Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#318: First Responders Feb 23, 2023

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What’s the first thing you do when you or your child is struggling with something?
Is it to pray?
Prayer should be our first response, not our last resort.
There is power in prayer.
Stormie Omartian (stor·mee ow·maar·tee·uhn) writes this in her book The Power of a Praying Parent:
“When we pray, we bring that power to bear upon everything we are praying about, and we allow the power of God to work through our powerlessness. When we pray, we are humbling ourselves before God and saying, “I need Your presence and Your power, Lord. I can’t do this without You.” When we don’t pray, it’s like saying we have no need of anything outside of ourselves.”
Let’s be “first responders” when it comes to prayer.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#317: Over or Under Feb 22, 2023

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When it comes to toilet paper placement, do you prefer the paper to flow over or under the roll? Well, according to recent surveys, around 70% of Americans prefer the toilet paper to roll over the top.
This may not seem like a big deal, but for some people, toilet paper placement causes controversy, chaos, and conflict.
We laugh at such pettiness, but the truth is we often major on the minor things in life. Do you get bent out of shape if your son taps his foot at the table or chews too loudly?
Don’t let tiny annoyances flush your patience down the toilet. By staying focused on what really matters in life, you’ll be on a “roll” in helping your son grow into a godly young man.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#316: Give Him A Mountain Feb 21, 2023

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If you don’t give your son a challenge, he will challenge you.
Julie was frustrated that her teenage son, Tyler, wouldn’t help with any chores around the house. But when Tyler’s dad asked him to repair the fence in the backyard, Tyler jumped at the opportunity. Why?
Boys are uniquely wired to crave adventure. So much so that they often lose motivation when things are too easy or simple. This is why many extremely intelligent children often struggle in school– simply because of boredom.
If your son is being defiant with you, consider giving him an even greater, more complicated responsibility. Bonus points if it involves an outdoor activity! It may seem counterintuitive, but without a mountain in his life,your son will try to conquer you.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#315: Maximizing Moments Feb 20, 2023

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Have you watched the track and field events at the Summer Olympic Games?
The training that goes into running a marathon is much different than what a runner needs to do to prepare for a 100-yard dash.
Raising godly boys is more like a marathon than a sprint.
Parenting is a lifelong process filled with seemingly insignificant moments.
We must take advantage of every opportunity God gives us, whether it’s the car ride to and from school or tucking them into bed at night.
“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” Deuteronomy 6:6-7
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#314: Love God Love People Feb 17, 2023

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Have you heard of The Greatest Commandment?
It’s found in the Bible in Matthew 22:36-40, where Jesus says: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
These verses can be summed up as “Love God and Love People.”
A foundation for raising godly boys is teaching them to first love God and then show that same love to the people they encounter.
Let’s set an example for our boys to follow by living out The Greatest Commandment.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#313: A Harmony of Hearts Feb 16, 2023

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Does your son play a musical instrument? Maybe the piano, trumpet, or violin?
The process of learning how to play an instrument is a lot like parenting. It requires patience, persistence, and a passion to improve.
During the parenting process, mistakes will inevitably happen. Improper technique may cause squeaky notes. Your instruction may fall flat or be off key. And despite your best efforts, your guidance may not be properly choreographed.
When this happens, don’t get discouraged. Through consistent effort, prayer, and love, you’ll make progress.
By tuning your heart to the rhythm of your son’s personality, you’ll experience the melody of fellowship. And when you and your son are in sync, harmony within the home will crescendo into his growth as a godly young man.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#312: Three Magical Words Feb 15, 2023

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Have you ever seen a magician pull a rabbit out of a hat? Maybe you stared in wonder as he made someone suddenly disappear.
Kids think magic tricks are super cool, but performing these illusions requires lots of practice.
As a dad, you might not be a professional magician, but you can still perform magic in 3 simple steps:
Step 1: Wrap your arm around your son.
Step 2: With heartfelt meaning, say, “I love you, buddy!”
Step 3: Watch as a smile magically appears on your son’s face.
It’s definitely important to demonstrate your words in action, but never forget those three magical words every boy needs to hear. By telling your son, “I love you,” you remind him how special he really is.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#311: Love Languages Feb 14, 2023

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Hola. Bonjour. Konnichiwa. [kon-nee-chee-wah]
You may not know Spanish, French, or Japanese, but make sure you understand your son’s love language.
Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages of Children, lists important ways to show how much you care. The 5 love languages include:
Physical Touch
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Gifts
and Acts of Service
By taking time to understand your son’s personality, you’ll be able to strategically connect with him. And by speaking your son’s love language, you show (through action) that you want the very best for him.
Guide your son in becoming a godly man. Learn about a Proven Process that is helping parents accomplish this. For more information, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#310: Valentines Day Feb 13, 2023

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Your son probably thinks Valentine’s Day is silly. But it’s actually much more important than he realizes.
When your boy sees you buy your wife flowers, or dress up for a date with your husband, you are sending several important messages.
First, you are showing your son that you have a healthy marriage– something that psychologists say is crucial for a child’s well being. Boys who are raised by married parents do better in school and are even more likely to be physically healthier. Secondly, you are setting a crucial example for your son about relating to women in a respectful and loving way– which will help him in future relationships.
So go ahead– splurge on a gift for your spouse this Valentine’s Day. Loving your spouse is loving your son, too.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#309: Made Perfect in Weakness Feb 10, 2023

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Is social media hurting your son’s self-esteem?
Social networks often create unreasonable expectations of what a man is. And because of that, boys may look at their flaws and failures and think that they’re not good enough.
As a dad, remind your son that even great men from the Bible experienced physical and spiritual weaknesses. Moses stuttered. Jacob was a cheater. Elijah wrestled with depression. And the apostle Peter had a temper. The list could go on and on.
Fortunately, 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.”
Despite our flaws and failures, God sees our potential. In fact, He can take our weaknesses and transform them into something amazing—something beyond our wildest expectations.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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