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    Health & Fitness

    Office Hours with Arthur Brooks

    Hi Friends, I’m Arthur Brooks, a social scientist, Vanderbilt professor, and columnist at The Free Press. I write, speak, and teach about the science of human happiness, blending neuroscience, behavioral science, philosophy, and religion for insights on how to live better and be happier. Each week on Office Hours, you’ll get a glimpse into the research on happiness and explore how to use it to improve your life—and share what you learn with those you love. Join me in the movement to build a happier world–starting with you.

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    How the Meaning of Life Affects Your Brain: Part 2 of 3 Mar 23, 2026
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    Don’t miss The Meaning of Your Life Virtual Experience, my free live global book launch event this Friday (3/27), where I’m joined by an extraordinary lineup of guests to dive into all things meaning. Learn more at themeaningofyourlife.com.

    This is Part Two of my series on meaning, where I explore the science behind the meaning crisis, a central theme in my upcoming book, The Meaning of Your Life (out March 31).

    In the last episode, we looked at boredom. Today, I dive into the link between a lack of meaning and rising anxiety and depression—and why avoiding life’s biggest questions may be part of the problem. Why do we avoid the questions that matter most? Easy: These questions are uncomfortable—they don’t have clear answers and can’t be solved “once and for all.” However, the process of asking these unanswerable, ineffable questions changes the way we understand our lives, even if we cannot neatly articulate that understanding. As always, I share practical steps to get you to the “right” side of your brain, so that you can start building a life with greater meaning.

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    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Intro

    (04:59) The link between meaning and well-being

    (07:04) Lessons from Zen Buddhism

    (13:44) Two big questions for meaning

    (16:00) Hemispheric lateralization

    (19:43) Complicated vs. complex problems

    (25:33) Why left-brain logic fails for complex problems

    (26:54) Using questions to find meaning

    (33:20) Step #1: Schedule your mental workout

    (34:50) Step #2: Go for a long walk

    (37:25) Q&A: Combating contempt

    (39:55) Q&A: Travel protocols

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life Virtual Event: themeaningofyourlife.com

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • Why Your Perfect Life Feels So Empty (Sneak Peek): https://www.thefp.com/p/arthur-brooks-why-your-perfect-life-feels-so-empty

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • The Pursuit of Happiness with Arthur Brooks: https://www.thefp.com/s/the-pursuit-of-happiness-with-arthur

    • Zen in the Art of Archery: https://www.amazon.com/Zen-Art-Archery-Eugen-Herrigel/dp/0375705090

    • Hakuin Ekaku: What is the Sound of One Hand Clapping?: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/373390412_Hakuin_Ekaku_What_is_the_Sound_of_One_Hand_Clapping

    • Carl Jung’s quote: https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/723830-the-greatest-and-most-important-problems-of-life-are-all

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    Find the Meaning of Your Life Part 1 of 3: Get Better at Boredom Mar 16, 2026
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    Most of us hate waiting. Whether it’s standing in line, sitting in traffic, or waiting for a delayed flight, those idle moments feel irritating and pointless. Our instinct is to escape them as quickly as possible, almost always by reaching for our phones. But what if those moments of boredom are actually valuable?

    Today’s episode of Office Hours is the first of my three-part series on The Meaning of Your Life, about boredom and how learning to sit with it can help us reconnect with reflection, insight, and the search for meaning.

    I often talk about the trap of trying to eliminate discomfort from our lives. Boredom is no different. When we constantly distract ourselves, we miss the very mental space where insight and reflection occur. The truth is that boredom can be a gift. One that opens the door to deeper thought and a clearer sense of meaning.

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    (00:00) Intro

    (04:02) Why we need to get better at being bored

    (07:40) Research on boredom

    (10:55) Why time slows down when we’re bored

    (14:33) The benefits of boredom

    (18:20) How Tolstoy found meaning

    (23:49) The doom loop

    (26:33) A different orientation to your devices

    (30:46) The practice of boredom

    (36:37) Q&A: What is a highly sensitive person?

    (39:20) Q&A: Should you “trust God’s plan” when looking for a partner?

    (42:38) Q&A: How do you avoid wasting your time and talent?

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • The Pursuit of Happiness with Arthur Brooks: https://www.thefp.com/s/the-pursuit-of-happiness-with-arthur

    • Just think: The challenges of the disengaged mind: https://dtg.sites.fas.harvard.edu/WILSON%20ET%20AL%202014.pdf

    • Self-inflicted pain out of boredom: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0165178116301524?via%3Dihub

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    3 Steps to Embracing Your Fears Mar 09, 2026
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    Some of the experiences that scare us most are also the ones that can change us for the better. The right kind of challenge increases confidence, deepens courage, helps us feel more fully alive, and connects us to a deeper sense of meaning. But not all risk is the same, and learning the difference matters.

    In this episode of Office Hours, I explore why deliberately stepping outside your comfort zone is almost always beneficial when approached wisely. I discuss how to distinguish bravery from recklessness, how to think about fear in a healthier way, and how to identify challenges that are genuinely right for you. Because our fears are deeply personal, the challenges that build happiness and meaning differ for each of us, and only you can decide which ones are right for you. But I offer advice to help you uncover what is most beneficial to you.

    If you’re ready to discover what else can give your life meaning, pre-order my new book The Meaning of Your Life, available March 31.

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    Where to find Arthur Brooks:

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    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Intro

    (05:57) Why you should find your “running of the bulls”

    (13:37) Bravery vs. recklessness

    (16:50) When the benefits of risk actually arrive

    (19:20) Find your running of the bulls

    (22:31) Envision facing the danger

    (24:54) Make a plan

    (31:27) Q&A: How to know if it’s time for a new job

    (33:23) Q&A: Preparing for the death of a loved one

    (34:55) Q&A: Giving advice without offending

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • The Pursuit of Happiness with Arthur Brooks: https://www.thefp.com/w/arthur-brooks

    • The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness: https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic/dp/0593655036

    • Multiple motives for participating in adventure sports: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1469029212000490

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    How to find your faith Mar 02, 2026
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    Faith and spirituality are on the decline—but what does that mean for our happiness and sense of meaning?

    In this episode of Office Hours, I approach that question not as a theologian, but as a social scientist. I explore a fundamental truth: human beings are wired to seek meaning beyond themselves. The problem today is that we're missing out on this essential part of human life.

    I’ll share a three-part plan to help you transcend yourself—one that helps you manage anxiety and loneliness—and invite you to reflect more deeply on what you believe, and why it matters. And to learn more on this, check out my new book, The Meaning of Your Life (out March 31).

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    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Intro

    (01:40) Why faith and spirituality matter for meaning

    (03:00) Decline of traditional religiosity in the U.S.

    (05:20) The rise of the “nones” and generational shifts

    (07:45) Americans vs. other wealthy nations on religion

    (09:30) Is society inevitably becoming secular?

    (11:45) What brain science tells us about spirituality

    (14:20) Spiritual experiences and reduced stress responses

    (16:40) Mystical memory, theta waves, and altered states

    (18:55) How spirituality protects against depression and anxiety

    (21:10) Spirituality, loneliness, and social connection

    (23:40) Make yourself smaller: why self-focus makes us miserable

    (29:10) Why thinking less about yourself improves performance

    (31:20) Transcendence across religions and philosophies

    (34:00) Faith without conversion: meaning beyond belief

    (36:10) How to explore faith (and my new book, The Meaning of Your Life)

    (37:50) Q&A: loving someone who is depressed

    (40:10) Q&A: missionaries vs. psychologists and happiness

    (42:15) Q&A: grief, loss, and where to turn

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • U.S. church membership falls below majority for first time: https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-falls-below-majority-first-time.aspx

    • “Nones” on the rise: https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2012/10/09/nones-on-the-rise/

    • More Americans say they’re spiritual, but not religious: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/06/more-americans-now-say-theyre-spiritual-but-not-religious/

    • Awakened Brain: https://www.amazon.com/Awakened-Brain-Science-Spirituality-Inspired/dp/198485562X

    • EEG activity in Carmelite nuns during a mystical experience: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18721862/

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    The Science Behind Being Good at Leisure Feb 23, 2026
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    Not all leisure is created equal—some of it feels good in the moment (pleasure) but leaves you depleted afterward. Other forms of leisure actually restore you (enjoyment). They lift you up, deepen your sense of meaning, and make you more fully alive. The difference matters, and leisure well used is a skill—and it’s one you can cultivate.

    In this episode of Office Hours, I explore what leisure truly is and why it’s essential to happiness. Drawing on both philosophy and modern behavioral science, I explain why contemplation, art, time in nature, learning, and deep connection with others feed you in ways that passive diversion can’t.

