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6: What Do I Do If My Wife Doesn’t Trust Me? May 25, 2020

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As crazy as it sounds, it's not uncommon for trust to be broken within a marriage and the husband not even realize it. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn are joined by FamilyLife Today co-host Ann Wilson to offer hope and wise counsel for couples needing to restore trust between them.
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For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
Check out Dave and Ann Wilson's Vertical Marriage Study. https://www.familylife.com/verticalmarriagestudy/
Ready to get away with your spouse for the weekend and invest in your marriage? https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/
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5: Why Does She Ask The Deep Questions At 11pm At Night? May 22, 2020

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Have you ever wondered why, just when your mind is shutting down for the night, your wife's mind seems to be just getting started? Married with Benefits host Brian Goins, along with Harvard trained researcher Shaunti Feldhahn, discuss this and reveal a simple truth that explains so much about your wife. And they offer 3 steps you can take to navigate this late-night impasse.
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For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
If you have a heart for families in your community, and want to see your marriage make a difference in the world, check out FamilyLife Local. https://www.familylife.com/local/
Dr. Gary Chapman and Ron Deal join together in this book to teach you how the five love languages can help your blended family. https://www.5lovelanguages.com/book/building-love-together-in-blended-families/
For more great Ron Deal resources, check out FamilyLife Blended. https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/about/
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4: Why Can’t My Wife Land The Plane In Conversations? May 22, 2020

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Husbands, do you get tired head in conversations with your wife as she circles the airport but never lands the plane? Listen as Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn demystify this very common frustration. Understand the brain science behind these exchanges and, more importantly, learn two easy ways to start winning in these moments as the hero of her heart.
Show Notes and Resources

For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
Sign up for the "I Do Every Day" devotional series. https://www.familylife.com/ido/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/
Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like Married With Benefits™. https://donate.familylife.com/married-with-benefits/

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3: How Important Is My Physical Appearance to Her Desire of Me? May 22, 2020

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Your wife can't really be attracted to your "dad bod" right? A lot of guys assume they need to be workout warriors to be desiraable, but the reality is that a trip to the doctor is probably way more attractive to your wife than another tip to the gym. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn offer husbands two tips for taking care of yourself, and one question you can ask that your wife will find irresistible.
Show Notes and Resources

For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
"Achieving a ‘Dad Bod’: Try This Hilarious 21-Day Guide" by David Tate. https://www.rd.com/funny-stuff/how-to-get-a-dad-bod/
"When Sinners Say 'I Do': Discovering the Power of the Gospel for Marriage" by Dave Harvey. https://www.amazon.com/When-Sinners-Say-Do-Discovering/dp/0976758261
For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn. https://shop.familylife.com/product/for-men-only-revised-and-updated/
Looking to getaway with your spouse? Check out our 2021 Love Like You Mean It Cruise. https://www.lovelikeyoumeanitcruise.com/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/
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Bonus B: Top 5 All-Star Moves – You got this! May 22, 2020

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In episode 2.1 you heard the top 5 "rookie mistakes" of husbands who want more sex with their wives. Now learn from host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn your top 5 "all-star moves." You got this!

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For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
For more from Dr. Juli Slattery, visit https://www.authenticintimacy.com/.
Sign up for the "I Do Every Day" devotional series. https://www.familylife.com/ido/
Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like Married With Benefits™. https://donate.familylife.com/married-with-benefits/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

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Bonus A: Top 5 Rookie Mistakes – Come on man! May 22, 2020

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In episode 2, we were joined by Dr. Juli Slattery, co-founder and President of Authentic Intimacy, to dive deep into the question, "Why can't my wife focus more on sex." Here, host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn keep it simple as they offer a quick-hit list of the top 5 rookie mistakes of husbands who just want more sex with their wife. Husbands, if you find yourself relating to any of these rookie mistakes...Come on man!

Show Notes and Resources

For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
For more from Dr. Juli Slattery, visit https://www.authenticintimacy.com/.
Sign up for the "I Do Every Day" devotional series. https://www.familylife.com/ido/
Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like Married With Benefits™. https://donate.familylife.com/married-with-benefits/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

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2: Why Can’t My Wife Focus More On Sex? May 22, 2020

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Husbands often ask, "Why can't my wife focus more on sex?" Dr. Juli Slattery, co-founder and President of Authentic Intimacy, joins host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn to answer this important question. Learn how most women are wired sexually; Hint: it's not what you think. Find out how to answer her #1 question and meet her #1 need. Discover why, if God's design seems complicated and frustrating, that's actually a good thing for you and your marriage.
Show Notes and Resources

For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
For more from Dr. Juli Slattery, visit https://www.authenticintimacy.com/.
Sign up for the "I Do Every Day" devotional series. https://www.familylife.com/ido/
For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn. https://www.familylife.com/podcast/married-with-benefits/2-why-cant-my-wife-focus-more-on-sex/
For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn. https://shop.familylife.com/product/for-women-only-revised-and-updated/
25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex and Intimacy by Juli Slattery. https://shop.familylife.com/product/25-questions-youre-afraid-to-ask-about-love-sex-and-intimacy/
Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like Married With Benefits™. https://donate.familylife.com/married-with-benefits/

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1: How Long Until My Wife Believes She’s Beautiful? May 22, 2020

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Research shows that many women struggle with hidden insecurities and find it difficult to believe that their own husbands see them as beautiful. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn explain what drives a woman's feelings of inadequacy. They explain what to do and what not to do to overcome her fears in love. Discover practical ways to put her heart at ease and prove how much you truly do delight in your wife.

Show Notes and Resources

For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com
Sign up for the "I Do Every Day" devotional series. https://www.familylife.com/ido/
Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like Married With Benefits™. https://donate.familylife.com/married-with-benefits/

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15: Season Finale – Live Women’s Conference Speed Round Sep 30, 2019

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Season one of "Married With Benefits" comes to a close in glorious, speed-round fashion as Brian Goins, alongside Shaunti Feldhahn, enters the arena like a gladiator and fields rapid-fire questions live from a women's conference crowd of over 1000. "Why can't my husband multitask?" "Why does he flip channels so fast?" "Why does he go run errands and vanish?" The questions came fast (and sometimes furious), but Brian and Shaunti were up to the task. Find out if your burning question made the show.
Show Notes and Resources

Learn more about upcoming Aspire Women's Events. https://aspirewomensevents.com/
More from Shaunti Feldhahn at Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

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14: Why Doesn’t My Marriage Look Anything Like a Hallmark Movie? Sep 24, 2019

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No, your husband doesn't act like those guys in the Hallmark movies. Not even close. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain why that's by God's design and why it's actually a good thing for you and for your marriage. Don't worry, it doesn't mean you need to cut the Hallmark channel. In fact, there are three ways those movies can make you love your normal, real-life husband even more than you already do!
Show Notes and Resources

More from Shaunti Feldhahn at Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com/
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

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