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gabi | we can't break up May 01, 2024

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Gabi's dating life takes a darker turn when she finds herself entangled in a toxic workplace romance with an abusive partner and is forced to conceal his drug addiction and self-destructive tendencies to protect his career.
chapters
listen with caution | 00:00
next on lovelustfear | 00:17
about gabi | 01:19
gabi’s story | 02:24
questions & answers | 21:15
closing thoughts | 26:24
charity & organizations | 27:41
submit your story | 28:11
disclaimer | 28:22
quotes
“I was in my early to mid-twenties, really living my best life in West Hollywood. I was really at an exciting point in my career where it felt like anything was possible.” - Gabi
“When I found out that we would be working on a show together, I knew that that was wrong. I was like, I don't want to date someone I work with. That's really problematic.” - Gabi
“…there would always be alcohol. He'd always be drinking when I first went to his place. And I'm like, oh, he must, like, have friends over a lot and he must party a lot.” - Gabi
“He went from being someone who was so supportive of me and encouraging of me and my career to someone who was telling me I wasn't good enough. I wasn't funny enough. I'll never amount to something.” - Gabi
“And he would do things to make that very difficult. Bring different girls every night to the tapings of the show, flaunt that he was dating other people in front of my face. He really went out of his way to make me feel like crap, and to make it really hurt.” - Gabi
“That relationship messed me up. That abusive relationship did not look like what I thought abusive relationships looked like.” - Gabi
learn more about gabi
personal website | https://www.gabiconti.com/
instagram | https://www.instagram.com/itsgabiconti/
tiktok | https://www.tiktok.com/@itsgabiconti
twitter | https://twitter.com/itsgabiconti
book | https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti
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music | sounds
Music Attribution:
Music (CC BY 4.0):
Lost Place Atmospheres 002 and The Question Is (Quizpackage) by Sascha Ende
Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Other Music and Sound Effects by Piotr Witowski, Alex Wit, cybercutie, Timothy Kulig, AlesiaDavina, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, UNIVERSFIELD, Yevhenii Kovalenko, and Slicebeats from Pixabay
Spacetime by Mountaineer
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The National Writers Union
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Protects freelance writers and journalists and is backing the SB988 Bill in California, also known as the "freelance isn't free" bill to protect freelancers.
https://contracosta.news/2024/02/03/senator-wiener-introduces-bill-to-expand-freelance-worker-protections/
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788
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justine | you’re never allowed to leave me Apr 24, 2024

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When 19-year-old Justine fell for a mature and charming military man, she believed she had found her forever. But the husband she once trusted to protect her became the very person she needed protection from.
chapters
listen with caution | 00:00
next on lovelustfear | 00:16
about justine | 01:19
justine’s story | 02:14
questions & answers | 28:20
closing thoughts | 37:00
charity & organizations | 38:00
submit your story | 38:39
disclaimer | 38:40
quotes
“This guy came to our house. I had seen a photo of him and my dad, in their, army uniforms. So the very first time I ever met him, I thought he was, like, even better looking.” - Justine
“My parents would like very gingerly tell me like, ‘hey, I don't think he's treating you the way you should be treated.’ I just pushed it aside, and thought that, they just didn't know him as well as I did. They're gonna eventually see how wonderful he is.” - Justine
“I would be laying in bed in the middle of the night and be like, I'm gonna be a statistic. I'm gonna wake up one morning and he's just gonna decide that he's done with me living.” - Justine
“…there had just been so many years of hearing how I was, like, the bad one, I was the bad person, um, and so it took me a long time to, like, break myself of that habit of thinking that I was always in the wrong.” - Justine
music | sounds
Music (CC BY 4.0):
Lost Place Atmospheres (001-003) and Cinematic Suspense Series Episode 004 by Sascha Ende
Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Other Music and Sound Effects by Jalal Mansour Amine, AlesiaDavina, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, UNIVERSFIELD, Yevhenii Kovalenko, Oleksii Holubiev, and Syouki Takahashi from Pixabay
Spacetime by Mountaineer
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YWCA of Greater Harrisburg
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National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/
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If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below.
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desiree | his name was SMITTY Apr 17, 2024

