On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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Tim Ferriss: Feeling Stuck Right Now? (Use THIS 10-Minute Exercise to Stop Overthinking and Take Action) Apr 20, 2026

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Sometimes we become so fixated on improving our lives that we stop asking a more important question: what actually matters?

Jay sits down with Tim Ferriss for something deeper than a discussion on productivity, it’s an exploration of how to live with real intention. Instead of chasing shortcuts or stacking habits, Jay turns the focus inward, examining how our thoughts, emotions, and daily choices quietly shape the life we end up living. Drawing from years of personal experimentation, Tim draws from years of experimentation to reveal a powerful truth: most of what holds us back isn’t a lack of discipline, it’s a lack of alignment, between what we say matters, what we focus on, and how we actually live.

Throughout the conversation, Jay returns to a theme he often explores, the tension between achievement and acceptance. In a world that rewards constant hustle and endless optimization, it’s easy to believe we always need to do more, fix more, and become more. Tim opens up about his own struggles with anxiety and obsessive thinking, offering a more grounded view of growth, one that isn’t just about pushing forward, it’s also about knowing when to pause, simplify, and let go of what no longer serves you.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Focus on What Truly Matters

How to Stop Chasing the Wrong Goals

How to Improve Your Life by Subtracting

How to Build Better Daily Habits

How to Ask Better Questions for Clarity

How to Avoid Burnout While Staying Productive

How to Break Free from Distractions

How to Create Meaningful Progress in Life

How to Align Your Actions with Your Purpose

Real change often begins with a single shift, paying attention to where your energy goes, questioning what truly matters, and giving yourself permission to slow down when needed. Growth isn’t just about doing more; it’s about doing what’s right for you, with intention.

Check out Tim’s 17 Questions That Changed My Life, the free ebook with 17 questions he returns to when he feels stuck. Visit: https://timferriss.kit.com/78e83e43a5

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:05 A Life Designed with Intention

07:58 Rethinking How We Use Our Energy

13:48 Reimagining How We Fuel Ourselves

18:30 The Mind-Body Connection

28:57 How Do You Actually Build a New Habit?

34:24 How to Create Momentum Without Burning Out

37:39 The Cost of Overthinking Everything

41:45 Exploring New Frontiers of Healing

44:30 Hustle vs. Balance: Finding the Middle Ground

52:30 The Danger of Living in “The Simmering Six”

56:26 Why Relationships Matter More Than Success

01:00:01 Learning to Be Fully Present

01:05:21 The Practice of Acceptance

01:11:39 Navigating Conflict and Emotions

01:15:20 Communicating Without Creating Distance

01:16:56 The Questions That Change Your Life

01:19:04 Are You Chasing Field Mice or Antelope?

01:31:06 Breaking Free from the Noise

01:34:35 The Power of Subtraction Over Addition

01:36:02 Thinking Differently to Win

01:38:54 Questions from the Audience

01:44:52 What Sets the Top 1% Apart

01:47:05 The Balance Between Growth and Acceptance

01:54:17 Tim on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Website | https://tim.blog/

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/timferriss

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/TimFerriss/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/timferriss/

LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/timferriss/

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@timferriss

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10 Harsh Truths I Wish I Knew in My 20s Apr 17, 2026

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Today, Jay invites us to slow down and question the invisible beliefs quietly running our lives. He reveals how much of our stress, our careers, relationships, ambitions, and insecurities, isn’t the result of conscious choice, but of expectations we’ve inherited and never stopped to examine. At the heart of the episode is a disarming question: Are you living your life, or performing someone else’s script? What follows is a powerful unraveling, one that challenges avoidance, reshapes how we define ambition, and calls us into a more honest relationship with ourselves.

Jay explores the subtle ways we hold ourselves back: staying busy to avoid clarity, mistaking force for discipline, and choosing relationships that reflect how we see ourselves rather than who we’re becoming. He shows how our environments, our circles, and even the roles we play begin to quietly shape our identity. Drawing from psychology, philosophy, and lived experience, he reframes growth not as chasing perfection, but as pursuing alignment, where our actions begin to match what truly matters, even when it’s uncomfortable.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Identify What You Truly Want

How to Break Free from Inherited Beliefs

How to Stop Being Busy and Start Being Effective

How to Choose People Who Elevate You

How to Let Go of Suffering That No Longer Serves You

How to Build Better Relationships with Yourself

If there’s one thing to remember, it’s this: you are not behind, you are evolving. Every doubt, every mistake, every moment of uncertainty is not proof that you’re failing, but evidence that you’re growing.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:11 10 Harsh Truths That Will Change Your Life

02:07 #1: What You Avoid Is What You Need Most

05:16 #2: Are You Chasing What You Actually Want?

