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    Queer Money®: How Gay People Do Money

    Queer Money is a bi-weekly show dedicated to creating desperately needed generational wealth within the gay community because we deserve to sleep better at night and we must stand up to the anti-LGBTQ+ industrial complex.

    Listen and watch regularly to eliminate financial insecurity and generate personal wealth, prepare for a secure and fun retirement, find the most affordable, LGBTQ+-friendly cities in the US to live in or travel to, grow your stock portfolio to $1,000,000+, build a real estate empire and start a small business.

    Your hosts are husbands and money experts David & John Auten-Schneider who have been the leaders in LGBTQ+ finance since 2015. With nine seasons, nearly 500 episodes, over a million downloads and features by Oprah, Advocate, Variety, CNBC and more, the award-winning Queer Money is the longest running show made by and for the LGBTQ+ community and is the only show solely dedicated to our financial well-being as gay people.

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    Top 5 Gay-Friendly Places in New Zealand to Retire | Queer Money Ep. 600 Jul 29, 2025
    Show notes

    Can we get a Kia Ora, darling?

    New Zealand isn’t just Lord of the Rings scenery and sheep. It’s got gorgeous queer vibes, strong legal protections, and cities that range from cozy and artsy to full-blown fab with ferry rides to wine islands. We break down the top 5 cities for LGBTQ+ retirement in NZ with real costs, real vibes, and real queer perks.

    Ready to float through Middle Earth in style? Let’s go global gay with this week’s Queer Money®!

    Takeaways:

    🌍 New Zealand ranks in the top 10 on the Spartacus Gay Travel Index—but is still underrated for LGBTQ+ retirees

    🏙️ Top 5 cities ranked from fab to MOST fab:

    • #5 Christchurch: Charming, green, affordable (⭐ 7/10)
    • #4 Queenstown: Adventure-packed and inclusive (⭐ 8/10)
    • #3 Dunedin: Artsy, affordable, student-rich (⭐ 8/10)
    • #2 Wellington: Culturally rich & walkable (⭐ 9/10)
    • #1 Auckland: Big-city buzz & wine island chic (⭐ 8/10, but most well-rounded overall)

    💰 Rents range from ~$1,000–$1,900/month for 2-bedroom homes

    📉 Cost of living is generally 7–25% lower than the U.S. average

    🏳️‍🌈 Strong LGBTQ+ protections and community support across the country

    💃 Lesbian balls, Winter Pride, & gayborhoods galore

    💡 Wellington & Auckland boast the most vibrant queer infrastructure

    ✈️ Auckland wins for lifestyle + international access—but Wellington gets the highest rating for vibe and livability

    Start here:

    🎁 Grab your free Happy Gay Retirement Calculator here: https://queermoneypodcast.com/hgrcalc

    Chapters:

    • 0:00 - Intro
    • 1:10 - Past and future
    • 1:51 - Christchurch
    • 3:44 - Queenstown
    • 5:21 - Dunedin
    • 7:58 - Wellington
    • 10:40 - Auckland
    • 12:47 - Why the numbers don't line up
    • 13:19 - Wrap up

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    3 Things We Wish We Did Before Retiring Early | Queer Money Ep. 599 Jul 22, 2025
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    Episode 599: 3 Big Early Retirement Mistakes We Made (So You Don’t Have To)

    Everyone makes early retirement look like beaches and banana hammocks—especially the gays. But behind the glam is the grit.

    In this week’s episode, we’re getting brutally honest about the three biggest mistakes we made on our path to early retirement. From missing Roth conversions to underfunding HSAs and after-tax accounts, we’re sharing what we wish we had done differently—so you don’t make the same missteps.

    We also open up about the hard truths: losing 70–80% of our income, getting ghosted by potential employers, and why we're being pushed into early retirement (spoiler: America kind of gave up on us first).

    If you're thinking about retiring early—whether by choice or circumstance—this is your roadmap to avoid regret and build a fabulous future on your own terms.

    🎯 Grab the Happy Gay Retirement Calculator to start planning your exit strategy today.

    Chapters:

    • 0:00 - Intro
    • 0:30 - Why are we retiring early?
    • 2:20 - How we're able to retire early
    • 4:08 - Why we didn't "just get jobs"
    • 6:07 - Tradeoffs for early retirement
    • 7:31 - Mistake #1 - Roth Conversions
    • 9:03 - Mistake #2 - HSAs
    • 10:35 - Mistake #3 - After-tax investing
    • 11:34 - Wrap up

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    The Top 5 Cities in Uruguay for Gay Retirees | Queer Money Ep. 598 Jul 15, 2025
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    Top 5 Cities for Gay Retirement in Uruguay

    Progressive laws. High safety ratings. A warm, welcoming culture. Uruguay may be South America's best-kept secret for LGBTQ+ retirement—and in this episode, we reveal the top 5 cities for gay retirees looking for affordability, inclusion, and sunshine.

