Raising Godly Boys Minute

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#278: Smart vs Overprotective Dec 29, 2022

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What’s the difference between being a smart parent and an overprotective parent?
It’s a hard balance to strike. But as Christians, we have a secret weapon that we often forget about: Prayer.
Every boy is different, and parenting strategies that work well with one boy can sometimes have disastrous results with another. But the one method that will always work is hitting our knees in prayer, asking God for wisdom, and surrendering our sons’ lives to God.
This doesn’t mean we will become perfect parents– or that we will always make the right decision. But the difference between an overprotective parent and a smart parent is simply parenting not out of fear and control– but out of faith and trust in God.
For encouragement on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#277: Avoid Emotions Dec 28, 2022

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It only takes a small mistake– such as incorrect hip placement– to send a novice rock climber on a painful slide back down the rock wall.
In the same way, there’s a small mistake you can make in disciplining your son that can cause you to lose ground with him: getting too emotional.
It can be difficult to not cry or raise your voice when addressing heavy topics with your boy. But as soon as you show emotion, two things will happen in your son’s brain– he will become distracted, and lose respect for you.
Instead, regulate your own emotions by taking a deep breath, and speak to your son in concise, calm statements. He will listen more closely, and be more likely to respond calmly in turn.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#276: The Apology Superpower Dec 27, 2022

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f you could pick a superpower as a parent, what would it be? The ability to teleport your son to every sports practice instead of making the long drive?
Researchers have found that every parent has a “superpower” of sorts that can improve their relationship with their son, help him avoid perfectionism, and promote emotional health. It’s simply this: an apology.
There’s no need to make your apology emotional or turn it into a long monologue. But when you know you’ve messed up as a parent, sincerely and concisely tell your son “I’m sorry”. It will make him respect you more, and pave the way for him to learn the superpower of apologies in his own life.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#275: Owner or Ambassador? Dec 26, 2022

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Who does your child really belong to?

I’ll give you a hint: It’s not you.

“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” Genesis 1:27

God is the creator and owner of everyone and everything. We are called to be his ambassador and steward everyone and everything he’s given to us.

Author Paul Tripp says it’s vital for us to understand that we have no independent, autonomous authority as a parent. God grants us the right and power to exercise authority.

As we strive to raise godly boys, do we have an owner or ambassador mentality?

For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#274: Arrows to Mold Dec 23, 2022

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Did you know that a recurve bow arrow can fly 2.5 times faster than a cheetah can run?
This type of arrow can reach speeds of 150 miles per hour, while the world’s fastest cheetah maxes out at about 60 miles per hour.
The Bible likens children to arrows.
Psalm 127:3-4 says, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth.”
As parents, we need to shape and mold these arrows into godly boys and then release them as godly men who will hit the target and make their mark in the world.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#273: Lemons Dec 22, 2022

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Have you ever seen a boy bite into a lemon? If so, his face probably scrunched up into wrinkles because of the super sour taste.
You may have never bitten into a lemon, but in life, we all experience sour moments. Maybe your son loves basketball. But then, while making a simple layup, he sprains his ankle and can’t join the school team.
During times of unexpected frustration, help your son see through the pain and annoyance. Remind him that God is in control. By shifting our focus away from us and toward God, we gain a better perspective of His plan and purpose.
When life becomes sour, stir in the sweet realization that God knows best. By trusting in Him, you’ll transform life’s lemons into lesson-learning lemonade.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#272: The Greatest Gift Dec 21, 2022

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What was the best Christmas present you ever received growing up?

Whatever comes to mind, it pales in comparison to the gift mankind received in a manger more than 2,000 years ago.

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Isaiah 9:6

Amid the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season, let’s remember the true reason for the season.

Let’s echo what the angels said on that first Christmas: “Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace, goodwill toward men!”

For more information about raising your son into a godly man, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

#271: Joy to the World Dec 20, 2022

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Nearly 2,000 years ago, an angel appeared to shepherds outside of Bethlehem. That angel declared, “I bring you good tidings of great joy, which will be to all people.”
Those “good tidings” are still great news to us today. That news is that Jesus Christ is Lord.
With Christmas in full swing, now is the perfect time to teach your kids that this festive season is about much more than presents. Use caroling to sing about the Gospel message. Or bake some cookies and share them with your neighbors. Write Christmas cards of encouragement to elderly couples in your church.
As you share the Joy of the world with those around you, you teach your kids that Jesus brings help, hope, and healing to a hurting world.
For more parenting advice and information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit TrailLifeUSA.com/savingboys.

#270: That's a Wrap Dec 19, 2022

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When you wrap a present, does the final package look like an explosion of paper—or like a decorative piece of artwork?
No matter what the packaging looks like, don’t get so wrapped up in the busyness of the Christmas season that you forget what’s truly important.
As we celebrate Christ’s birth, honor Him by being the father God wants you to be. That involves spending time with your son.
Here’s an idea: Push the living room furniture aside and have a wrestling match. Boys LOVE that! Then afterward, share some hot chocolate and a bunch of laughs.
You may not be very good at wrapping Christmas presents, but you can certainly wrap your arms around your son and give him a giant bear hug.
Invest time and attention in your son. Learn about a Proven Process that’s helping boys grow into godly men. Learn more by visiting TrailLifeUSA.com/savingboys.

#269: God's Change Agent Dec 16, 2022

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What’s your favorite tool in your toolbox? A hammer, wrench, screwdriver, or perhaps it’s a power tool like a saw?

I’ve realized that one of the best things a parent can learn is that you don’t have the power to change your boy. That is something only God can do.

But God does want to use you as a tool to change your boy’s heart and help him understand what it means to be a man.

As you strive to be a model, mentor, and an example of a godly man who is trying to raise a godly boy, God will use you as His change agent.

For more information about a Proven Process that is helping boys grow into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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