Pour Minds Podcast

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Three-Six Mafia Aug 15, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s all about Lex P’s 36th birthday—aka the pinnacle of Leo season! Lex and Drea Nicole kick back with no guests, just cocktails, confessions, and plenty of grown-woman gems. From funny birthday memories and the best (and worst) birthday songs, to childhood “fast girl” fashion changes, the ladies cover it all.

Lex opens up about stepping into a season of gratitude—owning her home, leveling up in friendships, and embracing the confidence that comes with age. They also get real about the outdated stigma around telling your age, the rise of “seasoned baddies,” and why beauty maintenance—Botox, fillers, and all—isn’t up for debate.

Of course, they still keep it messy and hilarious, diving into ghosting after getting gifts, calling out hairline sensitivity, and ranking the cheeses you need in your life.

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Nuck If You Buck ft. Cortez Smith Aug 08, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by The Chi’s very own Cortez Smith, better known as Nuck, for a wild ride of storytelling, truth-telling, and bone-hitting honesty (literally). From his real-life experiences growing up in Chicago to landing his breakout role, Cortez opens up about how he dodged the streets, dealt with rejection from Spike Lee, and why one “yes” changed his life forever.

They also get into the rise of hobosexuals—fine men with nowhere to live—unpacking whether looks really get you far when you’re broke. The trio shares Poor Decisions of the Week, debates tattoo regrets (and removals), and dives deep into dating with no motion, the curse of pretty privilege, and why vibes matter more than abs.

Plus: the girls sip on the “Pour & Peace Paloma,” this week’s Taylor Port-sponsored Drink of the Week, and Cortez keeps it real about paying his tab when he had no home, no job—but plenty stroke!

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CiCi’s Prayer ft. Ciara Aug 01, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re sitting down with the one and only Ciara. From Grammy-winning artist to mother of four, Ciara pulled up and kept it all the way real. We got into motherhood, marriage, legacy, leveling up—and how to hold on to your peace while walking in your purpose.

Lex and Drea ask the questions we all wanted to know: How do you stay soft while being a boss? What does healthy submission really look like? And is “the prayer” just a viral meme… or the real secret to love?

Ciara opens up about her skincare brand OAM Skin, her rum partnership with Ten to One, and what it means to gain dual citizenship in Benin, West Africa. She also gives us the inside scoop on her upcoming album CiCi, and drops gems on building a legacy through family, faith, and business.

By the end of the episode, Lex is two drinks in, Drea’s dropping gems on dating with intention, and we’re all manifesting a man who won’t let us walk down the stairs alone.

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Dreani’s Peace Treaty ft. Kev On Stage Jul 25, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re signing a peace treaty… but don’t get it twisted. This episode is all about clapping back vs. choosing calm, and navigating this wild digital world without losing your mind (or your account). Lex and Drea are joined by the hilarious KevOnStage, and it’s a laugh-packed sit-down full of real talk about internet beef, long booties, and why confidence will always win—even when the crack’s out.

We’re getting into cancel culture, content creation fatigue, and why Kev still posts even when Twitter tries to cook him. We’re breaking down internet drama, creator burnout, and how Kev keeps showing up online even when the timeline turns toxic. Lex admits she’s been on her rebrand journey, and Drea gets real about why keeping it cute sometimes takes more strength than clapping back.

and Kev keeps it all the way real about body image, filler rumors, and why he’ll never get a fake hairline (even if it rains).

By the end, we’ve dragged cookies, praised dad bods, and reminded everybody: you can be petty and peaceful… just not on the same day.

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I Don’t Wanna Leave Jul 18, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re talking ambition, fake love, and why chasing success will have you smiling in rooms you lowkey can’t stand. Lex and Drea are back on the couch asking the real questions: how far are you willing to go to level up, and is it really fake… or just good business?

We got into working with people you don’t like, out-hustling your coworkers, and knowing when to clap for others vs. when to move around. Lex shares how she used to snatch tables mid-shift, Drea breaks down her rules for “strategic faking,” and both of them admit they’ve been hatin’ for no reason.

By the end of the episode, somebody’s manifesting a cypher verse, the tequila tastes like water, and we’re all agreeing: if you ain’t greeted that table in two minutes, it’s mine now.

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Midwest Mayhem ft. Crash Dummies Jul 13, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, we got the homies from Crash Dummies on the couch—and it got real. From arguing about whether men and women can really be “just friends,” to who’s actually the prize in a relationship, this one got heated.
Lex and Drea were not letting up, and Pat and Mike brought that wild Midwest energy. We talked dating rules, emotional maturity, and the difference between a vibe and a red flag.
By the end of the episode, somehow we’re all going to a Bucks game and bottles will be involved. Milwaukee, we might be on the way.

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I'm Just Being Honest Jul 04, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s a solo couch takeover with your girls Lex and Drea—and we’re just being honest. Lex kicks things off with a very bold claim: Fetty Wap is the greatest balladeer of our generation. Yes, she said that with her chest. From there, the chaos unfolds. We debate if Future’s “Honest” counts as a slow jam (Lex thinks it belongs at a wedding), and why the Macarena might be the original TikTok dance.

We also get into modern-day prom madness, erotic hypnosis, and how sex gets deeper when the mind gets involved. Drea explains why she’s never been truly d-matized, while Lex shares how breathwork unlocked a whole new level of pleasure.

Plus, we introduce a new commandment: Thou shalt not wear see-through thongs to dinner. We’re just being honest.

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That’s My Woman FT. Devale & Khadeen Ellis Jul 04, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s a couple’s couch takeover with Devale and Khadeen Ellis—real-life partners, actors, authors, and co-hosts of the "Ellis Ever After" Podcast. We talk about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts. Khadeen shares how she made the first move at a scholarship banquet (gown and all), and Devale breaks down why a woman buying the first round didn’t scare him—it impressed him. They open up about getting married young, going through broke seasons together, and what it means to really choose your partner for the long haul.

We also get into doing “wifey things” before the ring, knowing the difference between red flags and real work, and why “pick-me” might not be the insult people think it is. Plus, Lex leaves us with a new prayer: “Don Julio, be blessed.”

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I Got My Own Trench Coat FT. Kiki Said So Jul 04, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re joined by the legendary Kiki Said So—OG podcaster and content queen.

We talk about the early days of Cocktails, how podcasting has changed (and gotten a little too polished), and what it really means to let a man be a man when you’ve always done it all yourself. Kiki opens up about unlearning hyper-independence, the fear of asking for help, and the launch of her new podcast XO Man—where she’s making space for Black men to get vulnerable, open up, and tell their truth.

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Velle's World FT. Lavelle Dontae Jul 04, 2025

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re joined by Lavelle Dontae—a rising comedic star and viral social media sensation. He’s funny, unfiltered, and got a story to tell.

We talk about how he got his start in comedy, how his time in the military added to the mix, and of course… his role in the bedroom 👀

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