    We explore everything from charming riverside towns like Paysandú to the chic beachside enclaves of José Ignacio, with deep dives into rent prices, cost of living, queer scenes, and legal protections. Uruguay may not have a massive gay expat community yet—but that might just be what makes it so special.

    🧭 Whether you’re dreaming of rustic charm or cosmopolitan culture, this episode will help you decide if Uruguay deserves a spot on your fabulous retirement shortlist.

    Takeaways:

    • The Queer Money Retirement Ratings for 5 top Uruguayan cities
    • Cost of living vs. U.S. benchmarks
    • Why Uruguay’s quiet inclusivity may feel more authentic than flashy
    • Which cities are best for budget-conscious vs. luxury-loving retirees
    • What Uruguay gets right—and what may be dealbreakers

    🎯 Grab your Happy Gay Retirement Calculator and start planning your next chapter!

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    Gay Men Are the Biggest Consumers—So Why Are We So Broke? | Queer Money Ep. 597 Jul 08, 2025
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    Are Gay Men Really Broke?

    It’s no secret: gay men are some of the biggest spenders in the economy. From fashion to travel to gourmet coffee, we love to live well. But here’s the paradox—so many of us still feel financially strapped.

    On this episode of Queer Money®, we’re unpacking why gay men often earn more yet save less—and how cultural pressures, internalized shame, and a desire to prove our worth can sabotage financial security.

    Takeaways:

    • The hidden costs of trying to look successful
    • Why the LGBTQ+ community is targeted by marketers—and how to protect yourself
    • Steps to shift from consumption to building lasting wealt
    • 💡 If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of spend, stress, repeat—this one’s for you.

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    It's time to create your retirement abroad plan

    What if your retirement plan included a backup plan outside the United States? The Optimize Portugal Golden Visa Fund may give you the opportunity to invest existing IRA assets while also pursuing residency in Portugal for you and your family. That could mean greater flexibility, access to living and potentially working in Portugal, and a pathway to spending more time throughout Europe. Your retirement savings may be able to do more than fund your future. They could help expand where that future happens. Click the link below to learn how the fund works and request additional information.

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    Top 5 Cities in Portugal for Gay Retirees | Queer Money Ep. 596 Jul 01, 2025
    Show notes

    Portugal’s calling—and she’s wearing designer sunglasses. 🌈✨

    On this week’s Queer Money, we’re spilling the pastel de nata on the top 5 cities in Portugal for gay retirees. From the chic beaches of Cascais to the colorful streets of Lisbon, we cover where to live fabulously (and affordably-ish). But watch your wallets, darlings—new tax changes could have you paying more than you planned.

    We’ll break down what’s changing, how it could impact your Social Security and retirement income, and why you definitely need a tax pro before you pack your caftans.

    Which Portuguese paradise has a 10/10 Queer Money Retirement Rating? Tune in to find out—and start planning your escape.

    Takeaways:

    • ✅ The top 5 most LGBTQ+-friendly cities in Portugal for retirement—complete with costs, perks, and downsides
    • ✅ Portugal’s end to the Non-Habitual Resident tax regime and why it could mean a tax hit of up to 48%
    • ✅ How to avoid getting double-taxed on Social Security and retirement accounts
    • ✅ The Queer Money Retirement Ratings that help you compare your options at a glance

    Chapters:

    • 0:00 - Intro
    • 0:33 - Portugal tax changes
    • 3:30 - Series update
    • 4:17 - Porto
    • 5:58 - Lisbon
    • 8:42 - Lagos
    • 10:11 - Ericeira
    • 11:52 - Cascais
    • 13:58 - Wrap up

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    It's time to create your retirement abroad plan

    What if your retirement plan included a backup plan outside the United States? The Optimize Portugal Golden Visa Fund may give you the opportunity to invest existing IRA assets while also pursuing residency in Portugal for you and your family. That could mean greater flexibility, access to living and potentially working in Portugal, and a pathway to spending more time throughout Europe. Your retirement savings may be able to do more than fund your future. They could help expand where that future happens. Click the link below to learn how the fund works and request additional information.

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    How Retire Early Using IRS Rule 72t | Queer Money Jun 24, 2025
    Show notes

    The IRS Rule That Could Save Your Early Retirement (No, Seriously)

    Burned out? Laid off? Can’t sit through one more “All Hands” meeting where Todd from Accounting performs a spoken word about synergy? Honey, maybe it’s time to retire early—even if you didn’t plan to.

    This week on Queer Money®, we’re spilling the retirement tea 🍵 on a not-so-boring IRS rule with a Star Wars-sounding name: Rule 72(t). This little-known financial lifeline lets you tap your IRA or 401(k) penalty-free before 59½ if you're done-done (emotionally or professionally). Yes, the IRS will Cher slap you with a 10% penalty otherwise—but not with this rule, darling.

    We break down the 3 payment options with sass and strategy—from cautious queens to high-rolling honeys—and share how this rule might just be your early retirement Plan B.

    If you’re dreaming of sipping espresso in Porto instead of grinding at your desk, listen up. Rule 72(t) could be your official exit plan.

    Takeaways:

    • What is IRS Rule 72(t)? A legit way to take early retirement withdrawals without the IRS penalty. Yes, it’s real. No, it’s not a droid.
    • Three Queen-Approved Payment Plans:
    • Required Minimum Distribution – For the cautious queens who want to test the waters.
    • Fixed Amortization – For the dependable divas who love predictability.
    • Fixed Annuitization – For high-rolling honeys who want more moolah now (but no take-backs, babes).
    • You still pay taxes (because this isn’t RuPaul’s Tax-Free Fantasy Camp), but no 10% early withdrawal penalty is a big win.
    • This rule works best if you’re 50–59½, have a chunk in retirement accounts, and truly need the income.
    • WARNING: If you break the rule (even by $1), the IRS will come for you harder than a drag queen chasing a $20 tip. 💅
    • Not for everyone – definitely consult your financial advisor or accountant (and maybe educate them in the process 👀).
    • Feeling lemon-y about layoffs and burnout? This may be your early retirement lemonata.

    Chapters:

    • 0:00 - Intro
    • 0:43 - The T on Rule 72t
    • 2:08 - How Rule 72t works
    • 2:30 - The 3 Withdrawl Methods
    • 4:52 - Requirements to avoid the 10% penalty
    • 5:45 - Who this rule works best for
    • 7:29 - Wrap up

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    • Download it here: queermoneypodcast.com/hgrcalc

    Mentioned in this episode:

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    Get Your Portugal Golden Visa Here!

    It's time to create your retirement abroad plan

    What if your retirement plan included a backup plan outside the United States? The Optimize Portugal Golden Visa Fund may give you the opportunity to invest existing IRA assets while also pursuing residency in Portugal for you and your family. That could mean greater flexibility, access to living and potentially working in Portugal, and a pathway to spending more time throughout Europe. Your retirement savings may be able to do more than fund your future. They could help expand where that future happens. Click the link below to learn how the fund works and request additional information.

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    5 Affordable Gay Retirement Havens in Mexico | Queer Money Ep. 594 Jun 17, 2025
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    Top 5 Gay-Friendly Places in Mexico to Retire

    In this episode of Queer Money®, we continue our global search for the best places for LGBTQ+ folks to retire — and this week, we're diving into México lindo. From beach towns to colonial gems, we’re counting down the top 5 gay-friendly cities in Mexico for retirement based on affordability, safety, community, and queer inclusivity.

    Find out why cities like Puerto Vallarta, Guadalajara, and San Miguel de Allende made the list, what each has to offer the LGBTQ+ community, and how much it costs to live there comfortably. Whether you want a bustling metropolis or a lakeside haven, Mexico may just be your retirement paradise.

    📌 Top Takeaways:

    #5: San Miguel de Allende

    • Charming, artistic, and walkable colonial town with a growing expat and LGBTQ+ presence.
    • Rent for a 2BR averages $1,300/month.
    • Queer Money Retirement Rating: 8/10

    #4: Guadalajara

    • Mexico’s second-largest city with a strong queer scene, great food, and affordable living.
    • Rent for a 2BR averages $1,000/month.
    • Queer Money Retirement Rating: 8.5/10

    #3: Ajijic (Lake Chapala)

    • Serene lakeside village with a tight-knit LGBTQ+ community and holistic vibe.
    • Rent ranges from $950–$1,200/month.
    • Cobblestone streets = strong ankles required!
    • Queer Money Retirement Rating: 9/10

    #2: Mérida

    • Known for its safety, history, and growing queer inclusivity.
    • Affordable cost of living and rich Yucatán culture.
    • Rent for a 2BR averages $1,000/month.
    • Queer Money Retirement Rating: 9/10

    #1: Puerto Vallarta

    • Mexico’s undisputed gay capital with vibrant nightlife and beachside living.
    • Rent for a 2BR starts around $1,200/month, but prices rise in Zona Romántica.
    • Queer Money Retirement Rating: 10/10

    💬 Let us know what we got right (or wrong), or share your experience living in these cities. DM us on Instagram or leave a comment on YouTube.

    📍Want the full Queer Money Retirement Rating list?

    • 👉 QueerMoneyPodcast.com/cities

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    Get Your Portugal Golden Visa Here!

    It's time to create your retirement abroad plan

    What if your retirement plan included a backup plan outside the United States? The Optimize Portugal Golden Visa Fund may give you the opportunity to invest existing IRA assets while also pursuing residency in Portugal for you and your family. That could mean greater flexibility, access to living and potentially working in Portugal, and a pathway to spending more time throughout Europe. Your retirement savings may be able to do more than fund your future. They could help expand where that future happens. Click the link below to learn how the fund works and request additional information.

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    Retire Fabulously: The 5-Step Gay Retirement Planning Guide | Queer Money Ep. 593 Jun 10, 2025
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    Retirement Isn’t Just for Chads & Karens

    Let’s be honest—when most folks picture retirement, it’s usually a straight couple named Chad and Karen sipping Chardonnay in Scottsdale. Cute for them. But what about you—still fabulous at 67, maybe rocking a part-time gig at a queer-owned café because your bank account missed the memo that you were done working?

    On this week’s Queer Money, we’re ditching the tired, hetero retirement fantasy and giving you the real tea on how queer folks can retire fabulously (and actually afford it). We’re serving up a 5-step no-BS framework to take you from “fabulously stressed” to “financially fierce.”

    Whether you’re figuring out your retirement number, learning how to pay your future self first, or just trying to make peace with the word “budget,” we’ve got you. Because your golden years shouldn’t be basic—or broke.

    Retirement isn’t one-size-fits-all, especially for our community. So let’s stop trying to live someone else’s dream and start planning for yours. The goal? A future that fits you like your favorite pair of perfectly broken-in jeans. Or leather pants. We don’t judge.

    🎯 5 Steps to Go From Fabulously Stressed to Financially Fabulous

    1. Know Your Number 👛 - Guessing doesn’t cut it. Use the Happy Gay Retirement Calculator to figure out how much you need for the life you want.
    2. Pay Your Future Self First 💸 - Even $25 a paycheck adds up. Start now so your 65-year-old self can sip cocktails, not stress.
    3. Ditch Chad & Karen’s Plan ❌ - You’re not straight. Your retirement shouldn’t be either. Build a plan that fits your life.
    4. Lasso Your Accounts 🤠 - Round up those stray 401(k)s. One place. One plan. So much easier to manage.
    5. Pick Your Paradise 🏖️ - Palm Springs? Portugal? Start researching now so you can retire where you’ll live your best life.

    Chapters

    • 0:00 - Intro
    • 2:04 - Step 1 - Know your retirement number
    • 4:05 - Step 2 - Pay your future self first
    • 6:22 - Step 3 - Skip the straight benchmarks
    • 8:21 - Step 4 - Consolidate retirement accounts
    • 9:22 - Step 5 - Pick your gay paradise
    • 10:30 - Wrap up

    Get your Happy Gay Retirement Calculator

    • Download it here: queermoneypodcast.com/hgrcalc

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    What if your retirement plan included a backup plan outside the United States? The Optimize Portugal Golden Visa Fund may give you the opportunity to invest existing IRA assets while also pursuing residency in Portugal for you and your family. That could mean greater flexibility, access to living and potentially working in Portugal, and a pathway to spending more time throughout Europe. Your retirement savings may be able to do more than fund your future. They could help expand where that future happens. Click the link below to learn how the fund works and request additional information.

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    The 5 Best Gay Cities to Retire in Spain | Queer Money Ep. 592 Jun 03, 2025
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    Where are the Best Gay Retirement Cities in Spain?

    Hola, Spain! You voted, we listened—and this week, we’re heading to the land of tapas, Gaudí, and gay beaches to reveal the Top 5 Cities in Spain for Gay Retirees!

