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#578: Personal Hygiene Feb 22, 2024

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Wet towels on the bathroom floor. Dirty clothes strewn about the bedroom with Legos embedded within, acting as a plastic minefield. And dirt. Dirt everywhere.
If you have boys, then this little visual has you nodding in agreement. Personal hygiene for the average pre-teen boy or early teenager just doesn’t compute. Not until there is a girl involved. Then, we see the transformation unfold before our eyes. The hair has to be just so. Clean clothes matter. Deodorant and cologne become necessities.
What happened?
He now has a reason to care.
But didn’t he have a reason to care before? Yes. “Whether then, you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”* Sometimes, boys need to be taught how God’s Word applies to every aspect of life.
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#577: Water Bottles Feb 21, 2024

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Is your son ready?
John David was giving the boys a last-minute pack check before heading out on a week-long hike and campout of over eighty miles, when he noticed they only had one water bottle apiece. The trails were long and dusty, and many times there would be no streams or rivers along the way, and they could only find water to filter at the end of the day. He quickly got them more water bottles, and they were ready for the trip.
One sip of a Sunday sermon is not enough to carry your son through the week. Teach him to drink deeply of the word, daily refreshing himself by streams of pure water in scripture. Morning and nightly draughts from God’s word will sustain him, clear his mind, and give him strength to carry on.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#576: H.E.A.R. the Word Feb 20, 2024

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Here’s an idea for studying the Bible with your teenage son.
First, find a simple Bible reading plan online. Each day, you and your son read the passage together or own your own.
Then, after reading the passage, go through the H.E.A.R acronym. This was created by Pastor Robbie Gallaty [gal-ah-tee].
H stands for– Highlight a verse that stands out
E— Explain what this verse means
A— Apply this to your life
And R— Respond to God’s Word.
Pastor Robbie says he created this acronym to eliminate many of the excuses people give for not understanding God’s word. It’s also an excellent catalyst for sparking spiritual conversations between you and your son. Pray about giving the H.E.A.R method a try.
For more ideas to raise your son to be a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#575: Presidents Day Feb 19, 2024

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President’s Day is a time to reflect and a time to pray.
First, we must reflect on the strong, godly, and wise men that built this nation. Our society would like us to dismiss the heroism of our forefathers, because of their shortcomings. But if we erase our history, we also lose the legacy of greatness.
Young men today need to hear the real-life stories of flaws, mistakes, triumphs, and true masculinity. Just as God used imperfect men in the Bible to do heroic things for His kingdom, let’s remind our boys that God did— and still does– use flawed heroes to achieve great things.
Second, let’s remember to pray. Now, more than ever, our government needs prayer for wisdom and discernment. Pray that our nation’s leaders would turn to the true source of wisdom– our Father God– as they make crucial decisions.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#574: William Wallace Feb 16, 2024

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William Wallace, who fought for Scottish independence, recalls this quote his uncle used to tell him: “I tell you a truth: Liberty is the best of things, my son; never live under any slavish bond.”
Teach your son to walk in freedom. Many things in this life will seek to enslave him: twisted immorality, the pursuit of selfish ends and amassing wealth, or a life of ease and pleasure. But it is for freedom that Christ has set us free.
Your son is free from the bondage of Pharisaical judgment, Corinthian licentiousness, and everything in between. Whom the son sets free is free indeed.
So help him fight his battles, help free him from society’s grip, and let him soar with eagle’s wings so he, in turn, may reach out and help free others.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#573: Integrity Feb 15, 2024

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Integrity. We sometimes call it, “Honor,” or “Our Word.”
If we say, “You have my word,” we wish for that person to believe us and trust us. Not just now, but in the future as well.
Yet, Integrity is a difficult thing for young men to build in today’s society. They are surrounded by peers, cultural icons, and even relatives who lie to “save their backsides.”
The Bible says, “Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity than a rich man who is crooked in his ways.” Proverbs 28:6
God said we could believe His Word unto salvation and everlasting life. And if our young men are to follow in the Master’s footsteps, then having integrity that mirrors their Master should be a priority. Not only for themselves, but for their posterity too.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#572: Valentine's Day Feb 14, 2024

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“Valentine’s Day! Yuck!”
Is this the type of response you hear when you ask your son about Valentine’s Day? We typically think the holiday is “girlie” and centered around flowers and chocolate. However, Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to remind your son of Jesus’s love for us and the strength it took for Him to go to the cross because of His love for humanity.
When referred to in the Bible, love isn’t the romantic type. Instead, biblical love shows courage and sacrifice. Jesus put our needs before His desires. And, on our worst day, God loves us unconditionally. This is the type of love we crave. And how we want to love others.
Read 1 Cor 13, the love chapter, with your son today. Then discuss the attributes of Godly love—the only love that is everlasting.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#571: John Eldredge Feb 13, 2024

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John Eldredge writes, “Men want a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue. That is what is written in their hearts. That is what little boys play at. That is what men's movies are about. You just see it. It is undeniable.”
In today’s world, those desires can become distorted, twisted, or boys can be shamed out of righteous desires to pursue the lies society paints with glitter and holds up as bait.
You can affirm your boys in their desires for adventure, victory, and love, and do it with purpose. Teach them the right battles to fight. Give them tremendous adventures to live. Train them to be ready to rescue.
Surround your son with men and boys seeking a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.
For information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#570: Popcorn Development Feb 12, 2024

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Do you know how microwave popcorn works?
Each kernel has a tiny drop of water inside. When that drop of water is heated up, the kernel explodes into popcorn!
Here’s what I want to hone in on– even though they are placed in the same bag and heated in the same microwave— each kernel will turn into popcorn at different times.
In the same way, your son will develop at his own rate. It’s very normal for boys to develop at a slower rate than girls, and then eventually catch up. But often, the school system continues to compare boys and girls as equals, which leads to many boys being considered developmentally delayed.
If that describes your son– don’t lose heart. Most likely, he will catch up in due time. He is perfectly and wonderfully made.
For more ideas for raising boys into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#569: More Fish Feb 09, 2024

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How much food can one boy eat? What about ten boys? If your son is anything like mine, they can put away some groceries.
David and the other leaders planned ahead, and had a cooler full of food for the boys' outdoor leadership training retreat. What they did not count on was the fish.
Camping right next to a lake, the boys spent every free moment with a line in the water, built a fire, and cooked fish for breakfast, lunch, and supper. David went home with 90% of the food he brought to the campout!
Godly mentoring, fun with friends, and lots of fish-- it was a weekend to remember!
For more information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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