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MICHAEL EASTER | Seek and Embrace Discomfort Aug 03, 2021

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Our innate pursuit of comfort is the enemy of achievement and, yet, we've failed collectively to keep our biological hardwiring to seek the path of least resistance in check. Why is that? Why is it that we know we should seek discomfort yet find it so difficult to do?

That's the topic of my conversation today with Michael Easter, the author of The Comfort Crisis. Today, Michael and I discuss the damage of helicopter and "snow plow" parenting, the psychological programming that keeps us from achievement, the concept of Mysogi and embracing annual challenges, how a healthy relationship with death keeps people fulfilled, and ultimately what you can do to overcome the Comfort Crisis that permeates every fabric of society.

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Life really isn't that hard
Parents seeking guidance from, rather thank giving guidance to, their kids
Snow plow parenting
Measuring happiness
The value in considering your own death
Challenges are required for true happiness
Finding the balance between seeking comfort and challenging ourselves
Why do we need to exercise
How do we push ourselves mentally and emotionally
The benefits and drawbacks of routine
Finding value in boredom
Put your ego aside: try to suck at something

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Small Wins, Big Results | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 30, 2021

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men need to stop swinging for the fence and just try to get on base. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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Men constantly swing for the fence, trying to get the results without putting in the work.
Wins should not be defined by the outcome, they should be defined by the process - the results will take care of themselves.
Write down small wins, experience big results.

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Making Simple (But Not Easy) Choices, Addressing Red Flags Early and Often, and Overcoming Distraction Once and For All | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 28, 2021

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen battle through technical issues and travel fatigue to tackle some of Instagram's hottest questions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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6:10 Do you think its a duty for men to train our minds and bodies to protect the people we hold dear?
7:20 How can you make sure you are investing enough time in family?
10:00 What are some ideas for 'rights of passage' for becoming a man?
11:30 Any tips for maintaining a consistent workout routine after having a baby?
14:00 What is one skill you wish you had but you do not?
17:00 What are some recommendations for a beginner archery hunting bow?
21:40 Have you ever thought of competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu?
23:30 What are some book recommendations for my ten-year-old son?
24:45 Who would you recommend to follow on Instagram?
26:15 When starting a business, do you prefer to take out a small business loan or find an investor?
31:00 Are there certain liberal values you wish the right would adopt?
32:50 Do you ever make the mindset shift to depend more on God and release high self expectations?
36:25 What do you do when your profession no longer aligns with your values?
40:14 Do you have any thoughts on bad selfishness and how to stop thinking about myself above other people's needs?
43:50 What is one good strategy to overcome and deal with distractions?
47:12 What metrics do you use to personally track your success?
53:35 Are there any good podcasts that speak more to the mom's role on raising a boy into a man?
58:20 How do you strive to maintain balance in your life on a daily basis as stressors grow and kids/family/work are introduced?

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LES STROUD | Become a Survivorman Jul 27, 2021

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My guest today needs no introduction. Most of you might know him as Survivorman. His name is Les Stroud and he is a legend in the nature, wildlife, and survival communities (for good reason).

Now, I thought we'd be talking all about survival strategies and techniques today but we immediately took the conversation deeper and covered everything from our disagreements on the Boys Scouts new rules allowing girls, why women tend to be better survivalists and what gets in men's way, our responsibility to contribute to society and the 3 ways we can, what the "joy of completion" means and how to harness it, and how to become our own survivorman in every facet of life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why women tend to perform better in certain survival situations
How ego gets in a mans way in a survival situation
Value of women being included in Boy Scouts
The importance of adult male mentorship to young males
How to overcome the lack of early mentorship as a young man
The benefits and drawbacks of having a chip on your shoulder
How canoeing lead Les to what he is doing today
The importance of the "joy of completion"
The benefits of connecting with nature
The joy of teaching kids
Why failure is a great teacher
The importance of giving your kids realistic expectations

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Manufacture Hardship | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 23, 2021

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses facilitating personal growth by creating environments where you can suffer - physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually.

