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Loving On Purpose

Are you loving your adult child on purpose? Are you choosing love over judgement of them? If you want to know what is getting in the way of improving your relationship with your adult children, in this podcast I will teach what the real problem is keeping you from accomplishing this goal. I am the mother of five children and a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I know the struggle that comes with navigating a relationship with an adult child. I have learned how to choose to love my children exactly the way they are.

Copyright: © 2022 Loving On Purpose

Latest Episodes:

Grandparenting Jul 14, 2022

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Have you ever stopped and wondered how much influence you have in your grandchildren's lives? Have you ever been forbidden by your child to see their children? Do you feel guilty you don't always say yes to providing day care for your grandchildren? What about grandchildren that live far away; how can you connect with them better? Tune and listen as to why and how you are the most influential person/people in their lives.
If you enjoyed this podcast and want to start finding out how to work with me, go to the following resources:
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a 60 minute consult with me; click HERE
*Sign up for my weekly email: click HERE
*Receive my free resource, Three Steps To Being Yourself In Your Relationships With Adult Children. NEW RESOURCE!

References:
Donne Davis, author of When Being A Grandma Isn't So Grand
Donne Davis on YouTube
Donne Davis, organizer of the gaga sisterhood. Organizations for grandmothers.
Stuart Biscoe on YouTube

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

The Habit Of Focusing On Happiness Jul 06, 2022

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Most mornings we wake up with the same feelings. I'm a morning person so I wake up excited. I sometimes find my concerns from the day before are not as bad as they were the day before. Others wake up grumpy....and that is okay. Did you know that you can form the habit of being happy? By managing our thoughts, we can decide when we wake up what kind of day we want to have that day. And our brain will help us find evidence that we will have that kind of day.
Tune in to find out how to form the habit of feeling good every day.
If you enjoyed this podcast and want to start finding out how to work with me, go to the following resources:
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a 60 minute consult with me; click HERE
*Sign up for my weekly email: click HERE
*Receive my free resource, Three Steps To Being Yourself In Your Relationships With Adult Children. NEW RESOURCE!

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Thoughts About My Life Jun 29, 2022

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Life was good....I was married to a wonderful husband with 5 amazing children. One night my husband said "We haven't gotten our licks yet". Not too long after, major challenges surfaced in our family's life. Challenges I would not sell to have them taken back but challenges I would never wish for anyone to experience. How did I survive? A lot of tears but a lot of giving love. I believe I was given the gift to love difficult people; from an upbringing, absent of support and love, I gained resilience; from having faith in a Supreme Being I was given strength and promptings to choose love. Even when our children do not choose to live values we esteem highly, choosing love can keep our family unit together....forever. Love is accepting, listening and seeking to understand those that think differently than we do.
If you enjoyed this podcast and want to start finding out how to work with me, go to the following resources:
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a 60 minute consult with me; click HERE
*Sign up for my weekly email: click HERE
*Receive my free resource, Three Steps To Being Yourself In Your Relationships With Adult Children. NEW RESOURCE!

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Empowering Thoughts Jun 22, 2022

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I keep a couple go-to thoughts in my pockets when the the "stinging darts pierce" my chest.; those darts thrown at us by others, especially annoying when they come from one of our adult children. Sometimes it is just a sting; sometimes it pierces my heart. I feel the emotion and then I pull out of my pocket a default thought that brings me back to how I want to feel. I share 15 of them, but I most often use these three: Things never stay the same; People that hurt others are hurting; What would love do. Write your own; find out which of the thoughts I offer resonate for you. Prepare yourself against those "stinging darts".
If you enjoyed this podcast and want to start finding out how to work with me, go to the following resources:
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a 60 minute consult with me; click HERE
*Sign up for my weekly email: click HERE
*Receive my free resource, Three Steps To Being Yourself In Your Relationships With Adult Children. NEW RESOURCE!

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Three Parts of a Relationship Worth Knowing Jun 15, 2022

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There are three parts to every relationship.
1. What you think others think about you
2. What you think about them
3. What you think about yourself.
Guess where most our time is spent trying to change or figure out? Part 1. But we need to be spending our focus on the other two parts.....what you think about them and what you think about yourself. Those are the parts you have control over. "What someone else thinks of me is none of my business." Meaningful relationships with our adult children are based on love; loving that you both have opinions; loving them exactly as they are; loving yourself exactly as you are.
If you enjoyed this podcast and want to start finding out how to work with me, go to the following resources:
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a 60 minute consult with me
*Sign up for my weekly email
*Receive my free resource, Three Steps To Being Yourself In Your Relationships With Adult Children. NEW RESOURCE!

