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#108 - Trying vs Knowing: The Subtle Frequency Shift That Changes Everything Jul 28, 2025

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What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re doing something wrong—but because you’re trying to do it right?

In this episode, we explore the energetic distinction between trying and knowing—and how this subtle yet potent shift changes everything when it comes to manifestation, alignment, and living your soul’s true vision.

You’ll learn how “trying” stems from uncertainty, control, and mental loops that keep us chasing what we already are… while “knowing” is a full-body experience of truth that magnetizes our desired reality to us. This isn’t about efforting your way into success—it’s about remembering who you already are and allowing reality to bend to your frequency.

Key Highlights:

The energetic difference between trying and knowing in manifestation
How belief systems create energetic feedback loops shaping your reality
Channelled insights on knowing as a full mind-body-spirit sensation
Quantum reality explained: multiple realities, expanded consciousness, and aligning with your highest timeline
Personal reflections on holding visions and trusting the unfolding process
The power of becoming the being who embodies your vision before it manifests physically
Navigating challenges as sacred shedings and opportunities for growth
Practical tips for tapping into knowing energy in daily life and creative work

#107 - Yes, BEING Who You Really Are Truly Does Solve Everything | Human Design For Soul Alignment + The Energetics of BEING Jul 21, 2025

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In this solo episode, Bella dives into a life-changing philosophy that will help you:

Feel aligned—even when life feels messy
Make clearer decisions with ease
Anchor into peace by shifting your focus from *doing* to *being*

Bella unpacks how Human Design supports you in living from your essence, not just chasing aligned actions or perfect circumstances. If you’ve ever felt stuck between your current reality and your big vision, this is your permission slip to stop waiting and start *being*.

“You cannot lose when you realize that alignment comes from WITHIN YOU.”

You’ll explore:

Why the most powerful shift is asking “Am *I* aligned?” instead of “Is this thing aligned?”
How to use your Human Design authority to make soul-aligned decisions that shape your path
The frequency-first approach that changes your job, relationship, or any situation from the inside out

This transmission invites you into yet another level of BEING. A reality where being aligned with your soul is the most productive thing you can do.

If you’re someone with big aspirations, many passions, and yet a path that seems unclear or laden with many question marks… this is for you.

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#106 - Activate next-level CREATIVE EXPRESSION: what AI does to your creativity, how to know if it’s hindering you, and the truth about the RESISTANCE you keep facing. Jul 14, 2025

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So many tools… So many escapes… So many ways to fork over your creative power and expression. The question is: at what point do such powerful tools as AI and AI language models start to take away from your creative expression rather than support it? Are you making yourself and your creations available to the divine? Or stopping the flow as soon as you start? And what would it feel like to finally BELIEVE in your creative power rather than let your ego drive?

This is a conversation about reclaiming your innate power and capacity for mind-blowing levels of creativity. There’s no shaming of AI, chat GPT, and advancements in technology, but rather an invitation to take an honest look at how YOU really want to feel, what you really WANT to create, and the most gratifying way to get there.

Enjoy this open discussion on supporting your most creatively alive self, and let us know what you think!

In honor of this topic, absolutely NO AI support was used in the creation of any part of this episode.

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#105 - Riding an Emotional Low? Stop Identifying w/ the Ups & Downs: 5 Energy-Shifting Reminders That Will Bring You Back to Center Jul 07, 2025

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If you’re in the thick of it emotionally right now — riding the waves of overwhelm, anxiety, sadness, or just “off” energy — this episode is a warm, grounding hug for your nervous system and soul.

In today’s transmission, Nikki shares 5 powerful reminders to help you navigate emotional intensity with presence, grace, and deep compassion. This episode is truly for the moments when we feel "disconnected" from our power and out of touch with our higher awareness.

Expect to walk away feeling soothed, empowered, and reconnected to your truth.

This episode is for you if:

- You’re feeling emotionally overwhelmed and unsure how to process it
- You feel like you are in a "forgetting" phase and forgetting your power
- You’re on a healing journey and want to deepen your emotional resilience
- You want to stop over-identifying with your emotions and start holding them with grace
- You’re ready to feel safe in your body, even when things feel messy
Tune in now and let this be the reminder your soul was calling in.
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#104 - You’re in a Co-Creation Loop With Earth: Heart Intentions, Solar Flares, and the Energy That Heals AND How Following Your Calling is The Greatest Act of Service to Our Planet Jun 30, 2025

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If you’ve ever felt that your calling isn’t “big enough” or doubted your role in creating meaningful change, this episode will shift your perspective forever. It blends science with soulful truth to reveal how your heart’s frequency matters on a global scale.

Hosts Bella and Nikki unravel the profound impact of following your divine calling—not just for your personal fulfillment, but for the healing and elevation of the entire planet. Grounded in cutting-edge science and ancient wisdom, this conversation explores how our heart’s coherence and authentic expression create energetic ripples that influence Earth's geomagnetic field and collective consciousness.

Whether you’re questioning your purpose or doubting the significance of your unique path, this episode offers a powerful permission slip to embrace your true self unapologetically. Discover why your calling—no matter how seemingly ordinary—carries sacred, planetary weight and how tuning into your heart’s excitement can contribute to building the new earth we all crave.

This episode is a must-listen if you want to feel empowered to live your purpose with confidence, understand the science behind human-planet interconnection, and see your authenticity as an essential act of global service.

What You’ll Learn / Get Out of This Episode:

The science behind how solar activity and Earth’s geomagnetic field affect human health, moods, and behavior.
What the Global Coherence Initiative and HeartMath Institute reveal about the bi-directional relationship between human emotional states and Earth’s magnetic field.
How your personal calling, even if it feels small or unrelated to “big impact,” energetically contributes to planetary healing.
The importance of heart coherence and how living in alignment with your excitement broadcasts a healing electromagnetic signal.
Why authentic self-expression—whether as an artist, nurturer, warrior, or any role—is crucial to the collective and how it mirrors ancient tribal dynamics.
How to navigate external noise and media chaos by returning to your center and focusing on your highest service.
The empowering idea that your unique path and emotional state create tangible, positive effects on humanity and Earth’s energetic environment.
Practical insights on embracing your “sauce” (authentic self) and the ripple effect of your energy on your community and the planet.

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#103 - (BELLA SOLO ) Let Go and Let GOD Bring You A Miraculous Life | Creativity, Surrender, Divine Breakthroughs, and Becoming A Channel For Source Jun 23, 2025

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In this raw and electric solo episode, Bella invites you into the heart of a breakthrough — one rooted in surrender, divine timing, and the courage to release control. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things and still hitting resistance… this one’s for you.

We explore the trap of over-planning, the illusion of manifestation as control, and what it actually means to co-create with the divine. This is about more than just trusting the process — it’s about embodying a new way of living, where your creativity becomes your compass, your nervous system becomes your guide, and your soul blueprint becomes your strategy.

Expect perspective-shifting truths, channeled reminders, and an invitation to stop gripping so tightly to the life you think you should be living — so you can finally receive the one that’s waiting for you.

In this episode:

Why over-planning is killing your creative flow
The ego trap of manifestation and old paradigm hustle
Reframing surrender as a receptive, creative state
Vertical alignment vs horizontal distraction and plugging straight into Source
Letting God (or divine intelligence) co-write your path
The new nervous system required for new paradigm living
Why resistance often means you're on the right path
Letting go of timelines and linear success
Practical ways to trust without giving up

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#102 - Hyperfixated on What Other People Think of You? The Energy of Shame, Decoded. Jun 16, 2025

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Ever felt the thick, sticky weight of shame? That dense, disowning energy that pulls you into fear, self-judgment, and obsession with how others perceive you? If so, you are so not alone...AND you've landed in the right place...

Today we sit down to unpack the subtle yet profound layers of shame, exploring how it often masks as feelings of unworthiness, hiding, or regret over expressing your authentic self. This episode is a raw, unapologetic invitation to stop shrinking, to fully claim every part of you—including your shadows—and to move beyond the need for external approval.