    The goal is not to squeeze more activity into your life. It’s to live more deliberately, in ways that genuinely support your happiness. And if you’re not sure where you stand, takeThe Happiness Scale to see whether enjoyment is an area that needs strengthening.

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    (06:15) What enjoyment is, and why pleasure falls short

    (12:37) Pieper’s case for leisure as the basis of culture

    (15:22) The kind of leisure to avoid

    (19:22) What true leisure is

    (23:58) How connecting with beauty affects your brain

    (30:50) The benefits of time in nature

    (35:56) Structure your leisure

    (39:50) Don’t waste your leisure

    (42:11) Set leisure goals

    (44:48) Why our culture focuses too much on work

    (46:48) Q&A: The benefits of volunteering

    (48:01) Q&A: Helping others with cynicism and skepticism

    (49:53) Q&A: Teaching happiness to kids

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • The Four Cardinal Virtues: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Cardinal-Virtues-Josef-Pieper/dp/0268001030

    • Leisure the Basis of Culture: https://www.amazon.com/Leisure-Basis-Culture-Josef-Pieper/dp/0865972109

    • The Three Macronutrients of Happiness, and How to Measure Yours: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/podcast/the-three-macronutrients-of-happiness-and-how-to-measure-yours

    • Brahmamuhurta: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brahmamuhurta

    • Routine and Project-Based Leisure, Happiness, and Meaning in Life: https://www.nrpa.org/globalassets/journals/jlr/2012/volume-44/jlr-volume-44-number-2-pp-139-154.pdf

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    How to Live Your Life Like a Start-up with Codie Sanchez Feb 16, 2026
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    Codie Sanchez (founder of Contrarian Thinking and author of Main Street Millionaire) believes ownership changes lives. Her mission is bold and specific: create one million business owners. But beneath that mission is a deeper argument about how taking control of your life can help you not only be more successful, but happier.

    In this episode of Office Hours, Codie and I explore her philosophy of happiness, built around three requirements: progress, freedom, and ownership. We explore what those ideas can mean to each of us personally. Why earning your own money shapes your sense of agency. Why responsibility, taken voluntarily, can increase satisfaction. And why ownership is not just about assets, but about how you take responsibility for your life.

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    • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchez

    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/codiesanchez

    • Contrarian Thinking: https://www.contrarianthinking.co

    More from Codie:

    Codie hosts an annual 3-day virtual workshop to help you find, buy, and build a business… and it’s happening this Feb 20-22! Come learn what Wall Street (and your boss) hope you never learn: https://contrarianthinking.biz/MSML_BDYT26.

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    (04:54) Codie’s current big project

    (08:47) What Main Street Millionaire is about and why it resonated so widely

    (10:54) Codie’s pivot away from journalism to finance

    (14:14) The realization that finance would not bring happiness

    (17:58) Codie’s mission statement

    (19:58) Why earning your own money matters

    (23:50) Why unsexy careers tend to be more profitable

    (27:53) The case for entrepreneurship

    (29:10) Why CEOs must love the job

    (32:14) Codie’s three happiness principles

    (33:18) The need for progress

    (40:07) How to maintain future-thinking without sacrificing your happiness

    (43:07) The case for taking on more responsibility

    (44:52) Setting the right goals to make progress

    (51:59) Freedom is a key ingredient

    (59:40) What to look for in a marriage

    (1:04:15) The power of ownership

    (1:10:45) A summary of the three requirements for happiness

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses: https://www.amazon.com/Main-Street-Millionaire-Extraordinary-Businesses/dp/0593718615

    • The Songhurst Matrix: A Game-Changer for Project Management: https://sebastianstrobl.net/2024/08/02/the-songhurst-matrix-a-game-changer-for-project-management/

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    How to Find Love in 2026 Feb 09, 2026
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    Today’s topic: love. Forget Valentine’s Day—where romance only happens once a year. Try my new book, The Meaning of Your Life, out March 31, where I describe how to make love lifelong.

    Many people today feel discouraged about love. Fewer people are getting married, fewer are falling in love, and more are opting out of romance altogether. This isn’t just a personal problem—it’s a cultural one.

    In this episode of Office Hours, I explore what’s happening to romantic love and why it matters so deeply to our sense of meaning in life. Drawing on neuroscience, psychology, and ancient wisdom, I examine what love actually is, what happens when we fall in love, and why heartbreak is often a necessary part of learning to love well. I also share three practical rules for finding love in a time when many people are afraid to risk it at all.

