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Marriage Lab — Relationships
Marriage Lab

Aaron and Jenna have been married for over a decade and love talking to people about their relationships, the messiness, the struggle and the victories in all of it. If you’re married or planning on it, you can expect 1) Tools for the growth of your marriage and you personally 2) Hope for a healthy marriage no matter what you’ve experienced up to this point 3) Laughter and comfort when you say, “That’s totally us!” and “We’ve been there!”

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Latest Episodes:

Can you put sex on the calendar? Oct 03, 2025

Please don't listen with your kids.

Our case for scheduling sex.

When life gets full—kids, work, ministry, and the endless to-do list—intimacy is often the first thing to slip through the cracks. We’re told sex should always be spontaneous, but in real marriages that can leave couples disconnected and frustrated.

In this episode, we talk honestly about scheduling sex—why it isn’t cold or unromantic, but actually a powerful way to prioritize each other. We’ll unpack the myths around spontaneity, share how intentional rhythms can actually increase desire and connection, and give you practical tools for creating space for intimacy without guilt, pressure, or shame.

If you’ve ever felt like the busyness of life is crowding out closeness, this conversation will help you reframe intimacy as something worth planning for—because a thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident.

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When teasing turns toxic: scoffs & sarcasm- the slow drip of contempt Sep 26, 2025

We all scoff. We all slip into sarcasm.

But what if those “little” habits aren’t as harmless as they seem? Research from the Gottman Institute shows that contempt — often disguised as casual teasing — is the single strongest predictor of death to connection (aka: divorce)

Scoffing, sarcasm, and eye-rolling may feel small in the moment, but they send powerful messages of superiority, dismissal, and disrespect.

In this episode, we unpack how these micro-habits of contempt impact the brain, erode safety, and poison connection in marriage. You’ll hear real-life examples of how scoffing and sarcasm sneak into everyday conversations, what’s really hiding underneath those jabs (hint: it’s often unspoken pain), and practical ways to replace contempt with curiosity and vulnerability.

If you’ve ever said, “Oh, we’re just teasing,” this episode will help you see why even a few “drops of poison” can contaminate the well of your relationship — and how to choose a healthier, more life-giving way forward.

We are giving you a 30 day Challenge: Weed out scoffing & sarcasm from your dialogue. See what a difference it makes. (Remember: don't use this challenge to start tallying how often your partner uses them- mind your half of the yard only :)

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Steps to Move From Rumination > to > Processing Sep 19, 2025

Last time we talked about ruminating vs. processing.

This week, I’m walking you through the how—practical steps to move through pain even if the other person doesn’t respond well.

Here’s the framework:

Notice your looping → instead, name the feeling
Untangle your worth from their behavior
Remind yourself: I can be okay even if…
Stay rooted in your power—choose your next step

Looping keeps you stuck, but processing sets you free.

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Ruminating vs Processing Sep 11, 2025

Can you tell the difference between when your emotions are hijacking you & when they're helping you?

Noticing and expressing our emotions is a good thing. In fact, it’s vital for a healthy marriage. But there’s a thin line between naming our emotions and over-identifying with them. That’s where we slip into rumination—looping on the hurt, replaying the offense, and assigning meaning that keeps us stuck.

In this episode, we explore the difference between processing your emotions and looping on them. We’ll look at how the brain responds when you over-identify with a painful feeling, why that keeps you in the spin cycle of stress, and how to shift toward processing in a way that actually heals and moves you forward.

You’ll learn:

Why emotions are valuable signals, but sketchy narrators when you over-identify with them
How looping recycles pain, while processing frees you—even if your spouse doesn’t respond the way you hoped
The simple truth of “Looping hurts me. Processing heals me.”

This episode is all about reclaiming the gift of emotion—without letting it hijack your peace.

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The Do's & Don'ts of Processing w/ Your Spouse Aug 28, 2025

In this episode of Marriage Lab, Erin and Jenna dive into the do’s and don’ts of processing with your spouse—how to share what’s on your heart in a way that invites care instead of conflict. From everyday recaps to high-stakes conversations, they unpack why intentionality matters, how to check for capacity, and why leading with emotions creates connection. Along the way, they share practical “dos” like focusing on feelings, clarifying expectations, and processing elsewhere first—and the “don’ts” that can derail intimacy, like dumping endless details, seeking commiseration, or winging it in painful moments. They also illustrate how hope, grace, and the Holy Spirit are essential for real transformation in communication and marriage.

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Are you forgiving wrong? Aug 05, 2025

Think you’ve forgiven… but still feel stuck? You’re not alone.
Most of us were never taught what real forgiveness looks like—just the performance of it.
Say a prayer. Say the words. Move on.
Except… we don’t.

This episode will shift your view of forgiveness from a moment to a movement—one that actually sets you free.

👇 We’ll cover:
• The sneaky ways we fake forgiveness (without knowing it)
• 6 reflection questions to assess where you really are
• Tiny habits that rewire your brain + soften your heart
• Why peace ≠ emotional distance
• And how to know you’re actually healing

This isn’t about excusing anyone.
It’s about refusing to let bitterness narrate your future.

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When Pain Feels Like an Identity Attack Jul 14, 2025

Some pain cuts deeper than others—not because it hurts more, but because it feels true. In this episode, we unpack the kind of pain that doesn’t just bruise your feelings, it hits your identity.

We explore three subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways this happens:
• When someone says it outright
• When they imply it
• When you infer it

And then the spiral begins:
– You feel like you have to prove your worth
– You obsess over how they see you
– You shut down, because it felt like a verdict, not just a comment

🔍 We’ll challenge the dangerous trap of letting broken people vote on your value.
💡 And we’ll offer truth that anchors your identity in something unshakeable:

“Your identity is untouchable. It’s not theirs to name—it’s already spoken by the One who made you.”

If you've ever felt like someone else's opinion rewrote your sense of self, this conversation is for you.

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When Pain spoils into offense Jul 07, 2025

Offense Isn’t Just Pain: It’s Pain + Pride

We often think being offended is just another form of hurt—but it’s more than that. Offense is what happens when pain gets tangled with pride. It’s the moment pain hardens into judgment, and we start to feel powerful… while quietly becoming more closed off.

In this episode, we unpack how offense feels like a defense mechanism—but actually keeps us stuck. You’ll learn how offense hijacks your brain’s ability to heal, why it loops like a highlight reel of your rightness, and what that reveals about identity, humility, and emotional maturity.

You’ll hear real-life phrases that often sound self-protective (“I’m not mad, just done”) but are often signs of unchecked offense.

You’ll also get a practical self-reflection tool to help you “spot the offense” and re-center on humility.

Offense might feel like strength—but humility is where the healing begins.

You’ll walk away with:
- A breakdown of how offense affects your brain
- Examples of what offense sounds like in everyday language
- Questions to examine whether you’re stuck in an offense loop
- Clarity on the difference between healthy boundaries and prideful withdrawal

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Special Episode: Moved by Love: the secret to sharing Jesus Jun 29, 2025

What if evangelism wasn’t about striving—but about overflow?

In this special episode, I sit down with a few of my friends fresh off a missions trip to unpack what actually cracked the code for us when it came to sharing Jesus.

Spoiler: it wasn’t a strategy—it was being so connected to the Father’s heart that love naturally led the way.

We talk about what surprised us, what challenged us, and how everyday evangelism becomes possible when we’re moved—not pressured—by love.

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Passivity isn't a fruit of the spirit Jun 22, 2025

What if the “peace” you’re protecting in your marriage… is actually costing you real connection?

In this episode, we’re unpacking how passivity can disguise itself as love—especially in Christian marriages. We’ve seen it in our own relationship: moments when silence looked like patience, but it was actually fear. Times when we avoided conflict, convinced we were being kind or godly, but bitterness was the fruit.

We explore:

Why passivity is not the same as peacekeeping
How we can accidentally mislabel people-pleasing & call it love
Why stuffing your voice for the sake of love can slowly erode intimacy

3 self-reflection questions :

💭 Is there a situation where I told myself I was “loving” or “being patient”… but now I feel resentful, bitter, or shut down?

💭 Where am I avoiding action, conversation, or boundaries because I’m afraid of how someone will react?

💭 Am I hoping someone else will just “get it” or change, while I silently keep score or build a case in my head?

