On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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5 Signs Someone Is Draining Your Energy (And What to Do About It) Oct 09, 2026

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Jay explores how draining relationships can quietly take a toll on our bodies, minds, and emotional well-being, leaving us depleted before a conversation even begins and carrying its weight long after it ends. He breaks down five signs of chronic relational stress, from managing other people’s emotions and falling into the fixer role to shrinking yourself and replaying interactions in your head. Jay also shares practical tools for setting healthier boundaries, letting go of emotional responsibility that isn’t yours, and protecting your energy without cutting people off or losing compassion.

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Jay Shetty

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What I Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:25 Physical Signs Of A Draining Relationship

01:45 How Difficult Relationships May Affect Biological Aging

03:35 Energy Vampires Vs. Normal Relationships

05:20 The Mental Burden Of Walking On Eggshells

07:40 Understanding Ambivalent Relationships

09:42 The Burden of Managing Others’ Emotions

09:33 Feeling Valued Vs. Feeling Responsible For Others

13:09 When Every Interaction Drains You

14:10 The Trap Of Always Being The Fixer

17:07 Making Yourself Smaller Around Others

18:50 Adjusting Your Expectations In Relationships

20:38 Turning Envy Into Curiosity And Generosity

21:49 Replaying Conversations In Your Head

24:08 How to Reset After A Difficult Interaction

28:52 Navigating Imbalance In Relationships

29:26 What Healthy Boundaries Actually Look Like

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Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want You Oct 07, 2026

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Jay sits down with dating and relationship coach Sabrina Zohar to unpack why we chase the familiar over the safe, how childhood attachment shapes adult dating patterns, and the real difference between boundaries and walls. Together they dig into anxious-avoidant dynamics, chemistry versus compatibility, why we fall for people's potential instead of their reality, and practical tools for healing and showing up differently in love.

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:45 Sabrina's Turning Point: "Why Am I Like This?"

03:13 Familiarity Vs. Safety

05:19 How Childhood Attachment Shapes Us

08:45 Nervous System Triggers & Protest Behavior

11:01 Building Confidence & Setting Incremental Boundaries

13:47 Boundaries Vs. Walls

15:42 Guilt, Control, And People-Pleasing

19:14 Is There Such A Thing As "The One?"

21:14 Unhealthy Relationship Dynamics

25:50 Short-Term Discomfort Vs. Long-Term Unhappiness

29:47 The Fallacy of "Right Person, Wrong Time"

34:16 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic

39:02 Attachment Style Myths

41:56 Seeking Connection Vs. Testing For Validation

45:53 Peaceful Love Vs. "Trauma Tingles"

48:36 Green Flags & Early Dating Distractions

52:49 Stop Taking Things Personally

57:14 Pacing Emotional Intimacy

58:58 Why We Pursue Unavailable People

01:01:44 Overcoming Situationships

01:05:00 The Lonely Side of Healing

01:08:01 Finding Closure Within Yourself

01:10:45 Weaponizing "Therapy Speak" To Avoid Accountability

01:12:47 Overcoming Singlehood Scarcity

01:16:51 Falling For Potential Vs. Accepting Reality

01:18:41 Sabrina On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Read Sabrina’s book | https://sabrinazohar.com/book

Website | https://sabrinazohar.com

YouTube | https://youtube.com/@sabrina_zohar?si=92IqIf9b6jaIAoj5

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar?stkn=MXRwNmN4Z3djMWh5Yg==

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar?_r=1&_t=ZP-9AJwxjLdOV4

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063642420347&mibextid=wwXIfr

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MIKAYLA NOGUEIRA EXCLUSIVE: The Story She’s Finally Ready to Tell Oct 05, 2026

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Jay sits down with beauty creator Mikayla Nogueira to go beyond the online persona and share the real story behind her rise. Mikayla opens up about the struggles that shaped her before finding success, the viral moment that changed her life overnight, and the painful reality of a marriage impacted by addiction and divorce. She also shares how she found her way forward, reconnected with her high school first love, and launched her own beauty brand with Sephora.

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:45 Why Share Your Story Now?

01:31 Beyond The Influencer Persona

02:46 Childhood Memories That Shaped Her

03:45 Bullying & Discovering Makeup At Age 10

05:24 The Insecurities Behind the Confidence

06:48 Expressing Her True Self Online

08:55 The Origin Of Her Passion For Makeup

11:18 Work Ethic And Thinking Big

12:37 Creating Her Very First YouTube Video

13:58 Presenting A 50-Page Business Plan

16:30 Returning To Her Hometown & Donating Makeup

18:00 Getting Hired At Ulta Beauty

23:52 Letting Go of the Future She Planned

28:10 Losing Her Job and Finding a New Path

31:34 The First Viral Video

37:08 Manifesting Success & Building A Content Engine

41:53 Experiencing Her First Cancellation

45:25 Reflecting on Past Controversies

48:56 The Mental Health Toll of Rapid Growth

52:54 The Boston Accent

56:48 Meeting Her Ex-Husband Cody

59:41 Navigating Addiction In A Relationship

01:04:08 Dating An Influencer & Dating An Addict

01:05:56 Marriage Through Addiction and Relapse

01:13:00 A Harrowing Late-Night Emergency

01:18:11 Making the Decision to Divorce

01:33:53 The Path To Divorce

01:40:46 Finally A Fresh Start

01:46:45 Reconnecting With High School First Love, Zach

01:52:21 Building Her Beauty Brand (POV)

