Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

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Fellas, Is It Gay to Like Women? Jul 15, 2025

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Regan and Chesko dive into the bizarre world of men who think vaginas are "icky" after watching a cringe-worthy podcast clip of a guy describing women's bodies as gross and smelly. They explore the twisted logic of supposedly straight men who hate the very thing they claim to be attracted to, discuss how this ties into the pleasure gap and male loneliness epidemic, and roast the hypocrisy of men with questionable hygiene standards throwing stones. Plus: why "boy humor" might be a red flag, the art of fake pranks, and Regan's theory that extreme misogyny is just being "so straight you're gay."
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How To Love Like A Cowboy Jul 07, 2025

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This week, Regan and Chesko react to a middle-aged cowboy relationship guru who gives relationship advice that's more horror movie than romance. We dissect why this advice feels genuinely alarming when presented as universal marriage guidance, complete with piercing stares and uncomfortable hand gestures. From "luscious lips" to dinner table...antics, they explore the line between consensual kink and concerning behavior.
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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Honey, Don’t Disbar Me Jul 01, 2025

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Regan and Chesko dive into a viral courtroom clip where a male lawyer accidentally calls a female judge "honey" in a condescending tone, leading to an awkward exchange that perfectly captures workplace power dynamics and casual sexism. They then share their own cringe-worthy professional moments, including Chesko's traumatic experience as a young professor when three students coordinated elaborate final speeches pretending to be married to him, complete with wedding vows, maid of honor toasts, and a fake pregnancy announcement.
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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Manthropology 101 Jun 16, 2025

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Join Regan and Chesko as they sit down with Holly Solem, creator and host of "Manthropology TV," to discuss her viral street interview series where she asks men the simple yet loaded question: "Why are you like this?"
Holly shares the unexpected journey of how a single post on Threads sparked a movement that led to her interviewing men on camera about masculinity. From the now-legendary Timmy "Bounce Back" interview (where he declares women "kill and destroy everything") to encounters that turned genuinely scary, Holly reveals what it's really like to hold up a mirror to male behavior in public spaces.
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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

18 Holes, Zero Empathy Jun 02, 2025

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Regan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes, and why some men get defensive when called out for treating their wives poorly. Plus: tangents on pickleball, competitive dads at birthday parties, and why "cancel culture" isn't actually canceling anyone.
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Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Kid Rock Can Kick Rocks May 26, 2025

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The episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he blamed "ugly" and "deranged" liberal women before unpacking the deeper issues behind such statements, exploring how they reflect broader problems with toxic masculinity, emotional regulation, and the refusal to examine systemic causes for societal changes.
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Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Men Are Awesome and Women Destroy Everything (No Offense) May 19, 2025

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In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads to such ridiculous claims. They explore how patriarchal systems actually harm everyone, the importance of intersectional feminism, and why some men would rather maintain a broken system than work toward equality. And, as always, there's an extra full episode waiting for Patreon supporters who want to get to know our hosts even better!
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Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper