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154 - Recovery Tools: Double Bind Jun 16, 2020

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We all find ourselves in rock-and-a-hard-place situations. No one lives without them. That's even more true when battling unwanted sexual behavior. Today we talk through a tool that helps flesh out these situations and how we can use it to bring about the change we're looking for.

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153 - Recovery Tools: FASTER Scale Jun 09, 2020

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Healing and recovery happen only through self-awareness. Today we revisit an old friend on the recovery journey: the FASTER Scale. This self-awareness tool is essential on the road to healing from unwanted sexual behavior. We talk what it is, best practices, mistakes commonly made, and more.

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152 - Leading Unraveled Groups Jun 02, 2020

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Leading addiction recovery groups can be challenging. Especially when leading women through them. Women struggle with unique levels of shame and hopelessness when it comes to love, sex, and relationships. That's why we talk through how to best lead women through Unraveled Groups.

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EPISODE 095 – UNRAVELED: MANAGING LOVE, SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPS

EPISODE 120 – ONLINE GROUPS

UNRAVELED KIT

JOIN A GROUP

GROUP GUIDELINES

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151 - Porn Free w/ Matt Dobschuetz May 26, 2020

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We sat down for a mash-up episode with Matt Dobschuetz of Porn-Free Radio on today's episode. We talked about freedom, integrity, church culture, and a bunch of other random topics.

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PORN-FREE RADIO PODCAST

RECOVEREDMAN.COM

7 PILLARS OF FREEDOM

ONLINE RECOVERY GROUPS

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150 - Betrayed Spouse & Legal Issues May 19, 2020

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Sexual addiction affects more than the person struggling. Especially when there are legal ramifications. Today we ask Jenn Howie how she maneuvered through the legal issues caused by sexual addiction in her previous marriage.

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149 - Sexual Abuse Of Women In The Bible May 12, 2020

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Sexual abuse of women is sadly not only something that is present today, we see that it goes back even into biblical times. Our guest, Julianna Smith, a Ph.D. student researching the abuse of women in the Bible, gives us her findings while also helping us identify ways the church can push back against sexual abuse of women.

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148 - PD-L Program May 05, 2020

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Where can pastors go if they struggle with sexually compulsive behaviors? What options do they have to get healthy? We talk to a denomination president and a local pastor about the Pure Desire Leaders (PD-L) program and how it's helped their denomination create a safe place for their pastors to get healthy.

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PURE DESIRE LEADERS (PD-L) PROGRAM

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147 - Myth Busters: Not In My Church Apr 28, 2020

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Many leaders and church-goers buy into the myth that sexual addiction doesn't impact their churches. Today, we dive into this myth and unpack why it is that we ignore the reality of sexual brokenness in our churches. We also talk through what someone can do if they see the reality when their leaders do not, and why it's so essential to have a recovery ministry for those impacted by sexual brokenness.

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146 - Groups Launch Night Apr 21, 2020

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As we begin Pure Desire groups in our churches and communities, it's so important how we communicate them, making it clear what purpose they serve. On today's episode, we talk about the importance of a groups launch night, what the night should look like, and what major things to avoid.

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MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING

MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING (ONLINE GROUP)

FASTER SCALE

PURE DESIRE ONLINE GROUPS

LEGAL ISSUES IN GROUP (PODCAST)

LEGAL ISSUES IN GROUP (BLOG)

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145 - Stories of Healing: Dan & Jenn Howie Apr 14, 2020

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We sit down with Dan and Jenn Howie to hear their incredible story of healing from the pain and trauma of sexual addiction. They describe how it affected their previous marriages, how it impacted their kids, and what they've learned throughout the process of healing.

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