Order of Man

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GREG ANDERSON | Isolation, Fear, and the Fight Within Mar 24, 2026

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Today, we're talking with a man who chose courage when it would've been easier to stay quiet. Back in May of 2020, during the height of COVID restrictions, he stood up for himself, and paid the price, facing serious fallout including a wrongful termination suit in a time when being a cop was already under fire. This is a conversation about what it means to stop living through other men, to stop outsourcing adventure, and to answer that internal call - even when it costs you everything.

We get into his mission to row the Pacific, the realities of isolation, risk, and mental warfare, and what it takes to prepare - physically, operationally, and emotionally - for something this extreme. From growing up on a fishing boat in Alaska to navigating fear, family, and the unknown, this is about courage through adversity - and what a man discovers when there's nowhere left to hide.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Reconnection After 6 Years 00:30 - Speaking Out Against COVID & Losing His Job 01:12 - Fired from the Police Department 03:41 - Failed Lawsuit & Letting It Go 05:52 - From Police Work to Jiu-Jitsu Entrepreneur 07:18 - Faith, Purpose & Looking Back on Hard Times 08:20 - The Idea to Row Across the Pacific 10:14 - From Inspiration to Action 12:05 - The Boat, Gear & No-Support Mission 14:01 - Is This Reckless with a Family? 16:25 - Why Men Need Adventure 19:23 - Commitment, Risk & No Turning Back 21:27 - Survival Logistics: Food, Water, Safety 24:25 - Team Dynamics & Avoiding Conflict 27:50 - Mental Cycles in Extreme Environments 30:03 - The Power of Mission & Purpose 33:52 - Biggest Fears: Ocean, Isolation & Survival 37:40 - Fear vs Excitement Mindset 41:02 - War Stories & Conditioning to Danger 46:21 - Conversations with Family & Wife's Support 49:53 - Why His Wife Believes in Him 52:48 - Identity, Risk & Living Fully 56:43 - The Reality of Life on the Boat 59:04 - Training, Nutrition & Physical Prep 01:00:37 - How to Support the Mission

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Comfort is the New Addiction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 20, 2026

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We've been sold a dangerous lie - that the goal of life is comfort.

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down why comfort is quietly destroying ambition, discipline, and purpose in modern men. What feels good in the moment is often the very thing holding you back long-term.

If you've been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or drifting, this episode will challenge you to rethink everything.

Ryan shares 5 practical ways to reintroduce challenge into your life, build discipline, and become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - The Lie of Comfort 00:35 - Why Comfort is an Addiction 01:10 - Life is Too Easy (Not Too Hard) 02:15 - The Slow Fade Into Mediocrity 03:00 - Comfort Mimics Progress 04:20 - Do One Hard Thing Daily 05:30 - Eliminate a Comfort Crutch 06:45 - Stop Hiding (Accountability) 08:40 - Schedule Discomfort 10:05 - When Comfort Destroys Your Life 11:50 - Earn Your Comfort 13:10 - Comfort Creates Weak Men 15:30 - Ask "What's Required?" 17:00 - Final Challenge

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Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 18, 2026

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In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer listener questions on masculinity, business, relationships, and personal discipline. They discuss common misconceptions about manhood, why men can't succeed alone, and the hidden "inner work" behind strong masculinity.

The conversation also covers social media side hustles, financial decisions, building business networks, and how to break out of destructive habits. Ryan and Kipp also tackle relationship dynamics, including respect in marriage and the real reason attraction fades in long-term relationships. This episode is packed with practical advice on taking ownership, building momentum, and becoming a better man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Opening conversation 02:33 Iron Council preview call announcement 03:14 Question: Beliefs about manhood that proved wrong 16:50 Question: Is my social media side hustle a waste of time? 25:53 Question: Thoughts on peptides 29:48 Question: Is $2,200 rent on $6K income realistic? 36:00 Question: Building a construction trade network 43:44 Question: Breaking destructive habits and starting over 49:05 Question: Respect and cooperation in marriage 53:11 Question: Why wives lose attraction

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JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward Mar 17, 2026

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Today I'm joined by Jon Acuff, a New York Times bestselling author who has spent years studying why so many of us procrastinate and how to finally get out of our own way. We talk about the real reasons people stall out—fear, rejection, imposter syndrome, perfectionism—and how comparison, when used correctly, can actually become a source of inspiration rather than insecurity.