    From Malaga's chill beach vibes to Barcelona’s big gay energy, we’re breaking down:

    • 🌈 The LGBTQ+ scene in each city
    • 💸 Rent and cost of living
    • 🏳️‍🌈 Our Queer Money® Retirement Rating
    • And, of course, our favorite perks (hi, Bear Week in Sitges 🐻💦)

    Spoiler alert: You can see Africa from your house, and yes, the best paella is in Valencia.

    Whether you're dreaming of mañana mornings or plotting your fabulous early retirement, this is your Spanish gaycation starter pack. 🌴💃

    🎧 Episode 592 is brought to you by PensionBee—helping you consolidate those old 401(k)s so you can plan your Happy Gay Retirement with ease. 🐝

    📲 Tap that subscribe button, share with your wanderlust-y queer friends, and grab your Happy Gay Retirement Calculator in the episode description.

    Next up: Mexico! But for now… stay fabulous. ✨

    Takeaways:

    • 🗣️ Pro tip: Don’t be that American - Want the full Spanish fantasy? Learn the language. It’s sexy and respectful.
    • 🏖️ Malaga = sun, culture, and cheap rent—but bring your Spanish dictionary - This coastal cutie is wallet-friendly, but English isn’t widely spoken. Time to practice those rolling R’s!
    • 🍊 Valencia is laid-back luxe - It’s giving: beachy, artsy, and unapologetically queer—with fewer crowds and more charm than the big cities.
    • 🎨 Madrid has it all—museums, parks, nightlife, and Pride with a capital P - Just watch for some recent political shade trying to dim its sparkle.
    • Sitges is cute and uber gay - the small beachside town south of Barcelona where we gayed it up for three months in 2019
    • 🏙️ Barcelona is big, bold, and fabulously gay - You’ll pay more for the privilege, but the culture, community, and queer life? Chef’s kiss.

    Chapters:

    • 0:00 - Intro - Don't be that American
    • 0:25 - Malaga - Affordable and expat-friendly
    • 2:13 - Valencia - Gorgeous and big
    • 4:30 - Madrid - Packed with gays, the capital in the center of the country and hot, hot hot
    • 6:52 - Sitges - The gay mecca of Europe and host of International Bear Week every September
    • 9:37 - Barcelona - Arts, culture, beaches and a gay nightlife to please just about any gay

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    Get Your Portugal Golden Visa Here!

    It's time to create your retirement abroad plan

    What if your retirement plan included a backup plan outside the United States? The Optimize Portugal Golden Visa Fund may give you the opportunity to invest existing IRA assets while also pursuing residency in Portugal for you and your family. That could mean greater flexibility, access to living and potentially working in Portugal, and a pathway to spending more time throughout Europe. Your retirement savings may be able to do more than fund your future. They could help expand where that future happens. Click the link below to learn how the fund works and request additional information.

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    How Grindr, Gucci & Guilt Are Ruining Your Retirement | Queer Money Ep. 591 May 27, 2025
    Show notes

    Today’s tea? The three saboteurs keeping gay men broke.

    We’re getting real about what’s actually draining your retirement savings—and no, it’s not just brunch and bad decisions (though we’ll get there). First up: hookup culture. Apps like Grindr have us chasing dopamine hits instead of dividends, making it harder to think long-term when instant gratification is just a swipe away.

    Next, let’s talk designer drama. From the outside, it’s giving “fabulous,” but inside the bank account? It’s giving “maxed out.” The pressure to flex with luxury brands can lead to spending that’s more about validation than value.

    And finally, we’re unpacking the emotional baggage—guilt, shame, and that quiet voice saying we should be further along by now. Spoiler: You’re not alone.

    Let’s ditch the shame, ditch the scarcity, and start building the fabulous future we deserve. 💅

    Takeaways:

    • Swipe now, stress later. That instant gratification life? Cute in the moment, brutal for your retirement account.
    • Silence = sabotage. Shame keeps a lot of gay men from talking about money—and that silence is costing us our futures.
    • Label who? The obsession with luxury is serving looks—but also serving financial stress. That Gucci bag won't fund your golden years.
    • Hookups cost more than cab fare. Casual flings might be fun, but they can seriously mess with your mental health and your money mojo.
    • Keeping up with the Instagays? The pressure to be polished and perfect is pricey—and it’s stealing cash from your long-term goals.
    • Opportunity cost is real, babe. Every dollar and minute you spend now is one less toward your dream retirement villa in Sitges.

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    It's time to create your retirement abroad plan

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