We share intimate stories, soulful revelations, and practical wisdom on how embracing shame with love and presence becomes the gateway to radical freedom, creative self-expression, and deeper compassion for yourself and others. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of fearing perception or caught in harsh self-judgment, this conversation is your permission slip to lean into vulnerability, cultivate self-forgiveness, and ignite your unique vibrant essence.

Here’s what you’ll get from this episode:

A heartfelt definition and exploration of what *shame* really feels like and how it shows up in our lives
Insight into how shame fuels judgment—both of self and others—and how to dismantle this cycle
Guidance on embracing your shadows as sacred parts of your unique frequency instead of hiding or rejecting them
Tools and perspectives to reclaim your power by releasing the fear of others’ perceptions
Real talk about navigating ego resistance and the “trial by fire” that comes with deeper self-expression
An invitation to embody radical self-love and forgiveness as the path to true freedom
Discernment practices that balance loving acceptance with healthy boundaries
Encouragement to trust your emotional sensitivity as a profound gift, not a burden

Tune in to feel held, inspired, and empowered on your journey to transmute shame into light and step boldly into who you were always meant to be.

#101 - The Excitement Formula for Creating a Life of FULFILLMENT (Bashar, The Extraterrestrial) Jun 09, 2025

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Can you guarantee a life of fulfillment by following your excitement? Let's see what a very external perspective has to say... In this episode, we unpack the Bashar excitement formula -- a set of steps laid out by the famous extra-terrestrial channeled by Darryl Anka.

We explore:

1. Why it WORKS to use excitement as an inner compass

2. How to be the best at what you do

3. Letting go of expectations, outcomes, and results

4. The real meaning of "staying positive"

5. A special message for anyone in the unknown or about to take a big leap and how to TRUST it!!

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#100 - What 100 Podcast Episodes Taught Us About Life, Love, Creativity and Purpose AND What's to Come w/ the VISION of OOOM Jun 02, 2025

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Holy shit ooomie fam. How is this moment even real right now? 100 episode of pure freakin magic. 100 weeks of pure creation, devotion and love. Our hearts are wide freakin open as we share this episode with you.

This episode we drop in deep, to the lessons we have learned, the wisdom we have picked up along the way, and what it truly takes to be head over heels in love, DEVOTED to the path of service.

We have learned so much and today we are sharing it all. We’re sharing:

✨ What we’ve learned about consistency (even when it’s hard)

✨ Our take on new paradigm success in business & life

✨ How we’ve recalibrated to our purpose over and over again

✨ And the real behind-the-scenes magic it takes to keep going when you’re building something soul-led

✨ A heart-felt drop in to the LOVE we hold for each other in this epic container of divine friendship

✨ A sneak peek into what we see unfolding in the world of OOOM

✨ Our wild, expansive vision for the next 100 episodes—and beyond

Whether you’ve been here since Episode 1 or just joined the OOOM vortex… this one is from our hearts to yours.

We love you.

We’re so freakin grateful.

Let’s keep making waves, breaking rules, and remembering who TF we are.

Here’s to the next 💯 !!!!!

#99 –[NIKKI SOLO] Emotion is the Technology Your Soul Uses to Evolve. Here's HOW. May 26, 2025

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You’ve been taught that emotions are bad.

Overwhelming. Irrational.

That if you feel, you’re too much… or maybe even broken.

But what if that’s the biggest lie of all, one designed to distract you from the power your feelings actually hold?

What if emotion is divine technology...a built-in feedback system designed to help you evolve in real time?

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into how emotion is your soul’s diagnostic system.

It pinpoints where your internal code is outdated, distorted, or ready for an upgrade.

You’ll learn how emotions act as frequency-based feedback loops, how they mirror false programs or soul alignment, and why feeling deeply is the key to recoding your reality.

If you’ve ever thought your emotions made you too much...this will flip everything.

This episode will shift the way you relate to emotion.

You’ll start to see it as the most powerful mechanism in your evolution.

One that, when embraced, can transmute pain into power…

…resistance into remembrance.

Welcome to the next phase of your awakening. A full-on reclamation of your emotional body as a divine technology here to help you ascend.

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