Order of Man

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Mindsets of Masculine Leadership | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 11, 2022

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR mindsets that will help men lead more effectively. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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Overcome the ease of modernity
Don't be a superhero
Lead before the title
Render yourself obsolete

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TIM TEBOW | Overcoming Shame and Finding Your Significance Nov 10, 2022

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Joining me back on the podcast today for this bonus episodes and one of my favorite guests of all-time is Tim Tebow. We talk a lot about what plagues so many men and keeps them from progressing – guilt, shame, and remorse for past actions. We also cover how healthy competition drives productive performance, not losing focus of the mission in pursuit of the mission, what responsibility really means and how to exercise it, and finding your own sense of worth, value, and significance.

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Channeling your competitive drive
Reconciling between making money and helping others
Responsibility means "able to respond"
How to find your sense of worth
The importance of having purpose in your life
The power of "interruptible" moments
Encouraging others with small acts and words

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Big Vision and Small Actions, Boundaries for Infidelity, and Being a Lighthouse Versus a Tugboat | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 09, 2022

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group and Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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(5:45) When starting your business, how big was your vision for how large it would become? Were you immediately focused on the big picture (office's all over the country) or more focused on creating an excellent single office with processes that were scalable?

(16:40) As a leader, what is the best way to tell an employee that they need to get their shit together?

(23:00 What boundaries do you suggest a spouse should put in place after infidelity?

(31:00) With the holidays approaching, what should realistic expectations be for spending time with family? What is a healthy amount of time to give to others?

(39:40) What are some recommendations for how a city boy can become proficient in archery and get out and hunt?

(51:30) My girlfriend just left me…should I have a vision that is more focused on myself or should I keep my vision focused on family and others?

(56:26) What is your best way to confront your competition in a challenge when you notice that they are competing out of integrity?

(1:02:30) What is your position on self-awareness assessments, such as the Clifton Strengths assessment?

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LARRY HAGNER | Creating Psychological Safety Nov 08, 2022

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Psychological safety. It's not something that we think a whole lot about even though we talk a lot about a man's innate desire to protect those he's closest to. But when it comes to the mental and emotional security of our loved ones, we often fall short. My guest today is my good friend Larry Hagner who is the founder of the Dad Edge and Dad Edge Podcast. Today, Larry and I talk about powerful communication strategies with our wife and kids, how crucial climate is when it comes to communicating effectively, how curiosity serves as a powerful lubricant for improving our conversations, and how to effectively create psychological safety for our loved ones to open up to us.

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Men know what we need to do, but need to learn the tactics to do it
80% of men want to create a better marriage
Developing emotional maturity in the home
How do you know how you are coming across to your kids?
Different kids, different personalities
The power of genuine curiosity
Receiving feedback from your wife does not make you a doormat

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Effort Without Expectation | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 04, 2022

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains why it is important to put forth effort without expectations getting in the way, and provides four steps to help you stay on track and avoid these faulty expectations. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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Why it is important:

There are unforeseen events in life
Other people have a say in the matter
Often we have faulty timelines

How to keep yourself in the game:

Lengthen out the timeline for the things you want to achieve
Focus on the process, not the objective
Take a look at the past (see how far you've come)
Invest in yourself (hire coaches and mentors)

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Focus for 2023, Identifying Manly Virtues, and Balancing Self with Family | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 02, 2022

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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(10:00) As we near the end of 2022, what is your theme going into 2023 that you will base your Battle Plans off of? What is one big goal you have for next year that everything will work towards?

(25:30) What are some important manly virtues?

(40:00) What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Fight Club?

(47:00) What's the biggest thing you've let go of that significantly improved your life?

(59:00) Can you provide some tips on balancing children/family schedules with your own routines and "self care" or health schedules.

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

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RICK TRIMMER | One Foot in Front of the Other Nov 01, 2022

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Failures, victories, challenges, setbacks, ups and downs, and everything in between. They're all part of life. It's how we frame the rollercoaster of events and what we do about them that make us men. Today, I'm joined by longtime friend, serial entrepreneur, hunter, husband, and father, Rick Trimmer to talk about some of his biggest challenges and how he's learned to overcome the adversity to create an incredible life for himself and family. We cover the path of least resistance and the path of most resistance, overcoming failure and losing everything, doing the right thing because it's the right thing to do, and putting one foot in front of the other every day.

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Why men have trouble going deep into relationships
The power of genuine curiosity
You need to keep pushing through challenging times
Achieving your goals doesn't happen overnight
Getting through life minute by minute
Sometimes its appropriate to feel ashamed
Helping other men learn from your mistakes
Finding purpose in the absence of religion
Being a "stay at home dad"
Showing gratitude to those who support you

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Fail on Your Feet | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 28, 2022

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a FIVE part framework to help men respond to failure and quickly get back in the game. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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When things go wrong, stop the behavior and stop flailing around
Orient yourself toward what you want
Change your priorities and adapt your behaviors
Enlist the resources you need
Take calculated, precise, consistent action

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Building Authority and Influence, Leading Through Adversity, and Overcoming Anger | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 26, 2022

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions live from the 3rd annual Order of Man Maine Event, held earlier this month. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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(2:00) How much passion do you need in your quarterly battle plan vision?

(6:12) How does a man build authority and influence as an employee, with no formal leadership position?

(12:44) How do you get your parents to "want" to be the type of grandparents who are engaged with your kids?

(18:46) How do I transition from the fast-paced activities of my business each day to a mode that is appropriate for family time at home in the evening?

(29:40) What is the vision for Order of Man for the next few years?

(38:10) When do you know that you've put enough effort in to helping someone and you now need to step back and let them figure things out themselves?

(44:20) How do I execute my duties as a son, with a mother dealing with dementia, without letting it impact my ability to show up for my wife and daughter?

(54:00) What are some practical ways that men can work to initiate our sons and boys in the community to become real men?

(58:40) How do you know how far to step and what doors to go through when multiple opportunities are presented?

(1:07:20) What is your advice for men who feel they have no substance underneath their superficial traits or titles?

(1:15:00) What are some strategies for overcoming anger issues? Specifically when it is directed at family members?

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

JONATHAN GILLIAM | Sheep No More Oct 25, 2022

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With as much craziness and violence we see in public these days, it's crucial that we as men learn how to effectively protect and defend ourselves and those we love. Fortunately, with a little intentionality and planning it's not all that difficult to keep ourselves and others safe. Today, I'm joined by Former Navy SEAL, FBI Agent, and Federal Air Marshall, Jonathan Gilliam to talk about how to do just that. We cover the concept of preparation versus paranoia, the default of awareness, when to get involved in situations and when not to, the "crawl, walk, run" theory, and recognizing and neutralizing threats before they occur.

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