Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#769: The Man-ager Nov 15, 2024

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Are you raising a “man–ager”?
Pastor Jon Tyson coined this phrase, which describes a man who is physically an adult but still living like a child– playing video games all night, living with his parents, and not pursuing higher education or a stable career.
Pastor Tyson says that one of the biggest things that separates a boy from a man is the confidence to pursue hard things in life.
As your son grows up, be sure to allow him to face difficulties, even in situations when you could easily solve the situation yourself. Your goal is not to give your son an easy, pain-free life– but to give him the skills and confidence he needs to do difficult, worthwhile things, and contribute to society and God’s greater kingdom.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#768: Facing Limitations Nov 14, 2024

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“What if you could be a better husband, father, and man without the use of your legs or hands?”
That was the question that Chad Hymas [hi-miss]’s father asked him, as Chad lay in a hospital bed. He had suddenly become a quadrapaletic after a farming accident. His dad’s words sparked the hope that Chad needed– and today, years later, he is a devoted husband and dad and an inspiring speaker– despite his physical disabilities.
Everyone has limitations– your son included. As parents, it’s important that we help our sons identify and face those limitations head on, as Chad’s dad did. Remind him that being perfect is not God’s call for his life. He can glorify God not in spite of– but because of and through– his own weaknesses.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#767: Staying Pure Nov 13, 2024

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Why are young boys seemingly always dirty?
As a father who has had young boys, it’s nearly impossible to keep them clean. But when it comes to spiritual things, how can we help our boys stay pure from the pull of this evil culture we live in?
Psalm 119:9 says, How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to Your Word. The Word of God will be the light for the path of your son. Living the Word and following the instructions God gives in His Word will preserve and protect your son.
The Bible also declares in Isaiah 55:11 that God’s Word does not return void. Every time to speak the Word, pray the Word, or have your son learn the Word, you are putting into motion God’s will for your child. His Word will not come back empty.
For more parenting advice and information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#766: It's Time to Affirm Nov 12, 2024

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What is a father’s most important role?
Is it providing? Is it Protecting, or teaching? I believe the most important role of a father is affirmation.
The word affirm means to state as fact. As fathers we are to declare to our children, especially our boys who they are and who God says they are. You can provide everything for your son and even teach him great things, but if you never tell him he is valuable and has a purpose, there will be a deficit in his life.
The father of lies that Jesus refers to in John 8 has been lying from the beginning. As fathers we can dispel those lies with truth.
Take time today to tell your son who he is and how special he is to you. Tell him you are proud of him and that you love him. Affirm him!
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For more parenting advice and information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#765: Wild and Crazy Nov 11, 2024

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Why are boys so wild and crazy?
If you’re a mom of boys but you never grew up with boys you may wonder why they act the way they do. Why they like to climb trees and wrestle. While they take sticks off the ground and act like they are guns. Why they are constantly dirty.
The fact is boys and girls are very different. God made boys to be adventurous and risktakers by nature. They like to explore and be wild.
Our culture has invented a term called toxic masculinity. This term seems to suppress the wild adventurous nature of men and boys.
We need to teach our boys right from wrong and the truth of God‘s word, but we need to let them be boys. Let them be wild and crazy, they’re boys!
For more parenting advice and information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#764: Stand and Salute Nov 08, 2024

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When the national anthem is sung or the pledge of allegiance recited, does your son stand and salute the flag?
Since 1777, the American flag has stood as a powerful symbol of American liberty and justice. The stars and stripes remind us of the sacrifice that many men and women gave so that we can enjoy this land of the free.
Teach your son the meaning of the flag’s colors. White signifies purity and innocence. Red indicates courage. And blue is a sign of perseverance and justice.
Even though the flag is a simple piece of nylon fabric, it represents the history, values, and strength of our great nation. Train your son to stand and salute the flag, and in this way honor our American heritage.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#763: The Heart of the Matter Nov 07, 2024

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Did you know that the human heart beats about 100,000 times a day, and the average heart will beat more than three billion times in its lifetime?
Many of the problems boys face today are heart-related — not physically, but emotionally and spiritually.
The heart of the matter is truly a matter of the heart!
As parents raising godly boys, we need to be careful to guard our hearts and help boys guard theirs.
King Solomon said it best in Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#762: Can Fear Be a Good Thing? Nov 06, 2024

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Can fear actually be a good thing?
According to the Scriptures there are two types of fear. The fear of the Lord and the spirit of fear
Proverbs says the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. But in 2 Timothy 1:7 it says God has not given us a spirit of fear.
The fear of the Lord is that voice inside of us that tells us what we’re about to do may cause harm. It’s the feeling you get when you are too close to the edge of a cliff.
The spirit of fear is from the enemy and it breeds confusion, anxiety, and ultimately inaction. It keeps people from being able to step out into what God has called them to do.
Take some time today to teach your son the difference between the fear of the Lord and the spirit of fear.
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For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#761: Boiling Blood Nov 05, 2024

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At sea level, water boils at 212 degrees Fahrenheit. But it probably doesn’t take that much heat to make your blood boil. Does your son pretend not to hear you? Is he repeatedly ignoring your instructions? Does he say sarcastic remarks that irritate you?
Parenting boys isn’t easy. The path toward maturity is often steep and bumpy—twisting and turning in unexpected ways. And because boys have a mind of their own, what they think is funny may actually be incredibly rude.
When you feel hot under the collar, take heart. Even though God never promised that the parenting journey would be easy, he promised to provide you help from day to day. And knowing that God is always faithful will help calm and cool your boiling blood.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#760: The Tongue Nov 04, 2024

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Have you ever been to a circus or zoo where animals perform tricks? Maybe you’ve seen a seal balance a bright red ball on its nose. Or maybe you’ve seen a monkey ride a tiny bicycle.
Training animals takes lots of work and patience. But even more difficult than taming animals is taming the tongue.
James 3:8 says, “But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.”
The tongue gets a lot of people in trouble. That’s why it’s important you train your son to guard his tongue. When he gets frustrated, provide tips on how to calm down. Help him understand that even small words can have big consequences. But also help your son realize that words can bring joy and happiness.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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