Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

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**Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast**

-Cycle breaker podcast episode every Tuesday hosted by Marcela Collier
-Community support from other cycle breakers in our private Facebook Group
-Free Parenting Material
-Access to exclusive sales and new releases

Latest Episodes:

⭐️Episode 8: How a Single Mom Stopped Yelling at Her Son (And Rebuilt Their Relationship) Sep 30, 2026

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⭐️Episode 10: How to Raise Emotionally Secure Children. (Without Being a Perfect Parent) Sep 30, 2026

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You've read the parenting books.
You've listened to the podcasts.
You've saved the Instagram posts.

So why is it still so hard to stay calm in the moment?

In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier sits down with HIC Parenting Coach Holly Storm to reveal why knowing what to do isn't the same as becoming the parent you want to be.

Together, they explore the three core skills every Secure Parent develops:

🧠 Head – Mindsight: Understanding yourself and your child's needs.

❤️ Heart – Emotional Regulation: Learning to work with your nervous system instead of against it.

🙌 Hands – Positive Discipline: Guiding behavior through connection, not control.

If you've ever felt like...

"I know what to do... I just can't do it when it matters most."

This episode is for you.

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How to Feel Calmer When Your Child Doesn't Do it Right Mar 31, 2026

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explains how the childhood wound of injustice can shape parenting patterns and trigger reactivity. She describes how growing up in rigid, high-pressure environments can lead parents to become overly rule-oriented, inflexible, and reactive when their children struggle to meet expectations.
Marcela shares how this wound affects both parents and children, and offers practical shifts to move from pressure to support, from rigidity to flexibility, and from reactive parenting to secure parenting. This episode is part of the six-part series on understanding your inner child to transform your parenting.
If you’re ready to stop reacting in anger, understand why your child’s behavior triggers you so deeply, and become a more secure parent… this episode is for you.
Your child is not the problem.
The wound is the pattern.
And once you understand it, you can change it.
So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactclub
@hicparenting
Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.
And that parent can be you.

Transforming Shame into Conscious Parenting Mar 17, 2026

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how shame-based experiences from childhood can quietly shape the way parents react to their children today. She explains how this wound is created, how it shows up in parenting through embarrassment, harsh correction, and defensiveness, and how parents can begin changing the narrative with more awareness, regulation, and safety.

It's Not Your Child, It's Your Abandonment Trauma Mar 04, 2026

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In this episode, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how it silently shapes your parenting reactions. She explains how shame, embarrassment, and defensiveness often stem from old wounds — and how awareness and new skills can help you stop passing it on to your children. DM “peace 25” on Instagram to access the free class and learn how to become a secure parent.

Calm Down Your Child’s Triggers With the P.E.A.C.E. Process Feb 03, 2026

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In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the B-E-A-C-E process, a practical framework to help parents calm triggers and manage their children’s emotional responses in a respectful way.

Whether you're dealing with reactions during tantrums or stressors caused by trauma, these tools are essential for fostering emotional regulation and security.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactclub
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

How to Calm Down BIG Emotions in Your Child. Jan 20, 2026

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to calm children's big emotions without resorting to yelling or punishment. She introduces the concept of behavior levels, explaining how understanding these can help prevent meltdowns.

Marcela emphasizes the importance of recognizing early signs of anxiety and defensiveness in children and offers practical strategies for parents to address these behaviors effectively. The episode is part of a five-part series aimed at helping parents raise emotionally secure children.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactclub
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

How This Father Ended the Cycle of Reactivity. Marco's Story Jan 06, 2026

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier interviews Marco Hansell, a client who transformed his parenting approach from reactive to secure. They discuss the challenges Marco faced, including feeling disconnected from his son and struggling with co-parenting dynamics.

Through HIC Parenting, Marco learned emotional regulation, mind sight, and positive discipline, which helped him create a more peaceful family environment. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and seeking support to improve parenting skills.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactclub
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

How to Repair With Your Child After Yelling Dec 23, 2025

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In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of repairing relationships with children after moments of reactivity, such as yelling.

She emphasizes that meaningful repair can prevent damage to the parent-child relationship and enhance children's self-esteem. Marcela shares insights on how to repair from a place of self-compassion rather than shame, offering practical steps and scripts for parents to reconnect with their children.

She also highlights the role of storytelling and role play in helping young children understand and process these moments.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactclub
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.

Tools For Instant Calm Every Parent Needs to Know. Dec 16, 2025

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Marcela Collier shares tools for instant calm in parenting, focusing on understanding reactivity as an inner world issue. She introduces the Anchor method, emphasizing body awareness, naming emotions, and connecting to sensory tools. The episode highlights the importance of nervous system regulation and offers practical steps for parents to regain calm and presence.

If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you.

Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.
That's the message.

And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them.

So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.
@highimpactclub
@hicparenting

Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
They need a safe one.

And that parent can be you.