Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#158: True Manhood Jul 14, 2022

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It’s a tough world out there for boys. Research shows that they’re often unguided, ungrounded, unappreciated, and uninspired.
Part of the reason for this is that, in the name of progress, the value of manhood is being discounted. In fact, the term “toxic masculinity” is used to shame people into thinking that gender differences are bad. But they aren’t.
God designed boys and girls to be different from one another. Understanding this helps us realize that boys need male role models in their lives. It’s not enough just to be a dad. We need to demonstrate—through action—what a real man of courage, service, and leadership looks like. This begins by spending quality time with our sons. Are you doing this?
To learn more about growing boys into godly men, download the free ebook Raising Godly Boys: A Proven Process at Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#157: Boy Brain Map Jul 13, 2022

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How much have you thought about brains lately?
In a typical male brain, neural connections go from the front to the back, while in a female brain the processing goes side to side. Boys also have more gray matter than girls, and scientists think this is why boys often excel at subjects like math, while girls enjoy language and arts. And since your son’s prefrontal cortex is bigger, he is more likely to deal with emotions analytically.
But even if you understand the science of it all, your son’s behavior may still baffle you. When it does, say a prayer, and know that God created every neuron in your son’s mind. He will give you the wisdom you need.
To learn about raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#156: Better Listener Jul 12, 2022

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Does it ever seem like your son just doesn’t listen to you?
Well, you may actually be right.
Studies have found that boys are worse listeners than girls. Males only process information with one hemisphere of their brain. They also hear high-frequency sounds– like a mom’s voice– at significantly lower decibels.
Here are some tips to help your son be a better listener. First, minimize distractions, like turning off the TV or phone. Secondly, speak in short sentences, and make your main point clear. Lastly, encourage your son to “overlearn.” This means teaching him a similar concept over and over again in different ways, even after he understands it.
And, of course, praying for patience and perseverance for yourself will not hurt, either.
For tips and ideas for raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#155: Be a Superhero Jul 11, 2022

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Batman struggles with being obsessive. Ironman has a problem with arrogance. And the Hulk…well, I think you can guess what his character flaw is.
We never say a superhero isn’t super just because they have issues. So why do we as men think we cannot be good mentors, just because we aren’t perfect?
Forty-three percent of boys today are raised by a single mom. Seventy-eight percent of teachers are female. So many young men have no examples in their life showing them what it means to be a man.
Take some time today for a young man in your life. Invite him on a hike or a fishing trip. You don’t have to be perfect. To that boy, you will be a superhero.
To learn about the 5 critical needs of boys, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#154: Your Son's Personality Jul 08, 2022

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What did you have for breakfast this morning? Around 49% of people had a quick bowl of cereal. Popular brands include Cheerios, Frosted Flakes, and Raisin Bran. Across the country, Americans enjoy over a hundred types of cereal.
That’s a lot of variety, but there are even more ways of parenting kids. That’s why when it comes to raising your son, understanding his personality is vitally important.
Many boys have tons of energy. They love the excitement of sports and outdoor activities. Other kids prefer small groups where they receive individual attention.
Whatever your son’s personality, take time to talk, laugh, and play with him. By spending time together, you’ll better understand how to guide him through childhood to become a godly young man.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#153: Support Group Jul 07, 2022

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Life is busy. We all know that. But sometimes it feels as if we have to do everything to keep life running smoothly. We have to drive our kids to sports games, make sure they finish their homework, and tell them for the hundredth time to brush their teeth.
But it’s important to remember that we aren’t the only ones that want to see our kids succeed. Sunday school leaders, classroom teachers, coaches, friends, and many others have our kids’ best interests in mind.
Take a moment to thank the Lord for those people who are investing time and attention in your kids. The more you focus on the positive, the more you’ll see that you’ve got a great support group helping you along life’s parenting journey.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#152: Stand for Truth Jul 06, 2022

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A battle is raging—and it’s destroying people’s lives. No, I’m not talking about wars and conflicts scattered across the globe. Rather, I’m referring to the cultural war on gender identity.
Secular activists use words like “toxic masculinity” to shame people into thinking that gender is destructive. But the Bible is clear. God created people either male or female.
As a parent, it’s important you fight back against the bombardment of identity politics. Here’s a tip: Get involved at your school’s Parent Teacher Association. Voice your concern to coaches, teachers, and community leaders. Make sure they respect the differences between boys and girls.
It’s time to take a stand. Because our children’s futures are at stake, it’s time to speak up for truth. But do it in love. The world is full of strident and angry voices. Let yours be seasoned with grace.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#151: Returning Thanks Jul 05, 2022

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During Jesus’ day, leprosy was an awful disease that caused horrible deformities.
That’s why when Jesus healed ten lepers, they were thrilled. They probably rushed away to tell the exciting news to their family and friends. And yet, only one leper returned to give thanks to Jesus.
We’re quick to blame those nine lepers, but at times, we’re just as ungrateful. We may not have leprosy, but our Lord still helps and strengthens us in many ways. And he often uses people around us to accomplish His will.
So, when was the last time you said “Thanks” to someone who provided help or encouragement? Remember: The more grateful you are, the more you’ll see God’s goodness and grace in your life.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#150: Parenting Patience Jul 04, 2022

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Don’t you wish parenting boys was easy? Wouldn’t it be great if your son always listened carefully, obeyed immediately, and behaved perfectly?
The truth is—that’s rarely the case. When your son tests your patience for the hundredth time in a day, take a deep breath and remember our Savior’s example. When the Pharisees tried to trick him, He responded calmly. When the Jews demanded that He be crucified, he asked God to forgive them.
Training boys takes time. It won’t happen overnight, but through patient and consistent parenting, you’ll see your son grow into a godly young man. And the more he changes spiritually within his heart, the more you’ll see positive change in his outward behavior.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#149: Let's Talk Jul 01, 2022

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I will make a bet that your cell phone is within reach right now!
The first cell phone weighed 2.4 pounds and was larger than your head. That’s definitely not something you’d want to carry in your pocket. Fortunately, today’s cell phones are much smaller and lighter. They allow us to quickly talk And text each other.
And yet, despite the extraordinary technology within a cell phone, these devices often hinder communication. You’ve seen it—family members sitting beside one another staring at their phones. We’re so plugged into these devices that we lose contact with others. the very thing the devices were created for!
Don’t let that be you. Sure, go ahead and use technology, but don’t let it replace face-to-face communication. The more you talk and laugh with your teens, the more they’ll want to put down their phones and share life together with you.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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