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Lovingkindness & Mindfulness for Real Happiness - Sharon Salzberg [179 Aug 06, 2019

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Hunter talks to Sharon Salzberg about Lovingkindness & Mindfulness for Real Happiness.

From an early childhood filled with fear, uncertainty, and trauma, Sharon Salzberg found that the teachings of the Buddha normalized her suffering and gave her a path to liberation. She has followed that path to become one of the most preeminent teachers of mindfulness in the world through her writings, talks, and retreats. In this episode, Sharon shares insights into meditation and lovingkindness practice in her down-to-earth, relatable way that provides true insight.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. The engine for insight is mindfulness 2. Lovingkindness practice is an antidote to fear 3. The core of meditation and lovingkindness practice is to shift how we’re relating to our own experience

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ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches overstressed moms on how to cultivate mindfulness in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in yoga & mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide, and is the creator of the Mindful Parenting course.

Download the audio training, Mindfulness For Moms (The Superpower You Need) for free! It's at mindfulmomguide.com. Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.

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Teaching Kids Mindfulness - Annaka Harris [178] Jul 30, 2019

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Hunter talks to Annaka Harris about Teaching Kids Mindfulness.

What does one do when fascinated about the nature of experience itself? If you are my podcast guest, Annaka Harris, you write a children’s book, teach mindfulness to children, and write about this mystery of the universe for adults in her latest book, Conscious. Hear how she began her own mindfulness practice, how it relates to parenting her children, and get a taste of the mystery of consciousness.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. Best practices for sharing the power of mindfulness with kids 2. It’s okay to say “I don’t know” to our children and can in fact be beneficial 3. Getting curious about our experience can relieve suffering

Annaka Harris is the author of CONSCIOUS. She is the author of the children's book I Wonder, a collaborator on the Mindful Games Activity Cards, by Susan Kaiser Greenland. She is a consultant for science writers and a volunteer mindfulness teacher for the Inner Kids organization.

Website: annakaharris.com Social Media Links: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Annaka-Harris-Projects/192898777423401, https://twitter.com/annakaharris, https://www.instagram.com/annakaharrisprojects/

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Brave Not Perfect - Reshma Saujani [177] Jul 23, 2019

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Girls are socialized to avoid risk and failure, while boys are expected and rewarded for taking risks and being brave. This leads to a world full of women who are paralyzed by perfectionism, unable to take steps outside our comfort zones, tamping down our dreams. In this episode, I talk to Reshma Saujani, CEO of Girls Who Code and author of Brave Not Perfect, about how to cultivate our bravery.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. We can get confused between things that we’re good at and things we like. 2. Our fears of girls getting hurt can lead them to limit themselves later on. 3. We need to slow down and give kids time to figure things out themselves.

Reshma Saujani is the author of the international bestseller Brave, Not Perfect and the New York Times Bestseller Girls Who Code: Learn to Code and Change the World. She is the founder and CEO of Girls Who Code, the international nonprofit organization working to close the gender gap in technology while teaching girls confidence and bravery through coding.

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From Striving for Perfect to Honestly Authentic - Mary Laura Philpott [176] Jul 16, 2019

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Hunter talks to Mary Laura Philpott about From Striving for Perfect to Honestly Authentic.

Mary Laura Philpott thought she’d cracked the code: always make the right choice, and you’ll always be happy. But her relentless mom life and to-do list didn’t bring her contentment, it brought anxiety. In this conversation we talk about how holding herself to the “perfect” standard left her struggling and how she, bit-by-bit, moved herself to a place of better balance and authenticity.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. There is no way to parent perfectly. 2. Doing the “right” things according to our culture doesn’t necessarily lead to happiness. 3. Change is always possible. Indeed, it’s the only thing we can count on.

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How To Be Present With Your Child - Hunter Clarke-Fields [175] Jul 09, 2019

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Hunter talks about How To Be Present With Your Child. On this podcast, Dr. Dan Siegel said that the #1 best thing that a parent can do for their child is to be present. So what does that mean? And how do we do that? In this solo episode I share four simple steps to practice being present with your child. Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. Far more than toys or lessons, your child needs YOU with less tension and more ease. 2. Presence soothes your child, helping him feel seen, heard, and accepted. 3. Mindfulness can be practiced in everyday life Fan of the Mindful Mama Podcast? Support it by leaving a quick review -----> Apple Podcasts or on Stitcher (or wherever you listen!) ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches overstressed moms on how to cultivate mindfulness in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in yoga & mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide, and is the creator of the Mindful Parenting course. Download the audio training, Mindfulness For Moms (The Superpower You Need) for free! It's at mindfulmomguide.com. Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.

