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164 - Ending Group Well Aug 25, 2020

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Each recovery and support group is going to end someday. But that doesn’t mean that the healing will end. How our groups come to a close can set a trajectory for forward motion in our recovery and healing. Ending the group is not only important and it is very possible.

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CHALLENGE COINS

GENESIS PROCESS

SUPPLEMENTAL COUNSELING (RECOVERY FOR STRUGGLING)

SUPPLEMENTAL COUNSELING (SUPPORT FOR BETRAYAL)

ONLINE GROUPS

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163 - The Soul Of Shame w/ Curt Thompson Aug 18, 2020

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Shame is a powerful force in the world, one that drives many of our unwanted behaviors. Today, we are joined by Dr. Curt Thompson, a psychiatrist, speaker, and author, who walks us through what shame is, how we often misunderstand it, and how it can be used to lead us to a better relationship with God and others.

RESOURCES

CURTTHOMPSONMD.COM

CURT'S WRITING:

ANATOMY OF THE SOUL

THE SOUL OF SHAME

A BODY OF WORK (BLOG)

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162 - Student Groups Aug 11, 2020

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If we want to see future generations live in sexual health, we have to equip them with the tools they need. Today's episode is focused on recovery groups for students. Who should lead them, how to get students interested, and the impact these groups can have in our world.

RESOURCES

TOP GUN

BEHIND THE MASK

LIVING FREE

GROUP GUIDELINES (PODCAST)

GROUP GUIDELINES (TOOL)

MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING (TOOL)

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161 - Talking With Your Adult Kids Aug 04, 2020

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Today we talk with Dan and Jenn Howie about sharing their story of sexual brokenness with their adult kids. We talk about what to share, when to share, and why it's important to share with our kids, regardless of their age.

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160 - The Different Parts Of Me w/ Jenna Riemersma Jul 28, 2020

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Have you ever echoed the musing of the Apostle Paul, "For I do not do the good I want to do. Instead, I keep on doing the evil I do not want to do"? You're not alone! Many of us have this experience–feeling like there are different parts of us that want different things. Those feelings are not abnormal. On today's episode, we talked with Jenna Riemersma about Internal Family Systems–a revolutionary approach to understanding why we do things we don't want to do and have such a hard time doing what we want to do.

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FULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)

ALTOGETHER YOU (JENNA’S BOOK)

JENNAREIMERSMA.COM (JENNA’S WEBSITE)

ATLANTA CENTER FOR RELATIONAL HEALING

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159 - Sexual Integrity 101 Jul 21, 2020

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So many men, women, and churches struggle with knowing where to start in the area of unwanted sexual behavior. How do we find freedom from the struggle? How do we experience healing from betrayal? How do we help our people navigate sexual brokenness? We have the answer: our new 8-week video course, Sexual Integrity 101!

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SEXUAL INTEGRITY 101 VIDEO COURSE

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158 - Recovery Tools: Recovery Action Plan Jul 14, 2020

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Another relapse happens...what do you do? The Recovery Action Plan is a prepared course of action so you know exactly what to do, who to talk to, and what re-establishing trust will look like. Today we talk about how this tool not only gives us a post-relapse plan of action but also is an amazing deterrent for future relapse.

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RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (ADDICT)

RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED)

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157 - Recovery Tools: Phone Calls Jul 07, 2020

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Have you ever heard the phrase, "An oldie but a goodie?" Though we live in a world of messaging and social media communication, there is tons of value in making a simple phone call. Today we talk about the importance of phone calls on the road to recovery.

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156 - Recovery Tools: 3 Circles Jun 30, 2020

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Many of us keep returning to those old unwanted behaviors. Why is that? Far too many of us just focus on what not to do instead of creating a plan toward what we want to do. The 3 Circles tool helps us identify what we want to stop, guardrails to keep us from it, and the healthy habits we need for change.

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3 CIRCLES TOOL

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155 - Recovery Tools: Commitment to Change Jun 23, 2020

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Have you ever had a behavior you wanted to stop but couldn't? What if there was a tool to help you put practical steps in place to make the changes you want to see? Enter: the Commitment to Change tool.

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