Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

Latest Episodes:

How to Manage Traumatized Kids' Behaviors. Sep 30, 2025

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In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, discusses managing behaviors in traumatized children. She shares insights from her experience in therapeutic foster care and personal trauma, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma's impact on the brain and the need for relational safety.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactaz
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

Behaviors in Autistic/ADHD kids. How to Handle Them With Care Sep 23, 2025

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to handle behaviors in neurodivergent children with care. She emphasizes understanding the purpose behind behaviors and adapting environments to support children's unique needs.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactaz
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

How to Teach Children Self Control With Emotional Intelligence Sep 16, 2025

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In this episode, Marcela Collier delves into the intricacies of teaching children self-control through emotional intelligence. She shares insights on understanding the root causes of unexplained aggressive behaviors in children and introduces the three pillars of emotional intelligence: body awareness, coping strategies, and emotional vocabulary.

Through the story of Darryl, a child struggling with aggression due to past bullying, Marcela illustrates how therapeutic play and consistent practice can transform a child's ability to manage impulses and communicate feelings effectively.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactaz
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

Know What Your Child Needs Using The I.D.E.A Method Sep 09, 2025

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In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the I.D.E.A Method, a comprehensive strategy to identify and address the needs of children, particularly those who are neurodivergent. Drawing from her extensive experience as a therapeutic provider, Marcela emphasizes the importance of understanding behaviors as expressions of underlying needs rather than problems to be solved superficially.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactaz
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

The Secret to Calming Down the Worst Meltdowns Sep 02, 2025

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela shares her insights on managing intense child meltdowns. Drawing from personal experiences and research, Marcela introduces the concept of "personal attunement" as the key to calming these challenging moments. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing a child's feelings and sense of safety, addressing underlying causes, and fostering a secure environment through co-regulation.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactaz
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

The Only Parenting Responses You'll EVER Need Aug 26, 2025

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In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, delves into the four unique differences that influence children's behavior: biological, sensory, emotional, and thought processing. Learn how understanding these differences can help you respond to your child's needs without yelling, and bring peace to your parenting journey.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactaz
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

How This Mom Stopped Yelling at Her Child Aug 19, 2025

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In this episode, Marcela Collier talks with Christina, a parent who transformed her parenting approach through HIC coaching. Discover how Christina overcame reactivity and anxiety to foster a secure and calm environment for her child.

If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.
In this class, you’ll learn:

✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.
✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."
✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved.

👉 Tap here to watch the free class

3 Signs You're Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child Aug 12, 2025

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Join Marcela in this insightful episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast as she explores the three key signs of raising an emotionally intelligent child. Discover the importance of calmness, connection, and communication in fostering social-emotional development.

✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.
✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."
✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved.

👉 Tap here to watch the free class

How to Stop Power Struggles Using Neuroception Aug 05, 2025

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela discusses the concept of neuroception and its significance in understanding children's behavior.

She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the different types of safety—physical, emotional, psychological, and relational—and how they impact children's actions.

The conversation explores the roots of parental reactivity and the necessity for parents to cultivate a sense of calm and safety within themselves to effectively support their children

✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.
✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."
✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved.

👉 Tap here to watch the free class

5 Ways to Build Secure Attachment Jul 29, 2025

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In this episode, Marcela discusses five essential ways to build secure attachment in children, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing relationships, ensuring emotional safety, maintaining consistency, understanding the needs behind behaviors, and focusing on emotional regulation rather than control.

Through personal anecdotes and practical examples, she illustrates how these principles can transform parenting and foster a secure environment for children to thrive.

✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.
✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."
✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved.

👉 Tap here to watch the free class