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Motherhood as a Spiritual Practice - Anne Cushman [174] Jul 02, 2019

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Hunter talks to Anne Cushman about Motherhood as a Spiritual Practice.

Parenthood tests us in ways that we never anticipated, making it like a spiritual practice for unprecedented growth and change. Today’s guest, author and meditation teacher Anne Cushman experienced love and loss that deepened her experience of motherhood, teaching her to be fully present for all of it. She tells us that we don’t get to pick and choose what we’re present for. If we want to be present for those precious, joyful moments, we have to take in the difficulties too.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. We never know what is going to happen. Loving someone is an inherently risky thing to do. 2. Spiritual practices ask you to test yourself in extreme situations. 3. Don’t make any assumptions about your child.

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Equality At Home - Darcy Lockman [173] Jun 25, 2019

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Hunter talks to Darcy Lockman about Equality At Home.

Do you feel like the drudge work of raising a family and running a household defaults to you—the woman in the relationship? Even though dads are more involved than they used to be, the distribution of labor is far from fair. Darcy Lockman, clinical psychologist and author of All the Rage: mothers, fathers, and the Myth of Equal Partnership, gives us a comprehensive view of how gender role ideas are hurting mothers' mental health, physical health, sex life, relationships with our partners, and more.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. Women do 7 more hours of unpaid work than men per week 2. This adversely affects women’s mental health, physical health, and our relationship with our partner 3. Men often don’t even see how their wives are doing more

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Sexuality Series: How To Feel Balanced Hormonally - Lisa Hendrickson-Jack [172] Jun 18, 2019

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Hunter talks to Lisa Hendrickson-Jack about How To Feel Balanced Hormonally.

Do you know much about your period and your hormonal cycle? I’ve been learning more recently and… wow! In this episode of the podcast I talk to Lisa Hendrickson-Jack, a Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who teaches women to chart their menstrual cycles for natural birth control, conception, and monitoring overall health. In her new book The Fifth Vital Sign, Lisa debunks the myth that regular ovulation is only important when you want children by recognizing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. Hormonal birth control has downsides to be aware of 2. Understanding our cycles can help us balance emotionally 3. When is the best time to have sex.

Lisa Hendrickson-Jack, author of The Fifth Vital Sign, Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner teaches women to chart their menstrual cycles for natural birth control, conception, and monitoring overall health. In her new book The Fifth Vital Sign, Lisa debunks the myth that regular ovulation is only important when you want children by recognizing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign. Drawing heavily from the current scientific literature, Lisa presents an evidence-based approach to fertility awareness and menstrual cycle optimization. She hosts the Fertility Friday Podcast, a weekly radio show devoted to helping women connect to their fifth vital sign by uncovering the connection between menstrual cycle health, fertility, and overall health.

Website http://fertilityfriday.com/ Social Media Links Twitter: @fertilefriday; facebook.com/fertilityfridays; Instagram: @fertilityfriday

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My Silent Retreat - Oren Sofer & Hunter Clarke-Fields [171] Jun 11, 2019

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Hunter talks to Oren Sofer about My Silent Retreat.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. It takes time for our bodies and minds to “detox” from our distracted lives. 2. We are often doing (checking the phone, checking of the list, eating) to avoid just being with what is. 3. Along with feeling more can come equanimity—the capacity to hold what arises without being thrown of one’s feet.

Oren Jay Sofer teaches mindfulness, meditation and Nonviolent Communication in both secular and Buddhist contexts. He’s the author of the book Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication, a practical guidebook for having more effective, satisfying conversations.

I recently went on my first-ever, seven-day silent Lovingkindness meditation retreat with the Insight Meditation Society. Not only was there no talking (which can be hard for a podcaster!), but also no reading, no writing, and no contact with the outside world for seven days. What was it like? In this special episode Oren Sofer, teacher at the retreat and author of Say What You Mean, asks me questions about my first retreat. You’ll learn what it was like, when I cried, the benefits I experienced, and more.

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How To Help Kids Who Worry - Gail Silver [170] Jun 04, 2019

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Hunter talks to Gail Silver about How To Help Kids Who Worry.

When it came time for her friends to arrive at her birthday party, Bea started to worry and the “what if’s” just kept piling up. That’s the basis for the new picture book by Gail Silver, Mindful Bea and the Worry Tree, which helps kids who worry through the power of story and the tools of mindfulness. In our conversation, Gail shares what she wishes she had done when her kids were younger and how to help kids who worry.

Some big takeaways from this episode include: 1. 4.4 million kids in the US have been diagnosed with worrying and anxiety 2. How to help kids who worry 3. Institute mindfulness practices and digital breaks when your kids are young

Gail is an award-winning children's book author and freelance writer, Founder and Director of Yoga Child and Founder and Director of The School Mindfulness Project.

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