08:17 #3: The Cost of Pretending to Be Someone You’re Not

11:55 #4: Discipline Is Choosing What Matters, Not What’s Easy

15:00 #5: Your Inner Circle Directly Shapes Your Life

18:00 #6: Busyness Is the Ultimate Distraction

19:55 #7: Your Suffering Won’t Be Rewarded

22:48 #8: Your 30s Are Built in Your 20s

25:47 #9: Your Relationship With Yourself Comes First

28:20 #10: You Don’t Find Your Life You Build It

29:27 Final Reflections & Takeaways

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Jan-Emmanuel De Neve: The Simple Daily Habit Linked to Happiness (Do This ONE Thing Every Day and Significantly Improve Your Life!) Apr 15, 2026

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We’ve been taught that success at work is what leads to happiness, but in reality, it’s how work actually feels that shapes the rest of our lives.

Jay sits down with Jan-Emmanuel De Neve, Professor of Economics and Behavioural Science at the University of Oxford and Director of the Wellbeing Research Centre, and almost immediately, they land on something most of us feel but rarely say out loud: work takes up the majority of our lives, yet very few of us actually feel good while doing it. Jan shares a striking reality - less than a quarter of people report high levels of wellbeing at work. More importantly, how you feel at work doesn’t stay there, it follows you home. It shapes how you speak to your partner, how you show up for your kids, even how you engage with the world around you. This conversation isn’t just about jobs or careers, it’s about the emotional tone of our lives, and ultimately, our society.

Together, they explore why so many people, especially younger generations, are struggling right now. While it’s easy to point to social media, Jan challenges that idea and points to something deeper: rising costs, uncertainty about the future, and a growing sense that the path forward isn’t as clear as it once was. There’s a quiet anxiety about whether hard work still pays off. In a world full of answers, the real skill now is asking better questions. It’s a subtle yet powerful shift, from chasing certainty to embracing curiosity. Jay and Jan unpack the relationship between money and happiness, revealing a truth that feels both grounding and surprising: beyond a certain point, more money doesn’t lead to more fulfillment. What we begin to crave instead is connection, meaning, and time, the very things we often sacrifice in the pursuit of success.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Improve Your Wellbeing at Work Without Changing Jobs

How to Find Meaning in Work That Feels Repetitive

How to Build Stronger Connections in a Lonely Workplace

How to Balance Ambition and Wellbeing Without Burning Out

How to Redefine Success Beyond Money and Status

How to Ask Better Questions in an Uncertain Future

How to Create a Workplace Culture People Actually Enjoy

How to Stay Happy Even as Responsibilities Grow

How to Make Work Feel More Human and Less Transactional

How to Protect Your Energy While Still Performing at Your Best

When you begin to prioritize those things, even in small ways, you’ll notice something powerful: your energy changes, your perspective shifts, and your life starts to feel more aligned.

Why does workplace wellbeing matter? Find out the answer here: http://whyworkplacewellbeingmatters.com/

The World Happiness Report is the world’s foremost publication on global wellbeing and how to improve it. To learn more, visit https://www.worldhappiness.report/

Learn more about interdisciplinary research on wellbeing at the University of Oxford by visiting https://wellbeing.hmc.ox.ac.uk/

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:33 What Actually Makes Us Happy?

03:11 Why Young People Are Struggling

05:40 The Rising Cost of Education

08:09 Skills That Matter More Now

11:11 How Much Money Is Enough?

18:46 Why Are Youth People Less Happy?

21:14 The Hidden Cost of Loneliness

29:42 Why Feeling Good at Work Changes Everything

33:15 What Great Leaders Do Differently

36:14 Most Leaders Get This Wrong

46:17 What Actually Makes Work Feel Good

50:41 The Biggest Lie We Believe About Work

54:34 Remote Work Is Breaking Something We Didn’t Expect

58:16 Does Your Work Follow You Home?

01:00:13 The Signs You’re in a Toxic Workplace

01:00:41 Why Your Work Feels Meaningless (And How to Change It)

01:04:25 The Truth About Work-Life Balance

01:07:00 What Actually Matters at the End of the Day

01:08:45 Jan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

LinkedIn | https://uk.linkedin.com/in/jan-emmanuel-de-neve-76b3651

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Parenting Expert Emily Oster: The #1 Parenting Mistake That Causes Unnecessary Stress (Use THIS Data-Backed Framework to Debunk the Biggest Parenting Myths!) Apr 13, 2026

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Parenting today feels like navigating endless advice while quietly wondering if you’re doing any of it right.

Jay sits down with bestselling author and economist Emily Oster to unpack one of the most overwhelming journeys many people will ever face: becoming a parent. In a world filled with endless advice, social media pressure, and conflicting research, parenting can start to feel like a test you’re constantly failing. Emily offers a refreshing, data-driven perspective that helps parents cut through the noise, separating real evidence from the myths that fuel unnecessary anxiety. From pregnancy and fertility to sleep training and screen time, this conversation reveals what truly matters and what parents can finally let go of.

Together, Jay and Emily challenge many of the parenting beliefs we’ve accepted without question. They explore why modern parents feel so overwhelmed by information and expectations, when the data actually shows there are many “right” ways to raise a child. Emily breaks down how correlation is often mistaken for causation in parenting advice and how that misunderstanding quietly drives guilt, fear, and comparison. Whether it’s breastfeeding versus formula, screen time, sleep training, or developmental milestones, Emily encourages parents to move away from perfection and toward confident, thoughtful decision-making.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Stop Overthinking Parenting Decisions

How to Decide What Parenting Advice to Ignore

How to Choose the Sleep Strategy That Works for Your Family

How to Raise Kids with a Growth Mindset

How to Plan Parenting Decisions Before Problems Arise

How to Let Go of the Pressure to Parent Perfectly

Parenting can feel overwhelming, especially in a world filled with endless advice, opinions, and expectations. The truth is, raising a child isn’t about getting every small decision perfectly right, it’s about showing up with love, care, and intention, day after day.

Emily’s book, Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom Is Wrong--and What You Really Need to Know, offers guidance through pregnancy and motherhood. Grab a copy now.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:39 Why Does Parenting Feel Harder Today?

04:06 What the Data Really Says About Parenting

05:24 Don’t Trust This Fertility Advice!

07:56 What Affects Sperm Health

09:51 Lifestyle Habits That Affect Fertility

12:26 Are Antidepressants Safe During Pregnancy?

15:02 Which Pregnancy Rules Actually Matter (And Which Don’t)

18:25 When Is the Best Age to Have Kids?

21:56 Common Pregnancy Myths Debunked

31:19 How Dads Can Support After Birth

34:09 What’s Actually Best for the Baby?

36:51 More Parenting and Pregnancy Myths

44:20 How to Deal With Mom Guilt

47:55 How to Raise Confident Kids

54:28 Parenting Decisions That Cause Stress

56:27 The Truth About Sleep Training

01:02:03 Does Crying It Out Harm Attachment?

01:04:12 How Much Screen Time Is Too Much?

01:09:40 The Truth About Childhood Vaccines

01:12:02 Are Kids Being Overmedicated?

01:14:35 The Many Paths to Parenthood

01:16:49 This or That: Parenting Edition

01:24:31 Emily on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Website | https://parentdata.org/

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/emily.oster.509/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/profemilyoster

LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/company/parentdata

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@profemilyoster

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How to Communicate So People Actually Listen Apr 10, 2026

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How many times have you said something, and it didn’t come across the way you meant it to?

Today, Jay unpacks why so many of us feel unheard at work, at home, and even in our closest relationships. He shares a powerful insight: communication isn’t defined by what you say, but by how it’s received. Most of us overestimate how clearly we express ourselves, creating a hidden gap between intention and impact. Jay reframes communication as a shared responsibility, reminding us that real connection isn’t about winning arguments, but about being clear, compassionate, and protecting the relationship while speaking your truth.

Jay then explores the core principles that help people actually listen, beginning with the ability to regulate your nervous system before you speak. When emotions take over, we react rather than respond, often escalating conflict instead of easing it. He highlights why clarity is more powerful than intensity, and how simple, intentional language fosters trust and cooperation, while emotional overload creates distance.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Communicate So People Actually Listen

How to Regulate Your Emotions Before Speaking

How to Speak Without Triggering Defensiveness

How to Ask Questions That Build Understanding

How to De-escalate Difficult Conversations

When you focus on being understood instead of being right, conversations become safer, relationships grow stronger, and conflict loses its power. With intention, patience, and compassion, your words can become a bridge, not a barrier, to the life and relationships you truly want.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:47 Are You a Good Communicator?

02:31 How Effective Communicators Make an Impact

03:24 #1: Regulate Before You Communicate

06:24 #2: Clarity Over Intensity

08:40 #3: People Argue with Threat NOT Facts

11:11 #4: Ask More Questions, Make Fewer Statements

12:51 #5: Tone Carries More Than Words

15:27 #6: End Conversations with Alignment

21:13 The Goal of Proper Communication

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David Grutman: The Career Advice Everyone Gets Wrong (#1 Key to Opening Doors That Lead to Success) Apr 08, 2026

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What if everything you’ve been told about success is missing one key ingredient, how deeply you care?

Jay sits down with David Grutman, one of the most influential names in global hospitality, who built a world-renowned empire from the ground up. Together they unpack a powerful idea that challenges conventional wisdom: what if the real secret to success isn’t detachment, but deeply caring? From his early days as a bartender to creating iconic experiences that shape culture, David reveals how taking things personally, your work, your relationships, and every detail of what you put into the world, can become a driving force for growth. While most people are taught to brush things off, David chose the opposite, turning mistakes, rejection, and feedback into fuel to sharpen his craft and raise his standards.

Jay highlights how David’s success wasn’t built on titles or transactions, but on genuine human connection. From remembering a guest’s drink to building long-term relationships with artists and entrepreneurs, David reveals that real influence comes from adding value without expectation. Jay reflects on how many people chase quick wins or surface-level networking, but true impact lies in playing the long game, showing up consistently, investing in others, and creating meaningful experiences that people never forget.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Turn Mistakes Into Growth

How to Build Relationships That Last

How to Make People Feel Seen and Valued

How to Build Confidence Without a Title

How to Give Feedback That Actually Works

How to Stay Grounded While Winning

Every setback carries a lesson, and every interaction is an opportunity to build something meaningful. When you focus on adding value, staying curious, and giving your best, you begin to create momentum that others can feel.

If you’re ready to level up how you show up in life and relationships, don’t miss David Grutman’s latest book, Take It Personal. Pre-order your copy today, visit: https://zandoprojects.com/books/take-it-personal-hardcover

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:11 Why You Should Take It Personal

05:26 The Small Details That Make People Feel Seen

07:48 The Real Path to Self-Improvement

08:47 Turning Anger Into Growth

09:55 How to Give Feedback That Actually Works

11:22 Creating a 10/10 Customer Experience

12:41 Every Day Is a New Opportunity

14:20 Always Bet on Yourself

16:14 Building Something From Nothing

18:06 The Power of Genuine Relationships

21:33 Does Networking Actually Work?

24:09 How to Play the Long Game

28:31 The Truth About Real Success

31:10 Lessons From a Difficult Childhood

32:36 Becoming the Parent You Needed

33:57 Balancing Ambition and Family Life

35:12 Evolving Into Your Next Chapter

38:01 The Power of Being a Connector

39:35 Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset

41:27 Check Your Ego at the Door

43:36 Staying Grounded While Winning

45:38 The Strength of a True Partnership

48:23 What Makes a Truly Great Idea?

50:19 What Makes Someone Worth Betting On?

51:40 Learning to Slow Down and Reflect

52:52 Finding Joy in the Present Moment

54:17 The One Rule to Live By: Just Be Good

56:14 David in Final Five

Episode Resources:

Website | https://groothospitality.com/

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/davegrutman/

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/davidgrutman/

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NOAH KAHAN: Imposter Syndrome, Anxiety & The Pressure of Success (What He’s Never Shared Before) Apr 06, 2026

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Jay sits down with singer-songwriter Noah Kahan to break down the pressure that comes after “making it” - the imposter syndrome, the constant comparison, and the fear of losing it all. Noah shares how music became his escape from anxiety growing up, what it felt like to finally land the record deal he dreamed of, and why success didn’t silence the doubt, it amplified it.

