Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#919: A Difficult Holiday Jun 13, 2025

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Father’s Day has been ranked towards the bottom in popularity among the top 15 national holidays. Why would that be?
Father’s Day can be a difficult day for many people because of traumatic experiences we’ve had with our fathers. Dads play a very important role in the lives of their children and when you do not have that person in your life in a healthy way, it can affect you in many ways.
One of the most important roles of a father is affirmation. Affirming your children, especially your sons, that they are special, loved, and have a purpose is vital. Hearing the words, “I love you and I’m so proud of you.” Is so necessary to emotional growth, yet many people never hear those words.
If you are a man, take time today to pour into your son. take another step and speak into the life of a boy who doesn’t have a godly dad. Tell them who God says they are. You will change their lives.
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For more parenting advice and information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#918: Won't Listen to You Jun 12, 2025

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Nathan was going to buy a motorcycle– at age 15.
He wanted the bike to ride it to his job at a pizza shop. HIs parents told him it would be too dangerous, and suggested a car, instead. Nathan rolled his eyes.
But one day, Nathan announced that he was going to buy a car, instead. His boss at the pizza shop said a motorcycle would be too dangerous. Nathan’s parents glanced at each other, and smiled in relief.
Steve Biddulph tells this story in his book Raising Boys to illustrate that while your teenage son may not listen to you, he will listen to other adults. Pray and take intentional steps to make sure your son has positive, godly men in his life to point him in the right direction.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#917: Joint Attention Sequences Jun 11, 2025

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Here’s a simple way to boost your son’s development today.
Researchers have coined a term called “joint attention sequences” to describe what happens when you make a connection with your son. This can happen when you look him in the eyes, laugh when he makes a joke, read stories with him, or praise him for an accomplishment.
In his book Raising Boys, author Steve Biddulph says these sequences are more than just moments of delight– they are crucial for your son’s development. Studies have found that, especially when your son is a baby and a toddler, these moments actually help a growth hormone to flood his brain and develop it.
So today, put your phone down and give your son focused, intentional connection. His growing brain will reap the benefits.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#916: Giving the World Jun 10, 2025

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As a parent, you want to give your son the world.
But of course, time, resources, and energy are limited. When you have to tell your son “no, I can’t play with you right now,” or, “No, we can’t buy that toy right now,” you may feel guilty.
But don’t feel bad. Even God, our perfect Father, often answers our prayers and requests with “not right now” or “no.” As you teach your son to wait, you teach him patience, self control, and the value of working towards something that you want.
Maybe things are tight financially for your family right now. If so, remember– you are still a good parent. By not giving your son everything, you’re shaping his character– and that’s a gift that will last a lifetime.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#915: Son-Shine Jun 09, 2025

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When you were a kid did your parents warn you not to look directly into the sun because it could damage your vision?
When you stare directly at the sun—or other types of bright light such as a welding torch—ultraviolet light floods your retina, literally burning the exposed tissue.
However, there is a Son we need to continually look at — the Son of God, Jesus Christ.
“Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrew 12:2
Teach your son to keep his eyes on the living Son of God.
For more information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#914: Prioritizing Punctuality Jun 06, 2025

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You glance at the clock. It’s 9:17 a.m.
“Hurry up!” you holler from the kitchen. “Church starts in less than 15 minutes!”
Your kids dash from room to room, grabbing their Bibles, their shoes, and maybe even a Pop-Tart. Then you’re out the door and in the car. Yet despite your best race car driving skills, you’re late to church—again.
Can you relate to this? Do you find yourself constantly late to work, medical appointments, or other activities?
Even though life is busy, make punctuality a priority. Show your son, through action, how to organize his time. Of course, this isn’t easy. But through careful planning, you’ll demonstrate that preparation helps life run more smoothly. Plus, when you’re on time for church, all the back pews aren’t already taken.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#913: Cast Your Cares Jun 05, 2025

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Do you get anxious?
Like a fisherman who continually casts his line in search of the big catch, we are called to continually cast our cares and concerns to God.
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7
There are many things for us to be anxious about.. And anxiety among kids is on the rise, affecting nearly one in 10 children. Make sure you are tending to the cares of your kids, and helping them cast their cares on him.
We would be wise to remember Jesus’ question — can all your worries add a single moment to your life? Worry won’t change our past or future, but it can ruin the present.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#912: Fear Factor Jun 04, 2025

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What is a phobia? It is an irrational fear of something that’s unlikely to cause harm.
There are over 400 recognized phobias out there. Ablutophobia is the fear of bathing. This condition seems to be widespread among middle school and high school boys. :o)
Fear is a normal human reaction that protects us by signaling danger and preparing us to deal with it. But fear can also be unhealthy and dangerous.
The Bible talks about the “fear of man.” This manifests itself when we crave acceptance from our peers and fear rejection. The Bible says that fear of man is a dangerous trap.
Don’t let fear rule you and your child’s hearts. Instead, remember that “the Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?”
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#911: Finding Rest Jun 03, 2025

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Have you ever woken up from a long night of sleep and still felt tired?
According to the Mayo Clinic, the recommended amount of sleep for a healthy adult is at least seven hours a night.
But even getting enough sleep isn’t enough to be fully rested.
As parents, we can quickly become overburdened, overwhelmed, exhausted, discouraged, and restless.
Let’s take Jesus up on his invitation in Matthew 11:28-30:
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Practice resting in Him. And teach your son to do the same!
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#910: Playdough Jun 02, 2025

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Kids love playdough. They squeeze it and stretch it. They roll it into skinny snakes and smoosh it into wobbly clumps.
As parents, we sometimes feel like playdough. We get squeezed for time and attention. Then we get stretched this way and that way. We feel smooshed and squooshed by the demands of life.
When the routines of parenthood feel overwhelming, realize that you’re not alone. Because you are in God’s hands, He is shaping you into His likeness, forming your character into a useful masterpiece.
Kids make wild and wacky objects with playdough, but in the master Sculptor’s hands, your parenting efforts are being transformed into something beautiful.
So, don’t give up. That squeezing and stretching is just part of the process.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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