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Unsafe Parenting Ep 5.31 Apr 19, 2024

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We will look at unsafe parenting. The topic of this series is delving into attachment theory and breaking down this complex theory.

Strong relationships are likened to a dance between rupture and repair. In my positive parenting class, I discuss this concept using the visual of a pothole. Living in a downtown area, I often encounter potholes that can disrupt entire streets.

Despite our efforts to avoid them, potholes persist, much like ruptures in relationships. Some ruptures are benign, such as momentarily checking a text message during a conversation.

However, if left unaddressed, these small ruptures can escalate into larger issues that linger for months or even years. It's crucial to address and repair these ruptures to build and maintain strong relationships.

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Safe Parenting Ep 5.30 Apr 10, 2024

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Inside this series exploring the four qualities of a secure attachment bond, we're discussing the dance between rupture and repair. Ruptures are mistakes, moments of dysregulation, outbursts, frustration, or anger.

These moments are natural and human. In a secure relationship, we come back together and do the repair work, recovering from those ruptures.

Therefore, when navigating attachment and building secure attachment, we become curious about the quality of our comfortability with rupture and repair. To remind everyone, attachment theory focuses on the quality of the attachment bond that affects your child's development – mentally, physically, intellectually, emotionally, and socially. Importantly, a caregiver's attachment to the child actually starts long before the child forms an attachment to the caregiver.

These attachments develop differently for each person. In my work, platform, classes, and this podcast, we shift your perspective as the parent or caregiver.

We elevate the child's perspective because in a secure relationship, we're looking at whether the child has a safe haven (or "safe face to land") to return to after a rupture.

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Insecure Parenting Ep 5.29 Apr 02, 2024

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What is insecure parenting? Let's explore the underlying factors contributing to insecurity in parenting and gain valuable insights into overcoming challenges and fostering a more confident and nurturing approach.

Learn from me, a certified parent coach who teaches Positive Parenting Methods and coaches you to create a home environment that you can be proud of!

Tune in to uncover practical tips, expert advice, and real-life stories aimed at empowering parents to break free from insecurity and cultivate a more secure and fulfilling relationship with their children.

Learn the difference between a punishment and a Consequence.

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Secure Parenting Ep. 5. 28 Mar 26, 2024

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In this series of videos, we delve into various parenting styles, aiming to provide a comprehensive understanding of what secure parenting entails.

One fundamental aspect highlighted is the establishment of boundaries and limits within the parent-child relationship. These boundaries serve as essential tools in the toolkit of a secure parent, contributing to the development of a healthy and balanced dynamic.

By setting clear boundaries and limits, parents create a sense of structure and safety for their children, fostering an environment conducive to emotional security and growth. Through exploration and discussion, we aim to empower parents with the knowledge and skills necessary to cultivate a secure and nurturing parenting approach.

IN TRUST

Episode 5.28 The secure parent Episode 5.30 The safe parent Episode 5.32 The soothing parent Episode 5.34 The seeing parent

NOT IN TRUST

Episode 5.29 The insecure parent Episode 5.31 The unsafe parent Episode 5.33 The unsoothing parent Episode 5.35 The unseeing parent

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Attachment Theory is not Attachment Parenting Ep.5.27 Jan 19, 2024

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🧠 Let's unveil the truth, uncover the nuances, and debunk common misconceptions between attachment theory and an attachment parenting style.

Whether you're a seasoned parent or just beginning your journey, this insightful content empowers you to navigate parenthood with confidence.

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The Fantasy of a Good Relationship Ep.5.26 Jan 02, 2024

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Ponder the realities of the struggles that naturally come with parenting. Through insightful discussions, we shed light on the importance of acknowledging and embracing the challenges, fostering resilience, and nurturing authentic connections within our families.

With a special segment where parents engage in transformative exercises from the Clear & Kind Parent Program. It's time to redefine the narrative, let go of unrealistic expectations, and find joy in the beautiful messiness of real, imperfect relationships. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and growth.

Supporting you on your Positive Parenting Journey, empowering you to build lasting, healthy relationships with your kids with classes and group coaching.

As a former misunderstood child turned parenting coach. I created the C.L.E.A.R. Method to foster connection for any parent.

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Parent = Person & Parenting = Methods Ep.5.25 Dec 12, 2023

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Today's episode will focus on separating who we are from what we do and discussing how being a parent shapes your identity and the methods you use.

I invite you to get comfortable, grab your journal, and let's begin. Welcome to "MegAnne is Not a Parent, But..." the podcast where I, your host MegAnne Ford, a former Early Childhood educator turned positive parenting coach, help parents like you navigate the challenges of dealing with your strong-willed child's difficult behavior.

Clients have described me as a blend between Brené Brown and Miss Frizzle from the Magic School Bus, known for bringing awareness and holding space for challenging conversations, making concepts like behavior, relationships, and temperaments easy to understand and implement.

If you struggle with your child's loud, dramatic, disruptive, over-the-top behavior and doubt whether a parenting coach can help, especially if you think such coaches are only for "bad parents," then this episode is especially for you.

Grab a journal, a cozy blanket, a warm beverage, and enjoy the exploration ahead. Let's start by reading a message from one of my favorite cards, a tool for self-reflection and inspiration, from my friend Jennifer's Oracle deck.

The card's message is "Change how you measure," urging us not to solely measure success by our current circumstances or how we got there but to consider who we are becoming.

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No bad parents, only bad parenting Ep.5.24 Nov 30, 2023

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Addressing the challenges parents face, acknowledging that feelings of inadequacy often stem from a lack of skills rather than inherent shortcomings.

Emphasizing the learning and practice involved in parenting, offering understanding and support to parents navigating the complexities of raising children.

I am a former misunderstood child turned parenting coach. I created the C.L.E.A.R. Method to foster connection.

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Why Mom Guilt is really Mom Shame Ep.5.23 Nov 16, 2023

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Maternal emotions are real and valuable.

What are the nuances of mom guilt?

Let's uncover the reality behind it—revealing, relatable, and reshaping our perspectives.

Join us for a shame-free journey to empowered motherhood!

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