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J.R. MARTINEZ | How Your Scars Shape You Oct 08, 2024

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Men, we all have scars. Some are visible. Some are not. Some are physical. And, some are mental and emotional. Regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you, for better or worse.

My guest today, 101st Airborne Division Combat Veteran, J.R. Martinez, has easily-seen external scars. But rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Martinez has, instead, decided to use the stories and the lessons he's learned on the road to recovery to make himself a better man. Today, J.R. and I talk about deliberately changing your perspective on life, what he calls, "God Winks," and how to use them effectively in your life, how to get over perceived emasculation and make yourself into more, crafting a new identity for yourself when the old one is ripped from you, and how a man effectively deals with persecution from others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Relationship Challenges and Parenthood Success (04:21) Journey to Parenthood and Self-Discovery (09:31) Setting Boundaries With Overprotective Mothers (14:04) Breaking Generational Patterns (26:33) Recognizing Signs and Seizing Opportunities (36:15) Navigating Life's Challenges and Opportunities (40:32) Perspective Shift Through Life's Challenges (50:58) Surviving a Traumatic Military Incident (58:02) Embracing Hope and Optimism (01:09:26) Overcoming Challenges in Public Eye (01:15:05) Finding Hope Through Unexpected Interactions (01:24:43) Embracing Vulnerability and Healing (01:29:32) Navigating Relationships and Overcoming Trauma (01:33:30) Embracing Imperfections and Growth

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Do You Have What it Takes to Lead Well? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 04, 2024

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Unlock the secret to powerful leadership by harnessing the strength of emotional intelligence. Society may often cast aside traditional masculine traits, but we're here to reclaim them by understanding what it truly means to embody stability and reliability. This episode highlights the critical role emotional intelligence plays in being a grounding presence for our loved ones and colleagues. We explore how mastering our emotions allows us to remain composed during life's toughest moments, transforming us into the unwavering "rock" that others can lean on.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:39) Restoring Masculinity Through Emotional Intelligence (08:19) Developing Emotional Intelligence Through Competence (14:23) Building Trust Through Honest Communication (25:47) Emotional Stability and Leadership in Men

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Red Flags in Women, the Power of Urgency, and the Difference Between Value and Worth | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 02, 2024

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Have you ever felt frustrated by digital communication platforms? In this episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore a structured path to personal growth that cuts through tech barriers. They emphasize self-reliance, positive messaging, and building supportive networks.

Drawing on Chris Williamson's podcast with Dr. Laith Al-Shawaf, they explore how emotions like fear and love guide us. They also share Josh's story of resilience and highlight practical advice for navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and overcoming personal challenges like alcoholism.

Tune in for actionable insights on growth and self-improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Sense of Urgency and Intentionality (09:35) Emotions and Their Physiological Responses (13:52) Chemicals and Emotions in Relationships (19:53) Parenting and Protecting Children's Minds (25:47) Empowering Children With Boundaries (32:10) Overcoming Alcoholism and Self-Reflection (43:44) Navigating Relationships With Ex-Wives and Girlfriends (56:25) Valuing Relationships and Self-Worth

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KELSI SHEREN | Where Feminism and Vulnerability Go Wrong Oct 01, 2024

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This one is going to be a different one for you guys today. For the third time in the history of Order of Man in nearly a decade, we have a woman joining us on the podcast. Kelsi Sheren is a good friend of mine, and she is not afraid to pull punches. We've had some very public disagreements about the concept of "Vulnerability," and "Feminism." And, I thought, if we're going to take this movement to the next level, all of us (myself included) need to take ourselves outside our comfort zones.

Today, Kelsi and I discuss masculine energy in women, where the idea of vulnerability falls flat, the difference between feminism and "modern-day feminism," overcoming fear, why expectations of others just set you up for failure, why honesty and humility may be a better approach relative to vulnerability, where woman and men fail each other and themselves, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (02:38) Masculine and Feminine Energy Discussion (15:27) Navigating Vulnerability and Strength (19:50) Desire for Vulnerability and Growth (25:56) Taking Action Towards Personal Growth (29:10) Building Trust and Transparent Communication (35:48) Importance of Clear Communication Expectations (42:22) Therapeutic Coaching Through Transparent Communication (46:59) Navigating Men's Mental Health and Feminism (53:50) Modern Feminism and Victim Mentality (01:03:23) Empowering Women to Find Purpose (01:08:24) Navigating Personal Growth Through Adversity (01:15:36) Empowering Men Through Female Perspective

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7 Signs of Masculine Maturity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 27, 2024

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What if mastering your emotions could make you not just a better man, but a stronger leader too? This week on Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unveils the seven signs of masculine maturity, essential for any man aiming to elevate his personal growth and leadership skills. Starting with an inspiring reading of Rudyard Kipling's timeless poem "If," Ryan sets a powerful tone for the first topic: emotional regulation. Through heartfelt personal stories, he reveals the transformative power of understanding and managing your emotions, enabling you to become a more effective protector, provider, and leader within your community and family.

He covers effective communication, emphasizing boldness, assertiveness, and taking full responsibility. It stresses self-care—physically, mentally, and emotionally—as a form of respect. Dressing well reflects pride and respect for your environment.