01:57:30 Looking Back

01:59:34 Mikayla On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/share/1C43BCLCFi/?mibextid=wwXIfr

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@mikaylanogueira

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/mikaylajmakeup

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4 Things Confident People Tell Themselves Every Day Oct 02, 2026

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Jay shares four mantras for the moments we need them most, whether you’re struggling to find hope, learning to trust yourself, opening yourself up to new opportunities, or simply trying to feel more present. Through personal stories, from a decades-old journal entry written by his grandmother to the surprising origin of Post-it Notes, Jay explores how a few simple words, repeated daily, can shift the way you see yourself and the life ahead of you.

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Jay Shetty

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What I Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:25 What Does The Voice Inside Your Head Sound Like?

01:49 Shaping Your Inner Voice

03:30 What Is A Mantra?

04:10 His Grandmother's Journal Entry

06:24 How Hopelessness Can Shrink Your Future

09:25 This Is A Chapter, Not the Whole Story

10:50 The Butterfly In Its Cocoon

15:25 Trust Yourself With What Comes Next

16:30 The Post-it Note Origin Story

18:25 Recognizing Opportunities Are Already Around You

19:47 Notice What Is Trying To Find You

22:10 Making Room for the Unexpected

23:01 Carrying A Cup Of Water Through A Marketplace

24:29 Returning An Anxious Mind To The Present

26:10 Release The Past And The Future

27:46 Choosing One Mantra For Your Week

28:01 Learning to Trust Your Inner Voice

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Ask Jay: How Do You Take Care of Yourself Through Life’s Hardest Seasons? Sep 30, 2026

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Jay answers listeners' stories about what happens when health struggles make life feel completely out of your control. Through conversations about postpartum trauma, an unexpected brain tumor diagnosis, the emotional toll of caring for a parent with dementia, and the desire to help others while still healing yourself, Jay explores how to live with uncertainty when you can’t simply fix what you’re going through. He shares grounded, research-backed ways to find moments of relief, redefine what’s enough, and keep moving forward without waiting for everything to be resolved.

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Jay Shetty

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What I Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:25 When Your Health Is Out of Your Control

00:47 Navigating Ongoing Postpartum Trauma

01:29 The Insider's Burden

03:24 The Importance of Leaning on Your Support Systems

05:43 Finding Connection Through Shared Experience

07:40 Stepping Away From the Grind

08:49 Facing Mortality & Steve Jobs' Speech

10:05 Practical Strategies For Taking a Break

11:50 Alignment And Presence Over "Balance"

14:45 Living In Seasons Of Life

15:42 The Emotional Toll Of Caregiving

16:49 When Caregiving Forces Impossible Choices

18:53 Caregivers As "The Invisible Second Patients"

21:50 Transforming Active Grief Into Healing

22:56 Finding Strength When You Can’t Fix the Situation

24:48 Helping Others While Still In The Healing Journey

25:54 Three Steps Ahead Vs. Three Decades Ahead

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SYLVESTER STALLONE: “I Wasn’t Stupid. I Was Just Misunderstood.” Sep 28, 2026

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Jay sits down with Sylvester Stallone to trace the extraordinary journey from a painful, unwanted childhood to the creation of Rocky, and the $360,000 offer he turned down rather than compromise his self-respect. Stallone reflects on the decades of rejection, health struggles, and career setbacks that shaped the man behind the legend. He opens up about his mother’s emotional distance, his father’s advice on his deathbed, and the life philosophy he discovered only after letting go of the need to constantly fight.

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

01:09 The Steps

01:48 The Fortune Teller Who Predicted His Future

03:39 The Power of Writing Your Thoughts Down

05:10 The Regret of Not Meeting Elvis Presley

05:55 Overcoming His Fear of Public Speaking

08:30 Birth Complications & Childhood Hardships

10:00 Queens Boarding House

11:40 Cinema As Sanctuary

13:23 The Words That Left Internal Scars

14:54 Making Peace With Rejection & "Mirror Therapy"

19:15 Writing About Edgar Allan Poe & Creating Rocky

20:27 Using Cruel Labels As Motivation

24:25 The Hells Angels Story

27:59 Turning Down $360,000 To Sell Rocky

31:35 Imposter Syndrome & Stepping Into Rocky's Shoes

33:29 Channeling Real-Life Pain In Acting

38:00 Rocky As A Love Story

41:26 The Painful Relationship With His Mother

49:45 Parents' Final Days

53:47 Learning To Let Go of Anger

56:12 An 8-Year Career Slump & The Return Of Rocky

59:06 Health Battles, Borrowed Time & Aging Gracefully

01:02:20 What Makes A Good Friend?

