Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

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Just Catfish Your Girlfriend, Bro Feb 16, 2026

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Chesko and Reagan tackle the bizarre world of "loyalty tests" where dating coaches advise men to catfish their own girlfriends to test fidelity. They dissect why this advice is not just insecure but fundamentally manipulative, explore how influencers profit from terrible relationship guidance, and discuss the broader culture of confident ignorance plaguing social media. The conversation spirals through anti-vax parallels, accountability vs. "cancel culture," and why being called out for bad behavior doesn't make you the victim. Plus: the new theme song reveal, thoughts on forgiveness and political cults, and why "I'm not a bad person" is often the worst defense.

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Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

Women Made Me Terrible (You’re Welcome) Feb 09, 2026

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Chesko and Regan react to a viral video claiming women are partly to blame for men being toxic because they "reward" bad behavior by sleeping with toxic exes while making "nice guys" wait. They discuss how these men knowingly weaponize manipulation as "dating advice," how the so-called niceness is just a strategy that gets dropped when it doesn't produce results, and how the manosphere profits from telling men it's never their fault.

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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

The World Is On Fire Feb 02, 2026

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Chesko and Regan break from their usual format to address the urgent political crisis unfolding in America. They discuss recent ICE actions, the arrests of journalists Don Lemon and Georgia Fort, the killings of Alex Preti and Renee Goode, and the shocking hypocrisy around First and Second Amendment rhetoric. This episode is a bit more raw and tackles fascism, media censorship, and what it means to resist during terrifying times.

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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Started With Proposals, Ended With Fiyero Jan 27, 2026

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Regan and Chesko dive into a viral proposal video and end up debating relationship power dynamics, gender roles in romance, and why traditional gestures make some people cringe. Along the way, they get sidetracked discussing Broadway performers, Wicked, and Phantom of the Opera...because that's just how their conversations go.

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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

The Insecure Man Fund Jan 20, 2026

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Chesko and Regan dive into a Reddit "Am I the Asshole" post about financial deception in marriage. They discuss financial abuse, manipulation, entitlement in relationships, and why this husband's behavior is a major betrayal of trust.

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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

You’re Not Like Other Girls (You Let Me Treat You Like Shit) Dec 16, 2025

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In today's episode, Chesko and Reagan eventually get to the main segment that tackles a viral thread asking: "What do men think is attractive but actually gives women the ick?" From "I'm not political" Tinder profiles to unsolicited hunting trophy photos, loud car exhausts, and bragging about fighting prowess, they dissect why these masculine displays consistently miss the mark. Along the way, they share personal stories about family dynamics, childhood rebellion, and why saying "you're not like other girls" is actually a massive red flag.
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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

”Where Are the Diapers?” A Love Story Nov 24, 2025

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Regan and Chesko tackle the frustrating trend of men who weaponize incompetence in their relationships, and worse, convince their partners to find it endearing. They break down a viral podcast clip where men suggest moms "secretly hope" the house falls apart when they leave, exposing how this narrative justifies incompetent parenting while shifting focus from men's failures to women's reactions. They discuss real examples of fathers who can't handle basic childcare for a few days, the manipulative patterns that make women defend objectively bad behavior, and why being appreciated shouldn't require watching everything fall apart.
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Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

”I’m Not Racist, But My Group Chat Is” Nov 03, 2025

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Regan and Chesko dive into the disturbing world of men's private group chats after young Republicans' racist messages leaked online. They discuss why so many guys are suddenly admitting their own group chats would look "pretty bad" if exposed, and what that reveals about toxic masculinity in isolated spaces. The hosts break down a cringe-worthy clip from the Whatever podcast where a guest confidently shares his sexist and racist views about female pilots and mechanics, sparking a larger conversation about microaggressions, performative allyship, and the obsession with being seen as "good" rather than actually doing good.
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Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

The Episode Where Chesko Becomes a Crypto Bro Oct 27, 2025

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This week, Chesko and Regan tackle what happens when a comedian calls someone out on stage. Was it funny or did it cross a line? Along the way, expect plenty of tangents (so many tangents), from fake radio show phone calls to crypto confessions, and more.
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Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Last Minute Cruise, Long Term Consequences Oct 20, 2025

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Chesko and Regan dissect a viral story about a husband who claims his dad spontaneously gave him three cruise tickets on his birthday, leaving his wife to handle their four kids and her job while he jets off to Mexico for five days. They debate whether the "surprise" cruise was actually planned in advance, discuss the logistics of last-minute cruise bookings, and explore broader relationship red flags including lying, manipulation, and the importance of communication in partnerships. They also touch on narcissistic behavior patterns, the influence of manosphere content on modern relationships, and why respecting your partner's feelings should be non-negotiable (even about seemingly small things).
Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):
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https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater
https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

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