Jay and Noah unpack the myth of the “tortured artist,” and the quiet fear that healing might take away what makes you creative. Noah opens up about his recent OCD diagnosis, how he let go of the belief that he had to suffer for his art, and what it took to find his voice again without relying on pain. Noah speaks candidly about his struggles with body dysmorphia and the unexpected therapy of creating his documentary. Together they explore what it means to find balance and to stop performing for the world so you can finally be seen by the people who matter most.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Stop Defining Your Worth by Your Work

How to Face Your Unseen Fears Through Therapy

How to Stay Present When Life Feels Overwhelming

How to Extract Lessons from Painful Feedback

How to Handle the Fear of Losing Your Success

How to Stay Grounded Between Praise and Criticism

How to Prioritize Your Time Over the Endless Grind

Whether you are navigating a major life transition or simply trying to find your footing in a loud world, remember that your self-worth is not a mathematical equation based on your latest achievement.

No one should have to navigate their mental health journey alone. Join Noah in the mission to prove that the more we share our stories, the more we empower others to do the same. Visit: https://www.busyheadproject.org/

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:54 Seeing Yourself Through the Eyes of Others

04:39 The Childhood Memory That Defined My Career

05:42 Middle Child Energy and the Need to Be Heard

06:57 Music Was My Only Plan A

08:44 The Disconnect Between Fitting In and Being Genuine

11:09 Expressing Yourself Without Giving Yourself Away

14:05 Songwriting: The Constant Search for a Simpler Life

17:25 Every Creative Process Is Different

18:52 When What You Do Becomes Who You Are

24:07 The Power of Journaling Your Lessons

27:05 Does Healing Kill Creativity?

29:48 My Biggest Regret in Communicating with Family

32:43 The Vulnerability of Filming Your Private Life

36:32 Healing and Finding Peace as a Family

43:51 Has Success Made Mental Health Harder or Better?

46:19 The Honest Truth about Body Dysmorphia

52:09 Living and Dying by Your Own Honesty

57:40 The Difference Between Going to Therapy and Doing Therapy

01:00:24 Do You Secretly Find Comfort in Your Pain?

01:02:01 Re-evaluating What Truly Matters After Success

01:05:59 Finding the Strength to Believe in Yourself

01:11:04 Protecting Your Heart While Taking Criticism

01:14:06 Stability Rooted in Love and Marriage

01:20:48 Would You Rather?

01:22:55 Gut Reaction

01:25:46 Noah on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Website | https://noahkahan.com/

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/c/NoahKahan

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/noahkahanmusic

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/noahkahanmusic/

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@noahkahanmusic

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7 Things to Tell Yourself Every Morning (Follow This Simple Morning Reset to Calm Your Mind Before the Day Begins) Apr 03, 2026

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Today, Jay shares how, before we even get out of bed, our minds are already filled with worries, quiet anxieties, and thoughts we didn’t choose. Instead of intentionally creating our day, most of us unknowingly inherit stress from yesterday. Drawing on both modern neuroscience and ancient wisdom traditions, Jay reframes the morning not as a routine, but as the foundation of our mental “operating system”, a critical window where our thoughts shape how we experience the next 16 hours.

Rather than relying on empty affirmations, Jay offers a more grounded, evidence-based approach rooted in how the brain actually works. He explains how our minds are most programmable in the early morning, when emotions are heightened and our critical thinking is still waking up. This creates a rare opportunity to interrupt automatic patterns, reset our focus, and consciously direct our attention before the world begins to pull us in different directions.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Take Control of Your Mind First Thing in the Morning

How to Stop Inheriting Anxiety Each Day

How to Rewire Your Thoughts in Minutes

How to Protect Your Attention Early

How to Measure Your Day with Purpose Not Productivity

Every morning is a quiet reset, an opportunity that doesn’t ask for perfection, only intention. You don’t need to have everything figured out, and you don’t need to feel ready.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:26 Your Morning Is Programming the Rest of Your Day

04:17 The Creator's Hour

08:48 #1: I Am Awake Before My Problems

12:29 #2: I Am Not Yesterday

15:17 #3: Today I Direct My Attention

18:40 #4: I Won't Try to Solve Problems That Haven't Happened Yet

21:48 #5: My Body Isn't a Vehicle For My Head

25:14 #6: I Focus on What Matters Most, Not What Feels Urgent

28:25 #7: I Measure Today by Who I Am, Not Just What I Achieve

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Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval) Apr 01, 2026

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In this special live conversation at the Orpheum Theatre in Vancouver, Canada, Jay sits down with renowned physician and trauma expert Dr. Gabor Maté for a deeply moving exploration of identity, healing, and the hidden patterns that shape our lives. Gabor explains that our obsession with how others perceive us often begins in childhood, when our fundamental need to be seen and understood isn’t fully met. In response, many people unconsciously adapt, hiding parts of themselves or becoming who they think others want them to be in order to feel accepted and loved.