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In a time before Tinder, Desiree takes the plunge into online dating. She catches the eye of Smitty, a seemingly handsome stranger whose Polaroid profile snapshots obscure his hidden reality.
chapters
listen with caution | 00:00
next on lovelustfear | 00:16
about desiree | 00:58
desiree’s story | 02:19
questions & answers | 15:41
closing thoughts | 24:28
charity & organizations | 25:30
submit your story | 26:00
disclaimer | 26:11
quotes
“So I block him. Even when I would block him, there would be other accounts that I would have to block later. He was all over the place. I mean, I couldn't avoid him.” - Desiree
“So my best friend says, give the guy a chance. I don't necessarily trust her instincts, but this time I'm like, maybe I'm wrong.” - Desiree
“Now, at this point, we've had a date, we haven't talked about a second date, but in his conversation that we're having, he's already talking like we're a couple. Oh, I can't wait till you see my home. You're just gonna, you're totally gonna love it. You're gonna make it, it needs a woman's touch and I think you're the woman to do it.” - Desiree
“Even if it feels funny, even if you're not sure, even if your friends are going, Oh, why don't you try it? The one thing I've learned in my life is that more times than not, nine times out of ten, when I trust my gut, I'm right every time.” - Desiree
music | sounds
Music (CC BY 4.0):
The Question Is (Quizpackage) and Just Deep 1 by Sascha Ende
Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Other Music and Sound Effects by Jan Hill, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, UNIVERSFIELD, Geoff Harvey, Yevhenii Kovalenko, and teddy williams from Pixabay
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National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/
story submission information
If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below.
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E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com
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alona | the only single one left Apr 10, 2024

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After finding herself the only single one left among her girlfriends, Alona decides to give relationships another try, leading her into one of the most isolating, depressing, and dangerous chapters of her life.
chapters
(00:00) listen with caution
(00:16) next on lovelustfear
(00:58) about alona
(02:08) alona’s story
(18:04) questions & answers
(24:31) closing thoughts
(25:36) charity & organizations
(26:05) submit your story
(26:16) disclaimer
quotes

“You know, he was charming in the beginning. He really was. All the things he was saying, it was charming. He was moving really fast. I let him in so early because I wanted it so bad.” - Alona
“I’m depressed. I'm lonely and this man is cheating on me. I had no one to talk to because everybody was angry that I wasn't listening to them. I was embarrassed because they, they all warned me and they were right.” - Alona
“I prayed and prayed to get out of this situation, but I didn't know how because he would find me. He knew where my house, you know, if I went back to my house, he knew where I lived. If I go to my mom's house, he knew where she lived.” - Alona
“You can't explain it. All you know is that you were caught in this web and you were lured in and you were like preyed on. One day was too long. Three years was way too long. Don't feel embarrassed. Talk to somebody, get empowered. You're not alone.” - Alona
music | sounds
Music by Leigh Robinson from Pixabay
Music by UNIVERSFIELD from Pixabay
Sound Effect by AlesiaDavina from Pixabay
Music by Samuel F. Johanns from Pixabay
Music by Jan Hill from Pixabay
Music (CC BY 4.0): Imagefilm 033 and Lost Place Atmospheres 001 by Sascha Ende
"Very Low Note" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
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National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)
Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Text: START to 88788
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline
https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/
story submission information
If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below.
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E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com
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Spotify
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Apple
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lovelustfear | trailer Mar 13, 2024

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lovelustfear isa new podcast series exposing the darker side of dating and relationships. Every episode is an exploration into true dating and relationship stories — from the awkward and uncomfortable to the shocking and bizarre to the disturbing and downright dangerous. Host Jake Deptula welcomes storytellers into candid conversations, revealing the decisions they made and dilemmas they faced when better judgment got lost in a haze of desire. lovelustfear is a compelling, terrifying, but always insightful exploration into toxic dating and relationships that will have you abandoning courtesy and listening with caution.
story submission information
If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below.
submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear
e-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com
instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/

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