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In light of life being relatively easy, we must deliberately and intentionally create hardship for ourselves in controlled environments
Manufacturing hardship is not about playing the victim card
In your training, choose the path of MOST resistance
Distinguish between sources of fear: "is this going to kill me" or "is this just going to make me uncomfortable"

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The Power of Proximity, BJJ in the Real World, and the 3-Part Formula for Effective Boundaries | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 21, 2021

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss how single men can positively impact fatherless boys, how to hold the line after past failures, and so much more. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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5:20 What made you choose Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu over any other martial art? Can someone get the same lessons elsewhere?
12:32 Have you ever used BJJ outside of the gym in a real world situation?
22:30 How can a single man can effectively invest in the lives of fatherless boys?
25:40 How do you identify the shit test from your wife and kids and what are some ways to start laying a line without being an ass?
36:40 What investment books do you recommend?
42:00 How do you draw a distinction between the desire to advance and grow in your work and career and the biblical mandate to be content with where you are?
52:20 What are your opinions on the effects of the housing shortage on millennials?
59:45 Do you have a recommendation for a book or a podcast on setting boundaries?

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RICKSON GRACIE | Jiu-Jitsu and a Life in Flow Jul 20, 2021

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My guest today is none other than Rickson Gracie, the son of Helio Gracie (the man who developed Brazilin Jiu-Jitsu). Rickson is a 9th degree red belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and a mixed martial artist.

He was widely considered to be the best fighter of the Gracie clan and one of the toughest individuals in the world. He's been training since he was six, received his black belt by 18, and subsequently went on to be undefeated in his professional fight career.

He is also the author of his upcoming book, Breathe: A Life in Flow, the subject of the documentary, Choke, and the upcoming Netflix Documentary called Dead or Alive.

Needless to say, this man knows as much about Jiu-Jitsu (if not more than) as any other as any other man on the planet and I'm honored to have him here today.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Jiu-Jitsu is more mental than physical
How does warrior mindset in Jiu-Jitsu translate to improving in other areas of life
Respect for the Gracie name and art of Jiu-Jitsu
Finding value from external pressure
Responding to critics and those who challenge the effectiveness of the art
Learning about ourselves through challenges
Successful men don't dabble
Code of honor
Finding your purpose through service
Gentleness versus violence in the art

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7 Relationship Pitfalls Every Man Should Avoid | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 16, 2021

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the seven pitfalls to avoid if you want to find more fulfillment and satisfaction in your relationship.

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#1 Ditching your friends, hobbies, or activities for her
#2 Clamming up
#3 Failing to establish boundaries
#4 Not showing interest in her interests
#5 Stop courting your wife
#6 Undermining your own credibility
#7 Improving yourself for the wrong reasons

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Why You Can't Save People, Properly Handling Stress and Response, and Prioritizing and Executing | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 14, 2021

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are finally back together. In the midst of increasing censorship, we hope this episode makes it to you, as Ryan and Kipp tackle some of this week's most thought provoking questions.

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3:57 - What are your thoughts on UFC 264?
10:00 - Do you have any tips on how to get a clear mind and prioritize things? Is there a process you use to do this?
17:00 - How do you battle plan for a day when you are on vacation?
23:00 - Do you have any tricks for not getting exhausted or burnt out while working a job and trying to build a business?
27:46 - When starting a new job or working to build a stronger network, is it wise to allow new friendships to begin or focus on getting rid of those I don't want in my circle first?
31:40 - What is your favorite wild game recipe?
34:40 - How do I prepare my 6-year-old for football?
37:10 - When should we build our new home?
40:42 - What is your favorite way to drink coffee?
42:08 - What techniques do you use to compartmentalize stress?
48:46 - How does pornography affect marriage?
56:00 - How can I help a friend who won't help himself?

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BRANDON TATUM on White Privilege, Toxic Masculinity, and America's Role in the World Jul 13, 2021

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Brandon Tatum is a former All-American football player, police officer, and now, political commentator. He is also the author of the upcoming book, Beaten Black and Blue which chronicles his time as a police officer and the tensions between police officers and the public.

Today, we talk about why the terms "white privilege" and "toxic masculinity" don't paint an accurate picture of what's going on in society, America's place and position on the world stage, the power and undermining of the nuclear family, the modern male's role in society, the truth behind Marxist movements (including BLM).

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