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

How To Feel Self-Assured As A Parent Of Adult Children: An Interview With Meg Tilton Jun 07, 2022

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We know seeking after perfection is not good for our mental health. But we really want that family with those adult kids to be a little more perfect. That image of what we thought life with adult children would look like is often crushed by their behavior and our perspective of something has gone wrong. But the messy parts of life are not bad; they are not only just the parts of life that didn't work out but also they are the parts of life that offer us wisdom.....our lesson in life. Did you know that your parenting has nothing to do with your child's behavior as adults? There are no negative emotions; we just have emotions. If we listen to them and validate them, they will serve us. Example: When Meg was feeling anger, she figured out that she was really just feeling resentment. Resentment was trying to tell her to stand up for herself. She gives so many helpful ways to process these feelings that we feel are harmful to our emotional well-being but how to use them to help us feel self-assured and act like the person who self-validates themselves.
Here is where to find out more about Meg Tilton:
Website: Megtiltoncoaching.com
IG and FB: megtiltoncoaching
email: meg@megtiltoncoaching.com
If you enjoyed this podcast and want to start finding out how to work with me, go to the following resources:
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a free, 60 minute consult with me
*Sign up for my weekly email
*Receive my free resource, on Three Remedies to Connect with Your Adult Children.
*Find me on IG or FB bonnielymancoaching
*email: Bonnie@bonnielyman.com

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Your Job As A Parent To Adult Children Jun 01, 2022

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Nobody ever told us that being a parent to adult children could be challenging. Nobody ever talked about the responsibilities of this new job and that it was so different than when they were younger. This episode is all about the six ways we can show up as the best parent we can at this time, and then forever, of their lives; a parent that unconditionally loves and respects their children in all decisions that they make. Love and respect is all they need now from their parents.
If you are tired of feeling pain in your relationship with your adult child(ren), I can show you how to find peace. Been there; done that.....Book a consult call with me. Click HERE.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

When Your Adult Child Divorces You May 25, 2022

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When your adult child tells you that he/she wants no contact with you of any kind, it feels like death. It feels that you have been robbed of one of your most prized possessions. It is embracing the pain and the understanding of agency that will bring you to acceptance and peace. It is a process that you can do at your own pace to finally be able to forgive someone that might not deserve to be forgiven. Tune in to find out how to move forward in this difficult situation.
I can help you stop feeling pain in your relationship with your adult children
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a free, 60 minute consult with me

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Compare and Despair May 18, 2022

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Comparing and disparing is viewing your insides as not as valuable or as good as what you view someone else's outsides (Kara Lowenthiel). When we look at another family with adult children and all seems to be going well and then look at our family and feel that the relationship is broken, it causes us to be unhappy.
Tune in to listen to why we compare ourselves to others; why it is not harmful to our living a satisfying life, and some remedies to avoid comparing yourself to others.
Figuring out how to find the sunshine in the middle of a storm is one of the most valuable things we can learn in this life. This is one more tool to put in your "figuring life out" toolbox.
I can help you stop feeling pain in your relationship with your adult children
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a free, 60 minute consult with me
*Sign up for my weekly email
*Receive my free resource, on Three Remedies to Connect with Your Adult Children,.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Mother's Day May 04, 2022

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Mother's Day is much too often the worst day of the year for a lot of women. But if we were to change our perspective on what Mother's Day is all about, it can be a very heartfelt, tender and loving day. My heart goes out to those women who wanted children and were never able to have any and to those women who have had children who died in their lifetime and to those women and to those women who placed children for adoption. If you are a mom and making Mother's Day about you, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. It is not about you. If you change your perspective and focus on all the great mother figures in your life, you will have a very beautiful day. Every women born, was born with the traits to be a mother figure, not only to her own children but also to all children and to other women needing help. Women have a special gene that enables them to naturally uplift others. Tune in to have a happier Mother's Day than what you might be expecting.
I can help you fix what is not working in your relationship so you can feel love and peace with your adult children and move forward in your life.
Go to bonnielyman.com to:
*Book a free, 60 minute consult with me
*Sign up for my weekly email
*Receive my free resource, on Three Remedies to Connect with Your Adult Children,.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at bonnie@bonnielyman.com.

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

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