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Date Fail Debrief: Control Freak & Shut Down Jun 16, 2025

What do you get when you mix a paddleboard, high expectations, and two humans with emotions?
Definitely not the relaxing date we envisioned. But maybe... a deeper kind of win?

This was not our best date… but maybe it was one of our best recoveries.

We went on a paddleboard date thinking it’d be relaxing and fun—but being stuck on the same board triggered us both in different ways.

Instead of letting the day spiral, we each practiced managing our own emotions without blaming the other.

It wasn’t a romantic home run, but it was a huge sign of growth. In this episode, we talk about how emotional flooding can happen even in fun moments—and how the real win is learning to stay connected while dysregulated.

Because the goal isn’t to never get triggered—it’s to grow in how you show up when you are.

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You, Me &… Nobody Else?- isolation in marriage May 30, 2025

In this episode, we’re tackling a subtle but serious issue in marriage: isolation.

What happens when your spouse becomes your only source of connection?
Spoiler: it doesn’t lead to thriving.

We talk about:

Why consistent, same-gender friendships are crucial—especially for accountability, encouragement, and emotional health
How couples slowly drift into “island mode” without realizing it
The specific ways isolation often impacts men vs. women
Why expecting your spouse to meet all your relational needs (outside of Jesus) is too heavy—and how to shift that dynamic

If you’ve been feeling disconnected or overly dependent on your spouse for all of your emotional or spiritual needs, this episode is your invitation to make a gentle, healthy change.

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16 Questions for your next date night May 22, 2025

🎉 It’s our 16th anniversary, and apparently our marriage is now old enough to get its driver’s license. 😅

But let’s be real—
Even after 16 years, date night convo doesn’t always flow naturally (especially when we’re tired or parenting has fried our brains).

So we decided to change that.

💬 In this episode, we:

Answer 16 intentional + fun questions—one for each year we’ve been married
Share laughs, real talk, and a few surprise answers
Invite you to ask the same questions on your next date night

📝 Want the full list of questions to try with your spouse?
Download the free Google Doc here 👉 [Click here]

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Slow Miracles May 13, 2025

Not all breakthroughs come in a flash. In this episode, we talk about the kind of transformation that happens slowly—over months or even years. The kind you don’t always see until you look back and realize, we’re not where we used to be.

We fully believe in sudden miracles. We’ve seen God move in dramatic ways.
But in our own marriage, most of the lasting change has come through showing up when things felt stuck… choosing connection in the face of apathy… and staying present when it would’ve been easier to pull away.

If you’re in a season where growth feels slow or invisible, this one’s for you.

You might be in the middle of a miracle—you just haven’t seen the fruit yet.

Call to Action:
If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend or tag us on Instagram @zintmarriagelab.

And if you’re walking through a slow season in your marriage, check out our coaching options at zintsquad.com—we’d love to support you.

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Welcome back, now what? Apr 24, 2025

In this episode, we talk about the often-overlooked rhythm of re-entry—what it looks like when one spouse returns from a trip and the home dynamic shifts again.

We share how we’ve learned to treat that adjustment period with extra care, tweak our habits, and give each other grace instead of expecting a seamless snap-back to normal.

If you’ve ever had a rocky re-entry, this one’s for you.

You just might walk away with a few new habits to try next time one of you heads out on a solo trip.

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Avoiding Birthday Blues & Blowouts Mar 15, 2025

Birthdays—love them or dread them, they can be a surprisingly tense topic in marriage. 🎂 From unspoken expectations to last-minute letdowns, these special days often carry more emotional weight than we realize. In this episode, we’re diving into the highs and lows of celebrating birthdays with your spouse, sharing our own birthday wins and major misses over the years.

You’ll hear about:
✅ The silent pressure & expectations that often ruin birthdays
✅ Why no one should be the designated party planner for life 🎉
✅ How to openly communicate what you actually want for your birthday (without disappointment)
✅ A simple habit that can transform how you and your spouse handle celebrations

If birthdays have ever felt like a minefield in your marriage, this episode is for you! Plus, we share some funny personal stories—including the time Aaron got Christmas-colored storage bins for Jenna as a birthday gift. 😬

Listen in and learn how to make birthdays a joy instead of a battle!

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You're Blocking Your Own Connection (Without Even Realizing It) Mar 09, 2025

In this episode, we’re tackling the hidden ways we sabotage our own connection in marriage—especially when we expect our spouse to read our minds. No matter what it is, waiting for them to magically meet our unspoken needs is a passive approach that creates distance instead of intimacy. We’ll explore why taking the risk to express what we truly need leads to deeper belonging, even when it feels vulnerable. Join us as we break down how to move past the fear of rejection and start building the connection you actually want.

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Internal vs External Processing Styles Feb 15, 2025

In this episode, we talk about our respective styles of processing how we are feeling. Aaron is an external processor, needing to externalize what's he's feeling in order to understand it. Jenna is an internal processor, needing time to internally mull over what she's feeling in order to understand it. These two different styles can make conflict unnecessarily difficult unless you know how to work with them. We'll share the growth paths for each to avoid the common pitfalls in relationship.

Links from episode:

Attachment Styles Episode

That's What She Said Tool Episode

Core Emotion Wheel

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The Compassion Cup vs. The Identity Cup: A Marriage Game-Changer Feb 06, 2025

In this episode, we continue our conversation about changing how we show up in conflict by focusing on the choice we have in how we respond to our spouse’s pain. When your spouse shares hurt, are you holding out your compassion cup, or are you holding out your identity cup? We explore how defensiveness often signals that we’re interpreting their pain through the lens of our own identity and fears, rather than listening with genuine compassion. The truth is, we can only find our identity in God, not in how our spouse’s emotions reflect on us. Tune in as we discuss how to let go of defensiveness, embrace vulnerability, and choose compassion in the midst of conflict to build a stronger, more loving connection.

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Ditch the "Courtroom" tactics in conflict Jan 25, 2025

Most people use Courtroom tactic when in conflict in their marriage or in other relationships.
In this episode we unpack why this strategy is ineffective for real transformation. We get stuck "lawyering up" and end up adding pain to the initial incident.
In this episode, we talk about where the real power is for transforming your marriage. It's found in the counter-intuitive grace and mercy in the Kingdom and out of the courtroom.
Do you really believe The Kingdom Jesus pitched in the sermon on the mount- has the power He claimed? If so- why are we not ditching our worldly attempts at navigating conflict for the upgrade that's available to us!

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What to do when your spouse is triggered Jan 14, 2025

This episode is the third in a series on being triggered. So what do we do when our spouse is triggered? Well, we certainly don't tell them they're triggered. That never helps. Instead we get to offer our own peace and calm as we approach them with curiosity and compassion. And when we know we won't have that available to give, we use the "pause" that we would've agreed to back when we were both in a regulated state.
Link to Order of Operation Episode

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The Four Typical Triggered Responses Dec 30, 2024

Following up the last episode titled, "The Science of 'Triggered'", we talk about what the four most common triggered responses are (Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn), what they look like in action and ultimately what growth and healing looks like

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The Science of "Triggered" Dec 27, 2024

"Triggered" has become a buzzword in our culture in recent and it's been commonly used to describe an experience for which someone else is responsible and therefore someone else's responsibility to manage.
In this episode, we break down the science of what's happening physiologically when we get triggered and the truth about what we're invited to into when it happens, especially in relationship to our spouses.
Our self-awareness around our own triggered states is the first step to treating the people closest to us like Jesus would: in self-controlled, vulnerable love that is not full of connection-breaking self-protection.

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What You Feed Grows: how our small choices are creating big spiritual transformation Dec 17, 2024

In this episode we talk about how our connection with Jesus has grown and been shaped over the past year through small, consistent action.
How to Build a Bible Habit That Sticks! - Video
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Scientist vs Judge: Curiosity over Contempt Dec 03, 2024

In this episode we talk about one of the central tenets to experiencing life-long sustainable change both within yourself and within your relationships: learning to engage your inner scientist instead of your judge. The judge is your inner critic focusing on the results, casting judgement and contempt towards who you are based on your behavior. The scientist is your inner curiosity focusing on the variables, looking for creative solutions for the underlying reasons behind your behavior.
When we learn to choose curiosity over contempt, we find more solutions, but even better, we learn to engage ourselves and others with the kindness that God gives us that leads to sustainable change (Romans 2:4).

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Peaceful holiday plans for couples with different opinions Nov 25, 2024

In this episode we talk over how we intentionally plan for a peaceful holiday season when you both have different ideas about what that means. If you would like an assist in your planning grab a copy of Jenna's Peaceful Christmas Planner

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When Logic Turns to Emotion Nov 12, 2024

In this episode we discuss how often our logical conversations can turn into emotional ones and what to do when that happens.
Refer to our episode: How to stop fighting over stupid stuff
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The Best Way to be Heard by Your Spouse Nov 04, 2024

In this episode, we dive deep into the art of sharing pain with vulnerability and compassion. We also address the common challenge of feeling a deficit after sharing and how to turn to the Lord to fill those emotional gaps. This episode is packed with practical exercises and guidance to help you speak your pain effectively while maintaining love and connection in your relationship. Tune in for powerful strategies that can transform how you and your spouse communicate during difficult moments.
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The Successful Order of Navigating Conflict Oct 28, 2024

How many times has conflict in your marriage led to a huge blow up? One person starts off by trying to share their heart and an hour later you're both left with more hurt than where it started? There's a reason this happens. Most of the time it can be found when the order of operation is broken.
The order of operation in math states that to find the correct answer to an equation, you must know what order to solve it in. When our conflicts go awry, there was likely a break in the proper order which is as follows:
1. One person is the designated speaker (let's say they are the ones holding the proverbial "talking stick"). They share their pain
2. The other person is the designated listener (they are not holding the talking stick). Their sole responsibility is to validate and understand what they speaker is sharing.
3. When the speaker feels heard and understood, then and only then should the talking stick be passed. And it must be passed by the speaker, not taken by the listener.
In this episode we list the ways we commonly break the order of operation and leave the speaker feeling invalidated or unheard. See if you can recognize where you've broken the order so that you can catch it next time.

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Connection for Empty Nesters Oct 21, 2024

In this episode, we interview Jill & Mitch Martin who’ve been empty nesters for the past 7 years and what connection has looked like for them before and after their kids left the house.

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How to change the culture in your marriage Pt 2 Oct 07, 2024

In this episode we talk about the culture shifting power of apologies; offering them freely and frequently. This is different than fawning which is apologizing for anything and everything in an attempt to appease or placate. This also different than admitting guilt or wrongdoing. The kind of freely-given, frequent apologies we're talking about are those that begin with a recognition that my actions affect my spouse. And there are plenty of scenarios in a given day when I miss the mark. Not because I sinned or had ill-intent, but because I'm human. It's an exercise in radical ownership that my actions and words are powerful and even when they are pure-intentioned, they may affect someone in a way they weren't meant to. Offering frequent and freely-given apologies, nurtures empathy and tells your spouse, I care how I affect you.

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How to change the culture in your marriage Pt 1 Sep 30, 2024

This episode shares one of the simplest and yet most profound keys to changing the culture in your marriage. Gratitude. Now hear us out! We will share how gratitude provides one of the greatest ROI's in relationships, how we will face internal resistance to it, what it looks like to create practical habits and real life stories of it at work in our marriage.

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Change your marriage: what your spouse needs the most Sep 26, 2024

In this episode, Jenna and Aaron share the secret sauce to seeing change in your marriage. It's simpler than you think. Just more humbling.

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Is your spouse pushing your buttons? Conflict & Boundaries in Action Sep 23, 2024

In this episode, Jenna and Aaron talk through a conflict they had that morning. This particular one was not a new dynamic in their relationship and had created disconnection many times before. However, this time they successfully paused in dysregulation, intentionally moved towards connection and set some boundaries.
Main takeaways:

If your buttons are getting pushed, remember, they are your buttons and you are responsible for them
If you are the one unintentionally pushing buttons, it's not your fault that they have those buttons, but choose kindness and stop pushing
Boundaries are meant to protect the connection, not just yourself.
Pausing when you get highly dysregulated (read: triggered, highly emotional) can keep your conflict from becoming War (war = for there to be peace, only one person can be right or win; conflict = for there to be peace, two people can see it differently)
Nurturing fondness for your spouse through intentional gratitude can change your heart and lead to quicker connection when there is conflict

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Behind the Highlight Reel: not falling for comparison in social media Sep 16, 2024

In this episode we explore the pitfalls of comparing your spouse to others and the negative impact it can have on your relationship. This comparison can create feelings of judgment and inadequacy, leading to a decline in positive affection and increasing resentment. By idealizing other people's spouses, you set unrealistic expectations and can inadvertently foster a sense of longing or even lust for qualities that are not present in your partner. This pattern is dangerous for creating, healing or maintaining connection. The conversation emphasizes the importance of focusing on the positive attributes of your spouse and being mindful of how comparisons can erode the foundation of your relationship.

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Breaking Free from Passivity: Empowering Your Marriage with Intentional Action Sep 09, 2024

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Can passivity be the silent killer in your marriage? In this episode, Aaron and Jenna get real about their own struggles with passivity, sharing how ignoring, avoiding, or delaying discomfort led to feelings of being stuck. Through candid personal stories, they shed light on how this behavior can evolve into rationalizations and bitterness, affecting everything from relationships to personal growth. Aaron also provides insight into his upcoming online small group for porn recovery, where passivity is a common issue, while Jenna talks about managing her impulsive reactions and learning to take measured, thoughtful actions.

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Reconnecting Through the Everyday: Small Habits, Big Impact Sep 02, 2024

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In this episode of Marriage Lab, Aaron and Jenna dive into the realities of maintaining a strong connection in marriage, especially during transitions and busy seasons. They share personal stories and insights on how small, consistent habits can significantly impact a marriage's health. They discuss how even brief disconnects, like those experienced during family trips or shifts in routines, can affect a relationship. The couple emphasizes the importance of being intentional in creating connection points, even if they are as simple as a short morning walk or sitting together outside. They also address common issues such as one partner feeling like they are always the one initiating connection and how to shift perspectives to maintain a proactive and hopeful approach to fostering intimacy. The episode offers practical advice on finding small but meaningful ways to stay connected, advocating for consistency over grand gestures.

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Unmasking Defensiveness: Identify your protective patterns Aug 26, 2024

In this episode, we talk about our tells around defensiveness. What are the signs that we are becoming defensive as a listener, specifically when our spouse is sharing pain? Here are a few we identify within ourselves:

The desire to edit the details of what the other person is sharing
Interrupting the speaker
Judging the speakers thoughts and/or feelings
Feeling anger (frustration, annoyance)
Wanting to explain myself

These are signs that our defenses our up and our ears and empathy is off.
What are you tells around defensiveness?
Finally, we talk about what to do with that defensiveness. Explore what you are actually defending to find out what needs attention within yourself!

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Will my needs ever get met? w/ Jordan & Claire Aug 19, 2024

In this episode our good friends, Jordan and Claire, share with us how they each grew in the ability to care for each others needs despite the fear that their own would never get met. Jenna and I (Aaron), have done a number of Couples Coaching sessions with them in which we witnessed a masterful use of the communication tools in the midst of processing pain and feeling defensiveness.
They discuss how to properly validate, have compassion and help the other person feel seen and heard before passing "the talking stick". They also share how they've learned to ride the wave of defensiveness and triggers that inevitably happen when their spouse shares pain involving them.

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Control in Marriage Aug 12, 2024

It's been both our experience of ourselves and of many other marriages that we've coached, that there is one spouse who has a propensity towards Control. We define "control" as one person's attempt at manipulating the outcome through managing another person's actions.
In this episode, Jenna talks about how control shows up for her and what is happening on a deeper level, namely with fear. She lays out the growth path for those who are struggling with trying to control their spouse and the pitfalls that line that path. Aaron talks about his experience of being on the other end of control and the growth path for him out of victimhood and the false belief that anyone actually control you.

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4 tips to move out of "roommate mode" back into an intimate connection with your spouse Jul 19, 2024

In this episode the Zints share about 4 ways to move away from "Roommate mode" and back to intimate connection with your spouse. These include:

Sharing openly what you're experiencing without blaming (use emotion language and share about yourself, not the other person).
Be intentional with your connection time.
Express affection: small gestures of affection like holding, hands, hugging or complimenting each other
Get help. Your marriage shouldn't be lived in isolation. Bring others in for perspective, encouragement and even advice.

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Resentment vs Investment | What I wish I knew Part 3 Jun 13, 2024

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In this episode- Jenna & Aaron talk about how you can do the same thing but with a different motivation- and it can shift everything.
What is your motivation?
Are you telling yourself you are powerless & "have to do XYZ" because of your spouse?
That's your sign your feeding resentment.
What if you simply switched your self talk & looked at all the ways it was an investment? You'd then be empowering yourself to make a choice to do it vs feeling forced.
Choosing your motivation- is a key to maturity.
So what's your motivation?
Are you doing this out of feeling forced? That'll feed resentment.
Are you choosing to do this? That'll feed investment.
The choice is yours.
Only you can control yourself.

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Love Language User Error | What I Wish I Knew Pt 2 Jun 05, 2024

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Dr. Gary Chapman's Love Languages concept and consequent books revolutionized our understanding of how we communicate, hear and receive love, especially in marriage. It became a tool we used constantly to better understand ourselves and our spouse.
And, we commonly misused this tool as a way to better serve ourselves rather than its original intent: to love others better.
This is what we'd call a user error. When the concept of love languages gets weaponized as a measuring stick for how your spouse is failing you, you invite bitterness and resentment in.
At the end of our life, we don't give an account for how well our spouse loved us. We give an account for how well WE learned to love.

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Debunking "Don't go to bed angry" | What I Wish I Knew Pt 1 May 30, 2024

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Aaron and Jenna begin a series titled "What I wish I knew" sharing what they wish they'd learned early in marriage. This first part dives into the topic of "urgency." Most conflicts in the early stages of relationships feel urgent. They become very high stakes when they don't need to be. Why? Because it's possible to be connected even when there is no resolution to the problem.
This brings us to the scripture from Ephesians 4:26 "...Do not let the sun go down on your anger..." or more commonly stated, "Don't go to bed angry." This scripture has been used as fuel for the sense of urgency, causing many couples to stay up well into the night attempting to hash out their problems. And yet, we're well aware that two sleepy, dysregulated people are not effective communicators.
You might ask, "Are you saying that we should go ahead and go to bed angry?"
We're saying that going to bed without a solution is not the same thing as going to bed angry. We believe that that scripture is more about not letting resentment and bitterness continue to fester, than it is about feeling an emotion at a certain time of day.
It's possible to go to bed not having a solution and to be connected at the same time. Being connected is what pushes out bitterness and resentment and it's not synonymous with having resolution in conflict.

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Porn Addiction in Marriage Pt 3: the Spouse's Perspective May 08, 2024

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Laughter echoes through even our most challenging times, and this episode kicks off with a tale from a men's retreat that'll have you chuckling along with us. But as our conversation turns, we confront the shadows within marriage—specifically, the silent struggle of porn addiction. We open up about the emotional toll this addiction takes on the non-addicted spouse, illustrating the journey through feelings of betrayal to finding a path towards healing and understanding within the relationship.
Navigating the murky waters of shame and betrayal requires a delicate touch, and this episode doesn't shy away from the tough discussions. We explore the necessity of validating a hurt partner's feelings and the potential harm in concealing pain. Sharing our perspective, we stress the importance of choosing confidants wisely—those who can offer wisdom and hope—while avoiding the pitfalls of codependency and learning to let go of the illusion of control, allowing for true healing to begin.
Wrapping up, we impart strategies for coping with addiction within a marriage, focusing on the need for personal accountability and external support systems rather than relying solely on a partner for recovery. We dissect the complexities of the recovery journey, advocating for realistic expectations and personal peace regardless of a partner's progress. This episode isn't just about sharing our own experiences—it's about offering hope and practical advice for those walking this tough road alongside us.

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Porn in Marriage Pt 2: Understanding Porn Addiction May 01, 2024

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In this episode, Aaron talks about how most porn addictions start at a young age and are sustained through adulthood through cycles of isolation, passivity and pain. This episode is mostly geared towards those who don't have a porn addiction themselves but may be in relationship with someone who is.

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Porn in Marriage Pt 1: Three Unpopular Opinions About Porn Apr 14, 2024

3 Unpopular Opinions About Porn

Your porn use is not a reflection on your spouse. That is, it's not their fault
Porn is not your problem. Porn is the solution you've chosen to the real problem
You and God cannot fix this. It must be you and God and other people.

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How to Stop Fighting Over Stupid Stuff Apr 14, 2024

Have you ever said, "We got in a big fight about something so small and stupid!" It happens in every marriage when there is emotional pain behind a "small and stupid" logistical problem.
In this episode, Jenna and Aaron reverse engineer their fight about a toothbrusher charger and how something so small and stupid had the potential to create a lot of disconnection but didn't.

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Fairness: The Connection Killer Apr 07, 2024

Do you know what prolongs most conflict? The thing that keeps people stuck in disconnect? The pursuit of fairness.
Why? Because it hinders love itself. Jesus didn't model fairness in His life or sacrifice. He modeled sacrificial love.
Love, as Jesus modeled it, will transform your marriage.

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Deconstructing Gender Roles with Megan & Dalen Philp Mar 11, 2024

In this episode, our friends Megan and Dalen Philp (not Philips...woops sorry guys) share the hope they found in their marriage of 20 years after they began to deconstruct the gender roles that they'd held onto so inflexibly for so many years.

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10 Helpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain Mar 04, 2024

In this episode, we break down 10 helpful beliefs about sharing pain.
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7 Unhelpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain Feb 06, 2024

Jenna and Aaron share 7 unhelpful beliefs people have (they themselves used to have) about sharing pain with your spouse. Stay tuned for an episode on the helpful beliefs!
Here is a review of those 7 unhelpful beliefs:

Tell them everything I’m thinking
Reveal to them how they hurt me
Get them to see how they failed me
I can resolve my hurt by hearing an apology/admission of guilt
This is urgent. Don’t go to bed angry (two sleepy dysregulated people are horrible communicators)
The goal of conflict is to eliminate future pain or to become pain free
It’s a one and done. If we can have this convo long enough we will fix it once and for all

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Breakthrough IS Possible : w/ Anna & Alan Mullikin Jan 29, 2024

In this episode, we interview our friends Anna & Alan Mullikin who share about the breaking of a ten year cycle. We were so encouraged by their story and know that this testimony is for everyone who's felt hopeless in their own cycles of pain and hurt in their marriage. You can follow Anna at
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Pastoring a Church Together in Marriage w/ Joaquin & Renee Evans Jan 22, 2024

We interviewed our friends Joaquin and Renee Evans pastor a church called Bethel Austin in Austin, Texas. In this episode they share about what it requires of them to co-pastor a large church while staying connected in their marriage and in their family life.
They hit on:

Boundaries
Intentionality
Signs of disconnection
Time to get away just the two of them
Staying connected to mentors and peers

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Genuine Apologies in Marriage Jan 16, 2024

In a previous episode, we when into depth about no requiring an apology from your spouse when you felt hurt from them but rather focusing on sharing your heart in order to be known. This is one side of the coin for us. And an important one at that. The other side is that due to not requiring apologies from each other, we wind up giving way more genuine apologies than ever before.
In this episode, we talk about how the lack of requiring an apology from each other and the grace that accompanies that allows for genuine repentence and a desire to change in order to take better care of each other's heart. Isn't this the basis of Romans 2:4, that His kindness is meant to lead us to repentence and not his anger, guilt or shame? That's what He does for us and we want to be more like Him. This is one of the ways we do that.
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Forgiving Your Spouse Jan 03, 2024

Choosing a spouse is choosing the person you'd like to offer the most forgiveness to of anyone else over a lifetime. Why? Because the intimacy in marriage creates more opportunity for hurt than any other relationship. Therefore, to have a thriving marriage, we must lean into the heart of Jesus and forgive each other like He forgave us. Generously, for the big and the little trangresses, without measure.
Especially when we feel we've been hurt by our spouse so often or so deeply, it can feel like an injustice to offer forgiveness. It feels unfair. Like they don't deserve it. It feels like "healthy boundaries" to withhold it. And yet, Jesus showed us a better way. One that actually produces transformation. That way is forgiveness. It's part of what loving your spouse means and love never fails.
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Part of Me Feels...While Another Part Feels... Dec 11, 2023

Have you ever been trying to honestly explain what you're thinking or feeling and say the words "Part of me feels..." or "Part of me thinks..."? Most people do intuitively.
In this episode we talk about how to utilize this phrase into our communciation with our spouse to give the most accurate picture of what's happening inside of us. We also explore how this is used in therapy and how you can use it to bring more compassion and connection within yourself.
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Tools for Connection: Joy Memories & Appreciation Dec 06, 2023

In this episode we break down a couple tools for connecting with your spouse even when you're in the middle of conflict or have something unresolved between you both.
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Creating a Refreshing Weekend: what it means to truly rest with family Oct 28, 2023

Have you ever been looking forward to the weekend only to find that what was intended to be restful and relaxing, never actually filled you up? Have you ever headed back into your workweek feeling like you wasted an opportunity to take good care of yourself and your family?
We definitely have! In this episode, we talk about the shift that's happened in the last year that has transformed our weekends, especially with young kids, into times of true rest, rejuvination and connection.
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The Growth Path of Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles w/ Serena Angeli Oct 09, 2023

In this episode we talk with our friend Serena Angeli who has gone on her own journey around awareness, understanding and growing in her attachment style. Interestingly, she began her journey with an avoidant style and later with an anxious style. Jenna and I, Aaron, talk about how our avoidant and anxious styles, respectively, seem to perfectly trigger each other. Each of us talk about the growth paths we've identified for our specific styles.
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When Your Spouse is Stuck Sep 28, 2023

In this episode Aaron & Jenna talk about what to do when you feel like your spouse is stuck in life.

the common mindsets the pop up when you recognize your spouse is stuck
what to avoid
the best ways to help

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Creating Habits of Connection in Your Marriage with Autumn & Andrew Sep 18, 2023

In this episode we interview our friends Autumn and Andrew Elliott. They saw a major turn in their connection after some counseling revealed a need for a "baseline." This baseline served as their way to stay connected on the most basic level so that the small conflicts that used to tank them before were no longer pulling them down. Another possible name for this "baseline" are "connection habits." It was a few simple, basic habits they put in place that got them out of the red and to a good baseline from which they could get through the craziness of their schedules and find even deeper connection.
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Growing Individually to Grow Together w/ Ryan & Jessica Sep 11, 2023

In this episode, we interview our friends Ryan & Jessica Casey about how their individual journey's of growth, risk and healing contirbuted to their ability to connect as a couple.
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Crisis of Faith: my story of choosing God while uncertain Sep 01, 2023

In this extra vulnerable episode, Aaron shares his journey walking through a crisis of faith and Jenna shares her experience walking with him in it.
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Self-Compassion: Why it's necessary to live in wholeness Aug 17, 2023

In this episode, we talk about what self-compassion is, the importance of it and the impact of it in our lives. We both have our own journey learning we needed it and walking it out for ourselves. There is no finish line. It's an ongoing part of what makes it possible for us to not only love ourselves well, but to love each other, our kids and everyone else well.
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Habits of Health: Fitness in Marriage Jul 25, 2023

In this episode we dive into the habits of physical health that have been slowly but surely building in our lives over the past couple years. We share our journey about pain felt when one spouse is pursuing fitness and the other doesn't want to join. We also talk about ways to create life-long habits of health.
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Feeling Lonely in Household Chores Pt 2: Post Therapy Discoveries Jul 18, 2023

Jenna and I had a few therapy sessions which help shed some light on the triggers that came up in our last hard conversation. We begin to unpack those in this episode. It's not all resolved but we're still moving forward. Little bits of better over a long period of time.
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Feeling Lonely in Household Chores: Aaron & Jenna's Hard Conversation Pt 1 Jun 27, 2023

In this episode Jenna and Aaron share their recent conflict that is still not fully resolved, though they are staying connected in the midst of it. This conflict has surfaced many times throughout their marriage: Jenna feels lonely with the household chores, as well as family responsibilities and family connection; Aaron feels sad and fearful that he will never be able to do enough to help Jenna feel different.
This episode is a recap of how the recent series of conversations went. The connection was maintained throughout those conversations, even in the midst of the pain, because they chose to listen and not defend, pulling on their "They can be sad and it doesn't mean I'm bad," and "I can be sad and it doesn't mean they're bad," ideas.
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How to Vacation Well in Marriage Jun 22, 2023

Have you ever felt like you've "failed" at vacationing? Like the very thing you've been looking forward to for so long winds up disappointing or becoming even more disconnecting than normal life? Jenna and I (Aaron), have been here countless times in our decade and a half of marriage and in this episode we talk about what we've learned over that time that has helped shape our vacations into times of rest, rejuvination and reconnection.
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Navigating Friendships in Adulthood Pt 2 w/ Eli & Michelle (our besties) Jun 13, 2023

In this episode, Jenna and I (Aaron) invited our besties Eli Leedy and Michelle Thompson. This is our first interview with a non-couple. Eli is single (as of the release date......ladies) and Michelle is married. We've got at least 10 years of history with each of them individually and we've each experienced our share of highs and lows.
In this episode we answer these questions:

What's a painful situation we've had to navigate?
What is something we've had to grow in as friends?
What role does this friendship play in your life? What needs does our friendship not fill for you?

The wisdom and wit of these two is fantastic and we had so much fun in this conversation. Enjoy!

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Navigating Friendships in Adulthood Pt 1 Jun 07, 2023

I don't believe we have any children listening to our podcast, so I think it's safe to say, you are an adult and you fall into one of these categories:

You have great friends and would love to sustain them
You don't currently have many friends and want more
You have friends but would love more depth/time/fun

In this episode Jenna and I (Aaron) talk about our journey of navigating friendships in adulthood. This is a time in our lives when it requires a lot of intentionality to start, build and maintain good, deep friendships. We don't naturally see them everyday at school, we have jobs and a family and we are super busy. So what do we do to build them and what do we do to strengthen them? That's what we'll be hitting on in this episode.
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ADHD in Marriage: navigating differences in time management, memory recall and focus May 25, 2023

In this episode, Jenna shares what it's like having ADHD (attention deficit hyperactive disorder) and how the differences in her how brain works affects her ability to perceive time, the way she stores and retrieves information and how it affects her ability to focus. Aaron talks about what it's like being married to someone with ADHD and how to navigate it with grace.
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No Apology Needed: why vulnerably sharing doesn't require require an apology or change May 16, 2023

As we began to practice vulnerably sharing our hearts with each other, we found that we often ran into trouble when the listener would get defensive. So we started asking ourselves, what is it about the way I'm sharing my feelings that puts them on the defense?
We found defensiveness shows up strongest for these reasons:

Sometimes our "feelings" (read: emotions), are really disguised opinions, judgments or blame. For example, "I feel disrespected" is first of all, not an emotion at all, but a passive way of saying, "You disrespected me." Disrespecting someone is not as much as action as it is an intention of the heart. Of course someone would get defensive hearing that.
Even when we managed to perfectly Connection Code our way through the vulnerable share and use one of the 8 core emotions, we as the listener had to train ourselves with the new belief that, "I can connect with their 'sad' and it doesn't mean I'm bad." Basically that my spouse can be hurt by me or be in emotional pain because of me and it doesn't actually mean that I've done something wrong. Necessarily paired with this is the belief that we began training ourselves to take on as the speaker, which is, "I can be sad and it doesn't mean they are bad." My pain does not equal the guilt of another.
Finally, the heart of this episode. Because I'm feeling pain (read: sad, hurt, anger, fear, lonely, guilt or shame) that was triggered by my spouse, I'm going to share it with them, as I've learned holding it in breeds disconnection. However, I am not going to share this with them with the expectation/requirement that they apologize for causing me pain, nor am I going to expect/require they change their behavior.

This is where it's easy to lose people. "What do you mean they don't need to apologize?" I'm not actually suggesting there isn't something to apologize for. What I'm suggesting is that our attempts at vulnerability turn into subtle attempts at control when we follow our emotions with the expectation or requirement that the listener admit their guilt by saying, "I was wrong, forgive me." Furthermore, to require that someone change their behavior in order for me to be okay (read: not sad anymore, not alone anymore, not fearful anymore), is classically called co-dependence.
The good news is that hearing our spouse show up in true vulnerability inspires us to action. True vulnerability is the expression of our emotions that invites another to simply be with us in it. It's the act of getting known, not making demands. That place is one

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Stories of Life Change from the Habit Lab with Stacey & Tyler Cook Apr 17, 2023

Stacey Cook took Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course last semester and joins us with her husband to talk about the life change both she and he have experienced as a result of implementing (keyword) the tools learned from the course. In this episode you'll hear them talk about:

the transformation of debunking the all-or-nothing mentality
the power of processing emotion with regularity
how someone who is already disciplined and structure can find new life and connection using relational habits

The Cooks also share with us how they started implementing the "That's What She Said" tool from episode 18 and what it did for their relationship.
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Blame or Shame: The Nuances of Defensiveness Apr 03, 2023

In this episode, Jenna and Aaron talk about the nuances of defensiveness when two people are communicating pain. The biggest struggle in learning to express emotion on a regular basis has been the defensiveness that inevitably arises as the result of our partner sharing pain that we caused. Aaron shares that playing the role of the victim typically results in defensiveness that is blaming. "If I feel sad, then that means you are bad/guilty/wrong/etc." Jenna shares that playing the role of the rescuer typically results in defensiveness that is internally focused shame. "If you feel sad, then that means I am bad/guilty/wrong/etc."
They share the pathway to changing this unhelpful dynamic in bringing awareness to our styles of relating and then practicing through repetition, "I can connect to their sad and it doesn't mean I'm bad," or "I can be sad and it doesn't mean they are bad."
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Keeping Your Heart Soft in a Hard Conversation w/ Aaron & Jenna Feb 27, 2023

In this episode we talk about the difficulty and necessity of keeping your heart soft in the middle of a hard conversation. This is one of the most difficult things to do when you are triggered, but it's the only path to connection in conflict. Jenna describes our recent car-buying experience and all of the strong emotion that arose with it and how she navigated the difficulty of it while keeping her heart soft. Aaron had his own work to do in the midst of it to keep his own heart soft.
Your situation may not have been the same but you'll probably be able to relate.
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That's What She Said: a tool for regulating by telling yourself a better story w/ Jenna & Aaron Feb 20, 2023

In this episode, we review a tool Jenna created (and Aaron named) called That's What She Said. It's a tool for when you're dysregulated because of something your spouse said. Wives, feel free to change it to That's What He Said. Aaron shares how he used this tool a couple times recently around their sex life. You can do this by yourself (self-regulating) or with another person (co-regulating). Here is the gist of the tool.

Write down what he/she actually said (the literal words).
Write down what you heard them say. This is commonly referred to as the story we are telling ourselves.
Write down a different story that casts the other person in a positive light, giving them the benefit of the doubt and thinking the best of what they actually meant. If the literal words are unkind such as "You are the worst," then the story you are going to tell yourself in this step is how those words really aren't about you but are about pain they are experiencing.

The point of this exercise is to recognize when we are dysregulated not because of what they said but because of our imaginary ability to read someone's mind and determine their motives and hidden messages. We all think we're really good at this and some Christians may even label this as "discernment." However, the fruit of this "knowing" of ours is so full of disconnection, that we have an opportunity to question our stories and to write better ones.
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From Volatile to Vulnerable w/ Chris and Morgan Nicholson Feb 13, 2023

We had our friends Morgan & Chris Nicholson on to talk about how they went from a volatile first few years of marriage to a thriving couple today. They share their experience of years of disconnection and hurt and the transformation that came from bringing others into their process and taking ownership for making change within themselves individually.
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Pursuing Dreams in Marriage w/ Sam & Rebekah LaRobardiere Feb 07, 2023

This week we interview our friends Sam & Rebecca LaRobardiere. Sam owns a local award-winning coffee shop and roastery called Theory. Rebecca is a certified Sex Coach. Both of these pursuits happened during marriage with young kids. We watched as they both pursued the dreams that were on their heart while maintaining connection with each other and as a family. As they share in this episode, it was done perfectly and they learned a lot along the way.
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Loving on Purpose: Connection, Communication & Boundaries w/ Danny & Sheri Silk Jan 30, 2023

Danny and Sheri Silk are the creators of the organization Loving on Purpose which is a resource for people who want relationships that are full of hope, solid communication skills and ultimately a loving connection. They have classes, courses, teachings, books and resources for better marriages, parenting and relationships in general. Danny has written multiple life-changing books including Unpunishable, Culture of Honor, Loving Our Kids on Purpose, Powerful & Free, and Keep Your Love On as well as having co-authored numerous others. He and his daughter Brittany host the KYLO Show podcast, KYLO standing for Keep Your Love On.

Danny and Sheri were pastors at Bethel church for many years and were our first introduction to what it meant to live an emotionally intelligent and relationally connected life. They were and continue to be transformational in both of our lives. Danny even wrote an endorsement for my book Numb to Known which was incredibly generous of him. Please check out their website when you get a chance LovingOnPurpose.com.

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Connection Codes: Processing Sexual Emotion with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill Jan 24, 2023

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We are excited to have Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill back on the podcast to talk about Sex! The Hills are the creators of the Connection Codes which has changed thousands of lives in helping couples and individuals alike understand how they are wired (coded) to connect with others through the processing and sharing of emotion. Jenna and I have been specifically impacted by their teaching and guidance as it has come to influence just about everything in our lives.
In this episode, we talk about Valentine's Day coming up in a few weeks and how much pressure and expectation can be put on this day especially for couples around the area of sex and romance.
Our sexual connection as married couples can be rife with hurt, sadness, fear or shame. If that feels true for you, notice how each of those are core emotions. If they are felt, they need to be processed with your partner in order to create connection and mend disconnection. In this episode, we dive into what that looks like and the benefits of processing sexual emotion in your relationship.
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The Obstacles & Practice of Vulnerability w/ Aaron & Jenna Jan 16, 2023

In this episode, Jenna and Aaron take some time to define vulnerability and talk about what it looks like to practice vulnerability in relationships. Vulnerability is the act of revealing your internal world to another person, giving them access to affect you. This act is inherently risky but it is the only way to invite safety into the relationship. They also dive into the common obstacles to practicing vulnerability.
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Intentional Movement into Change, Growth & the Unknown w/ Aaron & Jenna Dec 30, 2022

Jenna and Aaron review the growth and change in 2022 and discuss the keys to moving into the new year that is sustainable. Rather than attempting to change the parts of ourselves we don't like, we can attempt to love ourselves in those areas and experience the change we wanted all along.
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Undoing Passivity in Marriage w/ Derek & Becky Johnson Dec 20, 2022

Derek and Becky Johnson, pastors at Jesus Culture Sacramento, join us in this episode. They talk about Derek being a stay at home dad while Becky worked, what it was like when they began to work together (Becky as the Executive Pastor and Derek as the Worship Pastor), and then when Derek began to undo passivity in his life in a way that was disruptive to their normal but ultimately great for their marriage.

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I can be in pain & no one is to blame w/ Jenna & Aaron Dec 13, 2022

In this episode, Aaron shares a recent experience of some painful emotions piling up and that even though other people, like Jenna, were part of the triggers, none of them were to blame. Furthermore, the fact that Aaron had some irrational beliefs were no reason to shut down what he was feeling. Some key points from this processing were:

We can be in pain and no one is to blame
Your emotions don't have to be rational to be valid. They just need to be felt
The best way to address painful emotions is to process them with others

Lastly, Aaron & Jenna discuss the upcoming Christmas holiday and how to prepare yourself emotionally and mentally to be full of intentionality when you are with family, having more downtime and just outside of your normal routine. Get the free Holiday Habits Webinar by clicking HERE or go to ZintSquad.com.
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Learning Safety w/ Jeff & Betsy Kalte Dec 06, 2022

Our new friends, Jeff & Betsy Kalte, join us to talk about how each of them being in their second marriage required new learning not just of this other person, but of themselves. Betsy vulnerably shares about learning to lean into trusting the safety and consistency of Jeff after believing on a deep level that marrying your best friend was just not possible. Jeff talks about growing into a new, matured version of himself in the last years of his marriage before his wife died.

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Money in Marriage: finding a place of steady even when your finances are not w/ Aaron & Jenna Nov 02, 2022

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In this episode we share about the tough financial year we've had. Within that time we felt stress, fear, disappointment, new hope, excitement, new passions and a deeper connection than ever before. We share what it was like to be on the receiving end of generosity and the complicated feelings that arise as the result.

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Healing from Sexual Trauma w/ Caitlin & Cole Zick Oct 25, 2022

Warning: this episode is more sexually explicit than our average episodes.
We are joined by Caitlin and Cole Zick, our friends and the directors of Moral Revolution. They share their 16 year sex story that in reality even predates them meeting. With not only medical conditions that kept sex from being enjoyable for Caitlin, she also had experienced years of sexual trauma as a teenager that made it's way into her relationship with Cole. They vulnerably share the difficulty in their sex life in the first 11 years of marriage and the incredible redemption that happened on the other side of medical help, as well as deep inner healing.