Ryan explores setting assertive boundaries with respect, maintaining composure in stressful situations, and improving relationships through confidence. Finally, it highlights being service-oriented as a mark of maturity, illustrated by a story about helping at a highway accident to show readiness to serve others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Signs of Masculine Maturity (14:56) Principles of Masculine Maturity (26:00) Establishing Assertive Boundaries With Respect (29:19) The Importance of Service in Maturity (35:26) Preview Call for Iron Council

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Vigilance, Presence, and Consistency | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 25, 2024

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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the serious implications of an East Coast maritime strike. They delve into the importance of vigilance in adapting to technological disruptions and the necessity of presence in fostering strong relationships.

Drawing parallels between martial arts and life, Ryan emphasizes consistency in personal growth, whether navigating economic uncertainties or emotional resilience post-divorce. Additionally, they explore the complex dilemmas of voting in today's political climate and share practical advice on active listening, setting boundaries, and maintaining emotional stability.

Join Ryan and Kipp for thought-provoking insights and actionable tips for thriving in every area of life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) East Coast Maritime Strike Threat (06:04) Technology, Adaptability, and Learning Opportunities (17:11) Trump, Policy, and the Establishment (31:10) Dating After Marriage (35:15) Learning and Growth After Divorce (39:16) Embracing Life's Hardships for Growth (50:51) Understanding and Communication in Relationships (54:42) Mastering Active Listening and Presence (01:02:22) Prioritizing Others for Self-Validation (01:10:09) Setting Boundaries and Emotional Regulation

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SIMMO | A Primer on Testosterone Sep 24, 2024

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Testosterone (T) is a hormone all men are familiar with at this point. It's become a very hot topic and, whether or not to increase testosterone naturally or with Testosterone Replace Therapy (TRT), has become an increasingly debated question. Testosterone is recognized as the hormone to improve energy, muscle mass, overall health and vitality, and personal performance. My guest today, Simmo, is a man who has become immersed in the world of improving testosterone rates in men and male optimization. Today, we talk about the key strategies of boosting testosterone naturally, at what point a man should consider TRT, what function of the body, if not improved, hinders the processing of testosterone, how your workout might be hindering the production of T, what role the nervous system plays in hormone optimization, and how a brotherhood of men is an often-overlooked factor of overall male health.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Boosting Testosterone Naturally (06:58) Navigating Masculinity After Medical Procedure (13:01) Understanding Testosterone Levels and Nuances (25:06) Holistic Health Approach for Men (33:06) Navigating Social Stigma and Training Intensity (43:03) Optimizing Training and Sleep Quality (54:46) Improving Sleep and Male Relationships (59:53) Syncing Up for Health Benefits

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How to Break Negative Habits | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 20, 2024

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Transform your habits and reclaim control over your life! In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler offers a powerful roadmap to identify and overhaul negative behaviors by drawing on the wisdom of "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg and "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. He dissects the three-step formula for understanding habits, focusing on cues, behaviors, and rewards. By recognizing the triggers and rewards that fuel habits like smoking, drinking, or anger, you'll learn how to replace them with healthier, more productive behaviors that align with your goals.

Ryan discusses eight pivotal questions to guide you through moments of weakness, aiding you in staying true to your values and commitments. Whether it's about maintaining fidelity to your spouse or adhering to personal beliefs, these questions are designed to fortify your resolve and help you build habits that serve your long-term well-being.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Introduction to Habit Mastery (08:00) - Identifying and Understanding Temptation (22:08) - Strategies to Combat Immediate Gratification (35:53) - Preview of Upcoming Episode: Hormone Optimization

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Overcoming Arrogance, Building Boundaries, and Getting Humbled | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 18, 2024

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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp break down the $35 trillion U.S. national debt, explaining its impact and how each American owes $135,000. They hold political leaders accountable and call for sustainable spending. They also discuss the need for disruption to achieve personal growth, offering tips for early recognition and setting boundaries in relationships.

In leadership, they highlight transparency and turning arrogance into inspiration. For fathers, they suggest activities to bond with homeschooled children, and provide resources like Iron Council to help you grow. Tune in for insights on financial, personal, and relational success.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) US National Debt and Spending Crisis (16:07) Breakdowns and Breakthroughs (26:06) Navigating Boundaries in Relationships (40:49) Building Relationships Through Service (48:00) Power of Transparency in Leadership (00:06:06) Engaging Activities to Support Homeschooling (01:05:09) Discovering Your Path to Manhood

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PETE ROBERTS | Build a 100-Year Plan Sep 17, 2024

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So many of us are so easily distracted and sedated by our temptation of choice and the next bright, shiny object. But my guest today makes the case for why building a personal and professional plan that will last centuries leads him to make more virtuous decisions and, not only serves him but generations to come.

His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of Origin USA, a 100% made in America manufacturing company built in the backwoods of Maine. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, what it means to be a "cowboy entrepreneur," how and why we distract and sedate ourselves, why hopelessness and powerlessness are a crippling combination, and doing the right thing for the right reasons.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (03:50) CEO Challenges With Growth and Leadership (15:24) The Power of Purpose in Business (27:22) Financial Planning and Entrepreneurship (31:42) Challenges of Scaling Business Growth (39:46) Long-Term Vision for Business Success (47:00) Building a Brand With Purpose (01:00:07) Friendship and Commitment to Growth

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