In this episode you'll Learn:

How to Stop Living for Others’ Approval

How to Break Generational Trauma Patterns

How to Know If You’re Living Your True Life

How to Stop Tying Your Worth to Productivity

How to Recognize When Stress Is Hurting You

How to Listen to Your Inner Voice Again

How to Start Saying “No” Without Feeling Guilty

How to Practice Self-Compassion Instead of Self-Criticism

How to Turn Your Past Coping Patterns Into Healing

How to Ask the Question That Changes Your Life

Real change doesn’t come from forcing yourself to be perfect or trying to fix everything overnight. It begins with small moments of awareness, pausing long enough to listen to that quiet inner voice, asking honest questions about what feels true for you, and giving yourself permission to honor it.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:41 Why Do We Care So Much About Others’ Opinions?

03:10 Learning to Love People the Way They Need

04:53 How Childhood Shapes Our Need for Approval

06:46 The Dangerous Belief: “I’m Only Valuable If…”

11:02 Why Do We Feel Guilty When We Rest?

12:37 What Stress Is Really Doing to Your Brain and Body

16:19 Saying “No” Is Essential for Your Wellbeing

21:05 The Power of Asking Yourself Honest Questions

23:44 How to Listen to Your Gut Again

29:52 A Live Compassionate Inquiry Session

33:23 Your Healing Is Helping Your Children

35:08 Trusting the Wisdom Already Inside You

36:53 Your Coping Mechanisms Aren’t Failures

40:11 Turning Past Mistakes Into Lessons

41:45 Balancing Self-Improvement and Self-Acceptance

47:54 The Question That Can Change Your Life

Episode Resources:

Website | https://drgabormate.com/

YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsRF06lSFA8zV9L8_x9jzIA

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/drgabormate

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/gabormatemd/

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Logan Ury: #1 Dating Mistake That Leads to the Wrong Relationship (Use THIS Compatibility Test Before You Get Attached) Mar 30, 2026

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Many of us have been on countless dead-end dates, excited by the wrong people, overlooking the right ones, and left wondering why finding a healthy relationship still feels so complicated.

Jay sits down with behavioral scientist and dating coach Logan Ury to explore why modern dating feels harder than ever and what we can actually do to build meaningful relationships in a world full of options. Together, they unpack the hidden psychology behind attraction, the myths we believe about “the spark,” and how dating apps have changed the way we evaluate potential partners. Logan shares how many people unknowingly sabotage their chances at love by chasing instant chemistry instead of long-term compatibility, reminding us that the strongest relationships are often built through curiosity, emotional safety, and shared values rather than immediate intensity.

Jay and Logan also dive into the patterns that keep people stuck in cycles of disappointing relationships. From the pressure to find the “perfect” partner to the fear of vulnerability, they discuss how modern dating culture can create unrealistic expectations. Logan explains the difference between people who date intentionally and those who drift through relationships without clarity, and why small mindset shifts, like asking better questions, focusing on growth potential, and recognizing emotional availability, can dramatically change our outcomes. The conversation highlights how understanding our own habits, attachment styles, and communication patterns can help us show up more authentically in love.

In this episode you'll learn:

How to Stop Chasing the Wrong People

How to Look Beyond the First Date Spark

How to Choose Compatibility Over Chemistry

How to Date with Clear Intentions

How to Avoid the “Maximizer” Dating Trap

How to Ask Better Questions on Dates

How to Build Attraction That Grows Over Time

How to Date in a World of Endless Options

If dating has ever made you feel discouraged, confused, or like you’re falling behind, you’re not alone. Building a meaningful relationship in today’s world can feel overwhelming, but the truth is that love isn’t about finding someone perfect, it’s about finding someone willing to grow with you.

What are your dating blind spots? Take the quiz to find out! www.loganury.com/quiz

If you’re ready to understand your patterns in love and build healthier relationships, check out How to Not Die Alone. Click here to order: https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Die-Alone-Surprising/dp/1982120622

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:11 The Problem with Modern Dating Expectations

04:16 The Three Types of Daters

06:30 Do You Believe In a Soulmate?

08:20 Why Dating Burnout Is So Common

10:23 Why Does Dating Feel So Difficult Today?