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#468: Don’t Be Fooled Sep 21, 2023

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Do you remember the last time your child lied to you and how it made you feel?
According to research, parents are the primary victims of lying, with 86 percent of lies being told to them.
Kids often believe they are clever enough to fool their parents, but fathers and mothers usually see right through their lies.
Parents are not as easily deceived as children think. Most of the time, the truth is clear and will come out sooner or later.
We should remind our children that God is omniscient. He knows everything we say and do.
Telling the truth may be hard sometimes, but honesty, truly, is the best policy.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#467: Go Fish Sep 20, 2023

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“Do yourself a favor. Take a kid fishing.”
That’s a quote from a man named Frank White, who produced a show called Southern Sportsman. He would say those words at the end of every broadcast.
Psychologists would agree with his suggestion. Fishing gives your son an opportunity to be outside, practice problem-solving skills, and connect with others. One study even found that combat veterans who went to a fly fishing retreat slept better and showed less symptoms of stress.
It’s fairly easy and cheap to get started. Many public libraries have rods and reels to check out for free. Go to your state’s game and fish department website and find a local body of water. Then, cast a line out with your son, and marvel together at God’s amazing creation.
For more ideas to raise boys to become godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#466: CEOs Needed Sep 19, 2023

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How can you tell if someone needs encouragement?
If they are breathing, according to Truett Cathy, founder of Chick-fil-A.
Children can easily and quickly become discouraged, especially when tired or stressed, and become negative, self-critical, and depressed.
The Bible mentions “encouragement” a lot, including Hebrews 3:13, which tells us to “encourage each other daily.”
You can create an encouraging environment for your loved ones by building up and encouraging them more than criticizing and correcting them.
Kids will know it is OK and safe to make mistakes and learn that God can use their failures to help them grow.
Parents should be their family’s CEO — Chief Encouragement Officers.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#465: Changes Sep 18, 2023

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Your teen boy is going through a lot of changes. You might need to change a bit, too.
Of course, the fundamentals of godly parenting and discipline will stay the same. But as your son matures, it’s important to take a step back and prayerfully consider that a change in approach may be helpful.
For instance, a teen boy will most likely pull away from his mom and gravitate towards his dad. This is normal and healthy, and experts say to encourage that relationship. Many high school boys are also extremely hard on themselves and sensitive to criticism, so be sure to ramp up the encouragement and empathy. And finally, teen boys are dealing with a lot of hormones and emotions. Encourage your son to pursue healthy outlets, especially outdoor physical activity.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#464: Better Together Sep 15, 2023

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Have you heard the saying, “Life is better together”?
The Bible puts it this way in Proverbs 27:17: As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
Here are five ways you can live out being better together as a family.
Read together. Read the Bible and other books as a family.
Learn together. Share what God is showing you as read His Word.
Talk together. Talk about what God is doing in your life.
Pray together. Thank God for all He's done for your family and pray for your family and other people.
Memorize scripture together. Like the psalmist, let’s hide God's Word in our hearts so that we will not sin against Him.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#453: A Lasting Inheritance Sep 14, 2023

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What can you give your children and grandchildren that won’t cost you any money and will last forever?
Parents and grandparents who teach their children and grandchildren to know, love and follow Jesus will leave a spiritual inheritance that will last for generations and into eternity.
Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Have you encouraged your children or grandchildren to follow God? Do you pray for them to know and love Him? If you do not have children, are there any kids in your church or neighborhood for whom you could regularly pray?
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#462: Parenting Success Sep 13, 2023

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“What does successful parenting look like?”
If you ask a group of parents this question, you would get a lot of different responses.
Most parents want their kids to graduate high school and college, get a good job, get married, have children, and live “happily ever after.”
As a parent, you can easily become focused on worldly success and helping your kids achieve the “American Dream,” but that’s not the goal in Christian parenting.
Your goal should be to raise your kids to know, love, and follow Jesus!
If you raise your boys to love the LORD with all their heart, soul, and strength, you have achieved parenting success.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#461: Major Matters Sep 12, 2023

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Have you heard this saying? “Don’t major in the minors.”
We can easily get distracted in life and become consumed by things that don’t really matter.
Jesus often condemned the Pharisees for this type of behavior, giving them a stern lecture in Luke 11:42.
“Woe to you Pharisees, because you give God a tenth of your mint, rue and all other kinds of garden herbs, but you neglect justice and the love of God. You should have practiced the latter without leaving the former undone.”
Let’s ask God to help us teach our boys to focus on the things that matter most: loving Him and loving our neighbors.
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#460: Honor and Respect Sep 11, 2023

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What should you do when your son disrespects you or someone else?
Try to resist the urge to reprimand or correct him in public.
When you are in private, calmly tell him that while you are sad that he chose to show dishonor or disrespect, this is an opportunity for him to grow, and you hope he will make a better choice the next time.
Then be sure to commend him the next time you see him showing honor and respect.
Remember that the best way for children to learn the value of honor and respect is to see you live it out, especially during disagreements.
Values are indeed more caught than taught.
Let’s follow the Golden Rule by treating others the way we want to be treated.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#459: Caterpillar Circle Sep 08, 2023

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In his book Bringing Up Boys, Dr. James Dobson compares parents of sons to a bug called a processionary caterpillar.
A scientist once tested these caterpillars by making them walk in a circle, with a food source in the middle of their circle. The caterpillars just kept following each other, instead of stopping to eat, and eventually died of starvation, right next to a food source.
Dr. Dobson says parents of sons often follow other parents in the same way. They put their son in lots of activities, trying to help him keep up with his peers. But in reality, most of the time, what boys really need is to stop, take a rest, and connect with the source of true life– our Creator God.
For more ideas on raising boys to become godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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