Matthew and Paul

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Love Language, Part 2: Down On All Fours Jan 18, 2022

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Matthew and Paul continue their discussion about Love Languages. Matthew explains the meaning of “Quality Time” (hint: no phones allowed!) while Paul speaks candidly about his use of the words “I love you” and whether it’s ever appropriate not to return the phrase. On the extended episode Matthew and Paul discuss the Love Language neither of them speak, yet they have both started doing. What could it be? Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/61307310

Love Language: Kisses, Cuddles, and Kindness Jan 10, 2022

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Matthew and Paul are discussing Love Languages. After Paul explains the origin of the popular term, Matthew describes why “Acts of Kindness” are his Love Language. Paul’s, meanwhile, is “Touch and Intimacy” which he suspects could be a result of his visual impairment. On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul discuss the 5 Sex Languages, and which ones they resonate with most. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/60959228

Paul Goes to Prison, Part 2: Don’t Eat the Soup Jan 03, 2022

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Paul’s harrowing saga picks up on Day 1 of 100 in a maximum security prison. Paul describes the humiliating intake process, what it means to “squat and cough”, and how it felt walking into the Bug Ward for the very first time. Paul is befriended by an inmate nicknamed “Spud” who breaks down the unwritten rules of the cellblock and gives Paul a single warning: “Don’t eat the soup.” On the extended episode, Paul gets candid about the prison shower room and educates Matthew on the term “Hammer Hawk”. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/60651432

His and His Holiday Dec 27, 2021

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Matthew and Paul are discussing their favorite holiday traditions. Matthew reveals his love for the 1982 animated short The Snowman, while Paul does his best to defend the merits of the 1964 claymation classic Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. Matthew and Paul also talk (a little too much) about their love and devotion to the Frozen movies. If you would like to support the podcast consider becoming part of the His and His family on Patreon.com/hisandhis

Paul Goes to Prison, Part 1: Arrested and Arraigned Dec 20, 2021

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Paul shares, for the first time, the story of his arrest and detainment in a maximum security prison. Paul reveals the circumstances of his arrest; how it felt to stand before a judge with his wrists and ankles chained; and the internal struggle he experienced while being transported to the place he would call home for the next 100 days. On the extended episode, Paul describes the fascinating and frightening intake process. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/60114900

Why We Turned Down a Reality Show: Part 2 Dec 13, 2021

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Matthew and Paul continue their conversation about Reality TV, specifically the series upon which they were offered major roles. Matthew describes the premise of the show and whether he believed a show about “ethical non monogamy” would harm his marriage, while Paul describes the complicated feelings of being chosen for the show. On the full bonus episode Mathew and Paul explain how and why they ultimately turned down the offer. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/59848812

Why We Turned Down a Reality Show: Part 1 Dec 06, 2021

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Matthew and Paul were recently offered a reality show on a major streaming platform, and on today’s bonus episode they reveal the premise of the show and why they turned it down. But first, Matthew describes his experience on Germany’s Got Talent in 2017, while Paul discusses his audition for The Real World when he was in college. To access the bonus episode, join the His and His family here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/59571937

Talk Therapy (Revisited) Nov 29, 2021

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Matthew and Paul revisit their first discussion about talk therapy. Paul remembers his first therapy session in a church basement, while Matthew describes how Dialectic Behavior Therapy changed his life after leaving the cult. Matthew and Paul also discuss their discovery of Lifespan Integration Therapy and how it allowed them to heal from past traumas. On the new extended episode, Matthew gives an update on his therapy journey and Paul reveals the key reason he recently switched therapists. Listen here https://www.patreon.com/posts/59257393

Six Things You Should Be Doing Right Now to Land Your Man Nov 22, 2021

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Matthew and Paul are discussing online dating profiles. Matthew reveals the one thing about Paul’s Grindr profile that really got his attention, while Paul explains why Matthew’s “consistency” was the key to their first meeting. On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul reveal what they disliked about each other’s dating profiles (and how they almost became deal breakers). Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/58990829/

Life Update: Covid, Canines, and Christmas Nov 15, 2021

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Matthew and Paul are sick with Covid-19. Matthew describes the worst of his symptoms, while Paul reveals his opinion on booster shots. Matthew and Paul also discuss their first week home with Mr. Maple, Paul’s new guide dog. On the extended episode, Matthew and Paul open up about the current state of their family relationships and who they plan to see this holiday season. Listen here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/58741016

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