Matthew and Paul

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Ask Me Anything: Grey, Pink, and White Lies Jan 04, 2021

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Matthew and Paul are answering questions from the His and His Family on Patreon. Matthew explains the difference between a white lie and a grey lie, while Paul reveals what he’s least proud about in the gay community. To find out what Matthew and Paul deem “unforgivable” in a relationship, join the His and His Family on Patreon and get access to all the extended episodes here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/45779044

The Art of Being Needy with Corey Lay Dec 28, 2020

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Matthew and Paul continue their conversation with reality star Corey Lay, who was recently featured on the HBO Max dating series “12 Dates of Christmas”. Corey describes his heightened emotional journey on the show, and explains why being “needy” isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Corey also speaks candidly about his fear of rejection, and the challenges faced by gay Black men. Listen to the extended episode where Corey explains what it feels like to be rejected by the Black community for being gay, and from the gay community for being Black: https://www.patreon.com/posts/45506178

Dating and Vulnerability with Corey Lay Dec 21, 2020

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Matthew and Paul are joined by Corey Lay, co-star of the holiday themed dating series “12 Dates of Christmas” currently streaming on HBO Max. Corey speaks candidly about coming out as gay at age 14, redefining masculinity, and dating with emotional honesty. In the extended episode, Corey reveals why he has never introduced a boyfriend to his family. Get the super-sized episode here: http://bit.ly/HisandHisSupersized Read Corey’s essay on Reality Blurred: http://bit.ly/CoreyLayEssay

Our Wedding Day: Setting Suns and Sweaty Buns Dec 14, 2020

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This week, on their one-year wedding anniversary, Matthew and Paul reflect on the day they became husbands. Matthew reveals the one thing that stressed him out the most, while Paul recounts a moment that left everyone in tears. To hear the extended episode of this podcast, consider supporting His and His on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

How to Plan a Gay Wedding Dec 07, 2020

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Matthew and Paul discuss the details of their own wedding planning process. Matthew explains why he didn’t want a traditional ceremony, and Paul reveals how they decided on a destination wedding. Learn more about “Casa Arcoiris” in Zihuatanejo: https://www.casaarcoiriszihuatanejo.com If you would like to be part of our first His and His Livestream video episode, sign up to our Patreon Page today: https://Patreon.com/hisandhis

Ask Me Anything: How Do You Keep it Interesting? Nov 30, 2020

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On this Ask Me Anything episode, Matthew discusses the challenges of maintaining relationships with ultra-religious family members, while Paul explains how flirting keeps a marriage interesting. On this extended episode Matthew and Paul reveal how they keep things romantic: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

Public Displays of Affection Nov 23, 2020

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Matthew and Paul discuss the pleasures and perils of showing PDA as a gay couple. They discuss the kinds of things straight couples might take for granted, as well as the dangers of opening a gay man’s phone. To listen to this entire episode and get instant access to the bonus episode library visit: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-pda-pecs-35443879

Most Embarrassing Dates Nov 16, 2020

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Matthew and Paul discuss the most embarrassing moments from the beginning of their relationship. Paul shares a cautionary story about food poisoning and flatulence, while Matthew explains how an embarrassing moment led to 20 million views on YouTube. If you would like to be part of our first His and His Livestream video episode, sign up to our Patreon Page today: https://Patreon.com/hisandhis

Coming Out vs. Being Outed Nov 09, 2020

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Matthew and Paul are discussing the difference between coming out as gay, and being outed by another person. Paul reveals a time he was outed by a vindictive ex in High School, while Matthew explains why the coming out process is a continuous one. If you would like to be part of our first His and His Livestream video episode, sign up to our Patreon Page today: https://Patreon.com/hisandhis

Homophobia: Past and Present Oct 26, 2020

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Matthew and Paul discuss homophobia both through the lens of their childhood and their present realities. Matthew describes the time a straight man paid him a very unusual compliment, while Paul reveals the perils of being sexually attracted to his high school bullies. Matthew and Paul also tackle the issue of homophobia within the gay community. Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

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