    This episode isn’t about dating advice or quick fixes. It’s about understanding love as one of the most powerful paths to meaning, growth, and a life well lived, even when it doesn’t come easily.

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    —

    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Intro

    (03:34) Arthur and Ester’s love story

    (06:44) Why entrepreneurial love stories are dwindling

    (07:44) Data on the decline in love, marriage, and sex

    (11:10) What happens when you’re falling in love

    (23:37) Why relationships don’t work out

    (26:42) The mystical side of romantic love

    (30:40) What love is and why the English language falls short of explaining it

    (35:10) Love lessons from the Greeks

    (40:25) Rule 1: Take more risks

    (48:01) Rule 2: Look for your complement

    (52:02) Rule 3: Don’t fear the breakup

    (55:52) Q&A: Are there different types of decision-makers

    (57:10) Q&A: The effects of cold plunges

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    •Understanding the Science of Love: A Practical Guide: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/love

    • Don Quixote: https://www.amazon.com/Quixote-Penguin-Classics-Cervantes-Saavedra/dp/0142437239

    • Oxytocin: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/22618-oxytocin

    • Vasopressin: https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/neuroscience/vasopressin

    • The sociopaths among us: How to spot (and avoid) a Dark Triad: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/podcast/the-sociopaths-among-us-how-to-spot-and-avoid-a-dark-triad

    • Emophilia: An overlooked (but not forgotten) construct in relationships and individual differences: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886924000114

    • 3 Steps to Managing Your Emotions: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/podcast/3-steps-to-managing-your-emotions

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    4 Ways to Be Less Lonely Feb 02, 2026
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    If you’ve been feeling empty or lonely and are looking for immediate solutions, I hope today’s episode helps—and if you want to go deeper, you can order my new book, The Meaning of Your Life, out March 31.

    Today’s topic: the loneliness epidemic. We know more people than ever before, but do we actually know them? In a world of constant connection, many people still feel unseen, unknown, and disconnected from those around them.

    In this episode of Office Hours, I explore why loneliness has become so widespread and how it shows up in our relationships. I talk about the difference between being known and being understood, why feeling understood matters so much for happiness, and how modern habits and technologies can make it easier to stay in touch while avoiding real connection.

    Change means pushing back against our instincts and doing things that feel like the opposite of what we want. That can sound daunting, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. In this episode, I share four simple habits that, with practice, become easier and help lay the groundwork for more meaningful relationships.

    If you’ve been feeling lonely, this episode explores what happens when we stop waiting for that feeling to fix itself.

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    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Introduction

    (04:31) What Edgar Allan Poe’s life reveals about loneliness

    (07:39) The difference between being known and being understood

    (09:43) Why feeling known is essential for happiness

    (12:38) What fMRI studies reveal about being understood

    (15:33) Give what you want to get in relationships

    (17:01) Why being known by your spouse matters for happiness

    (18:30) Why loneliness is rising among young people and the role of technology

    (19:27) How loneliness becomes self-reinforcing

    (21:08) Strategy #1: The opposite signal strategy

    (24:15) Strategy #2: Proactively knowing others

    (27:28) Strategy #3: Asking more questions

    (30:33) Strategy #4: Putting your phone away

    (32:15) Why loneliness requires proactive effort

    (33:16) Q&A: Which times of day matter most for limiting screens?

    (34:47) Q&A: How can you let go of shame around anxiety?

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World: https://www.amazon.com/Together-Connection-Performance-Greater-Happiness/dp/0062913298

    • “Alone” by Edgar Allan Poe: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46477/alone-56d2265f2667d

    • New Cigna Study Reveals Loneliness at Epidemic Levels in America: https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/new-cigna-study-reveals-loneliness-at-epidemic-levels-in-america-300639747.html

    • The Good Life: Lessons From the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11575524

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    6 Financial Rules for Greater Happiness with Dave Ramsey Jan 26, 2026
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    I’ve hinted at this before, but in my new book, The Meaning of Your Life, I explore where meaning actually comes from—one place, for example, is by serving others with our time and treasure. However, you certainly won’t find it in the worldly idols we so often chase. This all brings us to today’s topic—money.

    Most people assume that having more money will make them happier. The research suggests something more subtle. What matters is not how much money you have, but how you use it.

