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Lead Yourself Before Leading Others | LEIF BABIN Jan 01, 2019

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Most men are infatuated with leading others in some capacity. I get it, I believe the capacity and desire to lead is hardwired into our DNA. That said, too many men want to lead others without effectively leading themselves.

Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL and New York Times Bestselling Author, Leif Babin, to talk about recognizing excuses you craft for yourself, why brutally honest assessments are crucial, how to build "Leadership Capital" with others, and how to best lead yourself before leading others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

The power of expectations
When leadership is taken too far
Why leaders need to be aware of dichotomies
The importance of detachment
Where/how emotions come into play
How those we lead are a reflection of ourselves
Why having the team win is the most crucial element of leadership
The value of the long game
How faith plays a role in leadership
Overcoming instant gratification
How human nature may not be serving you
Removing the urge to micro-manage
How to best help your team to solve problems
Why Failure is the best teacher
How to recognize excuses you make for yourself
Why brutally honest assessments are crucial
How to develop leadership capital

LEIF BABIN

My guest today is a man that likely needs no introduction, Leif Babin.

Leif is a former Navy SEAL and platoon commander for Task Unit Bruiser. He is the recipient of the Silver Star, two Bronze Stars, and the Purple Heart.

After retiring from the Navy after 13 years, he went on to co-found Echelon Front with Jocko Willink and became a Multi-New York Times Bestselling Author with his books, Extreme Ownership and, more recently, The Dichotomy of Leadership. He now serves as the President and Cheif Operating Officer for Echelon Front as they work to serve businesses around the globe and teach them how to more effectively lead from the front.

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Discipline is the Great Equalizer | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 28, 2018

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You may not have been blessed with strength, smarts, good looks, wealth, or connections. But none of that matters. What matters is that you have 100% control over your level of discipline. And, discipline is the great equalizer. Please leave us a rating and review. Follow us on Instagram. www.orderofman.com

Embracing Suffering, Free Masonry, and the Power of Rituals and Traditions | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 26, 2018

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Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about why it's critical we embrace suffering, our take on Free Masonry, the power of rituals and traditions, and how to overcome past regrets. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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The Terminal List | JACK CARR Dec 24, 2018

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Gentlemen, I've got a bit of a different one lined up for you today as I have a conversation with the very first fictional author we've had on the podcast. His name is Jack Carr and he is the author of The Terminal List (which is an incredible book) and his upcoming book, True Believer.

Jack is a former Navy SEAL turned fictional writer and today we discuss his transition from the military, the inspiration for his series of books, an inside look at the writing process, the amount of research goes into creating this type of work, and a whole lot more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Transitioning out of the military
Why Jack left the SEALs
Finding inspiration for writing
An inside look at the writing process
The level of research that goes into writing and how to do it
How to network with those in the industry you're trying to break into
Why Jack always wanted to be a writer
How to effectively and profitably pursue a passion

JACK CARR

Guys, it's my pleasure to introduce you to a friend of mine, Jack Carr. You know how there are just certain people that you know when you meet them are going to be great friends?

That's how I felt when Jack opened up his home to me and we had an incredibly powerful conversation (which you'll hear part of).

He is a former task unit commander in the Navy SEALS with over 20 years of experience leading assault and sniper teams in Iraq and Afghanistan (that's part of the reason his book is so realistic). As I mentioned before, he left the SEALs and has since gone on to fulfill a second childhood dream, becoming an author.

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Craft and Execute the Perfect Battle Plan | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 21, 2018

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Most men are too consumed with the day-to-day minutiae to give themselves the margin needed to create a compelling vision and plan for the future. Today, I talk about how to create and execute a perfect plan for a better life moving forward. www.orderofman.com

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No Apologies, "Task Stacking", and Being Friends with the Opposite Sex | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 19, 2018

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Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about offering fewer apologies to other people, how to incorporate the strategy of task stacking, whether or not men should be friends with the opposite sex, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Archery 101 | JOHN DUDLEY Dec 18, 2018

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Over the past several months, it's likely that you've seen more archery and bow hunting pictures and topics from me. That's because, for the last year, I've really begun to immerse myself in becoming better bow hunter.

That said, I've gotten so many requests and questions about archery that I thought it only made sense to bring the best person on I could think of to talk about it. His name is John Dudley and he is the founder of Nock On Archery. Today, we talk about what makes a natural archer, understanding the importance of eye dominance, why coaching is so critical, and the pros and cons of new technology.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Introduction to the School of Nock The pros and cons of social media Why humility in coaching is critical What Dudley means by "archery entertainment" Why every archer needs to learn to be more present How social media has opened up archery coaching Why Dudley has always wanted to coach, and why his team didn't always want him to What makes a natural archer Why every archer needs to work on physical fitness The importance of eye dominance in archery When technology takes away from the sport of archery How to create meaning and legacy through coaching How John's restraint is his strength

JOHN DUDLEY

My guest today is a repeat guest and someone who I know a lot of you are already familiar with.

His name is John Dudley and he is the founder of Nock On Archery where he coaches archers and makes some of the best products on the market. He's coached guys like Joe Rogan, Andy Stumpf, Jocko Willink, and so many more, including me.

Yes, this is a conversation centered around archery but I want you to listen closely because John and I go so much deeper than what type of bow you should buy and what your stance should look like. This is truly a podcast about not only becoming a better archer/bow hunter but a better man.

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When So-Called "Victims" Became the Victors | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 14, 2018

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We've come to a very sad and quite pathetic point where the so-called "victims" dictate the tone of the conversation and direction of society. Today, I tell you why we all ought to reject the trend and what we, as men, should be doing instead. www.orderofman.com

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A Father's Role, Appreciating the Grind, and Overcoming Past Regrets | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 12, 2018

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Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the one thing every father must do, learning to appreciate the day-to-day grind, how to overcome past regrets, the power of "negative visualization," and so much more.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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How Porn Erodes and Undermines Masculinity | J.K EMEZI Dec 11, 2018

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Pornography is something that all men have likely engaged in to some degree. What's fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men.

My guest today, JK Emezi, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get work, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

3 reasons to quit porn
How love, duty, and fear can help you quit watching porn
How porn impacts sexual performance
How to best overcome the urge to watch porn
How the rise in robots and AI will only compound the problem
How to develop new coping skills
The biochemical imbalances of watching porn and masturbating
The five-step process for overcoming pornography addiction
Why self-imposed limitations are critical
Testosterone's role in a man's life
How to better utilize self-control
How to achieve true sexual satisfaction
Tips and activities for replacing the urge to engage in porn use
The technology you can use to help overcome your addiction

J.K EMEZI

My guest today is J.K Emezi.

He is a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach and has been for the last 9 years and he specializes in helping men overcome porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders.

This is a fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified to address the sexual issues a lot of men deal with.

He's written for our site before and one of his articles happens to be one of the most controversial of ours to date as he covers a topic that a lot of men aren't comfortable in discussing and one that remains very polarizing to a lot of men.

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