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Breaking Bad Habits, Renewing the Mind, and Dealing with Narcissists | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 04, 2023

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(2:00) When breaking a bad habit/addiction, what is better? To focus on eliminating the bad habit for work to replace it with something positive.

(5:00) What are some of the best objectives and tactics that everyone could benefit from implementing, at least once?

(9:00) What are some innovations are taking place inside of the Iron Council to better serve the members?

(12:00) Do you have a daily "mind renewal" practice?

(14:40) If you had a physically crippling condition, how would you continue to contribute to those around you and how would your leadership style change?

(17:20) What is the most pivotal moment in moving on from a divorce? Any advice to shake the lingering regret?

(24:15) How can you work with a narcissist?

(29:00) What did you do that you found helpful in processing through the grief of losing a loved one?

(35:00) How do I help a friend who is struggling, but doesn't recognize that there is problem?

(39:20) With are the defining moments of your BJJ journey, and how can you implement those lessons in other areas in your life?

(45:25) What are the best books you have read this year?

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DR. JOHN DELONY | Annihilate Anxiousness Oct 03, 2023

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Anxiousness, depression, suicide. These are all growing trends with men. And, it's unfortunate because, with all we know about men's health (physical, mental, and emotional), why is it that so many of us seem to be struggling now more than ever? Isolation, loneliness, loss of ambition, lack of clarity and goals all contribute to the epidemic that seems to be plaguing so many men. It doesn't have to be this way. And, my good friend and author of Building a Non-Anxious Life, John Delony, is here today to tell us how to make it so. We talk about burnout, stress, and numbing behavior, unpacking what value you truly add to the people you care about, how to apply these principles in reality (and practically), why we don't have "maps" for every situation we encounter and what to do about it, and overcoming a past of extreme guilt and shame for past behavior.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Life is meant to have ups and downs
Defining anxiety
Do you need a chip on your shoulder to be successful?
Sometimes you need to slow down
Drawbacks of using achievement as a drug
Uncovering hidden value
Find your purpose by showing up
Curiosity is underrated
Knowing the right map to follow in life
Your body is always looking for red flags

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Take Control of Your Financial Destiny | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 29, 2023

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 secrets to building entrepreneurial wealth. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

You have to track everything
Plug the holes
Invest in yourself
Invest in new equipment
You're not in business until you sell something
Develop relationship with wealthy friends
Build your social media presence today
Invest abundantly
Whatever you do, you are a marketer
Hire, outsource, and partner

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Discovering a Man's Purpose, How He Gains Traction, and How He Shows Love | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 27, 2023

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(2:50) Do you have a "bug out" bag and what is in it?

(4:30) What does real "romantic love" feel like?

(10:40) How can I be a good, present father, when I am deployed or on long term assignment?

(14:30) How can you tell wen you are gaining traction in your life?

(21:00) How do I create congruency between multiple brands that I operate?

(24:00) How do you say "no" to loved ones when you have to take time for self-care?

(28:50) How do I find a purpose? How do I know when I am pursuing the wrong thing?

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Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

BRADLEY RICHARDSON | Becoming a Secure, Confident Man Sep 26, 2023

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With the thousands of men I've talked with over the years, it's evident that building and developing confidence is a huge issue for so many men. And, yet, so many men still struggle with the mindsets and activities required to build that confidence in themselves. Many of them believe you're either born with it or you won't ever develop it. That just isn't true. And, my guest today, Bradley Richardson, is here to talk about why that is and what to do about it. Today we talk about why men hang on to unimportant, irrelevant issues way too long, how to deal and cope with a loss of control, knowing what you want and never settling, why many men settle for broken women, avoiding becoming a chameleon to others, and how to regain your sense of clarity and confidence.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Guys tend to get stuck in the past
relationships are not just a quid pro quo
We need to communicate our expectations and standards
What you want may not be what you need
What people really want is a connection
The bar is so low for men in relationships
Control the things you can control
Some men use their family as an excuse
We kill ourselves with overthinking

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10 Rules for Single Fatherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 22, 2023

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 tips to help men overcome the challenges of single fatherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Do not neglect yourself
Learn to stack time
Discipline and consistency trumps everything else
Speak well of their mother
Grease the grooves
Learn to keep things lighthearted
Shine as an example
Tell your kids the truth, but don't burden them
When your kids are not with you, you should still be with them
Eat dinner with your kids

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The Confidence/Competence Loop, Approaching Women, and Motivating Others | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 20, 2023

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(3:10) What are some strategies around implementing the confidence/competence loop?

(13:40) How do you balance out your alone time in a relationship or marriage?

(18:30) What are some strategies for managing a new wife and step kids?

(21:50) How do you approach the topic of death with someone who's health is extremely poor?

(36:00) How should I approach women at the gym who I'm interested in?

(39:00) How do you motivate others to be invested in their work?

(47:40) How do we validate feelings that others have that we don't agree with?

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Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!

Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

MAX BORDERS | Will a New Revolution Cure What Ails Us? Sep 19, 2023

Show notes

All of us agree that the currently political system isn't working, regardless of where we sit on the political divide. With the federal government consolidating and amassing power, it's increasingly difficult to see how they're serving the people instead of the beast it's become. But what is the answer? Is there a solution that moves us closer to what America's founding fathers had envisioned nearly 250 years ago. My guest today, Max Borders, joins us to talk about the concepts in his newest book, Underthrow: How Jefferson's Dangerous Ideas Will Spark a New Revolution. We talk about what it truly means to be free, the idea of a "national divorce," where socialized services work and where they go too far, the power of decentralization, how innovation is act of subversion, and the difference between and overthrow and an underthrow to change the world.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Community governance
Constitution of Consent
Downsides to dissolution of the United States
A "national divorce" done wrong
Why would a new constitution be any different
Overthrow is violent, "underthrow" is peaceful
Understanding the origin of rights
The current system no longer serves us
Subversive innovation

Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!

Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Where Humility Goes Wrong | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 15, 2023

Show notes

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 3 steps to help you leverage your strengths to achieve more and serve others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Identify what you are good at:
1. Ask other people what they value in you
2. What are people asking your advice for?
3. What are you doing when time moves the fastest?
Invest in your strengths
Never be ashamed to share your talents and gifts with the world

Join the Iron Council brotherhood. Membership open for a limited time.

Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

How to Overcome Loneliness, How to Get Buy-In From Others, and Working Through and Emotional Affair | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 13, 2023

Show notes

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos are together "in-person" for a rare occasion to take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(4:00) What things would you recommend men do when they are feeling lonely?

(11:30) How has 9/11 impacted you and how do you think it has impacted the country?

(16:50) As men, should we share our most intimate struggles with our significant others?

(22:50) Do either of you experience a shame spiral?

(26:00) How can I start a fundraising operation without taking time away from my work or other obligations?

(30:00) I am curious about your opinion on how to get people to buy into a mission?

(34:50) When you started OOM, how long was it until you created a steady revenue stream?

(39:30) What can I do to help gain trust back after my wife engaged in an emotional affair?

Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel

Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!

Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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