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#438: Is Safety the Goal? Aug 10, 2023

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Maybe our son’s safety shouldn’t be our only goal.
Author Leslie Leyland Fields raised her son in Alaska. One day, her son got injured in an accident, and Leslie boarded a plane with him to get help. But when she felt the pilot pull up hard and turn, she thought they were about to hit a mountain and die.
At that moment, Leslie felt regret. She thought she had failed at her one goal as a mom: to give her son a safe childhood. But just as her anxiety grew, a sense of peace from Jesus filled her heart.
Leslie realized that, more than just safety, her goal was to raise a boy who could courageously face whatever challenges life brings– knowing that Jesus is always by his side.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#437: God’s Children Aug 09, 2023

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Who do your children belong to?
The Bible says that once they decide to follow Jesus, they become God’s children.
“To all who believed him and accepted him, he gave the right to become children of God.” John 1:12
It’s amazing that God loves them so much and has named them as one of his children.
Becoming a child of God comes with security. Being secure in your identity as God’s child removes your need for worldly love, praise, acceptance, affirmation, and respect.
When the world, people, and circumstances try to bring you and your boys down, remind yourself and them of your secure identity in Christ.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#436: Are Girls Better? Aug 08, 2023

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Dr James Dobson of Focus on the Family once received an interesting letter from a nine-year-old girl.
The letter was titled “why girls are better than boys.” The list included everything from “girls are kinder to animals,” to “girls don’t smell as bad.” Amused, Dr. Dobson posted the letter in his newsletter, and asked boys to make their own list. He received a variety of responses, including “boys are better because they aren’t scared of scary movies,” and “boys can build better forts than girls.”
Unfortunately, our society often leans towards that nine-year-old girls’ perspective– celebrating feminine traits and dismissing masculine traits. It’s up to us as parents to remind boys that their natural tendencies to be brave, innovative, and energetic should be celebrated, as well.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#435: Peace Provider Aug 07, 2023

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What gives you peace?
Is it listening to music, spending time outdoors, or meditating?
The best source of peace is the Prince of Peace, Jesus Christ.
Jesus told his disciples — and us: “I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.”
When our boys are worried and scared, we should point them to the Provider of Peace, Jesus.
His peace will help change how they respond to scary situations. When they focus on Jesus, he will quiet their fears and give them the peace the world cannot offer.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#434: The Talk Aug 04, 2023

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Have you had The Talk with your son?
That conversation about physical differences between males and females can be awkward and uncomfortable. So awkward, in fact, that some parents postpone The Talk until a later, more convenient time.
As a dad, you need to courageously begin that conversation. Today’s kids encounter sexuality at school, the mall, and even at sporting events. And because boys are curious and visually enticed, waiting to have The Talk may lead to confusion of what sex is all about.
Fortunately, there are excellent resources from Christian organizations to help you talk about sex from a biblical perspective. And even though the conversation may be a little awkward, when your son realizes that you want the very best for him, he’ll listen.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#433: Teaching Respect for Women Aug 03, 2023

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How can you teach your son to respect women?
Romans 12:10 says “Love one another with a brotherly love.” That is a far cry from the values of our culture, where disrespect is the norm. But while boys tend to have a natural respect for older men, they may need help learning how to treat women appropriately.
First, lead by example. If you’re a man, treat the women in your life with kindness. Second, be sure to filter out and discuss what messages are shown in TV shows. And thirdly, remind your son how much God loves him, and allow age-appropriate levels of responsibility. When your son knows he’s a beloved child of God, he’s more likely to treat others that way, as well.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#432: Gardening and Parenting Aug 02, 2023

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Raising a son is a lot like growing a garden.
There’s a lot of strategy and decision making involved– where to plant your garden and what seeds to put in the ground. There’s grunt work– cultivating, planting, and building a fence. There’s waiting and watering daily, and dealing with unknowns like weather. There’s the stress of predators, and the joy of watching new growth.
Even with all that work, in the end, in both gardening and parenting, the results are still completely out of our control.
As parents, we have two choices. We can fear that lack of control, and exhaust ourselves trying to do everything right. Or, we can do our best, and trust that it’s God who ultimately helps our son grow and bloom.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#431: Strategic Correction Aug 01, 2023

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When you want to open a package, you use scissors, not a jackhammer. When you want to tame your bedhead, you use a comb, not a pitchfork.
Using the appropriate tool for the job is important. Similarly, when it’s necessary to correct your son, make sure to use the appropriate technique.
A stern gaze might be enough warning for a sensitive boy. Another child may need extra chores or other forms of discipline to remind him that wrong behavior has consequences.
As you train your son in the way he should go, be sensitive to his attitude and emotions. By adapting your method of correction, your son will be more likely to respond positively. And as he grows wiser, your relationship with one another will grow stronger.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#430: Kisses Jul 31, 2023

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Is your son “too cool” for mom’s kisses? Here’s what you can do.
Rhonda Stoppe was sitting in a hospital room with her six year old son Brandon. He was getting a sleep study after having a horrible seizure. Brandon was asleep, and Rhonda walked over and kissed him on the forehead. The technician told Rhonda to go look at the screen. Rhonda was astonished to see that, even though Brandon was asleep, his brain activity actually showed that he knew his mom kissed him.
So if your son rolls his eyes when you try to kiss him, kiss him when he’s sleeping. And– more than that– remember that, even if it doesn’t seem like it, the little things you do each day to show your son love do make a difference.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#429: American Idols Jul 28, 2023

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Are you an idol worshiper?
While most Americans don’t worship carved statues, idol worship is still prevalent in our society. We idolize things like money, possessions, and jobs … and people like actors, athletes, musicians, and even members of our own families.
A biblical definition of an idol is anything or anyone we value more than God or worshiping someone or something other than God as though it were God.
In the first of his ten commandments, God said, “You shall have no other gods before me.” He is a “jealous” God and will not share his glory with anyone or anything.
What idols do you need to get rid of? Ask God to help you completely tear them down today. And teach your son the rightful way to value wisdom, talent, conviction, and courage in others without making an idol of them.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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