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#618: Facing Fear Apr 18, 2024

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It’s a sad fact that anxiety is attacking kids across the country.
According to the Center for Disease Control, 7.1% of children have been diagnosed with anxiety. That’s around 4.4 million kids!
There are many reasons for this anxiety, including fear of contracting COVID, worry about finding friends at school, and even dread about what the future holds.
As a parent, it’s important to remind your son or daughter that even when the world feels out of control, we can have confidence that God reigns supreme.
Joshua 1:9 says,
“Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
What a wonderful promise that God loves us and takes care of us.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#617: Instruction Manual Apr 17, 2024

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Two simple words strike terror in a parent’s heart. Those words are: “Assembly Required.”
And yet, too often we ignore the instruction manual when putting together a bike or race car track for our son. We think, “Yeah, I can do this by myself!” But after hours of frustration, we swallow our pride and study the instruction manual to assemble the toy.
Parenting your son is also a complex process, especially these days with so many flashy distractions competing for his attention.
Thankfully, God’s Word provides detailed instruction on how to guide your son in the way he should go. Take time to read The Book of Proverbs together. There you’ll learn practical wisdom about how God wants us to grow and develop along the pathway of life.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#616: Time is Ticking Apr 16, 2024

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Each day contains 1,440 minutes. That may seem like a bunch of time, but it passes by in a flash. The same can be said for weeks, and months, and even years.
Time is passing quickly . . . that’s a fact. But here’s another fact: You don’t want to look back on your parenting years with regret. Don’t allow the busyness of life to pull you away from investing time and attention in your son. Because—before you know it—your son will be grown up and heading out into the world.
Ephesians 5:16 reminds us to redeem the time because the days are evil. But how do we do this?
Begin by making sure your priorities are properly focused. Then, be intentional in spending one-on-one time with your son.
For more parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#615: True Self-Worth Apr 15, 2024

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Statistics indicate that girls struggle with self-image problems more than boys. But if it’s your son that’s hurting because he doesn’t like how he looks, statistics don’t matter. You just want to help your son.
Compounding the problem are social media sites promoting their version of what is physically attractive and culturally trendy. When boys compare themselves with these unrealistic expectations, feelings of inadequacy can cause them to sink into depression.
Help your son develop a proper understanding of true self-worth. Remind him that 1 Timothy 2:4 says that we are “chosen by God and precious.”
As you guide your son through life, focus his attention on the Savior, and away from social media sites that batter his self-esteem.
To combat negative influences, consider getting involved in healthy outdoor activities. For more information, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#614: Summer Camp Apr 12, 2024

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If you’ve got a boy in your house, you know that God made boys with lots of energy and enthusiasm.
It’s important that we provide ways for them to experience fun, excitement, and adventure—beyond the everyday routines of life.
This can sometimes be difficult at home where space is limited. That’s why finding ways for him to engage in the outdoors is so important.
And, while creating opportunities in the backyard or a local park can go a long way toward encouraging this engagement, think about creating camping and hiking experiences that go beyond the ordinary. Maybe find your way to an outdoor Christian Boys organization like Trail Life that makes this part easy!
For more tips on helping your son grow physically, mentally, and spiritually, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#613: A Balancing Act Apr 11, 2024

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Have you ever played Jenga, the block-stacking game?
It’s fun taking turns stacking blocks and watching the tower grow tall. But eventually, the tower becomes unbalanced, and the blocks come tumbling down.
As a parent, don’t allow yourself to become unbalanced in life. As you go about your daily routines, avoid stacking too many obligations in your life. The higher your number of commitments, the greater the risk of wearing yourself out and failing to fulfill your most important responsibilities.
Finding that balance between work and family life can be really hard. The key, though, is determining your priorities and then pursuing only those activities that contribute toward your overall goals.
But remember, you’ll never go wrong by investing time and attention in your kids.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#612: A Lighthouse in Life Apr 10, 2024

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Here’s a trivia question: Which state has the most lighthouses? If you answered Michigan, you’re absolutely right.
In the darkness of night, lighthouses warn sailors of shallow sandbars and rocky shorelines. Without these lighthouses, many boats and sailors would crash into these obstacles and suffer great hardship and pain.
In many ways, you serve as a lighthouse to your son. As he sails through life, you are in a key position to warn him of unseen hazards. Use your own personal experiences to point him in the right direction. But make sure you also emphasize the importance of God’s Word. The Bible offers your son practical guidance in navigating the seas of life.
Help your son stay on course. For more information and parenting resources, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#611:Friends Apr 09, 2024

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Social media sites have tremendous power to influence your son’s thoughts and actions.
But there’s an even more influential force in your son’s life—and that’s his friends.
Research tells us that ensuring a positive community of faith for your son is one of the best ways to shield him against negative influences and to set him up for success.
Though it’s unreasonable for you to expect your son’s friends to be perfect, they should exhibit a general attitude of respect and obedience to authority.
Do you know who your son’s friends are? Are they a good influence, or do they display destructive behaviors that are holding him back?
By helping your son know how to choose good friends, you provide an atmosphere of growth and development.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or Raising GodlyBoys.com

#610: Shining Star Apr 08, 2024

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What does 100 billion of anything look like?
Astronomers estimate that our Milky Way Galaxy holds around 100 billion stars. If you counted one star per second, it would take you over 3,000 years to count those stars.
That’s incredible!
And yet, God—the master designer of billions of galaxies—loves each person more than any of those stars.
So, the next time you see your son frustrated and hurting, wrap your arms around him and give him a giant hug. Remind him that he is of tremendous value to you AND to the Almighty God of the universe.
Trials and challenges are a natural part of life, but together, you and your son can bring them to God in prayer.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#609: Visually Influenced Apr 05, 2024

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Boys are influenced by what they see. That’s a fact.
The question is: What are they looking at throughout the day?
The answer: Their phones and other digital devices.
But what’s especially disturbing and sad is that the internet is bombarding boys with sensual and even pornographic images.
Guys may think they’re tough, but they’re no match against sexual temptation. A recent study found that 90% of teens have watched porn by age 18. Those images are destroying their ability to form lasting relationships—including a proper relationship with the Lord.
What’s your son watching on his phone? Have you installed filtering software on all digital devices? Have you had a heart-to-heart talk with him about how to resist temptation? These discussions aren’t easy, but your son is worth it.
For helpful resources, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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