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The Gift of Heartbreak: how a brand new life can come from the devastation of an affair w/ Gabriel & Debbie Mayes Oct 18, 2022

Our friends, Gabriel and Debbie Mayes of themayesteam, join us to talk about how they went from being pastors and living in a 5000 sq ft house, to living in a 250 sq ft converted school bus as a family of 6, after Gabriel had had an affair. The beauty of God's redemption is how this devastating event caused both Gabe and Debbie to pursue their own healing and find new life for themselves and eventually a brand new marriage that they never knew was possible, even and especially while living on the school bus.

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No Bad Parts: getting to know our internal protectors w/ Aaron & Jenna Oct 04, 2022

In this episode, we talk about what we've learned from Internal Family Systems (a therapeutic modality created by Dr Richard Schwartz) and the value it's brought in allowing us to bring compassion and curiosity instead of contempt to the parts of us that have damaging or unhelpful behavior. If we can learn to do this for ourselves, we will actually have compassion and curiosity for our spouse instead of leaning towards contempt when we feel hurt by them.

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Freedom to Choose w/ Aaron & Jenna Sep 27, 2022

In this short but sweet episode, Aaron & Jenna talk about the small moment between stimulus and response (as Steven Covey puts it) when you have the ability to choose. This comes into play especially when we feel defensive in conflict with our spouse. Between feeling defensive and our reaction to it, we have the ability to choose to listen without defending ourselves, regardless of what we feel. This takes time and practice but it essential to creating a marriage in which it is safe to share your heart.

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From Rescuer/Victim to Powerful/Powerful with Angelo & McKenzie Sep 20, 2022

In this episode we interview our friends Angelo & McKenzie who vulnerably share with us the roles they played in their marriage for a number of years in which Angelo was the victim and McKenzie was the Rescuer (synonymous in this episode with "hero"). They share how these roles created some sense of comfort and yet kept them both stuck, Angelo without learning how to be powerful and show up in strength and McKenzie without learning that she had any needs at all.
Though they are both still in the process of growing into the powerful people they were created to be (aren't we all), we get a glimpse into some practical ways to begin to walk out of this dynamic that many of us get stuck in (including Jenna and Aaron).

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Questioning Our Normals As Absolute Truth w/ Aaron & Jenna Sep 13, 2022

In this episode we talk about how our personality and culture have shaped our normals and how those normals feel like absolute truths. The problem with viewing our normals as absolute truths is that it's a recipe for judgment and disconnection. We take this time to confess our own normals and how we've had a tendency to see the other's actions as value statements.
We talk about how we've learned to navigate addressing those normals and the pain that tends to be behind it.
At the end of the episode, Jenna talks about her upcoming Habit Lab Mastery Course and Aaron talks about his upcoming book Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn.

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Habits of Connection: Debunking All-or-Nothing with Aaron & Jenna Sep 06, 2022

We're back for Season 3! In this episode we talk about the small habits we've implemented to feed into our connection with each other. The smallness of our habits pushes directly against the natural all-or-nothing mentality that we've traditionally approached every area of our lives with.
If you are wanting to grow your connection with your spouse, start small. It can be as simple as 5 minutes of chatting, cuddling, kissing or whatever. So often it feels like unless we can have a 3 hour date night, we can't be connected. The more time together the better, but when we are waiting for the perfect time or the perfect amount of time, we are going to be living in more disconnection than connection. Start small and you will see the power and sustainability of consistency over big sweeping changes.

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Season 2 Finale: Keys to Start Healing Your Triggers and Your Marriage w/ Aaron & Jenna May 31, 2022

We end this season still in the woods on our anniversary backpacking trip. Aaron shares a story about how he realized he wanted Jenna to feel like a failure and why he didn't want that to change. The key to opening the door to healing for them was in each of their willingness to engage Kindness and Curiosity instead of contempt. Jenna shares how she was able to locate her triggers with eating and never being satisfied with her current experience. Her journey into contentment required the same Kindness and Curiosity and led to incredible breakthrough as she declared each day, "I am Enough, They are Enough, He is Enough and Now is Enough."
Thanks for joining us in this second season of Marriage Lab! DM us on Instagram at ZintMarriageLab or JennaZint if you are local to Redding and would like to join us on June 3, 2022 at our house for our season 2 finale party.

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Engaging the Scientist Instead of the Judge: how curiosity leads to real change and shame doesn't w/ Aaron & Jenna May 24, 2022

We're coming to you from up in the woods in this episode! We went backpacking for our anniversary and brought our podcasting equipment with us. It was worth the few extra pounds. We dive into our own journeys with engaging our inner scientist instead of the judge. The job of the judge is to pass judgment. You are either good or bad, right or wrong, guilty or not. The job of the scientist is to get curious, "Interesting, I wonder what's happening or what happened?" Real change cannot happen with shame and self-contempt (which comes from your inner judge). It is a short-lived motivator. Real change happens when we get curious about what led to a specific behavior or event. Why is this true? Because curiosity engages our brain in such a way that we are willing to see things we've never seen before. Judgment (shame and self-contempt) cannot accomplish this. Romans 2:4 says that it's God's kindness that leads us to repentance, i.e. real and lasting change. If we are to be like him then we must engage ourselves with kindness as well. Curiosity invites kindness and vice versa. We want curiosity over contempt.

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Comfortable with Discomfort (I can be in pain & be okay) with Dave & Jules Hill May 17, 2022

In this episode we talk with Dave and Jules Hill. They are the creators of HeartSmart (https://www.heartsmart.family/ and https://www.heartsmartv.com/browse) a curriculum for social and emotional learning used in over 500 schools around the world. We felt incredibly grateful for their vulnerability in sharing what Jules calls her unwinding that started about a decade ago. It was a painful season of her recognizing unprocessed pain and trauma and the ups and downs that go along with that. Dave shared how he was able to walk alongside Jules and discover how much growth was available for him in that season as well.

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Thriving Life After the Death of a Spouse with Michael & Lisa Kunz May 03, 2022

Michael and Lisa Kunz of KunzCoaching.com and TheDatingDiscovery.com join us this week. They talk about their marriage which is fairly young compared the 20+ year marriages they each had before their spouses died. They talk through their stories which had incredible parallels as they walked through grieving and trusting God after such a devastating experience. Their intentionality in pursuing an intimate connection with each other is inspiring and full of practical ideas on how to do it in our own lives. Their awkward sex story is more of an entirely awkward honeymoon where they both thought their previous 20 years of experience would translate easily into this new one. It was a beautiful look into the reality of learning a person more than "learning sex."

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Sugar is my Porn: Addiction, Comfort and Kindness with Aaron & Jenna Apr 26, 2022

In this episode, Jenna shares how her own journey towards health has paralleled Aaron's journey out of porn addiction. She vulnerably shares how her relationship to sugar was more than just a "sweet tooth" but a solution to the real problems that started in adolescence and continued into adulthood. She speaks to using sugar as a tool for comfort, reward and boredom and the core emotions lie behind them. Together they speak to the incredible power of kindness in experiencing sustainable life-change and what real freedom looks like.

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Let's Be on the Same Team with Aaron & Casey Tesauro Apr 19, 2022

Our friends, Aaron and Casey Tesauro, share their journey in marriage of learning to be on the same team. For half of their marriage they would attack each other instead of the problem. Through counseling and a lot of intentional conversation they began to discover the pain behind problem and more specifically where that pain originated. They were both able to see the memories in each other's childhoods that contributed towards their marital dysfunction and they not only stoked compassion for each other but then learned to point their efforts at the issue and not each other.
They also share why bringing food into the bedroom may not be as sexy as intended.

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Connection Codes: Sexual Friendship and Q&A with Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill Apr 12, 2022

We're excited to have Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill back on the podcast to answer some of our burning questions around the connection codes protocols but also to discuss the idea of creating a sexual friendship with your spouse.
In this episode the Hills mention an exciting offer that is limited. Enter to win a free Connection Codes Foundation e-course by going to connectioncodes.co/marriagelab.
This is a very generous offer and we're so grateful they are offering this chance exclusively to our listeners.
Furthermore, Jenna and I have launched our website ZintSquad.com where you can schedule one-on-one coaching sessions with either Jenna, myself or a Couple's Coaching session with both of us. We love to help people get breakthrough in their lives and marriage and have been doing so informally for years. We're excited to make it official.