01:03:25 The Key To 29 Years of Marriage

01:07:30 Life Before Vs. After 40

01:13:20 The Power Of Dreams & Concrete Vision

01:16:38 Finally Getting His Father's Apology

01:19:35 Sylvester Stallone On Final 5

Episode Resources:

The Steps | https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-steps-sylvester-stallone

Website | https://sylvesterstallone.com/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/officialslystallone

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/share/1FMjtjkWJA/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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3 Science-Backed Habits That Will Make You Feel Better Every Day Sep 25, 2026

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Drawing on seven years of conversations with leading health experts, Jay explores “complexity bias,” our tendency to believe complicated solutions must be more effective than simple ones. He breaks better health down to three fundamentals: moving your body, protecting your attention, and investing in your relationships. Backed by decades of research, Jay shows why getting the basics right can have a bigger impact than any elaborate routine, and shares a simple 7-day movement challenge to help you put it into practice.

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Jay Shetty

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What I Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:25 The Health and Wellness Trap

01:39 Complexity Bias

02:51 3 Fundamental Habits To Achieve Wellness

04:17 Habit 1: Moving Your Body

09:36 The Psychology Of Action & Effort

13:26 Habit 2: Protecting Your Attention

14:52 The Attention Crisis

21:55 Habit 3: Investing in Relationships

28:39 Returning To Timeless Fundamentals

Episode Resources:

This episode is for general educational and informational purposes only and is not medical or mental-health advice or a substitute for professional care.

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Ask Jay: How Do I Find My Purpose? Sep 23, 2026

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Jay answers three listener calls about rebuilding when life doesn’t go according to plan. He explores how to separate your authentic voice from old survival patterns, pursue a creative passion without putting your financial stability at risk, and manage overwhelm when everything feels equally important. Jay shares practical ways to recognize real growth, balance stability with passion, and prioritize what matters most instead of trying to do everything at once.

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Jay Shetty

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What I Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:24 Purpose as Direction, Not a Destination

01:22 Rebuilding After A Crisis

02:24 Survival Patterns Vs. Authentic Inner Voice

07:13 Balancing Financial Stability With Creative Passion

08:29 Rejecting The Either/Or Trap

15:15 How to Prioritize When Everything Feels Like a Priority

16:41 You Don’t Have to Do Everything at Once

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LUCY HALE: “I Was Sabotaging My Life.” Sep 21, 2026

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Jay sits down with actress Lucy Hale, who at 37 says she feels more comfortable with herself than ever before. Lucy opens up about letting go of society’s timelines, navigating media scrutiny and body insecurity while growing up in the early days of social media, and her relationship with alcohol and path to sobriety. Lucy also shares her decision to freeze her eggs on her own terms, and how solitude, self-forgiveness, and personal growth have changed the way she approaches love, relationships, and herself.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

01:00 Reaching Her Grounded Era at 37

04:00 Releasing Societal Timelines & Comparison

06:40 Letting Go of The Pressure to Be Who Others Expected

13:56 Facing Oneself & Reframing Envy

16:28 The Need for Solitude From a Young Age

17:50 Reconnecting With Feminine Energy

20:40 Early Fame, Media Scrutiny & Perfectionism

24:20 Insecurities On Pretty Little Liars

27:35 Unpacking Past Coping Mechanisms & Learning to Forgive Yourself

32:14 The Ongoing Journey Of Sobriety

35:00 The Moment She Decided to go to Rehab

43:48 Advice For Anyone Seeking Sobriety

45:45 Dating Differently After Doing the Work

53:00 Waymo Cars & Delivery Robots

54:12 Rapid-Fire Game

56:44 Will There be a Pretty Little Liars Reunion?

58:46 Perspectives On Motherhood & Freezing Her Eggs

01:05:40 A Blind Date and The First Healthy Relationship

01:11:32 Looking for Signs in Everyday Life

01:16:58 Lucy On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lucyhale

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTMIfFn9BoAHSCaKkcZm-VA

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/LucyHale

X | https://x.com/lucyhale

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Your Brain Is Addicted To Worst-Case Scenarios (3 Ways To Break The Habit) Sep 18, 2026

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Jay breaks down why our minds are so quick to jump to the worst-case scenario, from the evolutionary roots of anxiety to why uncertainty can send us into a spiral. He shares three practical ways to interrupt anxious thinking, including separating fear from actual evidence and bringing yourself back to what’s true right now. Jay also introduces a simple “then what?” exercise to help you stop fearing what could go wrong and trust yourself to handle whatever comes next.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:24 Your Brain Is A Terrible Fortune Teller

02:42 Where Does Anxiety Come From?

06:14 How Your Brain Predicts What Could Go Wrong

09:32 Why Bad News Sticks in Your Mind

11:10 The Uncertainty Spiral

15:03 Stop Assuming the Worst, Look at the Evidence

18:11 Come Back to What’s Actually True

22:58 Getting Comfortable With The Unknown

26:35 The “Then What?” Exercise for Worst-Case Thinking