Jon also shares practical frameworks for focusing on effort instead of obsessing over outcomes, creating your own personal scorecard for success, and adopting a "let's find out" mentality when it comes to pursuing goals and navigating uncertainty. If you've ever felt stuck between what you say you want and what you're actually doing, this conversation will give you some tools to start closing that gap.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro & Jon Acuff returns to the podcast 01:14 - Why Ryan hates the term "Imposter Syndrome" 03:12 - Healthy vs destructive comparison 06:01 - "Audition your goals" instead of committing immediately 08:25 - Why men create fictional problems before starting 09:56 - Perfectionism and the "all or nothing" trap 12:21 - Thinking long-term to make better decisions 14:56 - "Noble obstacles" and how we sabotage ourselves 20:57 - The danger of attaching too much to outcomes 23:27 - Holding two opposing truths in leadership 25:26 - The "Let's Find Out" mentality 27:57 - Why men need other men to push them 33:18 - Ryan's story of channeling anger through wrestling 35:15 - The four permissions that beat procrastination 38:48 - Discipline vs desire 43:36 - Hustlers skipping the planning stage 45:12 - Becoming the best salesperson of yourself 49:22 - Why men overcommit their schedules 50:04 - How men hide inside hobbies 55:12 - Measuring success as a father 58:45 - Parenting example: the tattoo story 01:02:13 - Where to find Jon Acuff and his new book

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How to Rebuild Your Life When You've Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 13, 2026

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Life can collapse faster than we expect. A divorce, financial loss, health issues, or the breakdown of relationships can leave a man wondering where to even begin again.

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares six strategies for rebuilding your life when everything feels like it's falling apart. Drawing from personal experience and years of working with thousands of men, Ryan explains why rebuilding doesn't start with massive breakthroughs—it starts with small, disciplined actions that restore stability and control.

If you're facing rock bottom—or helping someone who is—this episode outlines the mindset and practical steps required to rebuild stronger than before.

Ryan covers why stabilizing yourself is more important than rushing into strategy, how taking full ownership restores your personal power, and why rebuilding your body is one of the fastest ways to regain confidence and discipline. He also explains the importance of simplifying your life, stacking small wins, and surrounding yourself with the right brotherhood so you don't face the rebuilding process alone.

Rock bottom doesn't have to be the end of your story. It can be the foundation for becoming the man you were meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Intro 00:22 When Life Falls Apart 02:56 Where Do You Even Start? 03:33 Stabilize Before You Strategize 05:05 The Fundamentals: Sleep, Training, Nutrition 07:12 Creating Daily Structure 08:49 Take Ruthless Ownership of Your Life 11:20 Powerful Questions for Self-Reflection 12:40 Simplify Your Life Aggressively 15:28 Rebuild Your Body First 17:25 The Power of Stacking Small Wins 21:00 Why Brotherhood Matters 24:55 Why No Man Rebuilds Alone 25:55 Using Rock Bottom as Your Starting Block 27:19 Who Do You Become Now? 28:00 Iron Council Brotherhood 29:00 Final Thoughts

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Men's Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 11, 2026

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In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a wide range of listener questions-from AI and authenticity to divorce, brotherhood, and extreme ownership. Ryan shares lessons from his own divorce about reflection, accountability, and rebuilding your life after a major setback. The conversation also dives into why authenticity builds trust, the danger of labeling words as violence, and how men can start building strong brotherhoods even if they've spent most of their lives alone. If you're feeling stuck in your career, isolated in life, or unsure how to take the next step forward, this episode offers practical guidance and honest perspective.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:04 - Introduction and lacrosse tournament story 03:46 - Listener question: AI and content creation 17:57 - Navigating divorce and staying afloat emotionally 30:17 - New Order of Man merchandise designs 32:14 - Ideals worth fighting or dying for 35:15 - Violence, language, and societal perception 42:16 - Building brotherhood from scratch 51:22 - Extreme ownership when stuck in a job 59:24 - Reflecting on advice given years earlier 59:50 - Episode closing remarks

Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

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RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man Mar 10, 2026

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My good friend Kipp Sorensen interviews me. I'm on the hot seat today and very excited to be talking with you about all things Order of Man, including the origin story of Order of Man, why we need to be careful of falling into the comparison trap, but how it can actually help you by comparing yourself in healthy ways to others. We talk about having healthy relationships with delayed gratification. Any misconceptions about what order of man does what we're doing now and into the future, how we've grown the movement, and how we continue to innovate and come up with new ideas. We talk about some of the tactics and strategies.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Cold Open & Fight Talk 03:12 Reversing the Roles — Ryan on the Hot Seat 05:30 The Origin of Order of Man 11:20 Launching the Iron Council 13:50 Commitment and Delayed Gratification 19:28 Why Ryan Never Quit the Mission 22:00 Lessons From Personal Struggles and Divorce 28:00 Commitment to the Mission vs Results 30:20 The Trap of Always Chasing "What's Next" 34:28 Dealing With Pressure and Escapism 40:32 Handling Leadership Pressure 43:07 The Danger of the Red Pill Movement 48:00 The Problem With Modern Masculinity Influencers 50:53 The Real Men We Should Look Up To 53:25 What Men Often Get Wrong About Masculinity 54:47 The Intangible Side of Protect, Provide, Preside 01:00:37 Tactical vs Strategic Leadership as a Father 01:14:17 Being an Introvert With a Massive Audience 01:15:41 The Impact of Listener Stories 01:22:26 Call to Action for Men

Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

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Why the Lone Wolf Dies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 06, 2026

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Ryan Michler challenges the cultural myth of the "lone wolf" man and explains why isolation is quietly destroying modern men.

While movies, social media, and modern culture glorify the rugged individual who needs no one, the truth is the opposite - men were built for brotherhood, tribes, and shared struggle.

Ryan breaks down why modern systems incentivize isolation, how loneliness leads to mediocrity and addiction, and what men can do to build real brotherhood again.

From historical examples of men organizing to modern distractions that keep men disconnected, this episode is a powerful reminder that the strongest men aren't lone wolves - they're leaders of packs.

Ryan also shares practical ways to build connection, including where brotherhood naturally forms and how to take the first step in creating it.

In This Episode

Why the "lone wolf" myth is a lie
What actually happens to lone wolves in nature
How isolation is affecting modern men
Why systems and incentives push men toward loneliness
How technology simulates brotherhood without delivering it
The dangers of losing accountability and perspective
Why strong men throughout history built tribes
Practical ways to build real brotherhood today
The three environments where men improve together
Why shared struggle builds deeper bonds than conversation

Resources & Links

Iron Council Brotherhood https://orderofman.com/ironcouncil

The Men's Forge Event https://themensforge.com

Montana Knife Company https://montanaknifecompany.com Code: ORDERMAN

Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

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The 'Let's Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 04, 2026

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In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle powerful questions from the brotherhood. They discuss what lessons they are intentionally teaching their children, why so many men feel life is out of their control, and how to balance purpose with financial opportunity.

They dive into navigating raises, friendships strained by marriage dynamics, changing your mind when confronted with new evidence, and what role men should play in addressing corruption and cultural issues. As always, this episode blends practical advice with direct challenges to step up, take ownership, and live intentionally.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Fireplace Story & Technology Comforts 07:06 - Teaching Kids What We Didn't Learn 14:10 - Control vs Victim Mentality 24:33 - Purpose vs Money 29:48 - Changing Your Mind 37:18 - Investing for Your Kids 41:24 - Asking for a Raise 49:11 - Friendship & Marriage Boundaries 53:35 - Epstein Issue & Civic Responsibility 58:05 - Stop Talking. Start Acting.

Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

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RUDY REYES | Improve Your Position, Always Mar 03, 2026

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What does it mean to manufacture "do or die" intensity in a world that's built for comfort? How do you improve your position always — not just tactically, but physically, mentally, and spiritually? In this episode, we dig into conditioning as a way of life, why wind is everything, why over-specialization weakens men, and how to build true work capacity through skill, strength, and nervous system development. We talk about leading from the front, refusing to put men on pedestals, removing the mask, and confronting the quiet war of self-deception and self-worth that so many men fight in silence.

To unpack it, I'm joined by Rudy Reyes — Force Recon Marine, warrior-athlete, conservationist, and a man who has lived these principles from jungle warfare to rebuilding coral reefs with Force Blue. Rudy brings a rare blend of intensity and benevolence, tactical precision and spiritual depth. This conversation is about becoming dangerous in the right way — stronger for your family, clearer in your identity, and grounded in the truth that you may never be "enough"… and why that's liberating.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:26 - Improve Your Position Always 05:56 - Conditioning vs. Strength 14:20 - The Importance of Wind (Endurance) 20:43 - Position in Space & Neurological Health 22:05 - Rudy's 3-Part Training Philosophy 30:50 - The True Meaning of "Fitness" 32:28 - The Danger of Over-Specialization 38:40 - Sergeant Reyes vs. The Real Rudy 42:53 - Respecting the Recruits on Special Forces 51:38 - How to Lead Men Effectively 56:14 - Taking Off the Armor After Service 01:00:03 - Dropping the Mask & Rebuilding Life 01:04:02 - Shame, Identity & Never Being Enough 01:07:22 - Changing How We Talk to Ourselves 01:11:15 - Building Impact Over Income 01:13:34 - The Man in the Mirror Standard

Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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