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Balancing Work and Rest w/ Shaun & Jessie Boyd Apr 05, 2022

Our friends Shaun and Jessie Boyd share how these two very different people find connection and spot disconnection. They also share their practicing the Sabbath and the benefits of the rest it provides. We enjoyed our common bond of having lived with parents as a married couple and the various relational dynamics that can play out there.

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Sharing Needs with Matthew & Katie Hale Mar 29, 2022

Our Georgia friends, Matthew and Katie Hale, share about how very different they are and how that shows up in the way they either easily or difficultly share their needs and emotions with each other. They talk about the growth journey and realizations they've come to as they've walked this out together. We also get a glimpse into the kind of bridal shower gifts that Jenna gives and while the bride can love the hilarity, the groom, especially on the wedding night is not so happy. Poor Matthew.

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Grieving and Trust in Marriage with Peter & Clare Mattis Mar 22, 2022

We interview our friends and neighbors Peter and Clare Mattis in this episode. They share about how they navigated their budding relationship during and after Clare's mom tragically passed away from cancer. They also dive into what Trust looks like in their relationship in a segment we'll affectionately call "This is Clare thing." Clare talks about working through her trust issues that she is aware doesn't actually have anything to do with Peter whose actions have never warranted distrust. Peter shares how he stays tender and not defensive when this comes up.

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Divorce and Blending a Family w/ Jason & Lauren Vallotton Mar 15, 2022

Our friends Jason and Lauren Vallotton join us to talk about their unique journey in marriage. When they met, Jason was a divorced pastor with three kids. Lauren on the other hand was single and had only dated a few times in the previous 6 years. Their story of growing in relationship and then eventually marrying, her becoming and insta-mom to three kids is an incredible look into the difficulty that divorce brings but the redemption that God can bring out of it still.

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Chaos and Connection in a Busy Season with a Sick Kid w/ Aaron & Jenna Mar 08, 2022

Jenna and Aaron catch up on the last few months of chaos with a changing business, travel, creating and Airbnb and the ups and downs of managing their daughter's diabetes. They dive into what their connection has looked like as a result of all of this and how they are approaching this next season. The tears start to flow in this episode which was a unique and vulnerability-hangover inducing experience.

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In the Middle of the Process with Doug & Katrina Nov 30, 2021

Our good friends Doug & Katrina Bryant join us to talk about issues in their marriage that they are in the very middle of. Meaning, they are actively working on themselves and their relationship and they don't know what it will look like when they get on the other side of it. However, they are pursuing connection in the midst of it and have hope they will continue to get better.

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Not Being a Victim to Your Spouse with Dave and Katelyn Nov 16, 2021

For this episode we flew across the country to interview our friends Dave and Katelyn Waite. We talk about the difference between complaining about your spouse and processing pain about your spouse.

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Intimacy That Leads to Sex with Pete & Esther Nov 08, 2021

Our good friends Pete and Esther Hsu join us to talk about how their sex life went from a place of pain to a place of real connection and intimacy.

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Dear Young Married Couple with Adam & Karissa King Nov 01, 2021

Adam and Karissa King from Dear Young Married Couple join us to talk about their own journey into personal and relational health. Check out their podcast "Dear Young Married Couple" and their website dearyoungmarriedcouple.com.

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Questions Your Spouse Isn't Meant to Answer with Emily & Sam Oct 25, 2021

My sister and brother in law, Emily & Sam Baker, join us to talk about a rough time in their marriage and how they came through it. We dive into the questions that we all have inside of us that we attempt to get answered by our spouses, but can only really be settled with God.

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Adoption Heartache & Hope with Jaclyn & Micheal Oct 18, 2021

Jaclyn & Micheal Miller join us to talk about their journey that involves Mexican prison, a failed adoption and the joy to be found in it.

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When Our Energies Don't Match with Aaron & Jenna Oct 11, 2021

We're back and we're diving headfirst into our own issues.

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Season Finale: Communication & Conflict with Aaron & Jenna Zint Jun 08, 2021

In our season finale, we get into a topic that we are extra passionate about: communication and conflict resolution. We talk about the necessity of understanding your own story in navigating conflict and how listening is not about simply shutting your mouth.
We've had an incredible few months interviewing so many amazing couples and mining the gold in their lives. Thanks for listening and make sure to subscribe so that you will be notified when we come back for season 2 in the fall!
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Hurt People Hurt People with Jordan & Elise Jun 01, 2021

We talked with Jordan and Elise Hawkins about the massive shift their marriage has made from discussing an annulment on their honeymoon to having hope in every conflict. They talk about their pasts triggering their present, hurting each other in the process and ultimately learning to connect with compassion in order to forgive. They walked through deep hurt and have come out on the other side with so much hope. They also share how a fear of sharks can make you last longer and how attempting to gain leverage can squish your spouse.

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What's the Goal of Your Marriage with Ben & Brittney Serpell May 25, 2021

We talk with Ben and Brittney Serpell who do marriage and family coaching through Loving on Purpose ministries. Brittney also co-hosts the KYLO Show podcast with her dad, Danny Silk.
The Serpells tell us about working through Ben's passivity and Brittney's anger, all while remembering the goal of their marriage: a loving, intimate connection. We also get to hear about what we'll call Giggle Sex.
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Connection Codes with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill May 18, 2021

We got to talk with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, the creators of the Connections Codes. Dr. Glen is a marriage and family therapist, clinical sexologist and the co-author of The Connection Codes, their new book out on amazon. Click here for their book. Find them on Instagram at @connectioncodes, @drglennhill & @echohillvetter. You can check out their website and sign up for webinars at connectioncodes.co.
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Empathetic Listening with Ben & Sheena May 11, 2021

We talk with our friends Ben and Sheena about the simple adjustment in sharing and listening to emotion, how it changed their marriage in an instant and when gag reflexes make your honeymoon memorable. They share about the years they lived in Nicaragua running their ice cream business and what it was like during the revolution.
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Sex and Porn with Emily & Aaron May 04, 2021

We chat with Emily and Aaron Brown about sex in a camper with three kids and a giant dog, sex as a numbing agent, sex for 45 days straight, porn and its effect on your brain and sex life, and why it might be best to stop instead of finishing when you hear your mom approaching.

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Pain Behind the Problem with Mollie & Peter Apr 27, 2021

We talk with our friends Mollie & Peter Rodgers about the importance of addressing the pain propping up the conflict we're having, expressing our needs and why driving 10 more minutes to reach the hotel room might be a good idea.

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Thriving After an Affair with Ben & Heather Armstrong Apr 20, 2021

We talk with Ben and Heather Armstrong about what leads to an affair, redemption and wholeness after and why the wedding night and antibiotics don’t mix.

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There's Always Hope with Charity & Geo Apr 13, 2021

Aaron and Jenna interview their friends Charity and Geo Osorio. They talk about the difficulties of a cross-cultural marriage, getting counseling like it's going out of style and why Jiu Jitsu doesn't work in the bedroom.

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Being Honest with Eric & Candace Johnson Apr 06, 2021

Aaron and Jenna interview Eric and Candace Johnson, the former pastors at Bethel Church for the last decade. They talk about understanding what they are feeling and sharing that honestly with each other, connecting in the midst of running a global church and why it's important to lock your bedroom door.

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Prioritizing Connection with Eric & Sadie Mar 30, 2021

Aaron and Jenna interview the co-owners of Compass (Aaron's bosses), Eric and Sadie Hess. They talk about fighting in front of their kids, why getting away from their kids for their own connection is so vital and why sound proofing your room can save your kids from sleepless nights.

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When Opposites Attract with Jenna & Aaron Mar 20, 2021

Aaron and Jenna answer the questions they'll be asking other couples. They talk about what it's like being married to someone totally different from you in personality and interests.

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Prequel: This is Us Mar 20, 2021

Aaron and Jenna talk about themselves and the purpose of the podcast

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Asking Hard Questions with Jess & Andrew Mar 18, 2021

We interview our friends Jess & Andrew Liem. They talk about learning to ask each other questions rather than assuming they know what the other is thinking; how to communicate effectively and what it's like when you are newly married and have no idea what the missionary position is.

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