    In this episode of Office Hours, I am joined by Dave Ramsey, one of the most influential voices in personal finance, whose work has helped millions of people change their relationship with money. Dave shares his own journey from early financial success to bankruptcy and back, and how his faith shapes his thinking about debt, discipline, and financial peace.

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    • Website: https://www.ramseysolutions.com

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    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Intro

    (05:14) Dave’s early experiences with entrepreneurship and money

    (07:30) How Dave’s early career success gave way to financial collapse

    (10:54) Why borrowing money tends to undermine happiness

    (13:34) Dave’s path back to prosperity

    (16:43) What financial peace means

    (18:07) How serving others contributes to long-term happiness

    (19:45) How hope supports lasting change

    (21:20) Why intentionality matters most

    (23:37) Why things won’t bring you happiness

    (27:12) How the credit system’s lack of guardrails sets people up to fail

    (29:02) Why credit card debt is especially damaging to well-being

    (30:00) Why people make poor financial decisions

    (32:25) Why car debt is usually a poor investment

    (35:16) How to get an education without taking on excessive debt

    (38:40) Why mortgage debt doesn’t lower happiness when kept in check

    (41:25) A framework for thinking about debt and savings

    (42:21) Why generosity is linked to greater prosperity

    (48:14) Q&A: How to stop being so stressed about money

    (50:14) Q&A: How to make a savings plan for college

    (52:58) Dave’s six big principles for money and happiness

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • Good credit, bad credit: The differential role of the sources of debt in life satisfaction: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/joca.12388

    • Financial Peace: https://www.amazon.com/Financial-Peace-Dave-Ramsey/dp/0963571206

    • What Is the Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility?: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/l/lawofdiminishingutility.asp

    • Why You’re Better Off Not Borrowing: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/02/debt-borrowing-happiness/677303

    • How your bank balance buys happiness: The importance of “cash on hand” to life satisfaction: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2016-17475-001

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    How to Set the Right Goals in Life Jan 19, 2026
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    Most of us know that we should set goals, but there is a lot of confusion about why they matter and how to choose them well.

    In this episode of Office Hours, I reflect on the difference between meaning and purpose, and on how the goals we pursue quietly shape the direction of our lives. I talk about why some goals leave us feeling empty even when we achieve them, and what it means to aim our lives toward something that truly matters.

    My hope is that this episode invites you to pause, think about your goals in life, and consider whether the path you are on is leading you where you want to go.

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    Timestamps:

    (00:00) Intro

    (05:00) The three components of meaning

    (08:14) Big goals, and why most of us are not Mother Teresa

    (09:55) Proxy goals, and how they can lead us to feel more purpose

    (13:16) Jung’s philosophy on good goals

    (14:42) An extrinsic motivation

    (17:20) Intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation

    (19:14) Goals based in avoidance

    (21:34) Positional goals

    (24:33) Focus on love, not things

    (28:15) Listen to the small voice

    (31:40) Enjoy the happy journey

    (34:08) Stay flexible

    (37:09) Q&A: Fasting vs. a heavy protein breakfast

    (38:17) Q&A: How to teach your children to be happier

    (39:44) Q&A: Navigating a big transition

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    Referenced:

    • The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness: https://www.amazon.com/Meaning-Your-Life-Finding-Emptiness/dp/0593545427

    • The Happiness Scale: https://learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale

    • The Three Macronutrients of Happiness, and How to Measure Yours: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/podcast/the-three-macronutrients-of-happiness-and-how-to-measure-yours

    • The why to bear any how: Goal self-concordance, meaning, and depressive and anxious symptomatology: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2024-69173-001

    • Intrinsic and extrinsic motivation from a self-determination theory perspective: Definitions, theory, practices, and future directions: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0361476X20300254

    • Effects of externally mediated rewards on intrinsic motivation: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1971-22190-001

    • Evaluation of the Happiness Through Goal-Setting Training: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35084260

    • Compared to whom? Inequality, social comparison, and happiness in the United States: https://research.manchester.ac.uk/en/publications/compared-to-whom-inequality-social-comparison-and-happiness-in-th

    • The Confessions of St. Augustine: https://www.gutenberg.org/files/3296/3296-h/3296-h.htm

    • Monkey see, monkey do: Model behavior in early childhood: https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/monkey_see_monkey_do_model_behavior_in_early_childhood

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