of musical training to the devastating loss of his father, Stephen recounts the key moments that shaped his path. He talks about overcoming fears, the joy of street performance, and the freedom found in following one’s passion. For the first time, he also publicly shares the story of his kidnapping in Brazil.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:50) Stephen Ridley's Musical Journey Begins

(02:28) Formal Training and Losing Passion

(03:38) A Turning Point: The Loss of a Father

(06:13) Complex Relationship with His Father

(15:16) Struggles and Determination

(17:31) The Banking Career and Realization

(29:11) The Decision to Leave Banking

(32:50) A Life-Changing Moment

(33:38) Seeing the World with New Eyes

(34:24) Exploring New Opportunities

(34:37) First Major Decision

(35:25) The Adventure Begins

(36:05) Street Performance and Stage Fright

(37:14) Facing Fears and Finding Freedom

(39:18) The Turning Point

(41:47) From Street Performer to Global Musician

(49:48) The Power of Saying Yes

(54:20) Performing Around the World

(54:53) Cultural Reflections and Favourite Places

(57:48) Kidnapped in Brazil

(01:02:09) Arrival in Rio: First Impressions

(01:03:34) Meeting Eva: A New Connection

(01:04:11) Beach Volleyball and Brazilian Culture

(01:07:47) Night Out in the Favela

(01:08:40) Kidnapped in Rio

(01:15:46) Stockholm Syndrome and Escape

(01:24:58) Reunion with Eva

(01:29:10) Future Plans and Reflections

(01:29:18) Outro

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#368 Enes Kanter Freedom - The Cost of Standing Up Jun 19, 2025

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Zuby is joined by former NBA player and human rights activist Enes Kanter Freedom. Enes shares his journey from a young boy in Turkey to becoming an outspoken advocate for freedom and justice. They discuss the origins of his activism, the intense backlash he’s faced, and his commitment to calling out human rights violations, especially in China. The conversation also explores the responsibilities of athletes, empathy, and how faith fuels Enes’s mission.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:19) Life as an Activist

(03:52) Challenges & Consequences

(11:33) Speaking Out Against China

(26:07) Impact of Activism

(29:53) Role of Athletes in Social Issues

(33:55) Power of Empathy and Education

(39:20) Faith & Activism

(41:05) Human Rights Violations in China

(51:19) Challenges and Responsibilities of Activism

(1:00:40) Personal Sacrifices and Future Goals

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#367 Gary Arndt - Tales From 200+ Countries & Territories Jun 12, 2025

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Gary Arndt is a seasoned traveler who has explored over 200 countries and territories. He shares what inspired him to leave his conventional life behind and pursue full-time travel, recounting some of his most eye-opening and transformative journeys. Zuby and Gary discuss the economics of full-time travel, different cultures, and the contrasting travel philosophies between Americans and Europeans. Gary also shares surprising observations, overlooked destinations, and how travel has shaped his current pursuits and outlook on life.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction and Guest Welcome

(01:32) Gary’s Background and Journey

(03:24) Early Travel Experiences

(04:38) Deciding to Travel Full-Time

(06:25) Traveling to 200+ Countries & Territories

(09:43) Cost of Full-Time Travel

(12:31) Importance of Traveling

(17:27) American vs. European Travel Perspectives

(23:18) Surprising Travel Observations

(27:08) Unique and Fascinating Destinations

(29:12) Fascination with the Stan Countries

(30:27) Traveling in Central Asia

(31:41) Language Barriers in Travel

(33:49) Unvisited Destinations

(35:47) Challenges and Restrictions in Travel

(38:31) Unique Places to Visit

(48:15) Memorable Travel Experiences

(50:51) Lessons from Traveling

(52:50) Current Projects and Future Plans

(54:52) Outro

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#366 Nick Huber - 25 Controversial Ideas For This Century Jun 05, 2025

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Nick Huber is an American entrepreneur and real estate investor, known for promoting the power of 'boring businesses'. We explore the nature of entrepreneurship, how struggle and privilege shape success, and the cultural divides within the USA. Nick also shares 25 provocative opinions on the future of society, tech's impact on kids, health, parenting, education, and more.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Embracing Boring Businesses & The Myth of Entrepreneurship

(00:48) Nick Huber: Background, Family, and Early Ventures

(03:47) Are Entrepreneurs Born or Made?

(09:01) Privilege, Struggle & The Role of Hardship

(14:31) Cultural Divides and Political Shifts

(17:34) Nick's Controversial Predictions for the Future

(44:57) How Short-Form Content and TV Affect Kids

(47:27) Plastics, Non-Stick Pans & Soft Drinks: Everyday Health Risks

(52:37) Alcohol, Pit Bulls & Other Hot Takes

(55:47) Recycling: Scam or Saviour?

(56:48) Fitness: Sauna, Strength Training, and Running

(1:03:44) Heart Health, Obesity, and the Rise of GLP-1s

(1:07:37) Traditional Business vs. Startups & the AI Debate

(1:14:04) Bitcoin, Altcoins & Crypto Skepticism

(1:15:26) Social Media, Parenting & Optimism for the Future

(1:16:28) Most Concerning Issues Right Now

(1:31:22) Nick's New Book: The Sweaty Startup

(1:32:27) Outro

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#365 Marni Kinrys - The Truth About Dating, Gender Roles & Attraction May 29, 2025

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Marni Kinrys, widely known as 'The Wing Girl', is a veteran dating coach with over 20 years of experience helping men navigate the complex world of attraction and relationships. Marni shares her journey to becoming the first female voice in the male-dominated pickup artist community. Zuby and Marni discuss gender differences in communication, coaching, and romantic expectations, as well as delusion, body image, and the role of honesty in dating. The conversation also covers how technology and social media have shifted dating dynamics, the decline in marriage, and predictions for the future of gender relations.

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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:41) Marni’s background & coaching journey

(04:39) Entering the PUA world

(06:46) Transforming dating advice

(08:31) Reactions to her work & motivation

(13:19) Meeting her husband & family life

(16:10) Raising boys & coaching men vs women

(18:29) Insights from coaching men

(21:06) Childhood & emotional dynamics